FabSwingers.com forum: Jealousy.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many green eyed monsters on here, are you one of them? Mina xxx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nope... I suspect they missed the jealous gene when they made me. Although I do have shoe envy now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so jealous of people with green eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad state of affairs if people are jealous of strangers on a swinging site I'd have thought!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Yes, I have green eyes… with a ring of hazel around the pupil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many green eyed monsters on here, are you one of them? Mina xxx"

You shouldn't be on here (certainly not as part of a couple anyway) if you are jealous. As long as you have 100% trust in one another jealousy shouldn't come into it. We love seeing each other being pleasured by someone else and never once have either of us been jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad state of affairs if people are jealous of strangers on a swinging site I'd have thought!

never been the jealous type i know im have more than 99 per cent of the worlds population,even tho i dont have much materially ...... nothing to be jealous about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am for sure!!!.... Jealous of every female's who has smaller feet than my size nines …….grrrr plus size choice can be so limiting …. Don’t ya know?

wot? ...... wot!!!......,,, oh, all right!!!... I'll shhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sad state of affairs if people are jealous of strangers on a swinging site I'd have thought!

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Well its kind of obvious that some posters on here are jealous of other ones, ask any watcher, lurker, or the honest posters! Mina xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad state of affairs if people are jealous of strangers on a swinging site!

Well its kind of obvious that some posters on here are jealous of other ones, ask any watcher, lurker, or the honest posters! Mina xxx"

You are right of course, my sentence should have ended at site! It is pretty obvious...sadly!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

My hair is thinning - only part of me that is...

I'm jealous of everyone with flowing thick locks...especially men, it just ain't right!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love being jealous, especially if wearing brown, really brings out my best colouring

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

But what are they meant to be jealous of exactly?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Can't say that I've ever noticed any jealousy here in the forums, but then I'm not a jealous person so probably wouldn't notice! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad jealousy is a terrible distructive thing.. but Good jealousy is fantastic to play with..

I love doing little things that I know make Master want to drag me off right there and then and take me all to himself..

Master loves to do the same to me when chance arises..

Do I get jealous of playmates.. nope.. do I like to feel the hint of jealousy and reclaim the man I love, or better still know he needs to reclaim me.. OH YES!! :D

Katie.x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"But what are they meant to be jealous of exactly?"

perceived popularity, confidence, self belief, style, lots of sex, humility, wealth etc etc..

and rather than improve it within themselves... they are twisted with bitterness if they think others have it.

and thats a started for 10.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Honestly? Yes, I get a little envious sometimes.

I'd be upset with myself if it had seeped into the forum though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many green eyed monsters on here, are you one of them? Mina xxx"

The site is jam packed full of them but they are hardly going to admit it.

There are men jealous of other men because they meet more and have more verifications than them.

There are couples jealous of other couples because they make a more attractive partnership to other swingers and enjoy a greater level of popularity.

There are women jealous of other women because they think that guys flock to other women rather than them due to looks, figures, boobs, personalities or general humour.

As for the forums well there are so many individuals jealous of the attentions others get and the popularity they seem to get that they snipe and get catty about it.

On the whole I suspect women are worse than men but men get green eyed too. The one thing you will find is that very few will confess to it.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"So many green eyed monsters on here, are you one of them? Mina xxx

The site is jam packed full of them but they are hardly going to admit it.

There are men jealous of other men because they meet more and have more verifications than them.

There are couples jealous of other couples because they make a more attractive partnership to other swingers and enjoy a greater level of popularity.

There are women jealous of other women because they think that guys flock to other women rather than them due to looks, figures, boobs, personalities or general humour.

As for the forums well there are so many individuals jealous of the attentions others get and the popularity they seem to get that they snipe and get catty about it.

On the whole I suspect women are worse than men but men get green eyed too. The one thing you will find is that very few will confess to it.

and that my friends, sums it up nicely..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"But what are they meant to be jealous of exactly?

perceived popularity, confidence, self belief, style, lots of sex, humility, wealth etc etc..

and rather than improve it within themselves... they are twisted with bitterness if they think others have it.

and thats a started for 10.

