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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

ask!

so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But many others do and that's why they block. To spare themselves the risk of

it turning nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to everyone. It has happened to us.

It is just their way of saying you aren't for them. Take it as it is and move on.

-Courtney

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some people find it easier to block than write a few words to say 'no thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But many others do and that's why they block. To spare themselves the risk of

it turning nasty"

Exactly

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......"

A lot do sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens a lot as abuse is rife here. I hope you have better luck soon xx

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

ask!

oh no i am i am not the kind of person to dwell on a block lol i am also not the kinda bloke to get abusive thats just playground stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys do turn nasty so after a few horrible messages, we just block. Why risk it? You got the message so what's the problem?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

People do though. Get abuse I mean.

Sometimes it's uncomfortable to have enjoyed chatting with someone but if a physical attraction is important and it's not there then maybe it's simpler just to stop contact.

Don't let it knock your confidence. We're not all attracted to everyone. Such is life. Move on and find someone who is attracted to you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......"

But consider this: they didn't fancy you and blocked you. Had they replied 'we don't fancy you', it would have made you message them 'why not?' Messages and would have been a waste of time. As it is, you started a thread about it!!! You can be sure they are reading this and thinking 'phew! narrow escape'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to it and dont give it a second thought after it happens. Plenty others out there

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Nasty as it sounds i think its a case of block and avoid the potential hassle that comes with a 'no'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people are too picky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is only a light switch away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are too picky lol"

Too picky? Are you joking or are you serious?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nasty people.. Really? I thought fab was exclusive not elusive.

Block buttons are great for guys who fear rejection and after I said no thank you.. Go off into one. Rejection is not nice but its part of being here. You guys do the same. Ask me loads of time for face pic. One or two may carry on chatting. I do not hold it against them. We are not all suited xx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"oh no i am i am not the kind of person to dwell on a block lol i am also not the kinda bloke to get abusive thats just playground stuff "

but some do..

and given that your peeved enough to start a thread about it maybe that in itself will have the 'blocker' thinking 'yeah we did right'..

respect that others wont think that..

its one of those things on here and on the web, give it not a thought and move on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of interest, how many face pics do you send ?

I often found that if someone sent me a few, there would always be one I didn't like and that'd be enough for me to say 'no thanks'

Shallow maybe, but I can't have been on my own in doing this ?

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By *apperpapiMan
over a year ago

Chester


"so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......"

Some people try to avoid the abuse and being bullied, and effectively becoming rude as well without them even knowing it. Oh well like I said in one of the threads before, kids these days are forgetting the very basics things taught at home and in school, like manners of responding.

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

ask!

oh don't sorry its water off a ducks back now i am chatting away and having fun lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"oh no i am i am not the kind of person to dwell on a block lol i am also not the kinda bloke to get abusive thats just playground stuff

but some do..

and given that your peeved enough to start a thread about it maybe that in itself will have the 'blocker' thinking 'yeah we did right'..

respect that others wont think that..

its one of those things on here and on the web, give it not a thought and move on.."
that's what I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......"

Some people are incredibly childish and block instead of being adult and saying "no thank you". See it as a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are too picky lol

Too picky? Are you joking or are you serious?

-Courtney"

He did put a "lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are too picky lol

Too picky? Are you joking or are you serious?

-Courtney

He did put a "lol" "

True, that's why I was checking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are too picky lol"

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Join the club! Happens a lot. Also why do ladies request a face pic and have no intention of posting one? Bit rich

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Everyone can see my ugly mug, so I don't have that problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are too picky lol

Too picky? Are you joking or are you serious?

-Courtney"

I do believe hes serious

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

over the years you get to see some of the people who say 'it's not rude and just to move on' throw a hissy fit when someone rejects them

it's funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are too picky lol"

bollocks,,oh any holes a goal crap,,please,its up to the individual,that isn't being picky

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think a lot of people are too picky lol

bollocks,,oh any holes a goal crap,,please,its up to the individual,that isn't being picky"

Picky is good. I'm a big fan of that!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......"

It happens...dont worry, it is not personal. Move on and keep enjoying yourself x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"over the years you get to see some of the people who say 'it's not rude and just to move on' throw a hissy fit when someone rejects them

it's funny"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it seem people only want me for my googly eyes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are too picky lol

bollocks,,oh any holes a goal crap,,please,its up to the individual,that isn't being picky

Picky is good. I'm a big fan of that! "

I think its normal to be picky

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sometimes it seem people only want me for my googly eyes x"

I know just how you feel!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Oh well like I said in one of the threads before, kids these days are forgetting the very basics things taught at home and in school, like manners of responding."

There shouldn't be any kids on here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think its normal to be picky"

And so it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its normal to be picky

And so it should be "

yea,,i suppose some folk are desperate though,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its normal to be picky

And so it should be

yea,,i suppose some folk are desperate though,, "

Yes some are, on here and at ten to two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we say something like sorry not for us - usually this is enough - occasionally we get tell us what exactly or say we look better in the flesh and push to keep chatting - then we block -

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By *apperpapiMan
over a year ago

Chester


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There shouldn't be any kids on here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so your chatting away to someone just being polite going back and forth .. then the do you have a face pic question comes up....exchange face pics and bam i am blocked. not a sorry your not really someone i find attractive just blocked. Not like i am going to send abuse if someone doesnt fancy me i am not mad......

Some people try to avoid the abuse and being bullied, and effectively becoming rude as well without them even knowing it. Oh well like I said in one of the threads before, kids these days are forgetting the very basics things taught at home and in school, like manners of responding."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not every1 is everyones cup of tea in here tho just to block is a bit harsh in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people need to

get in the swing of the things ....have fun ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys do turn nasty so after a few horrible messages, we just block. Why risk it? You got the message so what's the problem?"

Most guys? Is it really that bad on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys do turn nasty so after a few horrible messages, we just block. Why risk it? You got the message so what's the problem?

Most guys? Is it really that bad on here? "

Yes most. Run my inbox for a day and you'd be ashamed of your gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys do turn nasty so after a few horrible messages, we just block. Why risk it? You got the message so what's the problem?

Most guys? Is it really that bad on here? "

No. Most guys are really polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are too picky lol"

I like to pick me nose from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not every1 is everyones cup of tea in here tho just to block is a bit harsh in my opinion"

I've done this though, when i first joined.

I didn't know how to tell someone i'd enjoyed talking to for weeks that i didn't fancy him. He even knew i wouldn't fancy him coz he said with the message 'and here's where you stop talking to me'.So must have had women do this to him before.

It's the reason why i won't reply to messages without pics now, spares that awkwardness later.

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