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"We take the safety thing very serious... Extra pillows, scatter cushions.. padded headboard the whole nine yards. Not sure what the others do... "lol nice answer | |||
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"Meet in a familiar place. Make sure your route to your car/bus/train is busy and well lit. The old txt or call me at x time to a friend. Chat a bit with them before meeting them. Don't flirt or be suggestive if it's just a meet and greet. Say clearly when your about to go, nice to meet you, I will chat more on msn/fab,phone etc. The panic alarms things are a good idea." Great advice | |||
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"Obviously as a couple we don't have the same safety issues as single people...but does anyone ever take a friend along and they sit in another part of the pub etc?" Your kidding... had a massive row with the guy from a couple who on a first meet, just to get to know before going to a party took it on himself to touch up Mrs Notts in the pub.. or try to!! He soon learned just cause he was a big roughly toughty soldier his arse gets kicked just the same as everyone elses.. No ones 100% safe eh... | |||
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"Obviously as a couple we don't have the same safety issues as single people...but does anyone ever take a friend along and they sit in another part of the pub etc? Your kidding... had a massive row with the guy from a couple who on a first meet, just to get to know before going to a party took it on himself to touch up Mrs Notts in the pub.. or try to!! He soon learned just cause he was a big roughly toughty soldier his arse gets kicked just the same as everyone elses.. No ones 100% safe eh..." Oh yeah I know no one is 100% safe, I just meant we don't go alone so are a bit less vulnerable.  | |||
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"I take precautions very seriously: If she's a big girl I usually tie me foot to the sink. "lmao, you can never be too careful | |||
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"I think it must be a lot easier as a single male on first meets. Although i do wonder sometimes turning up on a strange doorstep whats behind it. but i like to think im a good judge of caricature and have chatted on the phone a few times first. If i was a single woman i really would have to thing twice if not three times before meeting and usually in a public place." Absolutely - I never meet for the first time at my house - always somewhere neutral - usually a hotel bar or lounge and 9 times out of 10 it's a lunchtime too. | |||
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"I think it must be a lot easier as a single male on first meets. Although i do wonder sometimes turning up on a strange doorstep whats behind it. but i like to think im a good judge of caricature and have chatted on the phone a few times first. If i was a single woman i really would have to thing twice if not three times before meeting and usually in a public place." On another site we use a single male went to a pre arranged meet with a woman, when he got there the woman was there, but so was 6 men who beat him up for being "depraved" So no, single men need to be just as careful I think. | |||
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"I think it must be a lot easier as a single male on first meets. Although i do wonder sometimes turning up on a strange doorstep whats behind it. but i like to think im a good judge of caricature and have chatted on the phone a few times first. If i was a single woman i really would have to thing twice if not three times before meeting and usually in a public place. On another site we use a single male went to a pre arranged meet with a woman, when he got there the woman was there, but so was 6 men who beat him up for being "depraved" So no, single men need to be just as careful I think." Got her number? That's just my cup of tea | |||
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"Got her number? That's just my cup of tea "Let me know where and when and I'll call my 5 mates. | |||
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"Just for the record though... surely single guys need to be just as cautious.. Nothing stopping a 'nice' girl shouting the odds after a meet eh... Works both ways surely!!" Well there are occasions you get a little concerned. the words tie me up or hold me down on a first meet are definate no no's to hear. Guess its not just no that means no but as a bloke you do have to take a little care. | |||
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"Blimey....... I have heard tie me up being said on a first meet.. Making me think now!" I would only consider it if messages had been sent and nothing too heavy on a first meet. Im happy to play and have a real good imagination and can be imaginative but trust is very important. | |||
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