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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you have a social what do you talk about ? How much personal information do you say about yourself ? How long do they normally last ?

It is a little different then having a regular social/date with someone, And when single people meet couples do you feel like you're having a job interview, Or is that when you know the social is not going well

I have never had a social apart from being in a club and within 10 minutes of chatting we were naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fill the awkward silence with a little bottom burp.

If you both laugh, you're golden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a social what do you talk about ? How much personal information do you say about yourself ? How long do they normally last ?

It is a little different then having a regular social/date with someone, And when single people meet couples do you feel like you're having a job interview, Or is that when you know the social is not going well

I have never had a social apart from being in a club and within 10 minutes of chatting we were naked "

TAke fireworks , whoppee cushion or air horn

Or you could do something different like bowling pool etc . It's not a job interview

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had two socials, the first one we were fighting the urge to stop ourselves from getting on the table in Costa!! Not much was said but the eye contact said everything

The second I had, he chatted for England while I kept staring at him not believing my luck, seeing him again Sunday!! (Between snogs in the pub)

I've got another next week... I've checked the place out for Windows he can escape from if he gets bored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a clipboard with a list of questions for them to answer.

That takes about 15 minutes, another 15 minutes for me to check their answers and then it's time for me to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid this by not having socials. By the time i meet someone we normally have plenty to say as we would have been chatting for a long time. It works for me and no awkward silences during down time

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Fill the awkward silence with a little bottom burp.

If you both laugh, you're golden."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As those I have met will tell you, I can talk shite for hours

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I never shut up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just listen. No need to give anything away about me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that's reassured me

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"I never shut up."

Nor me! Let's meet up and deafen ourselves to death!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's simple enough without being overbearing

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"It's simple enough without being overbearing "

Just take an interest

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

First meet is always a social for me. Shortest was about half an hour and the longest was just over 12 hours!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I avoid this by not having socials. By the time i meet someone we normally have plenty to say as we would have been chatting for a long time. It works for me and no awkward silences during down time "

I've had sexually charged silences and companionable comfortable ones but not awkward ones despite me actually being quite shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever met interesting ladies who are really easy to talk to, so thankfully never had that problem !

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"As those I have met will tell you, I can talk shite for hours "

This is me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit quiet in here now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can't have a conversation with them then it won't go further, I'm quite chatty naturally, but if we don't click out of the bedroom we won't click in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a social what do you talk about ? How much personal information do you say about yourself ? How long do they normally last ?

It is a little different then having a regular social/date with someone, And when single people meet couples do you feel like you're having a job interview, Or is that when you know the social is not going well

I have never had a social apart from being in a club and within 10 minutes of chatting we were naked "
I just talk and ask everyday questions I don't choose to meet people who don't want to give some of themself to the equation

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Been very lucky when I've had social meets or dates never had any of those awkward silences. Always found some lovely chatty ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tickle them

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

What is this 'awkward silence' you speak of?

Silence can be good. Only awkward if you let it be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this 'awkward silence' you speak of?

Silence can be good. Only awkward if you let it be "

"So when's the baby due?"

"I'm not pregnant "

*ahhh this is awkward silence*

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"What is this 'awkward silence' you speak of?

Silence can be good. Only awkward if you let it be

"So when's the baby due?"

"I'm not pregnant "

*ahhh this is awkward silence*"

That happened to my boss in a meeting we were in with a designer.

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this 'awkward silence' you speak of?

Silence can be good. Only awkward if you let it be

"So when's the baby due?"

"I'm not pregnant "

*ahhh this is awkward silence*

That happened to my boss in a meeting we were in with a designer.

Oh dear"
I had this once I asked a woman I had sat near at work for months why everyone was giving her cards and flowers and she had had a baby you couldn't even have seen she was pregnant ,I was stunned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this 'awkward silence' you speak of?

Silence can be good. Only awkward if you let it be

"So when's the baby due?"

"I'm not pregnant "

*ahhh this is awkward silence*

That happened to my boss in a meeting we were in with a designer.