I'd love to find someone with something to be jealous of

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"But what are they meant to be jealous of exactly?

perceived popularity, confidence, self belief, style, lots of sex, humility, wealth etc etc..

and rather than improve it within themselves... they are twisted with bitterness if they think others have it.

and thats a started for 10.

I'd love to find someone with something to be jealous of

I am ... of guys with user names like MEGA HUGE MONSTER GIGANTIC BEAST OF A MAN COCK...

I dream of these with eyes greener than the stripes on a Celtic strip...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As for the forums well there are so many individuals jealous of the attentions others get and the popularity they seem to get that they snipe and get catty about it.

On the whole I suspect women are worse than men but men get green eyed too. The one thing you will find is that very few will confess to it.

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Im glad others see it too! Mina xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly? Yes, I get a little envious sometimes.

I'd be upset with myself if it had seeped into the forum though"

Havent caught you Seeping on the forums... Yet!

;-)

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"But what are they meant to be jealous of exactly?

perceived popularity, confidence, self belief, style, lots of sex, humility, wealth etc etc..

and rather than improve it within themselves... they are twisted with bitterness if they think others have it.

and thats a started for 10.

I'd love to find someone with something to be jealous of

I am ... of guys with user names like MEGA HUGE MONSTER GIGANTIC BEAST OF A MAN COCK...

I dream of these with eyes greener than the stripes on a Celtic strip..."

I have never seen anything/anyone on the forums which resulted in me feeling jealous…. I have seen plenty which left me feeling grateful though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what are they meant to be jealous of exactly?

perceived popularity, confidence, self belief, style, lots of sex, humility, wealth etc etc..

and rather than improve it within themselves... they are twisted with bitterness if they think others have it.

and thats a started for 10.

I'd love to find someone with something to be jealous of

I am ... of guys with user names like MEGA HUGE MONSTER GIGANTIC BEAST OF A MAN COCK...

I dream of these with eyes greener than the stripes on a Celtic strip...

I have never seen anything/anyone on the forums which resulted in me feeling jealous…. I have seen plenty which left me feeling grateful though

pmsl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been jealous - most people have whether they admit it or not - but not of anyone on here - I'd rather be jealous of some footballer shagging loads of models than 'Bigcock69' having had 2 meets etc.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"But what are they meant to be jealous of exactly?

perceived popularity, confidence, self belief, style, lots of sex, humility, wealth etc etc..

and rather than improve it within themselves... they are twisted with bitterness if they think others have it.

and thats a started for 10.

I'd love to find someone with something to be jealous of

I am ... of guys with user names like MEGA HUGE MONSTER GIGANTIC BEAST OF A MAN COCK...

I dream of these with eyes greener than the stripes on a Celtic strip...

I have never seen anything/anyone on the forums which resulted in me feeling jealous…. I have seen plenty which left me feeling grateful though

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope... I suspect they missed the jealous gene when they made me. Although I do have shoe envy now and again.

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I can say with my hand on my heart i am jealous of no one here .... just not .... dont care what others have or who thay meet ... what people look like i am happy with who i am. Lifes to short to fill my head with all that.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Yes, I have green eyes… with a ring of hazel around the pupil"

I've got green eyes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I have green eyes… with a ring of hazel around the pupil

I've got green eyes too

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your not srek i know you x your eyes are lovely xx

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Yes, I have green eyes… with a ring of hazel around the pupil

I've got green eyes too

your not srek i know you x your eyes are lovely xx"

you can look in to them tomorrow night if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn’t to sure about posting this but,,,,, but I'm constantly in awe of the honesty of many of the forum contributors who should be utterly admired as they dissect and construct the issues which are discussed in here,,,

Many of examples that have been given in this thread explaining where Jealousy may occur on the site, bare testament to their willingness to not only be self-analytical, but also potentially exposing themselves to critical analysis

On that note , I’ve personally not felt real jealousy of any sort for a number of years having sadly lost the special someone who was my entire world…..This kinda sealed a perspective of what really matters to me and the hopeless futility of envying people or situations I’d be willing to swap places with.

