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All time low libido...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else have this little problem?! I can go for days - even weeks - without feeling horny. I just don't feel the urge.

(And no... I don't need anyone's personal one on one help to get it back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and get your vitamin D levels checked. That can cause it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go and get your vitamin D levels checked. That can cause it "

Aha! I have symptoms of S.A.D, probably related.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yes, but I don't think of it as a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went 9 months without the urge

Can people honestly be horny 24/7 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about."
this

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Yes. Particularly with having to juggle a job, a house and a toddler with no outside family support and PND. Real lifejust gets in the way sometimes....

*Her*

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Christmas 2014... welcome to my world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about."

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Does anyone else have this little problem?! I can go for days - even weeks - without feeling horny. I just don't feel the urge.

(And no... I don't need anyone's personal one on one help to get it back. "

I wish I could be like that and not feel the need for weeks on end, at best I can go a week or two without it then I end up end up feeling the need again while I'm sleeping it's a right pain in the arse some times as I can't go back to sleep unless I do something...

wonder what life would be like having an off button for it to just go away completely for long periods off time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else have this little problem?! I can go for days - even weeks - without feeling horny. I just don't feel the urge.

(And no... I don't need anyone's personal one on one help to get it back. "

Nope , never get this problem at all .

Must be bloody depressing though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about."

Gonna be honest here , we are horny all the time !

24/7 ..... Even when we are totally shattered and real life dramas are all around us , we are still totally horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.

It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.

If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sometimes usually when I'm tired/ busy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.

It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.

If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex."

I agree, I was supposed to meet someone yesterday but just felt down so cancelled it. He was lovely about it and hopefully we can meet when I'm feeling more in the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always put it down to a seasonal thing. rampant it the spring/summer. recharge during the winter months. then came the menopause and its rampant all the way. love mother nature!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.

It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.

If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex."

Guess it must be different for single women ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go off sex for days, but not weeks.

Things that put me off sex are other peoples head fucks, or if i fuck my own head.

If you don't feel like sex then there doesn't have to be anything wrong with you. When i felt horny all the time there was something wrong with me then.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Everyone's different. Is it unusual for you? is the key question.

Like most things that go missing if you stop looking they often turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye. Huge personal drama has pretty much killed my sex drive lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty normal I think. We are all affected by our hormones, health etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go months without even feeling the desire to perve.

But other times I get really Moody if I don't have sex at least five times a day.

Nowt right or wrong there, just the natural flow of balance in life

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I find men who talk about it 24/7 slightly

creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find men who talk about it 24/7 slightly

creepy"

I get the impression that they're the ones overcompensating for something. But I've no evidence to prove this theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it is totally normal well as normal as anything can be.

As long as you are feeling okay in yourself then I really wouldn't worry about it. If you're feeling low & depressed them maybe pop to your GP for a chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say it is totally normal well as normal as anything can be.

As long as you are feeling okay in yourself then I really wouldn't worry about it. If you're feeling low & depressed them maybe pop to your GP for a chat. "

It's not depression, I tend to feel like it whether I'm going through a dark time or a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the op has already said she has S.A.D then this could be effecting her vitamin d levels. Vitamin d deficiency can lower estrogen levels which will lower sex drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the op has already said she has S.A.D then this could be effecting her vitamin d levels. Vitamin d deficiency can lower estrogen levels which will lower sex drive. "

Are bananas high in vit d?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the op has already said she has S.A.D then this could be effecting her vitamin d levels. Vitamin d deficiency can lower estrogen levels which will lower sex drive.

Are bananas high in vit d?"

I don't think so. It's more dairy and oily fish you need and egg yolks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orange juice can be though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can totally understand this as I must admit I'm getting real swings myself but I think its mostly due to tiredness.

What with work, gym workouts,running and cycling I'm very often just too exhausted to even think about it.The fact that I'm enjoying these things so much ..not the work obviously..means I'm not really too inclined to do much about it at the mo tho I do still have my moments when something or someone gets me fired up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the op has already said she has S.A.D then this could be effecting her vitamin d levels. Vitamin d deficiency can lower estrogen levels which will lower sex drive.

Are bananas high in vit d?

I don't think so. It's more dairy and oily fish you need and egg yolks "

It's the orange juice I got confused with lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.

It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.

If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex.

Guess it must be different for single women .... "

But I'm married......?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes I went for years and then it came back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe see dr for a blood test, to rule out things anemia and thyroid??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be very rare to be horny all the time.....i find real life takes over and sex goes out of my mind completely. I would have thought that was perfectly normal and not anything to worry about.

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I'm kind of glad sex isn't always at the forefront of my mind anyway, or I wouldn't have the headspace to concentrate on career and other things that are important in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, recently been through a spell like that.

But since some sexy lady run her fingers down my back at work I've been horny as fuck!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Yeah, sometimes I'll go as long as 8 hours without having an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's normal. I haven't even had an orgasm for about six weeks, now.

It's not a biological need at all times, for women. Countless different factors affect it. Largely how we see ourselves from time to time.

If I feel unattractive or worried or depressed, I don't want sex. I particularly don't want to meet strangers for sex.

Guess it must be different for single women ....

But I'm married......?"

Do you swing together ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say it is totally normal well as normal as anything can be.

As long as you are feeling okay in yourself then I really wouldn't worry about it. If you're feeling low & depressed them maybe pop to your GP for a chat.

It's not depression, I tend to feel like it whether I'm going through a dark time or a good time "

I think it's only a problem if you allow it to be. Get out there and focus on other aspects of your life & learn to ride the peaks & troughs.

For me sex is an enhancement to life, nothing more, nothing less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just need the right person to fire it up my love

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

was reading about this woman who had same problem and she had blood cells injected into her clit and it all returned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just need the right person to fire it up my love "

Totally agree .

We weren't like we are now until we met each other over 5 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been horny for months!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes got the same problem, put it down to me being premenopausal. The little bean has stopped working!! Worried, god yes! X

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