FabSwingers.com forum: When flirting turns serious..

By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, you can still use his shop.

Guy at a shop i use always flirted with me, when i mentioned i'd split up with my boyfriend he gave me his number. Never met him and gone off him but i still use the shop anyway, i just don't flirt with him any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!! "

Hugs, take a chill pill, treat it like a fab social. If nothing else, you'll probably have fun on the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!!

Hugs, take a chill pill, treat it like a fab social. If nothing else, you'll probably have fun on the night

Couldn't have said it better myself x

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!!

Hugs, take a chill pill, treat it like a fab social. If nothing else, you'll probably have fun on the night

All the fab socials I go to are in swingers clubs!! Not sure turning up in my underwear with a bag full of condoms would give the right impression... Or would it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say definitely go for it, as above just treat it as a social.

If nothing else you'll have a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're child free and he is at a loose end then why not go out on a date?

That way you get to learn a bit more about each other in a different environment and tou don't have to feel any real peessure.

Sounds like you're both pretty into each other - i say go for it, but in a neutral setting.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"If you're child free and he is at a loose end then why not go out on a date?

That way you get to learn a bit more about each other in a different environment and tou don't have to feel any real peessure.

Sounds like you're both pretty into each other - i say go for it, but in a neutral setting.

That means one or the other of us actually suggesting a date.. Haha!! And he's 10 years younger than me. I see your point tho. Hmmm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!!

Hugs, take a chill pill, treat it like a fab social. If nothing else, you'll probably have fun on the night

All the fab socials I go to are in swingers clubs!! Not sure turning up in my underwear with a bag full of condoms would give the right impression... Or would it?

That's standard attire for a date I believe. Don't forget to keep your strapon in the bag too lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say go for it, have a drink somewhere & if you get along you do & if you don't you don't.

It might be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're child free and he is at a loose end then why not go out on a date?

That way you get to learn a bit more about each other in a different environment and tou don't have to feel any real peessure.

Sounds like you're both pretty into each other - i say go for it, but in a neutral setting.

That means one or the other of us actually suggesting a date.. Haha!! And he's 10 years younger than me. I see your point tho. Hmmm.... "

Take control.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm finding it amusing that going to a swingers club surrounded by nakedness and people fucking doesn't phase me in the slightest yet a possible date/one nighter type thing with a local guy is giving me the heebie-jeebies!!

What's that all about???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it enjoy it isn't a part of swinging trying new things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id suggest meeting up for a drink. There's plenty of other coffee shops to go to. Go for it. You've nothing to loose.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd go for the drink on neutral ground option if of was invited to someone's home I'd be getting ambiguous signals.

Go out with him and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest you go for a drink somewhere so there's less pressure. What's the worst that could happen? Just relax and enjoy it X

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Go out with him Friday evening maybe a meal or a few drinks in a bar and if all goes well then invite him back to yours if all goes well...

Quick question: So am i right in thinking that he didn't ask you out untill he knew you was home alone friday night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm finding it amusing that going to a swingers club surrounded by nakedness and people fucking doesn't phase me in the slightest yet a possible date/one nighter type thing with a local guy is giving me the heebie-jeebies!!

What's that all about??? "

I have an idea.

I think a lot of people will say it is a terrible idea... but why don't you take him to a swingers club?

Hear me out.

You can have a chat, a drink, it's public, and if it goes well and goes further you won't have to worry at all about telling him you're a swinger. Also it would be a pretty good ice breaker lol.

Or not.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Go for it as what else would you be doing stuck indoors watching telly on your own if he offers to show you his etchings show him yours go and enjoy x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I'd go for the drink on neutral ground option if of was invited to someone's home I'd be getting ambiguous signals.

Go out with him and enjoy it

"I'll keep you company"

"I'm not inviting a stranger round t my house"

Then, either he suggests a drink/meal.... or he's not that into you.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Go out with him Friday evening maybe a meal or a few drinks in a bar and if all goes well then invite him back to yours if all goes well...

Quick question: So am i right in thinking that he didn't ask you out untill he knew you was home alone friday night?

He knows I never go out as im always in with my lad and I wouldn't have anyone there with him in bed. Even tho my lad knows him i still wouldn't do it.

Tbh it started In a jokey way but has escalated as the day went on after I said I had butt ache from the coffee shops chair. He suggested a bum massage. Then said how about Friday as you said you'd be home alone.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

What's that all about???