Oh dear I had this once I asked a woman I had sat near at work for months why everyone was giving her cards and flowers and she had had a baby you couldn't even have seen she was pregnant ,I was stunned "

I said to my ex glad things are going well with your new guy and your having a baby as well

She replied no I am not

I said your definitely pregnant it's massive it's ok I am fine with it

She said. I am not

I said you must be fat then

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You're a proper charmer huh?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this 'awkward silence' you speak of?

Silence can be good. Only awkward if you let it be

"So when's the baby due?"

"I'm not pregnant "

*ahhh this is awkward silence*

That happened to my boss in a meeting we were in with a designer.

Oh dear I had this once I asked a woman I had sat near at work for months why everyone was giving her cards and flowers and she had had a baby you couldn't even have seen she was pregnant ,I was stunned

I said to my ex glad things are going well with your new guy and your having a baby as well

She replied no I am not

I said your definitely pregnant it's massive it's ok I am fine with it

She said. I am not

I said you must be fat then "

It's not in any way funny or humorous.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"What is this 'awkward silence' you speak of?

Silence can be good. Only awkward if you let it be

"So when's the baby due?"

"I'm not pregnant "

*ahhh this is awkward silence*

That happened to my boss in a meeting we were in with a designer.

Oh dear I had this once I asked a woman I had sat near at work for months why everyone was giving her cards and flowers and she had had a baby you couldn't even have seen she was pregnant ,I was stunned

I said to my ex glad things are going well with your new guy and your having a baby as well

She replied no I am not

I said your definitely pregnant it's massive it's ok I am fine with it

She said. I am not

I said you must be fat then

It's not in any way funny or humorous.

"

2hrs since last post?

Well that was awkward!

:/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 2 socials 1 was with someone I had already met and we had decided to be friends so wasn't weird

The second felt like the most natural thing in the world we couldn't keep our eyes off each other and I'm sure the people in the pub were whispering about us being all over each other between staring lol meeting again this Sunday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have socials & Iv normally been chatting online lots before hand so I know if we have common ground. I'm a real chatterbox so I could feel the silence if needed , but so far so good.

Good luck with any pending socials :0)

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Go to a big social.. Everyone else fills the silence so you can make eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I avoid this by not having socials. By the time i meet someone we normally have plenty to say as we would have been chatting for a long time. It works for me and no awkward silences during down time "

Exactly this

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I don't do socials, they feel like awkward interviews to me. Sitting there trying my hardest to be polite and interesting, and not sure whether I even want the job or not

I just go to clubs, chat and hopefully shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always really nervous on socials so I let "slonky the sock puppet" do all the talking for me.

Socials only last for a couple of minutes anyway so I don't really understand the questions OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last social cost me approx £55 for a 45 min lunch!

Wont be doing that again in a hurry.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"My last social cost me approx £55 for a 45 min lunch!

Wont be doing that again in a hurry.

"

Why, was the food really bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wasn't the food...... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My last social cost me approx £55 for a 45 min lunch!

Wont be doing that again in a hurry.

"

I'm sure the person you had the social with will be happy to see this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last social was awful. In message we had a lot in common but in person all I got was one word answers and it was like pulling teeth and I can talk for England but there comes a point when u have to say it was nice to meet you but goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had a couple of socials. The last was quite recent and we didn't stop talking from the moment I said hello until I left him at the station. I had a lovely time. I don't have awkward silences,if I fancy someone I babble away. If I don't I babble away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My last social cost me approx £55 for a 45 min lunch!

Wont be doing that again in a hurry.

"

Was that including travel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope... travel on top I recon another £30 for fuel etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had any problems keeping conversation flowing.

Even if the other person is stultifyingly boring. My interested face is very convincing, apparently.

On the phone, it's a different story. Awkwardness, silences, then talking all over the other person. I suck at it. Autism spectrum, I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope... travel on top I recon another £30 for fuel etc

"

Nobody forced you to travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a social what do you talk about ? How much personal information do you say about yourself ? How long do they normally last ?

It is a little different then having a regular social/date with someone, And when single people meet couples do you feel like you're having a job interview, Or is that when you know the social is not going well

I have never had a social apart from being in a club and within 10 minutes of chatting we were naked "

We've never had a social so we have no idea what one talks about either !

