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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning you lovely lot....

Following on from misscheeky dating chat I have a date with a lovely guy tonight .... he's travelling quite a distance knowing it's a DATE!! I'm so excited as he seems to be looking for the same as me...

BUT.. what should I wear? I want to look nice but down here Friday nights are rather laid back n casual. ...

Ladies... your help would be greatly appreciated

Men... I'd love to know what you like to see a lady dressed in for a dinner date please

I know I can you rely on my fab friends for help xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you have a lovely date .I think a nice dress and heels .

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

What are you going to be doing? Where are you going?

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Oh how lovely!!! Hope you both have a great evening xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would wear the following to such a date:

A cute, flowy dress that comes to just above the knee

Heels

Funky jewelry and a fun scarf (assuming the dress isn't some crazy pattern)

Hair down

But I'm not sure what your style is? Either way, that's my outfit of choice. Have a wonderful time!!!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you going to be doing? Where are you going? "

Are few drinks and a bite to eat xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh how lovely!!! Hope you both have a great evening xxx"

Thank you....im nervous but excited too xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I would say a black dress some tights or stockings (I hate stockings) some heels and a jacket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I picked up on the 'Fridays are laid back'. Would jeans with heels work? With a nice top that could be a good compromise. Hair - nothing too 'done up', but nice makeup to accentuate your looks.

Have a lovely time and don't get too nervous or you won't eat...and don't drink too fast and get shit faced!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

but most of all enjoy the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male here, trust me if he is travelling a distance for a date ,you could wear a bin liner and get away with it, pesonally a dress is perfect, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever makes you feel good.

No point wearing something you don't feel comfortable in, it will spoil the date if you feel self conscious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go jeans, heels and a sparkly top.

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to go on a date

Wear a dress and heels

Xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I want to go on a date

Wear a dress and heels

Xx"

I'm doing another thread it's going to be a Sunday thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great night whatever you wear OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to go on a date

Wear a dress and heels

Xx

I'm doing another thread it's going to be a Sunday thing "

I will keep my eyes peeled

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I want to go on a date

Wear a dress and heels

Xx

I'm doing another thread it's going to be a Sunday thing

I will keep my eyes peeled

"

Don't worry I haven't even had a date from it but it's been lovely seeing people getting excited...I'm a true believer in love and try and get others together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to go on a date

Wear a dress and heels

Xx

I'm doing another thread it's going to be a Sunday thing

I will keep my eyes peeled

Don't worry I haven't even had a date from it but it's been lovely seeing people getting excited...I'm a true believer in love and try and get others together "

Thank you... your doing well at arranging them on the threads xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a nice red number on not to short but with a bit of class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever makes you feel good.

No point wearing something you don't feel comfortable in, it will spoil the date if you feel self conscious."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I picked up on the 'Fridays are laid back'. Would jeans with heels work? With a nice top that could be a good compromise. Hair - nothing too 'done up', but nice makeup to accentuate your looks.

Have a lovely time and don't get too nervous or you won't eat...and don't drink too fast and get shit faced! "

I like that idea....it's raining here so jeans could work well.

I bet my appetite will disappear lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whatever makes you feel good.

No point wearing something you don't feel comfortable in, it will spoil the date if you feel self conscious.

This "

This is true....xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a nice red number on not to short but with a bit of class "

I was thinking black as it's thinning on the figure....Red clashes with my red/burgundy hair xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have a great night whatever you wear OP x "
thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a nice red number on not to short but with a bit of class

I was thinking black as it's thinning on the figure....Red clashes with my red/burgundy hair xx"

Ooo nooo thats even better red hair he wont want desert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning you lovely lot....

Following on from misscheeky dating chat I have a date with a lovely guy tonight .... he's travelling quite a distance knowing it's a DATE!! I'm so excited as he seems to be looking for the same as me...

BUT.. what should I wear? I want to look nice but down here Friday nights are rather laid back n casual. ...

Ladies... your help would be greatly appreciated

Men... I'd love to know what you like to see a lady dressed in for a dinner date please

I know I can you rely on my fab friends for help xx"

Awwwww how lovely

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I hope it goes well for you,have a lovely sexy evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stripper boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friday night is usually a bit dress down,

Depending on the place , I would suggest , leggings , jeans trousers . Nothing too over the top,

You also need to look at the place your going, if it's a McDonald's to say £60 a head it's fine , 60 to 150 , smart dress , 150 to 300 evening dress 300 a head plus ball gown , that's meal prices ..

The best dates I have had , are always. Bowling, pool or darts , you can get some food as well at the same time. And plenty to do without having to speak ( I usually mess it up when I speak like all men do ) I try to avoid dinner the first date , as it's always difficult to get conversation going , and keep it going . Drinking is worse there's only a limit how much fun you can hav in a pub with someone you just met

In Southampton they have a gay bar, that has cabaret on a Friday that's always a good night plenty to do and watch without having to chat

Cinema dates , are good , over knee skirt or dress, that is easy to pull so he can rest his hand on your leg , feeling tights or stockings. That winds me up so much when a girl does that can't concentrate on the film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear what ever you feel comfortable in and have a amazing night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice mini skirt.stockings.nice soft top showing bit cleverage.hair style office look.nice set high heels.cant go wrong.enjoy yer night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or yo could chicken out and get him to send you a pic of him with what he is wearing and choose accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice mini skirt.stockings.nice soft top showing bit cleverage.hair style office look.nice set high heels.cant go wrong.enjoy yer night. "

It's a 'date', not a swinging club meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice mini skirt.stockings.nice soft top showing bit cleverage.hair style office look.nice set high heels.cant go wrong.enjoy yer night.

It's a 'date', not a swinging club meet "

How did it go ,

What did you wear, what did he wear.

Where did you go ,

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

She may still be on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I worse a knee length dress, leather jacket, tights n ankle boots with heel.

He worse trousers n jumper.

We went to a pub on the seafront ...too many screaming kids for me personally lol...

We had a lovely evening and chatted none stop....but I had to admit towards the end of the evening that on reflection of all we had chatted about that I thought he was too busy with work because of the 200 mile distance I don't think we'd be able to progress to the possible relationship stage.

But he was understanding and very much the gentleman and walked me to my car ... xx

Thank you all my lovely fab forum friends for all your help and advice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you aren't seeing him again ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you aren't seeing him again ?"

We agreed to stay as friends xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you aren't seeing him again ?

We agreed to stay as friends xx"

200 miles is along way, I'm glad you had a nice night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you aren't seeing him again ?

We agreed to stay as friends xx"

Sounds like a nice night. And it got you out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you aren't seeing him again ?

We agreed to stay as friends xx

Sounds like a nice night. And it got you out "

Yes it was good to chat with someone who understood my way of thinking lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you aren't seeing him again ?

We agreed to stay as friends xx"

Ok xx

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