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By *izzyRascal OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Hants

Accidentally posted this in Swingers Chat but meant to post it in The Lounge as there seems to be more people talking

I would love to know why so many guys are obsessed with the idea of a girl squirting. I regularly get asked if I do. Is it porn creating this idea that a girl hasnt enjoyed herself if she hasnt squirted? There have been a couple of times its happened when I'm really worked up but it takes a long amount of playing to get there (not sure how things are for other ladies?). Doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed myself at other times though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really think it's something that's come from porn. When I started having sex it was never a 'thing'. Like all trends it will die off again at some point, hopefully not to the extent that women who do squirt feel bad about it, but if men could stop seeing it as a badge of achievement that would be quite good.

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By *izzyRascal OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Hants

Its definitely creating unrealistic expectations. There is nothing wrong whether it does or doesn't happen. I think as well guys just expect it to happen from penetration which is often not the case.

Was just reading a little about it and found these helpful tips for those who may be interested ...

– This orgasm is commonly resulted not from sexual intercourse but from some variety of stimulation around vaginal area. Therefore, this area is the one that should be explored more.

– The orgasm cannot really be reached quickly. It needs process to make a perfect quality in the end. Since it is so, slow stimulation in the suggested area can be done patiently.

– Combining different speed of the variety of stimulation is one thing known to be perfect in making women squirt.

This all sounds about right for the times its happened to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a real turn on but I have played with ladies who do and those that don't. Once you start though you don't stop. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it massages there ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent 23 years without squirting. Then all off a sudden a few months ago it happened and now I can't stop it. It's ridiculous. Once I start I don't stop. It gets embarrassing for me but it seems to be good for the man.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I definitely think that porn has created levels of expectation that are way too high for some guys. They aren't always living in the real world and understand that people are unique.

Personally, I like to learn what makes a woman have an intense orgasm, and enjoy that journey of discovery with her, not see it a standing objective for me alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think porn has a lot to do with it.. That notion if your not doing it, you can't be having great six, which is obviously false ..

MrsM had never squirted until recently. Did it once or maybe twice but not a great fan..

It is urine.. She sensed a real risk of developing incontinence if it was repeated, hitch echoes some of the comments here about not being able to stop once you get in the habit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know I could squirt till my first meet on here, he said he loved it. My cam chat last night ended with my friend and me playing on cam and he had the desired effect on me

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By *ereticHeartBeatMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Wait....... Are you saying porn lies ????

I need to rethink my life

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Not enough threads about guys squirting, imo

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By *izzyRascal OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Hants


"Wait....... Are you saying porn lies ????

I need to rethink my life "

Haha I know right?! How else can sex work?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did for the 1st time on Thursday, I couldn't do a thing about it, I don't know who was shocked the most, I've been close before but this just "surprised" me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's because you're called scubagirl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its an apparent physical manifestation of an 'orgasm' or highly excited sexual state. Its an affirmation to the ego that he must be 'doing it right'.

I think that's why so many get obsessed with it.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Well I waited til I was 39 yrs old and a meet in a club with a 27 yr old bloke to make me squirt! All I can say is there's a definite technique to making me squirt. To be honest I'd prefer a hard orgasm anyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same for me and,I too find it embarrassing'. The extra washing is a pain too

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By *ustus4uMan
over a year ago

closer then you think

I would rather a lady tell me she enjoyed herself than see one squirt it's not my thing and get nothing out of it either

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Porn has a lot to answer for (although not as many porn stars squirt as you may think - a lot of them either just pee or squirt water up there for "squirting" scenes!).

It gets tiring being asked if you squirt. I never have and do not wish to! To many guys make it their goal rather than focusing on a good old fashioned orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Accidentally posted this in Swingers Chat but meant to post it in The Lounge as there seems to be more people talking

I would love to know why so many guys are obsessed with the idea of a girl squirting. I regularly get asked if I do. Is it porn creating this idea that a girl hasnt enjoyed herself if she hasnt squirted? There have been a couple of times its happened when I'm really worked up but it takes a long amount of playing to get there (not sure how things are for other ladies?). Doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed myself at other times though lol"
it's not a specific requirement of mine although I've met a few recently who really enjoy enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed a decline in the amount of men asking if I squirt or gush. I'm hoping the novelty is fizzling out but I'm worried about the next craze to surface.

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By *orthen soul manMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it no different to women who enjoy seeing guys come? Some people just seem to like that visual experience.

