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Pale white vs Tanned

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London

What do you prefer? Last night I had a funny/sad discussion about girls' preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm white and don't sit out in the sun if and when it's hot enough for it, And the only time I use a sunbed is a few weeks before I go on holiday as I don't tan I just go red

I don't have a preference of white or tanned Women myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was sad about it?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I personally have a thing for really pale skinned women. Especially if they have dark hair. That would be my dream woman.

Of course I like tanned as well

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Pale.

I don't sit in the sun ever. I carry factor 50 with me. If I get caught out, I burn. I have skin cancer. Nothing funny about getting a 10p size hole cut in your face while you're awake.

Sunbeds are evil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pale & freckly, no amount of sun changes that

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Pale.

I don't sit in the sun ever. I carry factor 50 with me. If I get caught out, I burn. I have skin cancer. Nothing funny about getting a 10p size hole cut in your face while you're awake.

Sunbeds are evil.

"

I don't understand why people become so obsessed about getting a tan. And I don't think people fully understand the risks of sunbeds either. They are deadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very pale here with dark hair

I don't tan easily and, after losing a family member to malignant melanoma, I wear my factor 50 with pride x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tan lines can be pretty sexy on a lady

I tan fairly easily, but I tend not to deliberatley sit out with the intent of getting one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear fake tan sometimes. Other times I embrace the natural pale. I have a few white bits and freckles when I come back from somewhere sunny. So my skin colour will differ depending what time of the year you catch me.

On others I have no preference - just whatever suits them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tan incredibly easily and often get asked if I'm mixed race during the summer. Always wear factor 20 when I'm out in it and 30 on my face.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't tan well so I don't bother. My legs are so pale they reflect the sun now.

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By *rbusyhandsMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Doesn't put me up or down but worst is bad tans be it faked and streaky/oompa loompa, or burnt/chargrilled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was born with a major tan, don't think it will get pale anytime soon.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

as can be seen from our profile pic, def difference with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess a little color is nice, but I'm not really bothered either way.

I'm naturally olive skinned. In the US I had a nice tan constantly. I don't wear fake tan or go to tanning beds. I'm too lazy and I don't like what they achieve, really.

Since moving to England I have turned into a ghost. And I don't really care

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love getting a tan! I know skin cancer isn't a joke, but I do feel better getting a bit of vitamin D.

Can't beat lying on a nudist beach and getting ya white bits brown! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tan easily so I don't try

Pale and dark haired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally guilty of being an electric beach user n sun worshiper but I do use factor 20 in the sun even though I tan super easy

I know the risk and accept them and yes I could use fake tan if I could find 1 I didn't get a horrid lumpy rash off. I just feel better with some colour as I tend to look like draculars daughter when I am pale all drawn n dark under the eyes and poorly lookin and yes I could use make up but again I react to it so bit rock n hard place

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

As Billy Connily once said....

I go from blue to red, back to blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy have a tan, but then I love sunbathing.

I also love ladies with darker skin

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

To those who sunbath to get a tan. If my mum can get skin cancer - anyone can. She was always very careful not to be caught in the sun and never sunbathed and still got the most serious kind of skin cancer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too like sitting in the sun, but as I have vitaligo,I've gotta be careful, the white patches can burn .

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Flik tans..paul goes red...as long as its the same colour all over...white bits look weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was sad about it?"

The fact that she was talking and not having sex with him

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Dont really mind if tanned or pale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tanned but not orange or looking like leather ,

Love mrs tan it looks healthy xx

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm completely pale and happy with it. Id never use a sunbed or fake tan because of the health risks and also i think i'd look ridiculous.

I don't really take it into account when considering meeting people either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a preference, either can look nice, its the person I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ginger with some Celtic heritage means I'm never going to go brown

Pale and interesting, plus it gives me a good reason to wear a snazzy hat to protect the head and shade the face... Less squinting into the sun means fewer wrinkles (hopefully)

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. MOORLANDS & BARMOUTH.

I tan so easily and have naturally olive skin, dark brown hair and brown eyes.....no tan lines for me...and yes of course I know the risks, and never ever do sunbeds. Must admit I luv a good, rich tan xxx

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Maybe I was not clear enough. I asked about girls' preference on guys: pale white or tanned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I was not clear enough. I asked about girls' preference on guys: pale white or tanned? "

Oh. Tanned preferably, but it depends on what looks right on a specific guy. I'm not too bothered either way.

-Courtney

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I'm very pale & freckly - was also born ginger.

I wear factor 50 & apply often.

If I want a tan it's sprayed on

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I guess a little color is nice, but I'm not really bothered either way.

I'm naturally olive skinned. In the US I had a nice tan constantly. I don't wear fake tan or go to tanning beds. I'm too lazy and I don't like what they achieve, really.

Since moving to England I have turned into a ghost. And I don't really care

-Courtney"

Ah well after first year I moved in UK I was as white as milk. Never been so white in my life. Then I decided to do sunbeds to avoid to be the only pale person in my country when going back

Replying to other people, tan makes muscles more visible and cover skin defects. This is the reason beyond tanning.