I have an idea.

I think a lot of people will say it is a terrible idea... but why don't you take him to a swingers club?

Hear me out.

You can have a chat, a drink, it's public, and if it goes well and goes further you won't have to worry at all about telling him you're a swinger. Also it would be a pretty good ice breaker lol.

Or not.

If I drove I would probably consider it. But I'm not gonna suggest he drive 90 mins to the nearest one when we've never even been out for a drink. Would be quite amusing tho! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go for it, you can still use his shop.

Does he hide out the back when you walk in ? Wounded ego

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I'd go for the drink on neutral ground option if of was invited to someone's home I'd be getting ambiguous signals.

Go out with him and enjoy it

"I'll keep you company"

"I'm not inviting a stranger round t my house"

Then, either he suggests a drink/meal.... or he's not that into you."

I wouldn't class him as a stranger tbh x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I'd go for the drink on neutral ground option if of was invited to someone's home I'd be getting ambiguous signals.

Go out with him and enjoy it

"I'll keep you company"

"I'm not inviting a stranger round t my house"

Then, either he suggests a drink/meal.... or he's not that into you.

I wouldn't class him as a stranger tbh x"

Giv him a key and his own drawer then?

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I'd go for the drink on neutral ground option if of was invited to someone's home I'd be getting ambiguous signals.

Go out with him and enjoy it

"I'll keep you company"

"I'm not inviting a stranger round t my house"

Then, either he suggests a drink/meal.... or he's not that into you.

I wouldn't class him as a stranger tbh x

Giv him a key and his own drawer then?

I said he's not a stranger. Didn't say he was moving in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't read all the thread

How about just meeting him for a drink without having to worry about hosting

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I'd go for the drink on neutral ground option if of was invited to someone's home I'd be getting ambiguous signals.

Go out with him and enjoy it

"I'll keep you company"

"I'm not inviting a stranger round t my house"

Then, either he suggests a drink/meal.... or he's not that into you.

I wouldn't class him as a stranger tbh x

Giv him a key and his own drawer then?

I said he's not a stranger. Didn't say he was moving in

Bloody timewaster...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it why not? X

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

What's that all about??? "

I would say you are attached to the out come with this guy but you're not in the clubs, show's you're already invested something in him, worth going a little further I'd say, start small, drink in a bar and just see what happens, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's that all about??? "

Situational, you kinda know what to expect and what's expected at a club, but there's uncertainty with dating, and the fear of upsetting someone as it's not always necessarily NSA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it xx if it goes well free coffee and an extra friend if not you can still have a banter but you won't be thinking what if ?!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!!

Hugs, take a chill pill, treat it like a fab social. If nothing else, you'll probably have fun on the night

All the fab socials I go to are in swingers clubs!! Not sure turning up in my underwear with a bag full of condoms would give the right impression... Or would it?

That's exactly what I'd do ..

I get nervous too with the outside world but I just say feck it n go with the flow

Deep breaths.. Have a laugh xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fcuk him off

invite me round instead

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

What's that all about???

I have an idea.

I think a lot of people will say it is a terrible idea... but why don't you take him to a swingers club?

Hear me out.

You can have a chat, a drink, it's public, and if it goes well and goes further you won't have to worry at all about telling him you're a swinger. Also it would be a pretty good ice breaker lol.

Or not.

If I drove I would probably consider it. But I'm not gonna suggest he drive 90 mins to the nearest one when we've never even been out for a drink. Would be quite amusing tho! X"

I got chatting to a couple in chameleons on one of my visits there, they told me it was their first date together and they were both loving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely agree with drinks and a bite to eat on neutral ground... you'll regret more what you don't do in life, than what you do do.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

What's that all about???

I have an idea.

I think a lot of people will say it is a terrible idea... but why don't you take him to a swingers club?

Hear me out.

You can have a chat, a drink, it's public, and if it goes well and goes further you won't have to worry at all about telling him you're a swinger. Also it would be a pretty good ice breaker lol.

Or not.

If I drove I would probably consider it. But I'm not gonna suggest he drive 90 mins to the nearest one when we've never even been out for a drink. Would be quite amusing tho! X

I got chatting to a couple in chameleons on one of my visits there, they told me it was their first date together and they were both loving it.