But seriously now , we generally only talk about what kind of play they would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely have awkward silences. I'm excellent at talking absolute shit.

I find I struggle with those uninterested in engaging, however if they're trying somewhat then it'll be fine. Even shy people can try or make it obvious it's not a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a social what do you talk about ? How much personal information do you say about yourself ? How long do they normally last ?

It is a little different then having a regular social/date with someone, And when single people meet couples do you feel like you're having a job interview, Or is that when you know the social is not going well

I have never had a social apart from being in a club and within 10 minutes of chatting we were naked "

I find socials quite nerve wracking, I tend to shiver and shake from nerves, but most of them have ended up with sex and repeat meets, so something must be going right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will stick to the club now for meeting people, more social and more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

"

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I can't recall any awkward silence socials wise. If felt one coming I would just talk random shite for a while longer

However, if I ended up doing all the talking the person wouldn't be for me & vice versa I would imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had an awkward silence once, when we'd got on well online but had nothing to say to each other. It was just a coffee in town though so I tried for about 20mins then made my excuses and went back to work. All the other times chatting has never been a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My last social cost me approx £55 for a 45 min lunch!

Wont be doing that again in a hurry.

"

Why did it cost so much for a lunch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one "

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

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By *eorge17Man
over a year ago

Leven


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right...."

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine go well.. Never rush into the first meeting tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

"

Don't let others put you off posting, everyone is on an even playing field.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There shouldn't be an awkward silence if you *click*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

"

Well I realised straight away who the social was with.And saying the social was bad based on the time and cost of it doesn't show him in a very good light either in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

Well I realised straight away who the social was with.And saying the social was bad based on the time and cost of it doesn't show him in a very good light either in my opinion."

But how do you know from that comment unless you've either been talking to the other party too....

Not that it's anyone business anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

Well I realised straight away who the social was with.And saying the social was bad based on the time and cost of it doesn't show him in a very good light either in my opinion.

But how do you know from that comment unless you've either been talking to the other party too....

Not that it's anyone business anyway."

Surely the same goes for the apparent rest of the forum who are massively indiscreet too? I mustn't pay enough attention as apart from verifications I haven't a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

Well I realised straight away who the social was with.And saying the social was bad based on the time and cost of it doesn't show him in a very good light either in my opinion."

How?

Assuming you know the other party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

Well I realised straight away who the social was with.And saying the social was bad based on the time and cost of it doesn't show him in a very good light either in my opinion.

How?

Assuming you know the other party?"

Verifications tell a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 of you can usually break the silence

its when you both feel that awkwardness that ur screwed

i can be shy at times but in those situations ive learned you dont have to say much. just engage her and then stfu and listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

Well I realised straight away who the social was with.And saying the social was bad based on the time and cost of it doesn't show him in a very good light either in my opinion.

How?

Assuming you know the other party?

Verifications tell a lot."

???

Do mingles do lunch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

Don't let others put you off posting, everyone is on an even playing field."

Apparently it isn't as level as we might think!

He didn't name or shame anyone or even say it was someone on here. It could have been anyone, anywhere.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

Don't let others put you off posting, everyone is on an even playing field.

Apparently it isn't as level as we might think!

He didn't name or shame anyone or even say it was someone on here. It could have been anyone, anywhere."

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right...."

It's so incestious on here at times lol I try and not let on who I'm meeting as its no ones fucking business....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just chat constantly its worked okay for me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"What is this 'awkward silence' you speak of?

Silence can be good. Only awkward if you let it be

"So when's the baby due?"

"I'm not pregnant "

*ahhh this is awkward silence*"

That's a pregnant pause isn't it?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"i just chat constantly its worked okay for me "

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

It's so incestious on here at times lol I try and not let on who I'm meeting as its no ones fucking business.... "

I've lost count of how many times I've said this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a social what do you talk about ? How much personal information do you say about yourself ? How long do they normally last ?

It is a little different then having a regular social/date with someone, And when single people meet couples do you feel like you're having a job interview, Or is that when you know the social is not going well

I have never had a social apart from being in a club and within 10 minutes of chatting we were naked "

I tend to spend along time talking to who I like...that way who needs a social..because when you meet you both know the inevitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right...."

