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"had a random message so called swingers but cause I would not say who on my friends swingers mmmm" is this a question or an invite to a party at yours if so we are all in what time do you want us ? X    hugs  | |||
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"I didn't understand a word of that " I think...THINK... that the OP had a message on Facebook from swingers but the OP wouldn't tell the person who messaged them what people on their friends list are swingers?  | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!!" I don't know, I have a couple of swinging friends on Facebook. Discretion is key  | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!! I don't know, I have a couple of swinging friends on Facebook. Discretion is key "that is why we would not say who was | |||
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"a so called female messaged me on face book started asking if we was swingers they said they had been la chambers and wanted too add as friends they then was asking who in my friends was swingers and I said no not saying we was blocked " Alarm bells, delete..and block.This is a bloke , possibly a work colleague or friend that's trying to lure you in. | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!!" Half the time I'm not sure that we aren't on Facebook when we are on here ! | |||
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"But also OP, how did that person find you on Facebook? You must have given then your full name..." I think if you have exchanged numbers then you may see people on your 'people you may know' list ! | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!!" 
Not against it but I'd imagine how ugly things could get if you fell out!  | |||
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"But also OP, how did that person find you on Facebook? You must have given then your full name... I think if you have exchanged numbers then you may see people on your 'people you may know' list ! " Yep that's happened to me too from whatsapp and recently LinkedIn... | |||
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"I thoght this was facebook but with naked pictures "Thought....it catches like the plague  | |||
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"a so called female messaged me on face book started asking if we was swingers they said they had been la chambers and wanted too add as friends they then was asking who in my friends was swingers and I said no not saying we was blocked " I think you did the right thing, after all its far to easy to let something slip on FB. | |||
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"But also OP, how did that person find you on Facebook? You must have given then your full name... I think if you have exchanged numbers then you may see people on your 'people you may know' list ! Yep that's happened to me too from whatsapp and recently LinkedIn... "I thought so X I rarely use Facebook now but from time to time I do check the people I may know ! | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!!" Dunno, have a lot of friends from here on there now...Never seen a problem with it at all. Most people are capable of not being idiots and shouting about fab meets or whatever on Facebook. I've gotten to know folk of here and they've become genuine friends, we've met each other's friends, go to gigs, days out and other stuff together, so why not add them? They are definate friends | |||
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"But also OP, how did that person find you on Facebook? You must have given then your full name..." If you swap numbers, the Facebook app links to your phone's phonebook. | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!! Dunno, have a lot of friends from here on there now...Never seen a problem with it at all. Most people are capable of not being idiots and shouting about fab meets or whatever on Facebook. I've gotten to know folk of here and they've become genuine friends, we've met each other's friends, go to gigs, days out and other stuff together, so why not add them? They are definate friends "Some people are, some people are not. It's a gamble. | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!!
Not against it but I'd imagine how ugly things could get if you fell out! "I had this, a guy who I won't name (don't ban me please!!!) found me on Facebook I assume from the messenger thing with my phone number, who was harmless enough but then decided to message one of my sons Facebook friends (who was also friends with me, he's 17) and get really rude about me and what we had 'done' I hadn't even met the bloke!! Now I have a 17 year old after me!!! | |||
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"had a random message so called swingers but cause I would not say who on my friends swingers mmmm" Sounds like a whole world of trouble to me, unless you know exactly who it is and they are very good friends then I personally wouldn't even contemplate it, if they wanna get in touch use Fab | |||
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"But also OP, how did that person find you on Facebook? You must have given then your full name..." no that's the thing they found me ? | |||
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"But also OP, how did that person find you on Facebook? You must have given then your full name...no that's the thing they found me ?" Are any of the pics on here also on fb. They could do an image search and find out who you are that way and just chanced their luck? | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!! Dunno, have a lot of friends from here on there now...Never seen a problem with it at all. Most people are capable of not being idiots and shouting about fab meets or whatever on Facebook. I've gotten to know folk of here and they've become genuine friends, we've met each other's friends, go to gigs, days out and other stuff together, so why not add them? They are definate friends
Some people are, some people are not. It's a gamble. "I've never had to remove a fabber from Facebook... Folk I've met through work blah blah I have... People are a gamble, where you meet them doesn't matter | |||
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"But also OP, how did that person find you on Facebook? You must have given then your full name...no that's the thing they found me ? Are any of the pics on here also on fb. They could do an image search and find out who you are that way and just chanced their luck?" yea think that's where they found us | |||
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"But also OP, how did that person find you on Facebook? You must have given then your full name...no that's the thing they found me ?" Are any of your FB friends swingers? They may know them and have taken a guess that some of their friends, ie you, are also swingers and are mailing them all. Facebook keeps suggesting people to me who I don't 'know' but know they are swingers, all because we have friends in common. | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!!" I have plenty of swingers on Facebook. They know the rules and so far everyone has stuck to them and I expect that to continue. | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!! I have plenty of swingers on Facebook. They know the rules and so far everyone has stuck to them and I expect that to continue." Ahhh I'd be open to it but not the nut case I had! | |||
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"But also OP, how did that person find you on Facebook? You must have given then your full name... If you swap numbers, the Facebook app links to your phone's phonebook. " Yep, I've noticed a few people come up on my facebook as people I may know because we've messaged on whatsapp which Facebook owns. | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!! I have plenty of swingers on Facebook. They know the rules and so far everyone has stuck to them and I expect that to continue." I have about 12-13 known swingers on my face book, almost all of them know each other. | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!! Dunno, have a lot of friends from here on there now...Never seen a problem with it at all. Most people are capable of not being idiots and shouting about fab meets or whatever on Facebook. I've gotten to know folk of here and they've become genuine friends, we've met each other's friends, go to gigs, days out and other stuff together, so why not add them? They are definate friends
Some people are, some people are not. It's a gamble.
I've never had to remove a fabber from Facebook...
Folk I've met through work blah blah I have...
People are a gamble, where you meet them doesn't matter "Work, your personal life and your very personal life are all different things. Nothing wrong with mixing the three but the differences must be respected.  | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!! Dunno, have a lot of friends from here on there now...Never seen a problem with it at all. Most people are capable of not being idiots and shouting about fab meets or whatever on Facebook. I've gotten to know folk of here and they've become genuine friends, we've met each other's friends, go to gigs, days out and other stuff together, so why not add them? They are definate friends
Some people are, some people are not. It's a gamble.
I've never had to remove a fabber from Facebook...
Folk I've met through work blah blah I have...
People are a gamble, where you meet them doesn't matter
Work, your personal life and your very personal life are all different things. Nothing wrong with mixing the three but the differences must be respected. "My lines are blurred a fair bit...it's always worked fine for me.. What works for one and all that | |||
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"Facebook and swinging does not mix!!! I have plenty of swingers on Facebook. They know the rules and so far everyone has stuck to them and I expect that to continue."
On that note I have two & a half local couples on my Facebook, and three non local people on there too. | |||
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again im not a toss pot and wouldnt sabbotage anything or be a prick towards another user. | |||
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