Personally I never expect a woman to squirt but do enjoy it when on the odd occasion it has happened.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

As I get to know a partner, the squirting dies out as the orgasms become more and more intense.

Why waste time and wash away natural lubricant when there are body rocking peaks to pursue and these don't leave the bed soaking....well not as much anyway.

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Not the be all and end all by any means but have to admit I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because its an apparent physical manifestation of an 'orgasm' or highly excited sexual state. Its an affirmation to the ego that he must be 'doing it right'.

I think that's why so many get obsessed with it. "

Agree. For me it is a totally different feeling to an orgasm. It usually occurs after an orgasm whilst still stimulating the G spot. Happened half a dozen times maybe over last three years or so.

Tbh just means more washing to me!

Although I did once hit the wardrobe doors, which I didn't nototice till next day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Porn has a lot to answer for (although not as many porn stars squirt as you may think - a lot of them either just pee or squirt water up there for "squirting" scenes!).

It gets tiring being asked if you squirt. I never have and do not wish to! To many guys make it their goal rather than focusing on a good old fashioned orgasm."

Never had a orgasm

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By *izzyRascal OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Hants


"Think it's because you're called scubagirl! "

Haha that's actually a very valid point but hadn't even thought of that when I chose my name. Can still get very wet without squirting

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Belle was very fortunate to have me help her with this right from the start. A lot of younger women think there is something wrong with them. But she's out There and proud. Her Mistress and I let her come and she squirted so hard it hit the wall in front of her, the ceiling and the wall behind her then she cried. I personally had never seen anything like it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

does fuck all for me

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By *isexmale2013Man
over a year ago

Farnham

personal exp..

it is real..but not for all ladies

some can other no.. probably just connected with the right spot to be stimulated

i had nice squirts on face

missing it ... I'm in Surrey Farnham ( just in case .. ) ( PM me )

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By *isexmale2013Man
over a year ago

Farnham

Scuba x diving?!?

never in Sardinia?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does fuck all for me"

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it's because you're called scubagirl!

Haha that's actually a very valid point but hadn't even thought of that when I chose my name. Can still get very wet without squirting "

Cold shower time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very surprised at the amount of women on here who find it embarrassing considering how much most men love the sight of a lady squirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much seeing it is fun but being inside then pushed out because of the hot pressure wow and the legs that flop and kick stuff the porn thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was mortified the 1st time I gushed coz the guy I was with laughed at me for not knowing what it was and still i find I shout fookin move when it's gonna happen coz it freaks me a little. I know it's an orgasm but given a choice I will take my all body tingle shakes jelly legs and giggles orgasm over a soppy wet bed 1 any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we need more girls squatting not squirting

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

im not obsessed with it but i do love it ..got squirted on last nite at Donkey Dicks..thanks Crystal

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"Well I waited til I was 39 yrs old and a meet in a club with a 27 yr old bloke to make me squirt! All I can say is there's a definite technique to making me squirt. To be honest I'd prefer a hard orgasm anyday. "

This is so interesting because I don't think most men realise that there is a difference between 'squirting/gushing' and a clitoral or vaginal orgasm…do they??

I absolutely love gushing and would love to meet a guy that could keep me gushing over & over, but this is a very different feeling to an orgasm.

The absolute best for me is when I orgasm and gush at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I waited til I was 39 yrs old and a meet in a club with a 27 yr old bloke to make me squirt! All I can say is there's a definite technique to making me squirt. To be honest I'd prefer a hard orgasm anyday.

This is so interesting because I don't think most men realise that there is a difference between 'squirting/gushing' and a clitoral or vaginal orgasm…do they??

I absolutely love gushing and would love to meet a guy that could keep me gushing over & over, but this is a very different feeling to an orgasm.

The absolute best for me is when I orgasm and gush at the same time "

Think you need to run some training sessions

Just so happens I work near shirley!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lady on here called catzz who had an amazin profile that explained all about gushing squinting and female orgasm it's quite long but a fascinating read it certainly answered all my questions

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Muff loves it when she squirts over Mr (no matter who is doing the stimulating!) Mr loves it, and Mrs loves it when another woman squirts over her

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By *izzyRascal OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Hants


"There is a lady on here called catzz who had an amazin profile that explained all about gushing squinting and female orgasm it's quite long but a fascinating read it certainly answered all my questions"

Thanks! Went to find it and see what you mean about the length. Looking forward to reading it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the appeal is the visual effects... I can do it myself and I like watching it flow out.

