FabSwingers.com forum: politeness

By *udd OP Man
over a year ago

Barking

You know it don't take to much energy to reply with '' sorry not interested '' and worse when you have been chatting and getting closer to making a meet you're blocked or ignored.

Why do it, all you have to say not interested, no harm done just don't,, please please people, be so ignorant after all this is meant to be a fun site not a bulls'''t site .

any one agree with me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If you don't fancy someone just say 'fuck off'. And to be topical, it's a trick that works a treat.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"any one agree with me "

No.

Fab FAQs state that no reply means no. And personally I prefer to not reply and thus avoid the messages after turning a guy down along the lines of 'but whhyyyyy', or calling me names.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

It's kind of irritating after you have been messaging a while - but don't forget, its not only men who are fantasists round here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree great site with great people. Don't sweat the small things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with the OP entirely. The FAQ state that no reply = not interested.

Also, just to make a point that I have my inbox open due to the forums, my profile states that I'm not interested/not meeting. I still get messages asking for meets, sometimes when I don't acknowledge them I get rude messages asking why I don't reply.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

"Disagree great site with great people. Don't sweat the small things. "

Disagree, yer all bastards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. Why do you need rejection in written form?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all that message me with a face picture. Out of 100 I'd say 2 reply asking what's my type or why not. But I do just ignore them ones, as I've already indicated not interested, so don't see the need to justify myself any further

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry but they decided to message me, not the other way around.

If I'm not interested I will not reply.

Guys on here can't handle rejection so I wont subject myself to allow any kind of abuse.

Yes women go from hot to slut in the space of 10 seconds

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I just block if I am not interested. I find that is the most polite way.

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