FabSwingers.com forum: Strange things you will not do.

By *umpkin OP Man
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

What would you not do with your FB/FWB/swinging partner?

I regularly take a lady to Chams and have several sexual experiences with her. Such is our relationship, I am good friends with both her and her husband and whenever I visit their house, he is the one cooking tea for us. The husband is a great guy, has no desire to swing but totally trusts me to look after his wife while we`re away.

There is one thing. Both the husband and myself have a common interest of railways. While on our way to Chams, we pass fairly close by to a preserved railway and I would love to visit it again, but I will not do so because I would be "excluding" my friend`s husband in our enjoyment.

Am I being stupid that here I am, just having been shagging this man`s wife with his permission and then being worried about having him miss out on something we`d ALL enjoy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just ask him if he'd like to go there? Forget the trip to chams and just have a day out there?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We are happy to kiss etc during swinging, but the one thing we will not do is become "intimate" with our swing partners, no sitting in a corner holding hands and talking all night.

Thats not to say we dont make friends, we have made a lot during our time here, and many we care about a great deal, but intimacy is reserved for our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same. We do kiss others, though I never initiate the kissing, if he kisses me I will respond etc. But we dont do the holding hands, leg stroking intimacy with others either. We wouldnt sit there all over each other kissing etc and excluding anyone we were playing with, but we do sit together afterwards. Im happy for him to play with another woman and for me to watch a while, in fact it would be nice to get a bit of space to watch at times, but I wouldnt be happy to be excluded afterwards, that would hurt me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, we wouldnt do what we would call date, no drinks, etc.. I would not kiss another man, okay with other women, and do not mind Master kissing other women.

Also no other Man or woman would do anything that takes lots of trust. ie no bondage with others, no fisting etc.

Even though I meet lots of people on here interested in similar things, I would not go out socially.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

marry them...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've come to the conclusion that it's me that's strange. I've not really found anything yet.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"marry them..."

Okay that!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"marry them...

Okay that!

good news......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We socialise with our playmates. We go for drinks, meal etc. When we meet to play we flirt, before and after.

After play, we sometimes cuddle each other or our playmates. We don't find it intrudes on "our" relationship.

We can still differentiate between swinging play and our own relatioship.

Everyones different so it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like anal but don't do it with swinging partners, not even those I've played with for years.

For me, there needs to be something that I don't share as I don't want to "give" myself to all and sundry, if that makes sense.

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