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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what is the youngest age a women of 48 would consider meeting on this site ? i have been approached by a 27 yr old and i have a son of 26 ???

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I wouldn't care what other people do, if you want to - go for it. Z

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

As long as cock size is a higher number than IQ ... Go for it x

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By *ominantPerv85Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

lol, well thats why I'm getting no meets, as I have a fairly high IQ, unless I go with millimetres rather than inches lol.....

Anyways, to the OP, why not got for a younger? Age is irrelevant, as a 50 year old, could have the maturity a 14 year old, and vice versa....

If you like the person, I say go for it, no matter of the age, as long as he/shes legal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said someone can appear to seem mature but be in his twenties others I know are in latter 40,s and so childish xx c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you are comfortable with is 'right' for you. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about preference.....like with most things on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it's what the look like and how they act not age wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is irrelevant really, many not many people act their age these days, then again how do you act your age.

For me its all about attitude and conversational ability that matters.

As a guy of 29 i have to admitt i prefer meeting people older than myself as in my experience many people of my age or younger are unable to hold a stimulating conversation.

If someone is able to stimulate you mentally, and pyhsically then age is as they say only a number.

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By *ooty and suuCouple
over a year ago

barnsley

as long as both are addult and happy to meet up whats it matter

age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 48 and have set a lower age limit of 25, my youngest Son is 24 but as was pointed out to me a few days ago, if it is the younger than my Son thing, my lower limit will get higher every year as he will get older every year, so I think mine will stay at that although not set in stone, go with what ever you would feel comfortable with and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I do stop at anyone over a certain age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like the look of the guy then why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50, my children are 19, 23 and 28. I would not feel comfortable playing with men the same age as my children.

Moreover, young people don't figure in my fantasy. My playmates are all senior managers, directors: real alpha males outside the bedroom. Calling them out of a board meeting, having them relinquish control is a major turn on for us both. It wouldn't work with a teenager!

Older for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hey thanks for all the replies its been VERY helpful xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do whatever you feel like/right, at the end of the day, you alone have to live with your decisions/actions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GUESS ! its up to the individual ,but i met a young girl om here once , utterly pants . FRANKIE XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, i prefer my own age group, find it very uncomfortable the thought of someone around my kids age group ie 20's so for me though i have 35 upwards, i prefer more 40's to early 50's.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I confess, I'm ageist!

On paper mostly.

I've had this discussion many times. I don't want to fuck someone who's ages with my dad. Nor do I want to fuck someone I could have given birth to.

Over 30, under 45 (although my upper limit is gonna have to start moving in time with my years but I'm in denial still).

Like I said though, that's on paper. If I meet someone in person, I click with them, them with me, then it wouldn't really matter how old they were.

There's logic to my madness... I just haven't figured out what yet. I make rules just so I can break them when the mood takes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the youngest age a women of 48 would consider meeting on this site ? i have been approached by a 27 yr old and i have a son of 26 ???"

talking numbers if you had a kid at 16 (legal) and you were 48 then your kid would be 32. Doesn't help much, does it? But are you gonna rule anyone under 32 out?

Age really is just a number. Younger guys can be great fun if you pick the right ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Younger guys can be great fun if you pick the right ones. "

*nods in agreement*

Indeed we can madam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Younger guys can be great fun if you pick the right ones.

*nods in agreement*

Indeed we can madam "

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too "

I have been known to consider an oldie in my time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too "

I should say so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too "

Dont you worry, i much prefer you to someone half my age

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too

Dont you worry, i much prefer you to someone half my age"

awwww mwahhhhhhh xxxxxx thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the youngest age a women of 48 would consider meeting on this site ? i have been approached by a 27 yr old and i have a son of 26 ???

talking numbers if you had a kid at 16 (legal) and you were 48 then your kid would be 32. Doesn't help much, does it? But are you gonna rule anyone under 32 out?

Age really is just a number. Younger guys can be great fun if you pick the right ones. "

Problem with that is, aside from hating the comment, age is just a number, its the very thought of meeting them socially which i do with all first meets, then the thought of a young fit boy in bed with an old woman of now 50, absolutely gross thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too

Dont you worry, i much prefer you to someone half my age"

Aw... A simple PM, "no thanks" would have been adequate...

Oops... Half "your" age, not mine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the youngest age a women of 48 would consider meeting on this site ? i have been approached by a 27 yr old and i have a son of 26 ???"

For us its more to do with how we get on with them but we would be more reluctant to play with people a long way from our age group.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

for us its about the person,not the age.we have had sex,with people,younger than our children,and had a ball.

in general,we go with the flow.if it feels right.we just go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the youngest age a women of 48 would consider meeting on this site ? i have been approached by a 27 yr old and i have a son of 26 ???

talking numbers if you had a kid at 16 (legal) and you were 48 then your kid would be 32. Doesn't help much, does it? But are you gonna rule anyone under 32 out?

Age really is just a number. Younger guys can be great fun if you pick the right ones.

Problem with that is, aside from hating the comment, age is just a number, its the very thought of meeting them socially which i do with all first meets, then the thought of a young fit boy in bed with an old woman of now 50, absolutely gross thought "

you are only as old as the man you fell. (annoying nice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feel even

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I find the "Divide by Two and Add 7" rule works well as a rough guideline.

So if you're 40 then 27 is a good limit. If you're 50 then it goes up to 32, and when you reach 60 then it's up to 37.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing but a number but it's all down to preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the youngest age a women of 48 would consider meeting on this site ? i have been approached by a 27 yr old and i have a son of 26 ???

talking numbers if you had a kid at 16 (legal) and you were 48 then your kid would be 32. Doesn't help much, does it? But are you gonna rule anyone under 32 out?