So anyway,,,,, its not a sorry tale,,,,, so no tea and sympathy please!!!!…after-all. I was the luckiest bloke on the planet for a while and no-one has a life long right to that position….…..and at least I got to hold the crown,,,, and not many do!!!

Sox over and out….

Laters honky tonks… mwahh mwahhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wasn’t to sure about posting this but,,,,, but I'm constantly in awe of the honesty of many of the forum contributors who should be utterly admired as they dissect and construct the issues which are discussed in here,,,

Sox over and out….

Laters honky tonks… mwahh mwahhh

It's better to have loved and to have been loved in return than to never have loved at all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, as I am generous by nature! And some peeps have taken advantage of my generosity in the past!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad state of affairs if people are jealous of strangers on a swinging site I'd have thought!

Well its kind of obvious that some posters on here are jealous of other ones, ask any watcher, lurker, or the honest posters! Mina xxx"

Here here! Sad state of affairs is you'll find jealousy everywhere but mainly between the women on here, and on the the forums too

But stand your ground and don't let the green eyed monsters win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never met someone worthy of jealousy.

if i did i'd wonder what they were doing to make me jealous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do think there are many people who are envious on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope... I suspect they missed the jealous gene when they made me. Although I do have shoe envy now and again.

I can say with my hand on my heart i am jealous of no one here .... just not .... dont care what others have or who thay meet ... what people look like i am happy with who i am. Lifes to short to fill my head with all that."

Of everyone on here Jo who claim they are not jealous, then the one person I truly believe is not, not even one tiniest bit is you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is the bitching you sometimes see down to jealousy then?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"So is the bitching you sometimes see down to jealousy then?"

I smile at some comments. Well its obvious at who is sniping at who at times and you have a pretty good idea jealousy is involved in it.

As for people not being jealous at all over anything! Lmao sorry but thats twaddle unless someone is a down trodden individual with no desire to improve their situation. Jealousy is a natural emotion that affects everyone at times. I don't mind admitting i am jealous of some people having the time to spend all day on here! Lucky buggers!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Nope... I suspect they missed the jealous gene when they made me. Although I do have shoe envy now and again.

Of everyone on here Jo who claim they are not jealous, then the one person I truly believe is not, not even one tiniest bit is you

Thanks very much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So is the bitching you sometimes see down to jealousy then?"

i did wonder that...sometimes some of the snidey comments are because someone has said something either ridiculous or emotive....or just because someone doesnt agree and has nowhere to take their argument...then bitching is the next resort!

unless someone is discussing a profile, i wont look...so cant attribute my comments to jealousy..unless they say something i wanted to say before me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rise above it, life's too short n all that, besides jealousy on here is more than likely fear based. I have felt jealous of tiger before when we tried sep room swap but that is different and we don't do that any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't compare, be grateful and make the most of what I have, and be happy!

Jealousy is negative and can be destructive, can't be arsed with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

hahaha don't do the jelousy stuff but OMG how can you get jelous of anyone - surely it must be the other way round ya cannie stunna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

hahaha don't do the jelousy stuff but OMG how can you get jelous of anyone - surely it must be the other way round ya cannie stunna

/hijack

is that a cucumber on your bed?!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

hahaha don't do the jelousy stuff but OMG how can you get jelous of anyone - surely it must be the other way round ya cannie stunna

/hijack

is that a cucumber on your bed?!

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i had to look didnt i...it may be a courgette

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

hahaha don't do the jelousy stuff but OMG how can you get jelous of anyone - surely it must be the other way round ya cannie stunna

/hijack

is that a cucumber on your bed?!

i had to look didnt i...it may be a courgette"

Me three!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

hahaha don't do the jelousy stuff but OMG how can you get jelous of anyone - surely it must be the other way round ya cannie stunna

/hijack

is that a cucumber on your bed?!

i had to look didnt i...it may be a courgette"

it doesnt have the flat nobbly end of a courgette....and, ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

hahaha don't do the jelousy stuff but OMG how can you get jelous of anyone - surely it must be the other way round ya cannie stunna

/hijack

is that a cucumber on your bed?!

i had to look didnt i...it may be a courgette

Me three!

bldy ell three courgettes, greedy girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am insanely jealous so if anyone even looks or speaks to anyone I like I will scratch your bloody eyes out....also paranoid...you looking at me!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

hahaha don't do the jelousy stuff but OMG how can you get jelous of anyone - surely it must be the other way round ya cannie stunna

/hijack

is that a cucumber on your bed?!

i had to look didnt i...it may be a courgette

it doesnt have the flat nobbly end of a courgette....and, ouch!