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

I don't think it's got anything to do with porn, if you watch regular porn, you hardly ever see squirting (unless you get a squirting dvd that is) I think it's got more to do with the fact not every woman does it, I've only ever come across 1 woman in my time that squirted. On a site where people are trying to live out there fantasies I'm supprissed we don't see post for other fetish's very often

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Well I waited til I was 39 yrs old and a meet in a club with a 27 yr old bloke to make me squirt! All I can say is there's a definite technique to making me squirt. To be honest I'd prefer a hard orgasm anyday.

This is so interesting because I don't think most men realise that there is a difference between 'squirting/gushing' and a clitoral or vaginal orgasm…do they??

I absolutely love gushing and would love to meet a guy that could keep me gushing over & over, but this is a very different feeling to an orgasm.

The absolute best for me is when I orgasm and gush at the same time "

Absolutely hun maybe it only happens to redheads lol I'm joking BTW don't have a go everyone else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first squirted, or as I like to refer to it "awesomed" at the age of 18 with a very experienced lover, it scared the life out of me!

I've come across a couple of guys (pun intended) that just didn't like it and that's ok.

My girlfriend doesn't and since knowing her I actually think that it can be us as women that are fixated by it more so than the men. She would love to but hasn't yet.

Honestly though when I am with her I love to hear and watch her cum, no she is not squirting but it is gorgeous just knowing she is satisfied, that's enough for me.

I know I'm not a guy but I understand from her and myself both sides of the coin I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't the latest research that squirting is actually a lady being that excited she pees?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't the latest research that squirting is actually a lady being that excited she pees?! "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind it happening, what I hate is men who try so hard, because I'm known for it, that it ends up hurting and no longer pleasurable. Not all women can squirt/gush, just like not all men can make a women do it. I'd never actually done it until I joined this site, but prior to it my sex life was pretty damn good that it's not made much of a difference, other than things can get pretty wet.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Isn't the latest research that squirting is actually a lady being that excited she pees?! "

That's old news, not new news, plus its not accurate either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really think it's something that's come from porn. When I started having sex it was never a 'thing'. Like all trends it will die off again at some point, hopefully not to the extent that women who do squirt feel bad about it, but if men could stop seeing it as a badge of achievement that would be quite good."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Accidentally posted this in Swingers Chat but meant to post it in The Lounge as there seems to be more people talking

I would love to know why so many guys are obsessed with the idea of a girl squirting. I regularly get asked if I do. Is it porn creating this idea that a girl hasnt enjoyed herself if she hasnt squirted? There have been a couple of times its happened when I'm really worked up but it takes a long amount of playing to get there (not sure how things are for other ladies?). Doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed myself at other times though lol"

I wish I was you!! I do and easily. I actually am not keen on the feeling however guys think it's amazing and spend the whole evening proving to themSelves I can do it.

I sometimes wish I couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I waited til I was 39 yrs old and a meet in a club with a 27 yr old bloke to make me squirt! All I can say is there's a definite technique to making me squirt. To be honest I'd prefer a hard orgasm anyday.

This is so interesting because I don't think most men realise that there is a difference between 'squirting/gushing' and a clitoral or vaginal orgasm…do they??

I absolutely love gushing and would love to meet a guy that could keep me gushing over & over, but this is a very different feeling to an orgasm.

The absolute best for me is when I orgasm and gush at the same time

Absolutely hun maybe it only happens to redheads lol I'm joking BTW don't have a go everyone else x "

Oh dear I'm a redhead too maybe your theory is correct lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently squirted during a play meet for the first time and as much as it was enjoyable it wasn't an orgasm. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience (few and far between but so very possible and amazingly satisfying to create/produce as a reaction of your partner) All my friends that I have made squirt tell me that the orgasm is probably the most intense they have had. Knowing that your actions and your provocation spurs that on is just so pleasing as a guy. No guy wants to hear that they don't make their partner cum, hearing that you made them experience an ultimate orgasm is just an achievement. That's coming from a guy that tales pleasure in seeing that what he does gives real pleasure. Nobody wants an actress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience (few and far between but so very possible and amazingly satisfying to create/produce as a reaction of your partner) All my friends that I have made squirt tell me that the orgasm is probably the most intense they have had. Knowing that your actions and your provocation spurs that on is just so pleasing as a guy. No guy wants to hear that they don't make their partner cum, hearing that you made them experience an ultimate orgasm is just an achievement. That's coming from a guy that tales pleasure in seeing that what he does gives real pleasure. Nobody wants an actress."

However, every single one of us is different so our buttons need to be pushed differently and have different outcomes from the next person. Guy or girl.

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