FabSwingers.com forum: Lurkers reveal yourself

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I confess to generally being a lurker on here unless it's a Fabbing thread but that's because I sometimes find the forums to be abit cliquey so don't want to put myself out there to be shot down which is my own choice but I just wondered if there's any other lurkers out there who only tend to read the forums I'm sure there must be and if there's any particular reason they do tend to just take it in rather than contribute like myself

To be honest I have learnt a hell of alot from these forums and they've been a massive help to understand what 'the swinging world' is really all about so thanks to all the knowledgable contributors

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

And now you've outed yourself.....don't worry about what people say. Be confident and be a welcome poster.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hello and welcome! I'm glad you posted. There's room for everyone. Lurkers come out!

We're not a bad bunch... well most of us are cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello from a fellow lurker

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've learnt a lot from just reading the forums... I've jumped in alot these last few days, some I haven't agreed with and some I've had a good banter with people. But I am learning to pick and choose what I comment in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, it's nice to see you here

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don't lurk, I loiter

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I don't lurk, I loiter with intent"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I don't lurk, I loiter with intent

* Within tent

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I don't lurk, I loiter with intent

* Within tent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't lurk, I loiter with intent

* Within tent

So that was you? Phew!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

hey it's just a big fun fair...... some rides seems scary but once you are on........ go with the flow.

welcome and enjoy.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I don't lurk, I loiter with intent

* Within tent

So that was you? Phew!"

Eh-hem - I did manage to pull off a couple of meets (so to speak) at Glastonbury festival this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is a laugh in here and I've certainly enjoyed all the mad debates and general chit chat and been made to feel so welcome...cheers fabbers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be shy!! It's a great place to have a chin wag and meet some people you would never have met just signing up and doing what I used to, _iewing profiles and that's it.

Welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a quiet shy lurker

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

Yep i hang about here often post on the odd thread here and there tend to keep away from the hostile ones they very often lead to a ban

(Her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lurker and rarely post but read most threads.

Some of the forum regulars are real favourites for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome from the shadows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lurked for bloody ages coz I worried about adding something n being jumped all over n only posted on non opinion threads coz I hate conflict but after a while I thought bugger this I have the right to my opinion n so do others n occasionally you do get a hurtful comment thrown your way n that's life I guess so unless the comment comes from an opinion of someone on here I value I now just say what ever n over my head it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shy lurker here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"hey it's just a big fun fair...... some rides seems scary but once you are on........ go with the flow.

welcome and enjoy.

A big fun fair - a good analogy, plenty of donuts about anyway.....some sweet things to suck on....be on the dodgems and dodge 'em. Halloween avatars for the ghost ride....some you want to ride and don't wanna get off and others you avoid.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Everyone is a laugh in here and I've certainly enjoyed all the mad debates and general chit chat and been made to feel so welcome...cheers fabbers x"

I wouldn't go as far as to say 'everyone',but a lot are

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Welcome from the shadows "

Is that you Hank?

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

I'm an observer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an observer.

And what do you see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an observer.

I've noticed when you post tho you do make a lot of sense

Ps....don't let me down now & start posting crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my moments..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome from the shadows

Is that you Hank?

"
just a 'Man of Mystery'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an observer.

I've noticed when you post tho you do make a lot of sense

Ps....don't let me down now & start posting crap

Nothing wrong with posting crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I wish i was just a lurker

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"I'm an observer.

And what do you see?"

Lurkers!

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"I'm an observer.

I've noticed when you post tho you do make a lot of sense

Ps....don't let me down now & start posting crap

Thanks but I will post crap from time to time.

I'm only human!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm an observer.

I've noticed when you post tho you do make a lot of sense

Ps....don't let me down now & start posting crap

Thanks but I will post crap from time to time.

I'm only human!

I know but you get my drift....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Where are the lurkers? Reading and not posting......

Say hello?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a demi lurker

Sometimes I lurk and don't contribute

Other times I'm in with both feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I see are long time forumites pretending to be lurkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I see are long time forumites pretending to be lurkers.

I was just going to ask if any lurkers have come out of the shadows. That answered that question for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I see are long time forumites pretending to be lurkers.

was thinking the same

Welcome any lurkers, come say hello!!

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By *larayCouple
over a year ago

bolton

Thoroughbred lurkers here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose I can be classed as a lurker. I have posted occasionally but can probably count on two hands how many threads I've contributed to.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I suppose I can be classed as a lurker. I have posted occasionally but can probably count on two hands how many threads I've contributed to."

You have a lot of fingers!

Welcome all... glad you've stopped lurking!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Thoroughbred lurkers here "
welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I see are long time forumites pretending to be lurkers.

Maybe people have a different _iew on what a lurker is.

I don't start threads but I comment, if nothing takes my fancy then I lurk and wait till something does......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose I can be classed as a lurker. I have posted occasionally but can probably count on two hands how many threads I've contributed to.

You have a lot of fingers!

Welcome all... glad you've stopped lurking!

I'm not a good counter and I've a crap memory lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I see are long time forumites pretending to be lurkers.

True, but you do get long time forumites that rarely join in now and just read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooer....I guess I'm classed as a lurker...but do occasionally post xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are the lurkers? Reading and not posting......

Say hello? "

*waves* hello! *trundles off*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is he........

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By *otplaythingWoman
over a year ago

South West

I lurk with the odd comment thrown in and have always found you regulars friendly...thanks!

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I suppose I have always been a lurker in my time being on fab which is nearly a year now...

never really message or receive any messages or looked for meets...

so I guess I fall into the lurker category and more or less operate in the shadows of fabswingers...

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