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By *layalong OP   Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Morning, rise above it,ignore it and switch to another thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of nice folk post in the forums just ignore the nasty ones.. it is fun and you should join in..

go on you know you want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And probably titling the thread as Bitches is not doing you any favours.

Just ignore and find threads that don't contain it..there are a few

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

yup, join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey life is like a box of chocolates all the best ones are left till last hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you start a thread called bitches?

How is this any better than the very thing you're moaning about?

There's plenty of nice threads to join in with,you could have started one yourself

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Because I am an individual and have my own thoughts. Now they sometimes differ from other people and that can badge me a troll..

Some like men to nod and agree with everything, especially when lambasting other guys, it's a sport to a few.

Plenty threads to entertain All.

Welcome and enjoy

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"And probably titling the thread as Bitches is not doing you any favours.

Just ignore and find threads that don't contain it..there are a few "

good example

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

Were you aiming for irony?

If someone has been nasty then use the report button on the post and Admin will deal with it.

Starting a thread with 'bitches' as the title and moaning about nasty people isn't helpful, nor will it encourage other people to post. There are lots of threads worth reading and if you can't find one then start one and others will contribute.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Because I'm no longer pregnant and yet I STILL haven't had a 30oz rare steak.

Fuck the lot of you...you...BUMDERS!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

not every1 is nasty just ignore the few that are

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

Don't be put off by negative posts, why not post your positive reply and redress the ballance.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found the majority of forumites to be lovely seen a few bun fights in here but hey we've all got opinions on opinions welcome op xx

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness

not every1 is nasty just ignore the overwhelming mob that are"

well said

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Because I'm no longer pregnant and yet I STILL haven't had a 30oz rare steak.

Fuck the lot of you...you...BUMDERS!!! "

Ooo what's a bumder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you've taken the plunge now & leapt into the dark side so just keep posting on the threads that interest you.

You're not the 1st to say the forums can be bitchy / negative and you won't be the last. The more people that join in the better the representation of _iews will be, if that makes sense.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't let the pattern of pixels on your screen stop you from enjoying fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think calling people bitches is the best way to go about introducing yourself

I suggest just throwing yourself in and not worry too much about the odd person that is having a bad day and writing Bitchy comments!

Most peeps on here are lovely - enjoy it x

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"OP you've taken the plunge now & leapt into the dark side so just keep posting on the threads that interest you.

You're not the 1st to say the forums can be bitchy / negative and you won't be the last. The more people that join in the better the representation of _iews will be, if that makes sense.

"

I was intimadated to join in at first, loved reading the threads, but scared to join in. Then one day I thought, bugger this and took the plunge - now I peruse the different threads and dive in where ever I feel the need and give as good as I get, I never take any negative comments thrown my way seriously xx

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Enjoy the forums and ignore the rudeness I know I do. I've found them fun and helpful. Without them I wouldn't have had a couple of meets or made friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

But this isn't your first post on here?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

It's a shame you feel that way but sometimes it can be down to individual interpretation. There are undoubtedly people on here whose posting style is to put down other people or just generally be negative and unkind but they're easy enough to avoid along with their hangers on the rest are interacting as they would in the outside world.

I don't understand why you want to join in the fun but suddenly realise that everyone's being horrible that isn't fun.....is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

Just ignore them. It's much more fun. X

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

I haven't noticed people being nasty.

You've been posting for some time now. Asking why there are so many singles on here; why people have houses full of rubbish and are just dirty rather than slutty; how you can get people to cam etc ..

It seems to me you've been answered very civily by very many people.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

SERIOUS QUESTION..........

When someone posts... ooooo the nasty people .....

Why does everyone say ... just ignore them ?

There's never any evidence that anyone HAS been nasty. It's just the O.P's say so.

Sometimes in fact most times complainants are not the victims they make out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SERIOUS QUESTION..........

When someone posts... ooooo the nasty people .....

Why does everyone say ... just ignore them ?

There's never any evidence that anyone HAS been nasty. It's just the O.P's say so.

Sometimes in fact most times complainants are not the victims they make out. "

You are right there has been no actual evidence supplied from the OP (slap dash ) probably because 1. You'd probably get in the shit for naming someone & 2. It's a little bit subjective, what I think is 'bitching' might be seen as 'banter' by others.

I've seen what I perceive to be 'nasty' behaviour / posting styles & where possible I ignore them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in agreement, and in the spirit of fun though, I was disappointed to find that this wasn't a thread about our canine friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all the people who complain about people being nasty or bitchy just a) ignored them and b) posted something nice or funny or amusing themselves then the balance would soon be tipped in favour of more positive posts.

If there's so much nastiness around why let them win?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find the vultures are circling above every thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To all the grumpy bums! Fuck off!

Yours

The rest of us.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think you will find the vultures are circling above every thread"

What does something as inane as that actually mean ?

I remember Cantona talking about sardines and trawlers and expecting people to understand. They didn't.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I remember Cantona talking about sardines and trawlers and expecting people to understand. They didn't.

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Some did

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

Everyone? Really???

*LAM IN PROGRESS*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you will find the vultures are circling above every thread"

I've never seen one

Gets binoculars out for a closer look

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I remember Cantona talking about sardines and trawlers and expecting people to understand. They didn't.

Some did"

Some only thought they did. I'm not sure he did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

Because some people are just arseholes.

Most of the time it's a great place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there's something rotten in old Detroit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so nasty on the forum? I keep flicking through and want to join in the fun then realise everyone is being horrible so don't bother. Can't be done with nastiness "

ignore them,,most folk on here are actually pretty nice

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

I don't agree with the ignore the post/poster advice....if someone is being nasty/ abusive/ breaking forum rules it is best to report it.

Calling people bitches isn't exactly pleasant though is it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Oooh the irony!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah there's only a small minority that would be as you describe. Most are lovely

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm nasty all the time. I just do it with style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there is a lot of nastiness on the forums. Just rise above it. Hope you start to contribute regularly OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember Cantona talking about sardines and trawlers and expecting people to understand. They didn't.

Some did"

I did

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Ah there's only a small minority that would be as you describe. Most are lovely "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its funny when people complain of others being nasty and yet are nasty themselves.

As I was told last night, if a thread pisses you off, just move on to a different one. Or you can start a new one and just call people bitches. Whatever works for you.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its funny when people complain of others being nasty and yet are nasty themselves.

As I was told last night, if a thread pisses you off, just move on to a different one. Or you can start a new one and just call people bitches. Whatever works for you.

-Courtney"

Well that was a bit bitchy.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I have a collection of bitches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99 problems but a bitch ain't one

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in, then just shrugs her shoulders, but with a bit of panache, and then leaves to infest another thread.

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