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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there anything that can actually be done? I'm still fending off multiple bitchy texts, including a last one telling me to run if I see her, which comes across as awfully threatening to me... would the police actually be able to do anything, even if she's had recent run ins with the police?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you block the number ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you ask them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything that can actually be done? I'm still fending off multiple bitchy texts, including a last one telling me to run if I see her, which comes across as awfully threatening to me... would the police actually be able to do anything, even if she's had recent run ins with the police? "

How much to make her stop

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Is there anything that can actually be done? I'm still fending off multiple bitchy texts, including a last one telling me to run if I see her, which comes across as awfully threatening to me... would the police actually be able to do anything, even if she's had recent run ins with the police? "
take your phone to the police and show them the texts , they might warn her of x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't you ask them?"

She feeds off attention, that's how she gets her kicks. If I tell her to stop, which I have in the past, she doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything that can actually be done? I'm still fending off multiple bitchy texts, including a last one telling me to run if I see her, which comes across as awfully threatening to me... would the police actually be able to do anything, even if she's had recent run ins with the police?

How much to make her stop "

All jokes aside if you have messages of threats this is more than enough for you to go to the police with x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't you block the number ?"

I can't on my phone. I can block incoming calls & I don't get notifications from her texts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything that can actually be done? I'm still fending off multiple bitchy texts, including a last one telling me to run if I see her, which comes across as awfully threatening to me... would the police actually be able to do anything, even if she's had recent run ins with the police? "
why are you getting these messages ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you ask them?

She feeds off attention, that's how she gets her kicks. If I tell her to stop, which I have in the past, she doesn't."

By them- I meant the police, not the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do seem to attract hassle in your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ring your local station for advice. Or block her if you don't feel you can approach them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You do seem to attract hassle in your life"

And it's all from the same person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you phone your provider I think they may be able to block her number for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there anything that can actually be done? I'm still fending off multiple bitchy texts, including a last one telling me to run if I see her, which comes across as awfully threatening to me... would the police actually be able to do anything, even if she's had recent run ins with the police? why are you getting these messages ? "

She's my "special friend's" ex and she's always given me grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you ignore the messages ?

I'm sure if you don't go to the police or block her number she will get bored of you ignore her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you ignore the messages ?

I'm sure if you don't go to the police or block her number she will get bored of you ignore her "

Yeah, I always ignore them, I don't want to show her the attention she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a civil injunction against her.

But go to the police first so you can get advice from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a civil injunction against her.

But go to the police first so you can get advice from them."

Sorted !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything that can actually be done? I'm still fending off multiple bitchy texts, including a last one telling me to run if I see her, which comes across as awfully threatening to me... would the police actually be able to do anything, even if she's had recent run ins with the police? "

Police they'll do a pin notice "stop contacting this person" basically then if they break that they'll look at prosecuting.

But just block the number on your phone set it to spam messages too that way they all go to a hide folder for evidence but your phone doesn't tell you they're there unless you go looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you not get loads of advice when you did the last thread about the same person? what did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you"

This is what my cousin told me to do after a guy on here sent me over 300 messages in 2 days because I cancelled a meet. Luckily the text I sent worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you"

Depends on whether she is entitled with help with the fee or not as to whether she has to pay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you"

I've just done exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Video your special friend Cumming over your face and send it to her and tell her that everytime she texts you you'll send her another one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you

I've just done exactly that "

And she's just text me again. Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you

I've just done exactly that

And she's just text me again. Brilliant!"

Just do what any grown up human would do and block the bloody texts.

It takes literally 30 seconds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you

I've just done exactly that

And she's just text me again. Brilliant!

Just do what any grown up human would do and block the bloody texts.

It takes literally 30 seconds"

Which I can't do on my phone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you

I've just done exactly that

And she's just text me again. Brilliant!

Just do what any grown up human would do and block the bloody texts.

It takes literally 30 seconds

Which I can't do on my phone..."

What phone is it?

Even of its so old that it doesn't have the functionality as part of ios or Android, there are apps that will do it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your phone or number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should message her and say

Please do not contact me at all. Any further messages telephone calls or attempt to contact will be _iewed as harassment and reported to the police.

Then ignore completely. Block what you can and if continues report to police. But they will just tell you do the above.

To get a civil injunction will cost you

I've just done exactly that

And she's just text me again. Brilliant!

Just do what any grown up human would do and block the bloody texts.

It takes literally 30 seconds

Which I can't do on my phone...

What phone is it?

Even of its so old that it doesn't have the functionality as part of ios or Android, there are apps that will do it too."

Or ring your service provider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore. Do not engage with her at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont reply to anymore messages or send. Take to police, they will do PIN - warn her to stop. If she persists she will be arrested and the issue investigated further. It will be crimed, give your phone company the crime number and they will block her number or change your number for you. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore. Do not engage with her at all.

"

Its this simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dump the guy and she will leave you alone. Simple.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

tell her to 'fuck off', you are shagging the cock off her ex and he said she was the worst shag he has ever had.

and she had a fishy fanny......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a friend had a similar problem. had they reported it as a "normal" person. nothing would have happened. so they reported it as a "gay" person. and it was treated as a hate crime.

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