FabSwingers.com forum: Sorry guys leaving site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This thread will be on here tonight till I get home at 10.30 when we shall delete account together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I don't respond to "I'm leaving" posts, but it's great to see someone being so honest about it & also actually talking to their wife instead of staying despite her unwillingness. Please do take care, both of you. I'm sure you'll continue to have a happy & content married life without fab.

All the very best to you both

Mr Jigsaw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally I don't respond to "I'm leaving" posts, but it's great to see someone being so honest about it & also actually talking to their wife instead of staying despite her unwillingness. Please do take care, both of you. I'm sure you'll continue to have a happy & content married life without fab.

All the very best to you both

Mr Jigsaw"

Oh hello stranger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awe but probably for the best if missus isn't ready, I think your fun threads will be missed x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

i just wanted to say, that this site is quite an extreme way to enter the scene and maybe just being a couple and going out to a club or a social to just play together, might be a gentler way into the whole scene.. however i want to wish you both good luck and very many more years of happiness together.. and from a woman..thankyou for listening to her and taking her wellbeing so very seriously...big big hugs

s xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

All the best,alway's stay true to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great that you talked this through before embarking on an adventure that you both weren't ready for.

Maybe have a filtered up blank profile and stay for forum banter

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

Communication is good.

Good luck to you both!

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Good luck, OP. You're right to respect your wife's wishes, and she is very attractive, so I'm sure you'll both be very happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

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drama central.................

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Lifestyle not for everyone X

But nice to see you can talk openly about things xx enjoy xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the very best to you both

Mr Jigsaw"

This

I wish you the best.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wishing you all the best buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame it's not worked out for you guys but it's good how you've talked it through together.

Rather than delete your account why not just hide it and just use forums, your threads are very entertaining and there's no set rules that you have to meet or play you could still be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you can say you've both tried. And you never know until you do try. It's far better to admit its not for her, than her going through the motions on your behalf and cause resentment between you.

And you never know, time away could be a positive when you look back. Good luck to the both of you and full marks for saying why you are leaving!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, you don't need to leave the site tho, just cos you do not meet, you can update your profile and say not meeting or even hide it and just use the forum instead.Whatever you do, have a good time Extraspice123. Nice having you

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

drama central................."

A little drama is way better than a lot of misery though don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

drama central.................

A little drama is way better than a lot of misery though don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

drama central.................

A little drama is way better than a lot of misery though don't you think?

"
one a day....every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was good chatting with you both and if she has any questions before you do delete you know where I am and she can gimme a call so we can chat on fone if she likes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

Nice knowing you both guys - however briefly!

Just a thought - but a lot of people use fab purely for nattering on the forums and for the socials!

There's no law saying you have to have sex with others to be on fab - even though some might like there to be!

Best of luck to both of you whatever you do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

Good for you being so honest, I wish you all the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shame it's not worked out for you guys but it's good how you've talked it through together.

Rather than delete your account why not just hide it and just use forums, your threads are very entertaining and there's no set rules that you have to meet or play you could still be on here. "

I agree, it's never anything naughty (well a vanilla person might be shocked) what you post, I think you both should stay on the forum, loads do, I'm not planning anymore meets for a while to see how a relationship may evolve, I don't feel the need to meet (well those I've already agreed to I am) but want to stay active on the forum x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

drama central.................

A little drama is way better than a lot of misery though don't you think?

one a day....every day

Leavers? Drama? Misery?

What you talkin' 'bout Willis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He ain't going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah good luck to you both! I shall miss your entertaining posts though

as others have said maybe put all your filters on and just stay on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best. It would be nice to see you stay for the forums but you've got to do what you've got to do. Take care.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's great that you talked this through before embarking on an adventure that you both weren't ready for.

Maybe have a filtered up blank profile and stay for forum banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to,support your wife in this. A good honest reason for leaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide it in case she decides she's ready. Hope to see you both back someday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to both of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

all the best take care

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Have fun

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

All the best

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"All the best

Didn't you say this yesterday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

All the best to both of you, and well played for being a good guy!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Good luck with whatever you choose. Do what you think is right.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Will miss your threads

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Will miss your threads

I'll miss having a pint at the Horny Lion

(again)

As others have said, it's good to be open and honest, but why not stick around for the forums

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"This thread will be on here tonight till I get home at 10.30 when we shall delete account together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still here.....

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Now 10.45 and still here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ohhhhh!

Stay cool.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Was just starting to get to know you. It's good that you have discussed things with your wife and are not progressing as she is not keen. Will miss your random posts.

Have a think about rewriting your profile and just chat to people individually as friends and on the forums. Would be a shame for you to vanish. But do whatever is right for you both. All the best xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now 10.45 and still here lol"

Probably on a meet and forgot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still here.....

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

"Hi after talking at lengths with my wife she is just not ready and can't go through with this,it's being a nice few weeks but it's unfair on her for me to stay on here and also unfaithful.

Thanks for making us Welcome and having a laugh with me

All the best and happy fabbing peeps xx

drama central................."

Wouldn't the drama come from not having an honest discussion with each other?

They seem to have looked at the site and decided that it's not the right fit for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh profile is hidden!! Hopefully they will pop up soon in the forum xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello all you fab peeps,I'm here now with my wife.

We really want to thank you for all your kind comments,it put a lump in my throat,come on yes say ahhhhhhhhhh I know someone will take the piss now lmao

Any after carefull consideration we are going to stay just for the profiles.

Our profile will not be visible

Soooooooooooo I'm afraid the horny lion opens it's doors sat at 8pm

Thanks guys,your all gems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YAY!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ment to say just for the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all you fab peeps,I'm here now with my wife.

We really want to thank you for all your kind comments,it put a lump in my throat,come on yes say ahhhhhhhhhh I know someone will take the piss now lmao

Any after carefull consideration we are going to stay just for the profiles.

Our profile will not be visible

Soooooooooooo I'm afraid the horny lion opens it's doors sat at 8pm

Thanks guys,your all gems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ment to say just for the forums

Ah you took my advice

good for you

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Ment to say just for the forums

Ah you took my advice

good for you

This!

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yay!

Starts a Mexican Wave!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ment to say just for the forums

We know you meant "profiles". It's all about the perving.

Have fun and do what feels right for both of you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Awww thanks guys xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ment to say just for the forums

We know you meant "profiles". It's all about the perving.

Have fun and do what feels right for both of you.

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that was a waste of good thread reading time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all you fab peeps,I'm here now with my wife.

We really want to thank you for all your kind comments,it put a lump in my throat,come on yes say ahhhhhhhhhh I know someone will take the piss now lmao

Any after carefull consideration we are going to stay just for the profiles.

Our profile will not be visible

Soooooooooooo I'm afraid the horny lion opens it's doors sat at 8pm

Thanks guys,your all gems

You'll have to open up your profile for the Avatar Challenges.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread will be on here tonight till I get home at 10.30 when we shall delete account together

Ooops, you did it again!......

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