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"Being blocked just means you won't see them again. It's not necessary personal, it just means they're not interested and use the site tools proactively. " This, I do the same and sometimes I do feel awful but other times (especially the hows you messages) I don't x | |||
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"If I message someone and they respond negatively, ie no thanks, then I'll block em, just stops me contacting them again in the future further down the line. I use the notes facility to jot down if and when I mail someone seeing as a majority don't reply, I can then see that they aren't interested and after a while, they get blocked too. Bi/gay guys that message get blocked also so it's just to narrow down what's out there, nowt personal." Note facility?! Where is this?! | |||
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"If I message someone and they respond negatively, ie no thanks, then I'll block em, just stops me contacting them again in the future further down the line. I use the notes facility to jot down if and when I mail someone seeing as a majority don't reply, I can then see that they aren't interested and after a while, they get blocked too. Bi/gay guys that message get blocked also so it's just to narrow down what's out there, nowt personal. Note facility?! Where is this?!" Click on their name, then on menu and you'll see private notes. | |||
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"Some people need to chill on here. Just got blocked for paying someone a compliment. Wasn't looking to meet as I didn't fit there lengthy requirements but just wanted to say there pics were hot" They probably block if they aren't interested in meeting, not because you paid them a compliment. It can be difficult to know how to respond to a compliment from someone a long way away, we usually say "thank you" and get a positive response but sometimes we get a "I'm down your way on holiday next week fancy meeting?" which then leads on to a conversation we weren't expecting. | |||
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"If I message someone and they respond negatively, ie no thanks, then I'll block em, just stops me contacting them again in the future further down the line. I use the notes facility to jot down if and when I mail someone seeing as a majority don't reply, I can then see that they aren't interested and after a while, they get blocked too. Bi/gay guys that message get blocked also so it's just to narrow down what's out there, nowt personal. Note facility?! Where is this?! Click on their name, then on menu and you'll see private notes." Thanks missy x | |||
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"If I message someone and they respond negatively, ie no thanks, then I'll block em, just stops me contacting them again in the future further down the line. I use the notes facility to jot down if and when I mail someone seeing as a majority don't reply, I can then see that they aren't interested and after a while, they get blocked too. Bi/gay guys that message get blocked also so it's just to narrow down what's out there, nowt personal. Note facility?! Where is this?! Click on their name, then on menu and you'll see private notes." A very useful feature for muppet spotting  | |||
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"At first, I would've felt bad doing it. Then someone we had been talking to quite actively sent us a message saying they had decided they weren't interested. I replied "no hard feelings", but they blocked us. At first, I was terribly butt hurt, but then I started proactively using "block". Mainly because it can sometimes be hard to keep track of people. We are new to this, have yet to have any meets. I suspect once we have have met "friends" that we plan on visiting multiple times, it will narrow our friends list, as we have no interest in sleeping around. We also use the note feature. We go weeks between talking to people and I make notes about what we've talked about so that I don't have to rely on looking through messages to remember. " Ooooo, how many different partners counts as sleeping around? | |||
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"At first, I would've felt bad doing it. Then someone we had been talking to quite actively sent us a message saying they had decided they weren't interested. I replied "no hard feelings", but they blocked us. At first, I was terribly butt hurt, but then I started proactively using "block". Mainly because it can sometimes be hard to keep track of people. We are new to this, have yet to have any meets. I suspect once we have have met "friends" that we plan on visiting multiple times, it will narrow our friends list, as we have no interest in sleeping around. We also use the note feature. We go weeks between talking to people and I make notes about what we've talked about so that I don't have to rely on looking through messages to remember. Ooooo, how many different partners counts as sleeping around? "We haven't decided yet 
We aren't doing this in our hometown, mainly because we both travel for work. We're thinking we'd like to have 3 couples (or women), ideally. | |||
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"At first, I would've felt bad doing it. Then someone we had been talking to quite actively sent us a message saying they had decided they weren't interested. I replied "no hard feelings", but they blocked us. At first, I was terribly butt hurt, but then I started proactively using "block". Mainly because it can sometimes be hard to keep track of people. We are new to this, have yet to have any meets. I suspect once we have have met "friends" that we plan on visiting multiple times, it will narrow our friends list, as we have no interest in sleeping around. We also use the note feature. We go weeks between talking to people and I make notes about what we've talked about so that I don't have to rely on looking through messages to remember. Ooooo, how many different partners counts as sleeping around?
We haven't decided yet
We aren't doing this in our hometown, mainly because we both travel for work. We're thinking we'd like to have 3 couples (or women), ideally. "Well I wish you jolly good luck  . | |||
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"Not expecting much at all. I just merely saying I got blocked for saying hot pics. Got arsey msg back saying hadn't read profile and blocked. When had read profile and said nothing about not msging. They had hot pics that had been taken well and just wanted to pay a compliment" Some people are just aggressive  | |||
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"All I was doing was saying g they had hot pics. Surely it nice to be appreciated" From her perspective though it's just a guy who clearly doesn't meet their criteria sending them a pointless message probably trying to chance his arm at a meet after "chatting" | |||
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"Not expecting much at all. I just merely saying I got blocked for saying hot pics. Got arsey msg back saying hadn't read profile and blocked. When had read profile and said nothing about not msging. They had hot pics that had been taken well and just wanted to pay a compliment" The mr of the couple could of woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning. Or even worse having a bad hair day. Best thing to do is open a new account and try again tomo  | |||
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"All I was doing was saying g they had hot pics. Surely it nice to be appreciated" im with you on this one | |||
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"All I was doing was saying g they had hot pics. Surely it nice to be appreciated From her perspective though it's just a guy who clearly doesn't meet their criteria sending them a pointless message probably trying to chance his arm at a meet after "chatting"" I'd have to agree with this. I'd always think there was an ulterior motive for just getting a message saying nice pics. I will say thanks but that can lead onto a conversation that I don't want. If I say I'm not interested, they then say they were only saying nice pics and weren't interested either so I'm not sure what response is the best one. I don't block though, unless they turn rude. | |||
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"Not expecting much at all. I just merely saying I got blocked for saying hot pics. Got arsey msg back saying hadn't read profile and blocked. When had read profile and said nothing about not msging. They had hot pics that had been taken well and just wanted to pay a compliment" I completely understand. I'm thinking that they had no idea what your intentions were. They've probably been approached lots of times where the comment wasn't the end. Maybe just a fab of the picture next time. Or preface the message with "not engaging - just had to tell you these pictures are amazing!" | |||
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"All I was doing was saying g they had hot pics. Surely it nice to be appreciated From her perspective though it's just a guy who clearly doesn't meet their criteria sending them a pointless message probably trying to chance his arm at a meet after "chatting"" Ever the voice of reason there are no rules saying we have to reply to all messages with polite small talk and some of us get a lot | |||
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