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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?

Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. Even if they have a shit profile there's a person behind it. Some are just as bland. Some are bloody good fun. -)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood I'm in to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest if I get a 'hi' message and nothing more I delete it, I've probably missed out on some really nice guys this way that may not know how to start a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm relatively shallow on a sex site.

However, if I delved deeper and found nothing, then I wouldn't take it much further.

-Courtney

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I would at least say hi back and see if they talk a bit more. Some people are shy but they may be nice.

Don't get me wrong if after a few messages there still not talking ill ignore xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Depends what mood I'm in to be honest.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'd say 'hi' back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer ...No...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Even if they have a shit profile there's a person behind it. Some are just as bland. Some are bloody good fun. -)"

This.

All conversation starts somewhere. It may not lead anywhere, a start is a start though.

I suspect it's different for men, we *sweeping generalisation* probably have less mail to answer.

I might have a different view if I received 300 hi messages a day.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd answe and see what came back. As good looking as they might be, if they can't spark any interest in my head, I'm not interested.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?

Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?"

No!

If they're the other end of the country (and I only meet locals), black (when I only meet white), Dom (when I only meet subs)...get the picture, their physical appearance has absolutely no bearing in my decision making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm horny, yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm horny, yeah"

Are you horny now?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Saying just a hi in a first message isn't the worst crime going,it's when you are still having a one word conversation three messages in! I tested this recently,it got dull!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?

Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?

No!

If they're the other end of the country (and I only meet locals), black (when I only meet white), Dom (when I only meet subs)...get the picture, their physical appearance has absolutely no bearing in my decision making."

"their physical appearance has absolutely no bearing in my decision"

Well except for the physical apreance of their skin colour right?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, it's mostly about looks for me. Frequently though the ensuing conversation consists of us sending entire sentences with questions and the sender of the "hi" message continuing to be monosyllabic, we give up at that point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?

Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?

No!

If they're the other end of the country (and I only meet locals), black (when I only meet white), Dom (when I only meet subs)...get the picture, their physical appearance has absolutely no bearing in my decision making."

OK then, let's say they are a white sub within 5-10 miles, would ya ?

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Hi

I would look at their profile and respond but the lady-folk may get too many to do the same, there's a big body of thread evidence to suggest that at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm horny, yeah

Are you horny now?"

No I've just cum and am debating to rent either a bycycle or a scooter now I've learned that scooters can use the cycle lanes here in Holland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Even if they have a shit profile there's a person behind it. Some are just as bland. Some are bloody good fun. -)

This.

All conversation starts somewhere. It may not lead anywhere, a start is a start though.

I suspect it's different for men, we *sweeping generalisation* probably have less mail to answer.

I might have a different view if I received 300 hi messages a day."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,I try to respond to all messages anyway. If I felt any kind of attraction I would say hi back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd answe and see what came back. As good looking as they might be, if they can't spark any interest in my head, I'm not interested. "

What if they spark an interest in another part of your body?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm horny, yeah

Are you horny now?

No I've just cum and am debating to rent either a bycycle or a scooter now I've learned that scooters can use the cycle lanes here in Holland "

Oh. I'll keep my "Hi" to myself, then.

Get the scooter!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After getting over the initial shock of receiving a message dancing around the room with joy making myself the biggest chufty badge to wear

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying just a hi in a first message isn't the worst crime going,it's when you are still having a one word conversation three messages in! I tested this recently,it got dull!"

Then I just say sorry we're not compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what mood I'm in to be honest "

That's a very honest answer!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always jolly nice to get a message .

As a bloke we don't get as many messages as you ladies so uts easier for us to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had 3 off friends saying hi

Of course I'm going to answer them

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd answe and see what came back. As good looking as they might be, if they can't spark any interest in my head, I'm not interested.

What if they spark an interest in another part of your body? "

I'd just have a wank and not bother replying. I don't like boring one word messages.

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Have very few on my friends list that say hello but always answer the ones that do...There the ones I no are genuine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put about a good 20 minutes into my messages to the profiles I like! Thinking that if they see I've put genuine effort they might give me a Hi!! But genuinely I get nothing back! It can be a bit disheartening at times! But I'm sure one day I might get a Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , and it would go one of two ways .

If they were local we would answer with - hi , fancy a meet ?

If they were quite a distance away - we would say hi , sorry we can't travel too far , but we would love to meet you sometime .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I like a message to tell me something about the person ..a simple hi is bland, boring and lazy

Same goes for profiles.

The person may be good looking but if there is nothing behind it doesn't work for me I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes- depends how busy I am x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?

Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?"

Delve

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?

Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?"

I regularly respond to "hi". I say hello back and wait to see what the next move is. Some are so flummoxed they never message again, others move straight to wanna fuk or suk my cok (those spellings are standard) and just occasionally it's lead to a proper conversation and even more occasionally meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say 'hi' back "

And see if they send another message

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

It very much depends on my mood and how many pushy, vulgar,sick, stupid or boring messages I have just had to plow through.

But if I'm in a good mood I will reply to every message regardless of distance, lack of pics, the 'will fill this in later' on an over a year old profile or a complete lack of common interests.

*FYI today isn't a good day to send a hi message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respond to a simple 'Hi' message if you found the sender very pleasing to the eye and had a half decent profile ?

Would you delve further to see if he/she/they had more to offer or simply dismiss ?

Delve "

You just can't beat a good delve...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i would would you tho op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask them what they found interesting in my profile

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Most single men are grateful for any unsolicited message. So, even if it just said Hi it's a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest answer ...No..."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes we would respond to a simple "hi" and have done,

not everyone is super articulate and can write a ballad as an opening message, could be that they are shy and maybe a little intimidated by some profiles, i know we have been.

its all about writing the right thing to the right person on the right day and you might just get lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they fall inside our preference then yes.

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