FabSwingers.com forum: What constitutes as to dominance?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In your opinion?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

As to dominance constitutes the same way as they seem to needless to think.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Having seen a trailer for 50 shades of grey does it for some people if my inbox is anything to go by.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

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Dominance is a mental thing, not a physical thing in our opinion. Judging by the many messages we get by so called Doms they definitely aren't on the same wavelength.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Dominance is a mental thing, not a physical thing in our opinion. Judging by the many messages we get by so called Doms they definitely aren't on the same wavelength."

Couldn't have put that better. My view is that a decent Dom doesn't need to claim they're all that. They just are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dominance is a mental thing, not a physical thing in our opinion. Judging by the many messages we get by so called Doms they definitely aren't on the same wavelength."

Wannabe doms are so dangerous and detrimental. My understanding of it is that it comes from a position of gentleness, taking the power that the sub gives you...

But what do I know?!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

"Dominance is a mental thing, not a physical thing in our opinion. Judging by the many messages we get by so called Doms they definitely aren't on the same wavelength.

Couldn't have put that better. My view is that a decent Dom doesn't need to claim they're all that. They just are. "

I agree. For me it's a vibe I get off someone. I don't need to be told.If they start telling me then for me they are not dominant.I have a very strong will and only 2 people have managed to get to my submissive side and still not fully opened to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dominance is a mental thing, not a physical thing in our opinion. Judging by the many messages we get by so called Doms they definitely aren't on the same wavelength.

Wannabe doms are so dangerous and detrimental. My understanding of it is that it comes from a position of gentleness, taking the power that the sub gives you..."

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Strength, control, confidence, knowledge of ones tools and utter respect for the sub or bottom.

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By *ntirelyuptoyouCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

A true dom will be patient, respectful, and have a good knowledge of what they are doing. They will take control rathar than be controlling (there's a difference). The purpose of their actions will ultimately be the subs pleasure/happiness (in my opinion/from experience).

Not some pip squeak who stole a copy of his Mrs 50 shades and thinks it's giving orders and a bit of spanking.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

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"Dominance is a mental thing, not a physical thing in our opinion. Judging by the many messages we get by so called Doms they definitely aren't on the same wavelength.

Couldn't have put that better. My view is that a decent Dom doesn't need to claim they're all that. They just are. "

Exactly!! And it's not at all about being aggressive...some seem to miss that altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In your opinion? "

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