FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons for swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok we all have our reasons for being on fab and choosing the lifestyle we are in. Mine are ...... Long story short!!! Controlling marriage. Divorced. Don't want a relationship. Found I've a very very naughty erotic bdsm mindfuck side to me . Who prefers sex of the mind as well as the body . And by the way is this because i was in a controlling relationship and sub conciously like that !!!!!! I'm on a journey blah blah . But I do get comments from people saying I'm weird etc . I'm not btw !!!!!! Interested in your views and reasons for it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's fun."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex, simple as, I'm single and finding guys on here is easier than in real life

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok we all have our reasons for being on fab and choosing the lifestyle we are in. Mine are ...... Long story short!!! Controlling marriage. Divorced. Don't want a relationship. Found I've a very very naughty erotic bdsm mindfuck side to me . Who prefers sex of the mind as well as the body . And by the way is this because i was in a controlling relationship and sub conciously like that !!!!!! I'm on a journey blah blah . But I do get comments from people saying I'm weird etc . I'm not btw !!!!!! Interested in your views and reasons for it xxx"

I think it also says that you are comfortable with yourself, your partner, and those around you.

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By *loriajonCouple
over a year ago

near u

Have a great sex life already just wanted to spice it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always been interested in the scene but decided to dip my toe in and out and just sit back and look for a number of years then marriage went tits up so thought 'right I'm going for it' and I've had a very enjoyable couple of months!

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

An extra pair of hands, an extra mouth, an extra cock. I'm greedy and it's good to share!

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

I originally got into it as my gf at the time was desperate to experiment with her bi side but didn't want to go to a club on her own. For the first few visits I just watched but gradually I became more involved.

After about a year she had satisfied her curiosity but I then began my own swinging journey and have been doing so for the last ten years

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By *uper GranWoman
over a year ago

Lichfield

Best sort of indoor exercise for a mature lady

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By *assageGiverMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Great thread.

Initially curiousity, then loved it so much it became excitement, testing boundaries, exploration, and still remains exciting regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because im a horny bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

more great fun and sex to share together -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to know what sex with different people was like and in different dynamics, like mmf and mff and swinging offered me the chance to do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is really a couples thread but if I wernt here I'd be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explore together. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extra spice, something to share between us, the thrill of arranging a meet, we don't struggle sexually on our own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I like to fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"sex, simple as, I'm single and finding guys on here is easier than in real life"

Love that !!!! Well said x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I used to like sex!

I'm a commitment phobe though which is why I hang around here. I'm contrary though cause I don't really like casual sex any more.

Double standards and very hard to please it seems. That and I've zero mojo at the moment. Hahaha... lost cause?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to like sex!

I'm a commitment phobe though which is why I hang around here. I'm contrary though cause I don't really like casual sex any more.

Double standards and very hard to please it seems. That and I've zero mojo at the moment. Hahaha... lost cause?!

Think we all go through that at one stage in our life. Hope you get that mojo back soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares if your weird were all weird in our own ways.

Queen weirdo and proud here...I just love and don't get it at home...

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By *otty69Couple
over a year ago

bedford

Just fancied the whole watching others bieng watched and getting dressed up in sexy clothes and going to clubs and parties..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares if your weird were all weird in our own ways.

Queen weirdo and proud here...I just love and don't get it at home..."
hey beautiful you speak for yourself nothing weird about me

hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to explore even further. The North Pole seemed too far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares if your weird were all weird in our own ways.

Queen weirdo and proud here...I just love and don't get it at home...hey beautiful you speak for yourself nothing weird about me

hugs

If you say so captain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's the only place I can explore many different aspects of sex without anyone batting an eyelid

Plus it's a proper mad laugh as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it's the only place I can explore many different aspects of sex without anyone batting an eyelid

Plus it's a proper mad laugh as well

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you do have a body for sin felicity

hugs

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I dared myself and then I found I really liked it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it's the only place I can explore many different aspects of sex without anyone batting an eyelid

Plus it's a proper mad laugh as well

you do have a body for sin felicity

hugs

Except when I've popped my hips out doing the splits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I can.

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Because it's the only place I can explore many different aspects of sex without anyone batting an eyelid

Plus it's a proper mad laugh as well

you do have a body for sin felicity

hugs

Except when I've popped my hips out doing the splits

That doesn't sound good but I'm sure you had plenty of fun along the way!

This website is a great place to find like minded people to enjoy some quality time which can include almost anything! Some naughty fun, matching of minds and bodies plus a bit of a chat with a few laughs thrown in along the way!!

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Having read your profile about your 'blind date', which I must admit sounds ever so arousing - that's why we come to 'play'!! Nothing weird in what you're looking for, at all! x

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Because it is difficult to have a MMMF with just the hubby

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I don't like the slides

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By *inger SiMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I have a high sex drive and like to make like minded genuine friends to enjoy sex and socialising. Then to go home with no one to answer to and star fish in my own bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is exploration of mind and body. I love sharing mine with others. NSA suits me.. Love it then they go home both satisfied. Great place to make friends and explore bodies.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

C introduced me to it, when he mentioned it I was intrigued. It's allowed me to explore my bi side and I've found that I really love group sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do coz we had finished that jigsaw puzzle and had nothing else to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it by accident!

So glad I did! I'm happier now than I've ever been!

Swinging's given me a great social life, some brilliant friends, and the best sex of my life by far!

The only negative is that society frowns on us so I have to be secretive with friends and family at times - and I hate that!!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Because it's the only place I can explore many different aspects of sex without anyone batting an eyelid

Plus it's a proper mad laugh as well

you do have a body for sin felicity

hugs

Except when I've popped my hips out doing the splits

That doesn't sound good but I'm sure you had plenty of fun along the way!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A friend at the time put me on here, she thought it would do me good.