Did they just decide to Rock up to a swingers club or was one or both of them already a swinger? X

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

What if he's still only joking around and then turns me down??

I'm thinking way to much into this arent i?? Haha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you daft?. Go for it' even fake it if it comes to it and,free coffees for ever after'...

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

What if he's still only joking around and then turns me down??

I'm thinking way to much into this arent i?? Haha... "

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

What if he's still only joking around and then turns me down??

I'm thinking way to much into this arent i?? Haha... "

Yes you are thinking way to deep,

Just say something along the lines of

"Ok I'm free Friday night, how do you fancy going out for a drink?"

He can only say yes or no! I would guess his answer won't be the latter though, much safer than just inviting him into your home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!! "

After reading your thread i realised im rubbish at reading the signs, so you have inspired me and ive started my FIRST thread as a result! Anyone thats interested its called Flirting? or just being nice?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

What's that all about???

I have an idea.

I think a lot of people will say it is a terrible idea... but why don't you take him to a swingers club?

Hear me out.

You can have a chat, a drink, it's public, and if it goes well and goes further you won't have to worry at all about telling him you're a swinger. Also it would be a pretty good ice breaker lol.

Or not.

If I drove I would probably consider it. But I'm not gonna suggest he drive 90 mins to the nearest one when we've never even been out for a drink. Would be quite amusing tho! X

I got chatting to a couple in chameleons on one of my visits there, they told me it was their first date together and they were both loving it.

Did they just decide to Rock up to a swingers club or was one or both of them already a swinger? X"

One of them was already a swinger but the other one it was their first time in a club.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol"

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

Costa!!!! If it weren't for there I wouldn't be in this pickle!!!

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

Costa!!!! If it weren't for there I wouldn't be in this pickle!!!

He he he... Go for it, you know you want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Take him to the swinging club and break him in

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Life is for living, go and see how u get on. If he's not your normal type might not be a bad thing , you are single after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

I'm getting in on that hot action

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

I'm getting in on that hot action

Nooo!!! Gingerbread lattes with cream are where it's at!!

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over a year ago

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

I'm getting in on that hot action

Nooo!!! Gingerbread lattes with cream are where it's at!! "

Ooh, I love gingerbread

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

I'm getting in on that hot action

Nooo!!! Gingerbread lattes with cream are where it's at!! "

Have to disagree with you, as a non coffee drinker

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

I'm getting in on that hot action

Nooo!!! Gingerbread lattes with cream are where it's at!! "

I've only ever been in costa once. I don't drink coffee, and i had a mango juice.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

I'm getting in on that hot action

Nooo!!! Gingerbread lattes with cream are where it's at!!

I've only ever been in costa once. I don't drink coffee, and i had a mango juice.

I drink far too much coffee. And tea!

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over a year ago

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

I'm getting in on that hot action

Nooo!!! Gingerbread lattes with cream are where it's at!!

I've only ever been in costa once. I don't drink coffee, and i had a mango juice.

I drink far too much coffee. And tea! "

My colleagues and friends are shocked by how much tea I drink

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over a year ago

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

I'm getting in on that hot action

Nooo!!! Gingerbread lattes with cream are where it's at!!

Have to disagree with you, as a non coffee drinker

Dost thou drinketh tea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd shag him just for the free amaretti biscuits

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Ok... Ive asked if he wants to go for a drink.., now I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok... Ive asked if he wants to go for a drink.., now I feel

Congratulations

wishing you all the best and good times lovely

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Ok... Ive asked if he wants to go for a drink.., now I feel

So did he give you an answer then?

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over a year ago

Kent

"Ok... Ive asked if he wants to go for a drink.., now I feel

So did he give you an answer then? "

He did

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"Ok... Ive asked if he wants to go for a drink.., now I feel

So did he give you an answer then?

He did

And the answer is? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a drink and see where it goes. If you dont want it to go further you have the option to go your seperate ways and shouldnt be too awkward. Plus if he asked you again after, you can always say your son is at home lol

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"Ok... Ive asked if he wants to go for a drink.., now I feel

So did he give you an answer then?

He did

And the answer is? Xx "

Sorry about the kisses, thought I was texting for a moment there

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Ok... Ive asked if he wants to go for a drink.., now I feel

So did he give you an answer then?

He did

well? Come on don't leave us waiting lol

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

He said ok!!!