Then if you are in a summer resort or in a sunny country, being tanned is essential from a social point of view as well as to avoid getting burn.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I ran quite easily and like to get an all over tan so prefer a natural tan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have either thank you. As a woman with an Irish arse and Mediterranean arms (so a Fab man told me) I can't complain about either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look much better with a tan but I hardly see enough sunlight to get one.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Mrs N prefers a tan but I think pale absolutely suits her, with her pale blue eyes it's extremely (to me anyway) attractive. No point in me getting a tan and I'll never be pale, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the sun. No good for all my tattoos so I'm constantly pale

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I hate the sun. No good for all my tattoos so I'm constantly pale "

Nice white skin

...but I asked if you prefer tanned guys or pale ones

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

255 229 200!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The texture is more important to me than colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind either way. I'm like a milk bottle though

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

On others I have no preference... Though "over done" doesn't look right.

On me... I'm happy with naturally pale. Having seen someone with severe skin cancer, I try todo everything I can to reduce the risk.

Cal is naturally pale but does a lot of time cycling, so in warmer weather has brown and white bits

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the sun. No good for all my tattoos so I'm constantly pale

Nice white skin

...but I asked if you prefer tanned guys or pale ones "

Ohhhhh. Shush, I've been up since early, I'm tired

Pale then, guys who do sunbeds are usually too metrosexual for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like em dark...real dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pale white any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural tan much nicer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tanned

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"255 229 200!! "

RGB if anyone was wondering

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I could upload the photo of my face mid surgery but I imagine it's probably against a too gruesome rule.

Seriously... bin the sunbeds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tan incredibly easily and often get asked if I'm mixed race during the summer. Always wear factor 20 when I'm out in it and 30 on my face. "

Lol I thought you were mixed race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No real preference...

If i like someone, i like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have vitiligo so pale is my only option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pale, I think I look better with a tan but its not worth looking 70 at 50 or other risks.

The fake stuff is no good, a short blonde like me just looks like an umpa lumpa

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"No real preference...

If i like someone, i like them. "

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"The fake stuff is no good, a short blonde like me just looks like an umpa lumpa "

Ahahahahah

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I hate the sun. No good for all my tattoos so I'm constantly pale

Nice white skin

...but I asked if you prefer tanned guys or pale ones

Ohhhhh. Shush, I've been up since early, I'm tired

Pale then, guys who do sunbeds are usually too metrosexual for me!"

I blame entirely the girls if I became metrosexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tanned !!!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I am a naturally pale, occasionally freckled dark-haired careful in the sun type. I'd quite like to have a tan since it makes my blue eyes stand out (well it did twenty plus years ago, which was the last time I had anything approaching a tan) but I'd have to fake it to do so and frankly I can't be arsed. Plus I'm cack-handed so I know I'd fuck it up and end up looking like a badly creosoted fence. I don't mind other peoples' tan choices though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? Last night I had a funny/sad discussion about girls' preference "

cant say I have a preference,,i like being tanned myself,,n its mostly fake tan,,but not bothered if my partner is or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am pale AND freckley! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my summer look. Tanned all over. Other then pale arse

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By *otty69Couple
over a year ago

bedford

A nice tan always makes you feel better .. but not to orangey looking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get sprayed with fake tan once a month,,,like a car,,but not an escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice tan always makes you feel better .. but not to orangey looking lol "

im a good catholic so try n avoid that

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Am pale AND freckley! Lol x"

You look very pretty

But I asked how you like guys? Pale or tanned...?

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I glow in the dark.

I have a LOT of moles.. mostly on my back. I was left in the sun as a baby and my back got badly burnt. It's been suggested that that's part of the reason I have so many moles on my back.

I don't tan, I just burn, peel, go back to white. Factor 50 is a must and I wear a tshirt at the beach/pool/whatever. I got caught in the sun for half an hour with no suncream this summer and by the time I could buy some I had already gone pink around my cheeks and across the top of my boobs.

I tried fake tan and it just looks silly on me.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I was left in the sun as a baby"

I am sorry

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't do sunbeds but have appreciated a fake tan, though nothing like the Essex TV types. I generally prefer some tan to snow white. Tan lines and white bits good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am pale AND freckley! Lol x

You look very pretty

But I asked how you like guys? Pale or tanned...? "

Sorry! Actually i'm not at all fussy with that think a guy that was overly fake tanned would be a bit offputting tbh. A bit vain. I like a manly man :D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since moving to England I have turned into a ghost. And I don't really care

-Courtney"

A bloody sexy ghost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less whether man has been in the sun or not.

I want to play with him, not make a handbag.

No choice about my own tan, sadly. It's there 24/7, so I couldn't be pale and interesting if I tried.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White sort of comes with the hair colour. Only try to tan on a special occassion.

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Am pale AND freckley! Lol x

You look very pretty

But I asked how you like guys? Pale or tanned...?

Sorry! Actually i'm not at all fussy with that think a guy that was overly fake tanned would be a bit offputting tbh. A bit vain. I like a manly man :D x"

With "tanned" I do not mean "overly fake tanned". I mean of course "properly tanned".

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

oo, colours? may I have a bright yellow from the back please op?

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Well I'm what you call an untanable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on the person. ( female anyway.) Some look better with a tan, while others don't.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. MOORLANDS & BARMOUTH.

Tanned all over, including butt.....but then I do luv my dark guys xxxx

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By *eonardoLove OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Tanned all over, including butt.....but then I do luv my dark guys xxxx"

Ahahahah

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