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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I simply love older men 50+, I cant help it, its just me, how I feel and how older men treat me

Yet when I apologise to any male who messages me (I like to politely say no thanks)they always say they will change me, change my mind and make me see how good they are.

Why is it some always want to change a girl? I am happy with my feelings and what im looking for, but some think they know better ?

Its getting to the point I have to block some who will not simply take a polite no as an answer

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"I simply love older men 50+, I cant help it, its just me, how I feel and how older men treat me

Yet when I apologise to any male who messages me (I like to politely say no thanks)they always say they will change me, change my mind and make me see how good they are.

Why is it some always want to change a girl? I am happy with my feelings and what im looking for, but some think they know better ?

Its getting to the point I have to block some who will not simply take a polite no as an answer"

It's a shame you don't live nearer to me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters ....

Block everyone below a certain age

Sorted!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cocky little sods.

Block button for the win hey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely no-one joins sites like this expecting to only receive conducive messages,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I simply love older men 50+, I cant help it, its just me, how I feel and how older men treat me

Yet when I apologise to any male who messages me (I like to politely say no thanks)they always say they will change me, change my mind and make me see how good they are.

Why is it some always want to change a girl? I am happy with my feelings and what im looking for, but some think they know better ?

Its getting to the point I have to block some who will not simply take a polite no as an answer"
Thankyou! Threads like this make me feel it's worth staying on here a bit longer! xx

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"I simply love older men 50+, I cant help it, its just me, how I feel and how older men treat me

Yet when I apologise to any male who messages me (I like to politely say no thanks)they always say they will change me, change my mind and make me see how good they are.

Why is it some always want to change a girl? I am happy with my feelings and what im looking for, but some think they know better ?

Its getting to the point I have to block some who will not simply take a polite no as an answer"

Glad to see some still prefer and older guy

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I simply love older men 50+, I cant help it, its just me, how I feel and how older men treat me

Yet when I apologise to any male who messages me (I like to politely say no thanks)they always say they will change me, change my mind and make me see how good they are.

Why is it some always want to change a girl? I am happy with my feelings and what im looking for, but some think they know better ?

Its getting to the point I have to block some who will not simply take a polite no as an answer"

I guess this is why I've always preferred older and wiser. I'm always being told that I would have the best sex ever if I accepted some young guys meet requests due to their prowess and stamina!! They have no idea of Paul's ability and stamina though and this is why I am with him....amongst other things of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh i like this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably don't actually want to change you, just the opportunity to get in your pants.

But what do I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op thanks for giving us old sods a fighting chance on here.Pity you live so far away because I would have bought you all the Caburys milk tray that you could get down your gorgeous throat(and maybe over your sexy body)with my help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get I will change your mind if I give the reason I'm turning them down so now I just say not for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same thing happens to me when I tell older men that I prefer younger guys. Apparently young guys don't have enough experience to satisfy me....I just don't know it yet.

They just want to fuck you. It isn't about stamina, experience, or anything else.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the older gentlemen and get quite a few messages from younger guys who just don't get it...

I mean I should be flattered that some young inexperienced buck wants to fulfil their cougar fantasy with me how dare I not be grateful and I really don't know what I am missing....?!?!

Then when they send a really childish message insulting older guys I just think to myself and that's why I don't meet you...

OP Stick with what works for you you can't please everybody all the time

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I simply love older men 50+, I cant help it, its just me, how I feel and how older men treat me

Yet when I apologise to any male who messages me (I like to politely say no thanks)they always say they will change me, change my mind and make me see how good they are.

Why is it some always want to change a girl? I am happy with my feelings and what im looking for, but some think they know better ?

Its getting to the point I have to block some who will not simply take a polite no as an answer"

Use the filters which are provided. You are not on your own with preferring older guys, many girls do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm neither young, nor old.

Middle ground is always best anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm neither young, nor old.

Middle ground is always best anyway. "

And another guy telling the OP what's best.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm neither young, nor old.

Middle ground is always best anyway.

And another guy telling the OP what's best.

-Courtney"

*shoves cake in Courtney's mouth while her gums are flapping*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm neither young, nor old.

Middle ground is always best anyway.

And another guy telling the OP what's best.

-Courtney

*shoves cake in Courtney's mouth while her gums are flapping*"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

In my fab world I like older men and in my dating world I like men aged 38+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

52 on thursday,time is rolling on to fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people take the fact that you replied to them, with empathy (an apology in your case), as a sign that you're easy.

Not sexually easy but more mentally easy and that you actually give a shit about others, hence why you replied and apologised, and that you might actually care enough to fuck them.

Just block them and don't even acknowledge their BS.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people take the fact that you replied to them, with empathy (an apology in your case), as a sign that you're easy.

Not sexually easy but more mentally easy and that you actually give a shit about others, hence why you replied and apologised, and that you might actually care enough to fuck them.

Just block them and don't even acknowledge their BS."

I guess its nice to be nice but perhaps your correct

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By *arker66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Well I suppose a lady would not say no to Brad Pitt age 52 or George Clooney 54 lol You are what you feel !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people take the fact that you replied to them, with empathy (an apology in your case), as a sign that you're easy.

Not sexually easy but more mentally easy and that you actually give a shit about others, hence why you replied and apologised, and that you might actually care enough to fuck them.

Just block them and don't even acknowledge their BS.

I guess its nice to be nice but perhaps your correct "

Yeah, casual sex is a pretty predatory place i've noticed.

You can still be nice, and be yourself, just block as soon as they expect anything more than a refusal.

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