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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

In my opinion, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes. I generally have to use less rope and chloroform.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes. Although not always in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, it turbo charges whatever is there in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis

Love, love changes everything

Hands and faces, earth and sky

Love, love changes everything

How you live and how you die

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so you love them and you fuck them and its good no punching yourself in the head, I get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mind you ive had some crazy good sex with folk I did,nt love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mind you ive had some crazy good sex with folk I did,nt love

Oooh yeah.....but in a different way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Sex....Yawn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

that's cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them."

you,ve just shattered EVERYONES dreams on here,,huh,,hope yer pleased with yerself

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By *eanutButterJellyTimeCouple
over a year ago

the middle of the world

When you get really good sex, then fall in love with him, the sex just gets better and better

Lynn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna to find Love.

Joins FAB

Shit site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanna to find Love.

Joins FAB

Shit site

cant wait to meet yer mum n dad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

love transcend ego... illogical truths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.

you,ve just shattered EVERYONES dreams on here,,huh,,hope yer pleased with yerself"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I generally have to use less rope and chloroform."

Maybe we can chuck the chloroform, but we'll be keeping the rope anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them."

Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.

Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.

Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.

Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference"

I agree Scarlet, it does mean more even if it's not that great

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok sex with someone you love, or your ultimate fantasy ? both...might be impossible, thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always but sometimes it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be the negative of most.But I'd prefer to have sex with a girl I like,but don't love.

I hate commitment.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be the negative of most.But I'd prefer to have sex with a girl I like,but don't love.

I hate commitment.

ok,,ok,,ffs,im not that bothered bout meeting yer mum n dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"

hmmm,,what if yer mindless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"

I agree with that totally

But that's not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"

I don't think I've ever shared that much of me with anyone and doubt I ever will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be the negative of most.But I'd prefer to have sex with a girl I like,but don't love.

I hate commitment.

ok,,ok,,ffs,im not that bothered bout meeting yer mum n dad

No offence Mikka,but if I took you home you would probably finish them both off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes no difference at all to sex. But it makes all the difference in the world to making love...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be the negative of most.But I'd prefer to have sex with a girl I like,but don't love.

I hate commitment.

ok,,ok,,ffs,im not that bothered bout meeting yer mum n dad

No offence Mikka,but if I took you home you would probably finish them both off

I didn't mean that nasty

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

"Yes. I generally have to use less rope and chloroform."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not physically for me, it wouldn't make a difference.

I would tell someone i loved them while fucking them but that'd be the only difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it makes a difference to how you feel about sex and the other person, both during and after the act. If you love someone you dont leap up and go home right away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not physically for me, it wouldn't make a difference.

I would tell someone i loved them while fucking them but that'd be the only difference."

Standard Practice to tell them you Love them while fucking is it not ?

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx

hmmm,,what if yer mindless

Well your body and soul compensate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not physically for me, it wouldn't make a difference.

I would tell someone i loved them while fucking them but that'd be the only difference.

Standard Practice to tell them you Love them while fucking is it not ?

That would freak me out!!

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx

I agree with that totally

But that's not for me."

Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx

Totally agree"

Thanks thats how i see it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx

I agree with that totally

But that's not for me.

Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx"

Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis

Love, love changes everything

Hands and faces, earth and sky

Love, love changes everything

How you live and how you die"

Strictly speaking, Mr Ball was merely the conduit through which Mr Andrew Lloyd Webber's words were conveyed.

However, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx

I agree with that totally

But that's not for me.

Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx

Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment."

Neither does Sex though ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sex hard,fast and sometimes a little rough. I think I'd find it hard to fuck someone I loved and cared for like this, just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like sex hard,fast and sometimes a little rough. I think I'd find it hard to fuck someone I loved and cared for like this, just my opinion "

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis

Love, love changes everything

Hands and faces, earth and sky

Love, love changes everything

How you live and how you die"

Planning futures, snapping years,

All our wisdom disappears.

Days are longer words mean more

But pain is deeper than before.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx

I agree with that totally

But that's not for me.

Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx

Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment."

True still prefer that than bang and go xxx Helps get over the emotional drop you get after a great session xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx

I agree with that totally

But that's not for me.

Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx

Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment.

True still prefer that than bang and go xxx Helps get over the emotional drop you get after a great session xxx"

So are you saying you are in Love with everyone you sleep with ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If sex is so much better with someone you love why swing and have sex with strangers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With love comes trust = a complete experience, sex is just that, sex. Combine love and trust it's a heightened pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If sex is so much better with someone you love why swing and have sex with strangers?

To me the above statement says it all

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Love makes everything so much better and so much worse.

Of course love makes sex better.

When love is there everything just seems bright and alive, when it gone it's like someone's turned the lights out.

I would never want to live a life without the possibility of love but, for now, I feel I've had my fill for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If sex is so much better with someone you love why swing and have sex with strangers?

Why use toys? Same principal to add some spice

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.

Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference

I agree Scarlet, it does mean more even if it's not that great

err other option, dont love someone whos crap in bed...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa."

Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not physically for me, it wouldn't make a difference.

I would tell someone i loved them while fucking them but that'd be the only difference.

Standard Practice to tell them you Love them while fucking is it not ?

Not for people i don't love, that's why i said it would be a difference.

And i didn't tell them every time either, most of the time i want an animalistic, dirty fuck. Sometimes romance can stay out the bedroom too.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa.

Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference"

What about crap sex with a fuck bud?

It happens

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa.

Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference

What about crap sex with a fuck bud?

It happens"

err ...try before you buy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa.

Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference

What about crap sex with a fuck bud?

It happens"

Not a good fuck bud? Whole idea of a fuck bud is a fuck bud to push the boundaries surely? Or you'd be better off with you're hand..!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa.

Very true but if it's crap with the one you love you work on it that's the only difference

What about crap sex with a fuck bud?

It happens

Not a good fuck bud? Whole idea of a fuck bud is a fuck bud to push the boundaries surely? Or you'd be better off with you're hand..! "
this

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"that's cold

It isn't cold. Sex with my partner is about mutual pleasure and it is a bonding exercise, but after twenty years, it won't hold the same kinds of thrills as sex with someone new. It is still infinitely better for the soul though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

It's all about lust x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them.

Not automatically no. But the sex that you have with someone you love means a hell of a lot more. I think that is the difference"

Agree with you. The sex I had with my husband left me feeling different to sex I've had with others. The difference is we loved each other: not loved or been loved by anyone else.

I've had great sex...but that "something" hasn't been there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx"

Couldn't have said it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's Love Got To Do With It?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving a person is all about two minds meeting on the same page and great sexy minds make the best sex ,these days when you meet you find out if sex is good first so by the time you're in love you know it is and it just gets better ,great sex doesn't have to be about love though ,best sex I ever had was with a really detestable woman but she was good

hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If sex is so much better with someone you love why swing and have sex with strangers?

Because it's a different experience , not necessarily better , but an altogether more variable one .

Together we make love , on meets we let ourselves go into a different level - Sometimes outright filthy , other times erotic and passionate .

But once over , the sex was just sex and feelings are back with just each other .

We may relive a meet together , but ultimately the meets we have have no bearing on our feelings for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in my opinion - you can have crap sex with someone you love and amazing sex with someone you just met... and vise versa."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does normal sex is great with the right person xxx But when you love them and them you your not just sharing your body but your mind, heart and soul too xxx

I agree with that totally

But that's not for me.

Everyones different but sometimes i do wish for more especially im more of a cuddler after sex than up and run xx

Cuddles are great but they do not mean love or commitment.

Neither does Sex though ?"

No. Neither does sex.There is a difference between love and lust and being 'in love.'

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

had pretty awesome sex, didn't even know their name

let alone love em..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had pretty awesome sex, didn't even know their name

let alone love em.."

Sometimes a girl can be a right slut and play the whore with a stranger which is so difficult to do with your husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Love and sex aren't always compatible.

Just because you love someone does not mean the sex is better with them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had pretty awesome sex, didn't even know their name

let alone love em..

Sometimes a girl can be a right slut and play the whore with a stranger which is so difficult to do with your husband"

Ooh nicely put, I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course. But sometimes you want a ready meal, sometimes a 3 three course candle lit dinner, and other times a free for all over the top banquet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If sex is so much better with someone you love why swing and have sex with strangers?

The op was does love make a difference, not does love make it better. The sex i have with my husband is completely different to the sex I've had with other guys...so much so that i can't compare the 2. It's like trying to compare tea and coffee. I love both but couldn't say one was better. The feelings and emotion is what i get out of sex with my husband. The sex with others can be completely out of this world but for me it still doesn't have the love and that makes a difference....and i agree with someone who said about being more slutty with others. There is something more dirty about sex without love for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If sex is so much better with someone you love why swing and have sex with strangers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis

Love, love changes everything

Hands and faces, earth and sky

Love, love changes everything

How you live and how you die"

This is so nice.

Yes, for me love does make a difference in my sex life. I don't know how to phrase it, but things to so much more enhanced because of my love for and connection with Marc.

Sex with other people can be intense and amazing, but in a different way.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

It sure does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sure does

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flik are you trying to tell me you love Paul ? And that you have satisfying mind blowing sex to hehe nooooo

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By *otty69Couple
over a year ago

bedford

definetly, when your in love its just completely different to lust, much better love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrr yes a big difference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the philosopher Michael Ball declared in his 1990 thesis

Love, love changes everything

Hands and faces, earth and sky

Love, love changes everything

How you live and how you die

Strictly speaking, Mr Ball was merely the conduit through which Mr Andrew Lloyd Webber's words were conveyed.

However, yes."
were the words not the creation of sir Tim Rice, being bought to life by the music of sir Andrew Lloyd Webber...i may be wrong of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had sex with anybody I love so no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very much so xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a yes from me as part of a couple in a loving relationship but no doubt depends on your circumstances. Mr W

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