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What does the term 'bunny boiler' mean to you?

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By *ivinefox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Just got a message from a guy who stated no 'bunny boilers' on his profile. Personally I hate that term and think it shows a bad attitude to women and I immediately blocked him! ( after telling him just that )

What exactly do men mean when they use this term, obviously I know where it comes from, but what exactly is being implied by it..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman that is a fruit cake...nutter. does not apply to men...sure there are other terms like stalker. .etc. have to say....not met any women that would really fill the description in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An older woman who likes to fuck a lot and wears a onesie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just watch Fatal Attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a reference to a sequence from the film Fatal attractions where GlenClCloses'character in the film kills a child's pet by boiling it alive in an act of revenge agaist Michael Douglas's character who was her FB in the plot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approach with caution.

Crazy bint ahead.

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By *ivinefox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile?

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By *ivinefox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Guess it's just yet another filter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't boil bunnies. I just roast them or cook them in a pie

But seriously on herr, I'd take it as someone who continuously messages, wants to meet up, won't take no for an answer, messages other verifications you have etc, a bit like a stalker. And yes men do it too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? "

Probably women who, can't take no for an answer, sends loads of messages, won't leave them alone etc

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? "

It means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more.

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By *ivinefox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile?

Probably women who, can't take no for an answer, sends loads of messages, won't leave them alone etc"

Ironic when it seems to be mainly men who do this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a woman who promises casual but quite clearly wants more and gets wholey jealous and phsyco when u go with someone else.... Not a real life story.. Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's interesting, a term that will never be associated to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 'bunny boilers' can be equally male or female!

I have experienced my fair share of male ones, and I am sure there are plenty of both sex lurking the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An older woman who likes to fuck a lot and wears a onesie "

Well,that makes me a bunny boiler then.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Maybe its their way of saying they are married? Its open to interpretation but they may just be saying, they don't want someone to become part of their personal life, or who is going to get upset when that kid of access is denied….. because the guy's personal life might be more precious that he is letting on

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Just got a message from a guy who stated no 'bunny boilers' on his profile. Personally I hate that term and think it shows a bad attitude to women and I immediately blocked him! ( after telling him just that )

What exactly do men mean when they use this term, obviously I know where it comes from, but what exactly is being implied by it..?

"

so you wrote to a random stranger, gave him feedback and then blocked him before he could explain the context behind his words.....

then you ask us to explain it.

I think that is a tad bizarre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting, a term that will never be associated to men "

Iv experienced bunny boiler men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting, a term that will never be associated to men

Iv experienced bunny boiler men "

Me too. I call them deluded.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

for me, it would mean the needy, clingy, whoa betide my hard life, that text and text and text' and become all warm and fuzzy by the second message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? it means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more."

I think this is a good description

I suppose men put it on their profiles because of experiences they've had on here that don't fit their ideas of what the site is about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me, it would mean the needy, clingy, whoa betide my hard life, that text and text and text' and become all warm and fuzzy by the second message."

You got a cold heart View

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"for me, it would mean the needy, clingy, whoa betide my hard life, that text and text and text' and become all warm and fuzzy by the second message.

You got a cold heart View "

you are assuming I have one

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Approach with caution.

Crazy bint ahead."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although both genders probably exhibit such tendencies, it's seems that, as is so often the case, the derogatory term is reserved for women....

In my experience on the swingers scene, it's guys that can constantly message until blocked..

In the real world, there have been a couple of instances in my life where a woman has taken a respectful rejection badly leading me to feel that I should, perhaps, have been firmer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting, a term that will never be associated to men "

Probably because the term was born from the behaviour of a female

Men just get called stalkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me, it would mean the needy, clingy, whoa betide my hard life, that text and text and text' and become all warm and fuzzy by the second message.

You got a cold heart View

you are assuming I have one "

Someone stole it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? it means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more.

I think this is a good description

I suppose men put it on their profiles because of experiences they've had on here that don't fit their ideas of what the site is about "

exactly

and if the behaviours on the forum are anything to be considered, there's a few

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"for me, it would mean the needy, clingy, whoa betide my hard life, that text and text and text' and become all warm and fuzzy by the second message.

You got a cold heart View

you are assuming I have one

Someone stole it "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people intend to become bunny boilers though. Can't help who steals your heart. I'm lucky,like View I don't have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? it means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more.

I think this is a good description

I suppose men put it on their profiles because of experiences they've had on here that don't fit their ideas of what the site is about

exactly

and if the behaviours on the forum are anything to be considered, there's a few"

It's the men who want a fuck n go without exchanging names...obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking of clingy... 'Call me on my cellphone' just came on the radio...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All men except gay are deluded they aspire to women and most castigate them derise them and humiliate them but you gotta love a trier, on a lighter note tie a yellow ribbon round an old oak tree its been 7 long years do you still love me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people intend to become bunny boilers though. Can't help who steals your heart. I'm lucky,like View I don't have one "

I agree... It must be some sort imbalance somewhere, where adoration or whatever becomes a fixation and ultimately an obsession....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I said I know where the phrase comes from but was curious to know what men mean when they say it, and why put it on a profile? it means they don't want a woman who's going to get all clingy and 'develop feelings'. Basically get all weird. Means they just want no strings fun. Nothing more.

I think this is a good description

I suppose men put it on their profiles because of experiences they've had on here that don't fit their ideas of what the site is about

exactly

and if the behaviours on the forum are anything to be considered, there's a few

It's the men who want a fuck n go without exchanging names...obviously "

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I think it is a condensing boiler painted pink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people intend to become bunny boilers though. Can't help who steals your heart. I'm lucky,like View I don't have one

I agree... It must be some sort imbalance somewhere, where adoration or whatever becomes a fixation and ultimately an obsession...."

I've had a few men state they want no strings and after a few days start talking about more than that. I stop them right at the beginning and don't give my home address

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking of clingy... 'Call me on my cellphone' just came on the radio... "

You mean Hotline Bling? Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So does this mean that if you did not have it on your profile then you will attract bunny boilers. Just like having a status about Sydney university.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I think it is when a female ( or male I suppose ) think they are into NSA sex when in fact they get the wedding dress / suit out as soon as someone says they are gorgeous/ wants to fuck them/ fucks them.

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