FabSwingers.com forum: time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I frequently read the status of couples and fems stating they are sick of time wasters.

Today I have sent several polite messages with only one couple having the decency to reply.

So the question is who really are the time wasters us that put the effort into our mails or the pompous ignoramus's that ask for pics and that people put a little effort into their mails?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

How did that waste your time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I frequently read the status of couples and fems stating they are sick of time wasters.

Today I have sent several polite messages with only one couple having the decency to reply.

So the question is who really are the time wasters us that put the effort into our mails or the pompous ignoramus's that ask for pics and that people put a little effort into their mails?"

We only have your word for it.

We don't reply to anyone who clearly has not read our profile.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

You will find after a while sometime you are just wasting your time sending polite responses and getting nowhere.

Dont get heated about it....its just the way things are in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So this is more a moan about people who don't reply ? As the above poster said, how exactly was your time wasted sending a message ? Its only truly wasted if you arrange a meet, spend time getting ready, travel there and are stood up with no explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples & single girls get daily x amounts of messages. Mostly ill written, from people miles away or not fitting to their profile.

Most have given up answering as it would be a full time "job" answering all such messages and just delete. We used to point out to single guys mesages "It's a polite no thanks and read profiles before messaging".. 90% answer back with "time wasters, stuck up your arse and worse".

So what do you think ? ? If you got on a daily base messages from people who have never ever read the profile and are 1 zillion miles away, would you take the time and effort to answer to all?? Think not

On Fab there are appox. over 200 guys to a single guy and over 85 single guys to a couple

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

And alot of people have limited messages on here so i guess the more luckier people who get alot of messages i guess dont want to waste them by saying no.

And there is there.. they have not read our profile etc...

Chin up.. its nothing personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can;t handle not getting replies to your messages you might want to question if this is the right site for you. It's the nature of the beast. And people not replying ion no way makes them timewasters

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

To me a timewaster is someone who arranges a meet and doesn't turn up, or constantly cancels at the last minute.

Not those who don't answer messages.

Not those who after chatting for a bit decide they don't want to take it any further.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Give it a bit longer on here and you'll soon suss things out. There's alsorts from pretenders to genuines looking for a guy like you to those not looking for a guy like you.

When gen cpls and females put a meet tonight up or a status message they can get battered with messages. Imagine being on the receiving end of that. No way can they reply to all so will offend some in the process.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because I have taken the time to message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I have taken the time to message!"

So you have wasted your time, not them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always read profiles.

How else would I know if we had the same interests?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Because I have taken the time to message!"

And? You sent a unwanted message to someone!

And you really expect them to reply to you? Really? I mean Really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Time is time no matter how you spend it just like money.

You wouldn't throw that away!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Because I have taken the time to message!"

But you were on here anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fully understand where your coming from but I only contact people who are local with the same interests as I.

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Like me you will get used to it. I read profiles but one thing do bug me a little. Women say no short or one line messages so after spending time composing and posting a long message get deleted or even blocked anyway so what is the point? Not sure if that is timewasting. I persevere though!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Time is time no matter how you spend it just like money.

You wouldn't throw that away!"

Do you know how ridiculous that sounds?

Nobody has asked you to send a message, you chose to do so.

Therefore they are not time wasters you are just delusional

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha I'm on a mission now it's more lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time is time no matter how you spend it just like money.

You wouldn't throw that away!"

You're just talking nonsense now

You sent a message

You didn't get a response

Time is so precious to you that you then spend some more of it writing about the lack of response and then arguing the toss with those that see things differently.

As I said initially, you are just wasting your own time. You don't need help from others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It quite obviously is not as I can't cope with rude uneducated people.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"It quite obviously is not as I can't cope with rude uneducated people."

Admin say , some people reply, some don't if you accept this you will enjoy the site better.

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