She was right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend died at 40,the same age as me,made me think life is to short,i have always wanted an mff talked to the mrs she was more than receptive and here we are loving it !!!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm in a sexless but otherwise really happy marriage. I can fuck people that don't want anything more from me. Plus it's a immense fun. I've met some awesome people, had mmf and mff, been to clubs and had people watch me fuck. So it'll give me something to tell the grandkids about or will be the under the fab/sex years in my autobiography x

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By *allyandJonCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Orgasms

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I always had a slutty side, it was repressed for a long time, just took my friend to take me to a club to realise it is quite easy to indulge it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cock, simple!

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Fuck buddy dumped me 18 months ago, female friend said "Get on fabswingers. you dont have to play with couples and you dont have to go to clubs" So I joined on Monday, went to my first club on Tuesday and had my first group sex. went to my second club Thursday, the second club again on the Saturday. Ive not looked back since. Pushing boundaries and making fantasies reality.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"A friend at the time put me on here, she thought it would do me good.

She was right

Same here and I'm living it and my mother knows and approves lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside the fact that finding sexual partner is way easier on here due to the fact that we are all here for the same thing, even if each differ from one another.

I am on here to explore and understand my sexuality through the biggest organ, as you said, the mind.

Which I pretty nailed it so far, but the journey is not over

Long life to bouncing boobs if I may add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the most vain and unrealistic person when it comes to dating.

So swinging gives me the opportunity to have great sex without dating or any emotional connections.

I can have my cake and eat it too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm the most vain and unrealistic person when it comes to dating.

So swinging gives me the opportunity to have great sex without dating or any emotional connections.

I can have my cake and eat it too...

I'm all for having my cake and eating it!!!!! This is why it works for us id say !!!! Swinging is the best sport ever Infact it should be an Olympic sport xx

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By *inger SiMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Emotional attachments have brought such heartache in the past, so on top of my last post, I guess this explains it more, but in the lyrics of Tom O'Dell - Another Love.

I wanna take you somewhere so you know I care

But it's so cold and I don't know where

I brought you daffodils in a pretty string

But they won't flower like they did last spring

And I wanna kiss you, make you feel alright

I'm just so tired to share my nights

I wanna cry and I wanna love

But all my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

And if somebody hurts you, I wanna fight

But my hands been broken, once too many times

So I'll use my voice, I'll be so fucking rude

Words they always win, but I know I'll lose

And I'd sing a song, that'd be just ours

But I sang 'em all to another heart

And I wanna cry I wanna learn to love

But all my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

I wanna sing a song, that'd be just ours

But I sang 'em all to another heart

And I wanna cry, I wanna fall in love

But all my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

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By *uncpl83Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

To escape from the vanilla lifestyle, have fun, fulfill fantasies and push a few boundaries. To be able to do that with my husband is amazing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Emotional attachments have brought such heartache in the past, so on top of my last post, I guess this explains it more, but in the lyrics of Tom O'Dell - Another Love.

I wanna take you somewhere so you know I care

But it's so cold and I don't know where

I brought you daffodils in a pretty string

But they won't flower like they did last spring

And I wanna kiss you, make you feel alright

I'm just so tired to share my nights

I wanna cry and I wanna love

But all my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

And if somebody hurts you, I wanna fight

But my hands been broken, once too many times

So I'll use my voice, I'll be so fucking rude

Words they always win, but I know I'll lose

And I'd sing a song, that'd be just ours

But I sang 'em all to another heart

And I wanna cry I wanna learn to love

But all my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

I wanna sing a song, that'd be just ours

But I sang 'em all to another heart

And I wanna cry, I wanna fall in love

But all my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

On another love, another love

All my tears have been used up

Wow just wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I started swinging when I was 18. I guy I was dating (older than me) took me to a house party. Half naked people walking around. My eyes were well and truly opened. He never said a word about swinging and it could have turned out very different for me. At the time I was uncomfortable and hated it. Met a guy at the party and he told me to get rid of the looser I'm with Lol. I was very Naive. So this guy gives me his number and a few weeks later I spilt up with the guy I was dating.

About 2/3 mths later I found the guys number at the bottom of my bag and decided to call him. Wasn't expecting anything but he remembered me. We spent 3 years together and he was a Bdsm Dom. Wow what an experience I had. After those 3 years I decided that I needed time out and the seed of the swinging scene had been firmly logged into my head I decided to try it again on my own....19 years later I'm still loving it

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

"Well I started swinging when I was 18. I guy I was dating (older than me) took me to a house party. Half naked people walking around. My eyes were well and truly opened. He never said a word about swinging and it could have turned out very different for me. At the time I was uncomfortable and hated it. Met a guy at the party and he told me to get rid of the looser I'm with Lol. I was very Naive. So this guy gives me his number and a few weeks later I spilt up with the guy I was dating.

How romantic...

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

Couples are swingers. Singles cannot be swingers...what do they swing?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Those that can, do.

Why do I need to explain myself to you?

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By * e coupleCouple
over a year ago

northeast

Hubby not up to it in the bedroom so ,this good option for me

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Initially started to explore our fantasies.

We still want to do this but mostly swing simply because it's fun and you can enjoy things that just two people can't

Nita X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Those that can, do.

Why do I need to explain myself to you?

You don't need to explain yourself to me at all. Just interesting topic and yet you still left a comment !!

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

My reasons initially was to meet a girl for a three some as I have always been into girls but was to shy to be open about it.

Now I've done that a couple of times (not with people on fab) I'm looking to see what else I can do to add a little spice to our relationship.

Mostly like the forms as it helps me decide what it is and not for us to try plus hood way of meeting like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An escape from reality for a while ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like fucking hot chicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To escape the norm x

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