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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have put our profile into hiding as we have a stalker/harasser in vanilla life and both a little freaked about it as police now envolved finally and just had some strange messages on here ,just not sure we made rite decision??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure Id be starting a forum thread about it?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

go with your gut.....

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's something serious enough to involve the police I'd delete all my social media accounts. Not sure which decision you are struggling with though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been told not to by the police

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How would they track you down to here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure Id be starting a forum thread about it?

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Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The right decision to involve the police or the right decision to hide your profile ?

Only you know the answers to both, but I would suggest that if youe having issues with someone in real life, then meeting others and potentially putting them in danger is not adviseable.

Therefore until your situation is resolved, I would stay under cover and put any meets on hold.

I hope it sorts itself out for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem a bit pointless hiding your profile and then drawing public attention to yourself though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not at all just after opinions on topic so will tak it that the said forums clique has kicked into action typical don't fucking bother we want post again to keep you happy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No not at all just after opinions on topic so will tak it that the said forums clique has kicked into action typical don't fucking bother we want post again to keep you happy "

I didn't mean to be nasty, just interested to know if someone could have tracked you down to here?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"No not at all just after opinions on topic so will tak it that the said forums clique has kicked into action typical don't fucking bother we want post again to keep you happy "

And the posts that have been helpful?

What decision are you unsure about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To hide profile as she a nutty and copied and pasted all our Facebook too just worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does seem a bit pointless hiding your profile and then drawing public attention to yourself though."

my thoughts too - going to invite more strange messages

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"To hide profile as she a nutty and copied and pasted all our Facebook too just worried "

I think hiding your profile is a good idea, if I were you I would delete it and start again giving her less chance of finding you as she can still contact you even though you're hidden.

Having a stalker isn't nice I hope she stops.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"No not at all just after opinions on topic so will tak it that the said forums clique has kicked into action typical don't fucking bother we want post again to keep you happy "

I know you must be freaked out but throwing a tantrum on here when people only gave constructive advice is not going to help.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"No not at all just after opinions on topic so will tak it that the said forums clique has kicked into action typical don't fucking bother we want post again to keep you happy "

I'm not in the so called forum clique(your words) but also I can't help wondering why you would open a thread about this when its in the hands of the police.

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