Now you watch my ex let me down so my lad is still home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He said ok!!!

Now you watch my ex let me down so my lad is still home! "

If he does, I'll look after your lad

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"He said ok!!!

Now you watch my ex let me down so my lad is still home! "

Yeah yeah !!!

Enjoy it, and stop worrying already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go for a drink.

Go to bowling pool or darts or other such similar activity .

If you have a drink your sat at table and you will have to talk and will feel pressurized and it will not be enjoyable

How about go carting , all men like that and you have something independent to talk about .

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"He said ok!!!

Now you watch my ex let me down so my lad is still home! "

just ok so he don't shout "fuck yes! i got a date Friday night" to the whole coffee shop

hope ex doesn't let you down and you have fun Friday let us know how it goes

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"He said ok!!!

Now you watch my ex let me down so my lad is still home!

If he does, I'll look after your lad"

oh god delete while you still have the chance

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Don't go for a drink.

Go to bowling pool or darts or other such similar activity .

If you have a drink your sat at table and you will have to talk and will feel pressurized and it will not be enjoyable

How about go carting , all men like that and you have something independent to talk about ."

We sat chatting for nearly 2 hours today when he finished work. Will prob get some food as we would both of been at work all day.

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over a year ago

"He said ok!!!

Now you watch my ex let me down so my lad is still home!

If he does, I'll look after your lad

oh god delete while you still have the chance

I think it can conceivably be a joke as it will take a good 4 hours to get to Kent

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Am thinking you're smiling like a Cheshire Cat

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Am thinking you're smiling like a Cheshire Cat

I'm smirking a bit still as the messaging is still going. Flirting is fun!!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"It started with a Latte....

I would suggest to meet in a neutral place and not in your own home, go for a drink and maybe a bite to eat and see how it pans out.

You are mean. I don't know the title of the song or who sings it, but I've got the lines

it started with a kiss

Never thought it would come to this

Stuck in my head

Hot chocolate

Oh, I'd love one, thank you darling

Now you've said it, I know it lol

Costa are doing a really nice Black Forest hot chocolate! Yummy

I'm getting in on that hot action

Nooo!!! Gingerbread lattes with cream are where it's at!! "

Mmmmm I love gingerbread latte!!! Go for it, you have nothing to lose & maybe a friend to gain x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

He's a single guy. He wont turn up anyway. Allegedly

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"He's a single guy. He wont turn up anyway. Allegedly

ARGH... I hadn't thought of that. Then I'll go in Monday to get my coffee and he will be BNLOS (barista no longer on site)

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"He's a single guy. He wont turn up anyway. Allegedly

ARGH... I hadn't thought of that. Then I'll go in Monday to get my coffee and he will be BNLOS (barista no longer on site) "

His loss.

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over a year ago

"He's a single guy. He wont turn up anyway. Allegedly

ARGH... I hadn't thought of that. Then I'll go in Monday to get my coffee and he will be BNLOS (barista no longer on site)

His loss.

I dunno, these single guys aren't what they used to be... Apparently

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"He's a single guy. He wont turn up anyway. Allegedly

He's probably a fake couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sat chatting for nearly 2 hours today when he finished work. Will prob get some food as we would both of been at work all day. "

Two hours and he didn't fuck it up . I have some bad news he is gay

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

23 minutes till we go out...

I'm totally nervous!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"23 minutes till we go out...

I'm totally nervous!!! "

Have an awesome time. X

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"23 minutes till we go out...

I'm totally nervous!!!

Have an awesome time. X"

I'm a mess!! Come rescue me!

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

"23 minutes till we go out...

I'm totally nervous!!! "

Go girl!

enjoy it x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"23 minutes till we go out...

I'm totally nervous!!!

Go girl!

enjoy it x"

Have a great time!!!!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Enjoy

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Look forward to hearing how it went

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By *ntimatediscretionMan
over a year ago

eaglescliffe

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!! "

93 meets and you are shy???

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!!

93 meets and you are shy???

Have you read the thread properly??? It explains why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great time lovely

Good luck x

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!!

93 meets and you are shy???