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well hes braver than me he does a whole one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I am insanely jealous so if anyone even looks or speaks to anyone I like I will scratch your bloody eyes out....also paranoid...you looking at me!

naaaaa fancy those courgettes tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I am insanely jealous so if anyone even looks or speaks to anyone I like I will scratch your bloody eyes out....also paranoid...you looking at me!

naaaaa fancy those courgettes tho"

You looking at my courgettes....the bloody nerve! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I am insanely jealous so if anyone even looks or speaks to anyone I like I will scratch your bloody eyes out....also paranoid...you looking at me!

naaaaa fancy those courgettes tho

You looking at my courgettes....the bloody nerve! lol"

awww don't scold me it's very marrowing.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

no green eyes here ive got sparkling blues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I am insanely jealous so if anyone even looks or speaks to anyone I like I will scratch your bloody eyes out....also paranoid...you looking at me!

naaaaa fancy those courgettes tho

You looking at my courgettes....the bloody nerve! lol

awww don't scold me it's very marrowing."

*Bang*...had to be done lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope the total opposite i just canna get jealous at all and that can actually lead to as many problems believe it or not xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm jealous of all the non jealous folks

My hair is thinning - only part of me that is...

I'm jealous of everyone with flowing thick locks...especially men, it just ain't right!!

Me too as i suffer from a hair loss problem, have done for years after a miscarriage when i was young, then got bullied by the local kids on an estate we lived on which didnt help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greem Eyed Ladies

mmmmm

oh sorry jealousy not in my nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope the total opposite i just canna get jealous at all and that can actually lead to as many problems believe it or not xx

Actually I agree with Soapy OMG I said it out loud the shame

In years gone by (before I married) I had huge problems with ex's and my not caring if they slept around as long as I could as well. One even accused me of not caring for him since I didnt care enough to cry and threaten him with whatever it was I was supposed to threaten him with!!

Truthfully I was more peeved when I found out cos he didnt tell me and be honest, not the doing it but the doing it behind my back, if that makes sense??

As for being jealous of other people (be that on here or in life) well I may wish I had the health, wealth or new sofa they have but over all Im a very happy person so no I dont feel any jealousy towards them.

They may have worked damn hard for what they have so who am I to covet what they have?? If I want it bad enough I will get it myself.

Shona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Greem Eyed Ladies

mmmmm

oh sorry jealousy not in my nature

creem eyed ladies have got a lot of spunk

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By *arandjasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

what is it with peoplen on here, they all say the single bi-fem is elusive, but when they get one they treat her like shit and slag her of, so where is the incentive for single fems to meet people, is she says no politely the she is up herself and if she meets folk she is easy, so she cannnot win, and i know this through a single bi-fem we are friends with, she gets slagged of in chat rooms an called all sorts, all i can say is people if they reject you, grow up, deal with it and leave them alone, all i can put it down is jealousy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jealousy" is another of those words bandied about by people who are often not liked for one reason or another. I've witnessed it on the forums. Someone posts something, usually bigging themselves up and putting others down in a "subtle" way. Those that get the barb and don't join in the "look at me vein" are then, in a veiled way accused of being jealous!

I daresay there are people jealous of others in the virtual world. The same people will probably hate premiership footballers, models, the rich etc because they envy their lifestyle and hate their own.

"Their loss/their jealous" are words often uttered by people who believe their own press and are genuinely surprised the whole world is not enamoured with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O.P , are you jealous of the people you accuse of being jealous of the people you say they are jealous of ?

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