Age really is just a number. Younger guys can be great fun if you pick the right ones.

Problem with that is, aside from hating the comment, age is just a number, its the very thought of meeting them socially which i do with all first meets, then the thought of a young fit boy in bed with an old woman of now 50, absolutely gross thought

you are only as old as the man you fell. (annoying nice)"

yes in which case i will stick with 39

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the "Divide by Two and Add 7" rule works well as a rough guideline.

So if you're 40 then 27 is a good limit. If you're 50 then it goes up to 32, and when you reach 60 then it's up to 37."

Or look at the average age women have kids then minus that from my age, so for example, if 15 is the average age, that makes 35, consequently anyone under that age could be one of my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too

I have been known to consider an oldie in my time... "

Does that mean im in with a chance then

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too

I have been known to consider an oldie in my time...

Does that mean im in with a chance then"

you're in with a chance anytime with me ...... my toygirl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the youngest age a women of 48 would consider meeting on this site ? i have been approached by a 27 yr old and i have a son of 26 ???

talking numbers if you had a kid at 16 (legal) and you were 48 then your kid would be 32. Doesn't help much, does it? But are you gonna rule anyone under 32 out?

Age really is just a number. Younger guys can be great fun if you pick the right ones.

Problem with that is, aside from hating the comment, age is just a number, its the very thought of meeting them socially which i do with all first meets, then the thought of a young fit boy in bed with an old woman of now 50, absolutely gross thought "

I find "age nothing but a number" annoying too!

My playmates are aged 37 to 57. All indulge in some form of physical activity from the 6ft 4 principal of his own dance school to the 6ft marine surveyor who runs marathons for fun. These men have honed, toned bodies...my body is in a state of disrepair.

Just because a man is older it doesn't mean he can't have a fit body!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"what is the youngest age a women of 48 would consider meeting on this site ? i have been approached by a 27 yr old and i have a son of 26 ???

talking numbers if you had a kid at 16 (legal) and you were 48 then your kid would be 32. Doesn't help much, does it? But are you gonna rule anyone under 32 out?

Age really is just a number. Younger guys can be great fun if you pick the right ones.

Problem with that is, aside from hating the comment, age is just a number, its the very thought of meeting them socially which i do with all first meets, then the thought of a young fit boy in bed with an old woman of now 50, absolutely gross thought

I find "age nothing but a number" annoying too!

My playmates are aged 37 to 57. All indulge in some form of physical activity from the 6ft 4 principal of his own dance school to the 6ft marine surveyor who runs marathons for fun. These men have honed, toned bodies...my body is in a state of disrepair.

Just because a man is older it doesn't mean he can't have a fit body! "

ohhhh Sassy, mines fit ................... fit for nothing lol

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By *anba2Couple
over a year ago

burbage

Our oldest son is 21 but wouldn't feel happy with anyone under 25 really...it is all about preference though and I think I prefer people of a similar age to us anyway...got more to chat about when we first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too

I have been known to consider an oldie in my time...

Does that mean im in with a chance then"

Of course...

I regularly consider the younger generation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the youngest age a women of 48 would consider meeting on this site ? i have been approached by a 27 yr old and i have a son of 26 ???

talking numbers if you had a kid at 16 (legal) and you were 48 then your kid would be 32. Doesn't help much, does it? But are you gonna rule anyone under 32 out?

Age really is just a number. Younger guys can be great fun if you pick the right ones.

Problem with that is, aside from hating the comment, age is just a number, its the very thought of meeting them socially which i do with all first meets, then the thought of a young fit boy in bed with an old woman of now 50, absolutely gross thought

I find "age nothing but a number" annoying too!

My playmates are aged 37 to 57. All indulge in some form of physical activity from the 6ft 4 principal of his own dance school to the 6ft marine surveyor who runs marathons for fun. These men have honed, toned bodies...my body is in a state of disrepair.

Just because a man is older it doesn't mean he can't have a fit body! "

i didnt actually mean to imply my age group dont have fit bodies but when you've a fat mummy tummy, it doesnt matter then if the guy you are with isnt slim/fit, just my comfort zone i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too

I have been known to consider an oldie in my time...

Does that mean im in with a chance then

Of course...

I regularly consider the younger generation..."

Me me me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't forget us oldies - we can be fun too

I have been known to consider an oldie in my time...

Does that mean im in with a chance then

Of course...

I regularly consider the younger generation...

Me me me "

;-);-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the "Divide by Two and Add 7" rule works well as a rough guideline.

So if you're 40 then 27 is a good limit. If you're 50 then it goes up to 32, and when you reach 60 then it's up to 37."

I'm nearly 54 and have a regular playmate who is 30. My preference initially was 40+ but since meeting my friend I've had to reconsider. We met, as couples at a party and it took ages before we had our first playtime. We had a number of social meets, and just talked, and flirted really. Have to admit, I held back a bit, I couldn't understand why she would be interested in me. She's gorgeous, size 8-10, lovely smiley face. I'm a middle aged bloke.

I feel the same way as some of you ladies have said you feel, when you are propostitioned by a young fit bodied guy.

Maybe a self confidence thing on my part. I am very aware of the age gap, but must be doing something right. We always play seperate room too, and it's always good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played with some younger guys and they have been lovely. Initially I was put off because Im an older woman and felt a bit embarrassed when the guys were young fit things but all of them seemed very happy when we met.

Of course I could never quite believe they would be interested in me but they message me regularly and want to meet again, of course I keep telling myself its cos they cant get anyone else to meet them, but in actual facts thats not true as they are meeting others. Im surprised at it but hey Ill just bless my good fortune for as long as I can

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