Have you read the thread properly??? It explains why"

Apparently not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you have had a wonderful time xx

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Wonder if he's on here reading this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww this is sweet. Hope it went really well and you had a lovely time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it went well... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amen to that, hope it all went well, mines a latte, 1 sugar x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away from cock tails

Seriously just because he knows ur home alone doesn't mean he gets to come back

A vanilla date - make him wait

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So ive been flirting (just for giggles) with the manager of a coffee shop near me for weeks. It's all been a good laugh and a bit of fun. Ive been joking that I was doing it for free lattes! Ha!

But I was in there today and he overheard me saying that my lad should be staying at his dad's Friday night for the first time in 6 months.

Now the banter has gone up a notch. We have been messaging via FB and he's suggested he keeps me company Friday night.

Now I'm having a wobble becsuse..

1) im a nervous wreck with things like that (ironic I know but weirdly swinging doesn't seem to affect me the same way!)

2) what if I say yes and it's a catastrophe?? I can never drink coffee in there again!!

3) he's totally not the type of guy I normalky go for looks wise but I can't deny there's chemistry there!! Would it be a bad idea to go past the flirting and invite him round!!

I'm so bad at this!! No wonder ive been single for years lol!!!! "

Away from site, I'd be offended if someone wanted to come around to mine instead of taking me out.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If you're child free and he is at a loose end then why not go out on a date?

That way you get to learn a bit more about each other in a different environment and tou don't have to feel any real peessure.

Sounds like you're both pretty into each other - i say go for it, but in a neutral setting.

That's what I mean: I'd go on a date, not invite him round.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'd go for the drink on neutral ground option if of was invited to someone's home I'd be getting ambiguous signals.

Go out with him and enjoy it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'd go for the drink on neutral ground option if of was invited to someone's home I'd be getting ambiguous signals.

Go out with him and enjoy it

"I'll keep you company"

"I'm not inviting a stranger round t my house"

Then, either he suggests a drink/meal.... or he's not that into you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did it go OP?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Should I buy a hat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a soap opera, what happened next?!!

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

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over a year ago

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh! "

hows your fanny?

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over a year ago

Kent

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

hows your fanny?

It's doing ok!!

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over a year ago

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh! "

Did you have a good time though?

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

Did you have a good time though?

Yes!! I'm just about to drag my arse outta bed and go for a coffee!

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over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

Did you have a good time though?

Yes!! I'm just about to drag my arse outta bed and go for a coffee!

Haha!!!

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over a year ago

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

Did you have a good time though?

Yes!! I'm just about to drag my arse outta bed and go for a coffee!

Haha!!! "

Glad you had a good time OP

Hope you recover soon haha

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh! "

2nd date???

Should I buy a hat?

Are we all invited to the Fab Wedding?

Will there be more free Lattes?

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

2nd date???

Should I buy a hat?

Are we all invited to the Fab Wedding?

Will there be more free Lattes?

I paid for my coffee today. Didn't want to appear to be just after the coffees lol!!

I also found out that he's 2 years younger than I thought. 24!! Oops!

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over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

2nd date???

Should I buy a hat?

Are we all invited to the Fab Wedding?

Will there be more free Lattes?

I paid for my coffee today. Didn't want to appear to be just after the coffees lol!!

I also found out that he's 2 years younger than I thought. 24!! Oops!

You lucky, lucky girl.

Good on ya.

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over a year ago

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

2nd date???

Should I buy a hat?

Are we all invited to the Fab Wedding?

Will there be more free Lattes?

I paid for my coffee today. Didn't want to appear to be just after the coffees lol!!

I also found out that he's 2 years younger than I thought. 24!! Oops!

Milf!

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

2nd date???

Should I buy a hat?

Are we all invited to the Fab Wedding?

Will there be more free Lattes?

I paid for my coffee today. Didn't want to appear to be just after the coffees lol!!

I also found out that he's 2 years younger than I thought. 24!! Oops!

Milf!

Oh God! I hope he hasn't referred to me as that.. Haha!! Makes me feel ancient!

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over a year ago

"How did it go OP?

Urgh... My head hurts!! Damn cocktails!! Bleurgh!

2nd date???

Should I buy a hat?

Are we all invited to the Fab Wedding?

Will there be more free Lattes?

I paid for my coffee today. Didn't want to appear to be just after the coffees lol!!

I also found out that he's 2 years younger than I thought. 24!! Oops!

Milf!

Oh God! I hope he hasn't referred to me as that.. Haha!! Makes me feel ancient!

You're only 36. Still youthful

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