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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever gone through a period where you start to believe you couldn't even pull in a brothel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Frequently. But a PMA (positive mental attitude) will pull you out of it!

We all have lean periods, keep positive, be sociable and you'll pull through! Good luck fella!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Have you ever gone through a period where you start to believe you couldn't even pull in a brothel?"

Sort of but not really. Times of plenty and times of famine.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Have you ever gone through a period where you start to believe you couldn't even pull in a brothel?"
oh yeah baby...

Ha ha still in that bloody period..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peaks and troughs...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Nope

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Peaks and troughs..."

Ups and downs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever gone through a period where you start to believe you couldn't even pull in a brothel?"

No, quite the opposite. Sometimes a brothel is the only place I can pull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are very, very few people who could honestly say they haven't.

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I find it is never balanced... There are some months where I have loads of people to chat to or meet and then other months where there is barely anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx"

Make that three. How you doing gorgeous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx"

Clip clop clip clop White Knight approaching ...

Really!? I find that very hard to believe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Frequently. But a PMA (positive mental attitude) will pull you out of it!

We all have lean periods, keep positive, be sociable and you'll pull through! Good luck fella! "

i think you could pull in a monastry for nuns mr handsome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx

Make that three. How you doing gorgeous xx"

On here doesn't count lol that's my point xx but thanks hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx

Clip clop clip clop White Knight approaching ...

Really!? I find that very hard to believe! "

Honestly a guy I worked with years ago and one at a conference this year. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Frequently. But a PMA (positive mental attitude) will pull you out of it!

We all have lean periods, keep positive, be sociable and you'll pull through! Good luck fella!

i think you could pull in a monastry for nuns mr handsome "

well I'm not sure about that, unless it was a monastery for visually impaired Nuns but thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx

Make that three. How you doing gorgeous xx

On here doesn't count lol that's my point xx but thanks hun "

You're welcome. And in the words of the esteemed Michael Buble...I just haven't met you yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx

Make that three. How you doing gorgeous xx

On here doesn't count lol that's my point xx but thanks hun

You're welcome. And in the words of the esteemed Michael Buble...I just haven't met you yet "

Hahaha there's an empty stable for your horse..*swoon*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx

Make that three. How you doing gorgeous xx

On here doesn't count lol that's my point xx but thanks hun

You're welcome. And in the words of the esteemed Michael Buble...I just haven't met you yet

Hahaha there's an empty stable for your horse..*swoon* "

M25, M1, M6...about 400 miles. Shouldn't take long on horse back. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx

Make that three. How you doing gorgeous xx

On here doesn't count lol that's my point xx but thanks hun

You're welcome. And in the words of the esteemed Michael Buble...I just haven't met you yet

Hahaha there's an empty stable for your horse..*swoon*

M25, M1, M6...about 400 miles. Shouldn't take long on horse back. Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There'll always be a man out there desperate enough to fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been under any illusion that I 'could pull anywhere'.

I'm self aware and grounded. I know that anyone who has taken an interest in me has been because of my personality, not my looks.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Consistently.

I seem to repel the opposite sex and genuinely would like to know what it is that makes me so unattractive to men. Is it how I look, my size or do I just come across badly as a person.

That said I'm not unhappy with being single but I like attention and get a bit sick of being the one who always has to put all the effort in and still gets rebuffed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm under no illusions. In real life I have been chatted up by two men tops ever xx

Make that three. How you doing gorgeous xx

On here doesn't count lol that's my point xx but thanks hun

Leaving now xxx see you around easter time

You're welcome. And in the words of the esteemed Michael Buble...I just haven't met you yet

Hahaha there's an empty stable for your horse..*swoon*

M25, M1, M6...about 400 miles. Shouldn't take long on horse back. Xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever gone through a period where you start to believe you couldn't even pull in a brothel?"

prove yourself wrong................. go to a brothel. Lol.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!! In it now. I blame my age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My membership is due in a few days time so i'm going to take a couple of months off anyway and review whether i'm just too old these days.

Can't moan mind, been at it 30 years and met some wonderful people in that time at parties clubs and laterly on the net. So what ever happens, my cup will remain half full

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By *yronutMan
over a year ago

St Austell

yep....... for the last 40 years!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes indeed... It feels like bloody groundhog day every single fricking day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time but what can you do eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, I've had so many failed meets recently, I had a real low point but good things happen and I've gone from those 7 fails meets, to four in a week!! (Admittedly three of them today, don't all look at me, one was a social!

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I know there are always desperate men available.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm going through a bad patch myself, but heading for a club on Saturday. If that all goes well I think I'll just stick to clubs from now on. Just too disappointing getting ready and going to meet a guy who doesn't turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I know there are always desperate men available. "

Imagine if the shoes was on the other foot for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. For more than 15 years. Up until about a year ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't need to wonder as money talk lol.

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Always!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

All the bloody time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I know there are always desperate men available.

Imagine if the shoes was on the other foot for a while "

I don't need to though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently went through all that. Confidence was really low and thought what's the point. Then all of a sudden a lovely person pops up and says hello and tells you that you're hot and all is well in the world again. Patience and not being too hard on yourself is what you need.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Have you ever gone through a period where you start to believe you couldn't even pull in a brothel?"

My whole life actually. Only recently have I realised the key is to have confidence in yourself. Without that you haven't got a prayer.

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Yes I know the feeling you have to believe and the PMA. I'm struggling to find anyone local however I keep trying. I've met and am currently chatting to some lovely ladies that are a distance away. So there are woman out there if you make the effort and right impression.

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