No its not and I'm not replying to their post im replying to his, there is a huge difference from saying I am meeting Mr A or Miss B to moaning about how much a meet cost and it obv was the company. And was pretty obvious who he was getting at .

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Oh!

Another awkward silence :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh!

Another awkward silence :/"

It's a good thing you're around to break these awkward silences isn't it

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Oh!

Another awkward silence :/

It's a good thing you're around to break these awkward silences isn't it "

An awkward silence is like...

...a...

...willing hole?

Begging to be filled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk a lot so I'm ok haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

No its not and I'm not replying to their post im replying to his, there is a huge difference from saying I am meeting Mr A or Miss B to moaning about how much a meet cost and it obv was the company. And was pretty obvious who he was getting at . "

I don't agree that it was pretty obvious.

Now whether it's because I don't have a Scooby half time who is friends with who on here, if a few posts were subsequently removed or that I am just a bit durrr but I didn't have any idea.

I'm not posting to be pedantic but just to say we don't all see / read the same thing into posts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right...."

Absolutely ridiculous statement to make! although someone used their *seduction* on me last night, and i was *scarlet* afterwards.... fnar fnar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

No its not and I'm not replying to their post im replying to his, there is a huge difference from saying I am meeting Mr A or Miss B to moaning about how much a meet cost and it obv was the company. And was pretty obvious who he was getting at .

I don't agree that it was pretty obvious.

Now whether it's because I don't have a Scooby half time who is friends with who on here, if a few posts were subsequently removed or that I am just a bit durrr but I didn't have any idea.

I'm not posting to be pedantic but just to say we don't all see / read the same thing into posts...

"

Well certain posts have been removed you obv didn't see and it was damn well obvious to see who the post was about..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

No its not and I'm not replying to their post im replying to his, there is a huge difference from saying I am meeting Mr A or Miss B to moaning about how much a meet cost and it obv was the company. And was pretty obvious who he was getting at . "

Pretty obvious to you but not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on ,own up. Who's the free loader who got a rather expensive lunch out of the OP.

Should have stumped up for your half tsk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo there's a real atmosphere in here! Ladies....I'm out. BOOM!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Absolutely ridiculous statement to make! although someone used their *seduction* on me last night, and i was *scarlet* afterwards.... fnar fnar!"

That's funny because i had a shit shag last night .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

No its not and I'm not replying to their post im replying to his, there is a huge difference from saying I am meeting Mr A or Miss B to moaning about how much a meet cost and it obv was the company. And was pretty obvious who he was getting at .

Pretty obvious to you but not me. "
Guess we see things differently then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Absolutely ridiculous statement to make! although someone used their *seduction* on me last night, and i was *scarlet* afterwards.... fnar fnar!

That's funny because i had a shit shag last night ....... "

Was it someone off here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Absolutely ridiculous statement to make! although someone used their *seduction* on me last night, and i was *scarlet* afterwards.... fnar fnar!

That's funny because i had a shit shag last night .......

Was it someone off here? "

I couldn't possibly say. ..I'm the soul of discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Absolutely ridiculous statement to make! although someone used their *seduction* on me last night, and i was *scarlet* afterwards.... fnar fnar!

That's funny because i had a shit shag last night .......

Was it someone off here?

I couldn't possibly say. ..I'm the soul of discretion "

Took some people ages to work out you two are clashing your genitalia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Come on ,own up. Who's the free loader who got a rather expensive lunch out of the OP.

Should have stumped up for your half tsk.

"

I only started the thread out of interest and have nothing to do with the other comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Absolutely ridiculous statement to make! although someone used their *seduction* on me last night, and i was *scarlet* afterwards.... fnar fnar!

That's funny because i had a shit shag last night ....... "

How rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Absolutely ridiculous statement to make! although someone used their *seduction* on me last night, and i was *scarlet* afterwards.... fnar fnar!

That's funny because i had a shit shag last night .......

Was it someone off here?

I couldn't possibly say. ..I'm the soul of discretion

Took some people ages to work out you two are clashing your genitalia "

Not very often if i can help it .....Awww. ...Clem, you know I'm only joking hunny don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

No its not and I'm not replying to their post im replying to his, there is a huge difference from saying I am meeting Mr A or Miss B to moaning about how much a meet cost and it obv was the company. And was pretty obvious who he was getting at .

Pretty obvious to you but not me. Guess we see things differently then"

You're saying I should know as I've seen the evidence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

No its not and I'm not replying to their post im replying to his, there is a huge difference from saying I am meeting Mr A or Miss B to moaning about how much a meet cost and it obv was the company. And was pretty obvious who he was getting at .

Pretty obvious to you but not me. Guess we see things differently then

You're saying I should know as I've seen the evidence? "

Where did I say that jeez chill...I said we see things differently some posts have been removed ..I saw them maybe you didn't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

No its not and I'm not replying to their post im replying to his, there is a huge difference from saying I am meeting Mr A or Miss B to moaning about how much a meet cost and it obv was the company. And was pretty obvious who he was getting at .

Pretty obvious to you but not me. Guess we see things differently then

You're saying I should know as I've seen the evidence?

Where did I say that jeez chill...I said we see things differently some posts have been removed ..I saw them maybe you didn't... "

That's what I'm asking. I miss a lot that goes on in here because I flit around and don't retain details of things like who is meeting whom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Absolutely ridiculous statement to make! although someone used their *seduction* on me last night, and i was *scarlet* afterwards.... fnar fnar!

That's funny because i had a shit shag last night .......

Was it someone off here?

I couldn't possibly say. ..I'm the soul of discretion

Took some people ages to work out you two are clashing your genitalia

Not very often if i can help it .....Awww. ...Clem, you know I'm only joking hunny don't you? "

She's not joking! Please! Take pity on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

No its not and I'm not replying to their post im replying to his, there is a huge difference from saying I am meeting Mr A or Miss B to moaning about how much a meet cost and it obv was the company. And was pretty obvious who he was getting at .

Pretty obvious to you but not me. Guess we see things differently then

You're saying I should know as I've seen the evidence?

Where did I say that jeez chill...I said we see things differently some posts have been removed ..I saw them maybe you didn't...

That's what I'm asking. I miss a lot that goes on in here because I flit around and don't retain details of things like who is meeting whom. "

Well the removed posts made it pretty clear..and I don't do details of others im far too busy making my own debauchery meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a social what do you talk about ? How much personal information do you say about yourself ? How long do they normally last ?

It is a little different then having a regular social/date with someone, And when single people meet couples do you feel like you're having a job interview, Or is that when you know the social is not going well

I have never had a social apart from being in a club and within 10 minutes of chatting we were naked "

No awkward silences on that occasion then?

Did you feel like you were on a job interview? If so sounds like you were successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wasn't the food...... lol

Lets hope the person you met doesn't come along and read this as Im sure they will be thrilled to read it..Discretion is something you lacked on this one

A few people have said similar about bad socials they had. He's not the only one.

The majority of the forum are ridiculously indiscreet. Hints about who they are meeting/ who they fucked last night etc etc. Like a soap opera.

But it's ok if it's certain people that do it.. right....

Well said.

The guy never mentioned any names or where the social meet was.

He was asked specific questions about the food and the travel which he answered without lack of discretion and still he got pulled up on it.

No wonder lots of people are put off posting in the forums!

"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Somebody dropped the ball!

*throws it back in to the mosh pit*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody dropped the ball!

*throws it back in to the mosh pit*"

Joe! Leave it alone!!! Lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Somebody dropped the ball!

*throws it back in to the mosh pit*

Joe! Leave it alone!!! Lol"

Care to dance?

Let's Face The Music And Dance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnfKmNRfLYU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody dropped the ball!

*throws it back in to the mosh pit*

Joe! Leave it alone!!! Lol

Care to dance?

Let's Face The Music And Dance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnfKmNRfLYU"

*holds hand out* my pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clem and i are having a rather awkward silence right now....i got nuts stuck in my throat and he struggled to open the wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clem and i are having a rather awkward silence right now....i got nuts stuck in my throat and he struggled to open the wine "

I'm not surprised with his nuts stuck in your throat

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