FabSwingers.com forum: The forum kings

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are guys who use the forums and post regularly more likely to be popular and have more requests for meets than guys who dont use the forums. Women are attracted to intelligent and funny guys. Or do you feel that it could become a little embarrassing to have played with a guy and then have to come back on the forums and act normally. Are you worried it could change the rapport you have or enhance it?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Donno never shagged a guy from the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gents that I meet/met are not forums regulars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Donno never shagged a guy from the forums! "

Me neither mate xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

me neither, but plan to change that next year.... MAYBE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see any reason why it should change anything really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na it wouldn't change owt fa me

Peeps have ta take me as they find me and that's that lol

I cant change I've always been a nutter lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all the guys that post are nice though. Some come across as angry, petulant and devoid of humour: hardly candidates for a fun meet!

The majority of my meets don't post on the forums but do read them. I'm also good friends with many forum regulars but you'd never tell. If they post something I disagree with I say and vice versa.

Intelligent, confident men with a backbone always a turn on as watching them squirm on the other end of a ...well, so much more fun!

As for changing the rapport it hasn't for me or them: why would it? We're on a swinging site looking for sexual partners, not "bessie mates"! That said, you can spot regulars who have played. Usually it's the female who "shoots across the bough" in warning to other women who maybe muscling in on "her" playmate.

Sometimes, just for my own edification I check the profiles and the 101 verifications from them confirms my suspicions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, just for my own edification I check the profiles and the 101 verifications from them confirms my suspicions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, just for my own edification I check the profiles and the 101 verifications from them confirms my suspicions!

Blimey have ya wet the bed??

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

We've often thought the cleverer of the single guys post on the forums.

They are more likely to get noticed, whether that turns into meets for them only they can say. We tend to check out single guy's profiles after reading posts from them rather than doing a search.

But then it goes the complete opposite as well. Some guys post topic after topic of totally useless dross, in our _iew just to get noticed! Some names can be seen 10 or more times as topic starters on one page!

They are trying too hard and us for one get put off by this type. If they come over as too pushy when posting topics, what are they going to be like meeting face to face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've often thought the cleverer of the single guys post on the forums.

They are more likely to get noticed, whether that turns into meets for them only they can say. We tend to check out single guy's profiles after reading posts from them rather than doing a search.

They are trying too hard and us for one get put off by this type. If they come over as too pushy when posting topics, what are they going to be like meeting face to face?"

i would agree with that as i think depending on what the forumites post determines a meet or not. It also gets someones face noticed, i like that as i feel then im meeting someone fairly trustworthy and someone that isnt going to moan or winge constantly about not getting meets

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Most of my meets have been people who I either knew via the forums or contacted me because of them.

However, attending a couple of socials/ club nights didn't hurt either.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I have not met many "women of fab forums" yet... but I would love to as at least I know we would have a bloody good chinwag...

does that make me more popular... I don't think so, but what it does is it give people the chance to do some backreading via the little green arrow...

if i am an arse, its there for people to see.... if i am a nice guy it may give people the chance to get a better feel for me......

I was always a person who met most of my meets via forums and socials and clubs anyway where i get the chance to actually talk to people and make a more reasoned decision.... but that is me...

sean xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've played with a few fellow forumites

some more than once too.

Our "Fab" experiences took off, after we started posting here and attending socials

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Are guys who use the forums and post regularly more likely to be popular and have more requests for meets than guys who dont use the forums. Women are attracted to intelligent and funny guys. Or do you feel that it could become a little embarrassing to have played with a guy and then have to come back on the forums and act normally. Are you worried it could change the rapport you have or enhance it?"
Why dont ya get youself to a social and meet some forumites then you can judge for yourself....im in full agreement with Jack on this one

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If guys spend time being funny, erudite, witty, self-depricating, intelligent, thoughtful, insightful, well-balanced, open, honest, cheeky, articulate and inclusive on the forums, then they'll be 'up to their nuts in guts' in no time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If guys spend time being funny, erudite, witty, self-depricating, intelligent, thoughtful, insightful, well-balanced, open, honest, cheeky, articulate and inclusive on the forums, then they'll be 'up to their nuts in guts' in no time.

which one do you profess to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hope in 2011 get to meet some at fab partys and clubs who chat here in forums would be lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so - we use them all the time and are probably in the top 10 of Fabs most hated - that's because we are cheeky fuckers ...

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

which one do you profess to be?

'guy'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like coming to forums. I enjoy the topics raised and people I come into contact with but I don't think I'd meet anyone from here in the same way I don't think many would meet me. I'm an easy-going person and I find some people here very tense. It's hard to believe anyone has fun here sometimes!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

self depricating... Is that scat... am no really into that or pee, but each to their own tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have never played with anyone who posts regularly on the forums, but there are a number of lovely guys that I would like to. I am attracted to humour and fun guys and I see posts by guys on here and I think he's great. I would be far too nervous to approach them though in case they told me to bugger off and then Id have to face them on the forum, even though I know they would be perfect gentleman and not broadcast it.

I think Sassy made a very good point in that she said you can spot people who have played and sometimes this can be detrimental to others who may want to play with the same person.

And also are the guys just too nice and lovely to get down and dirty with.

I would love to get to a social but because of the type of work my partner does, sometimes weekends are not viable, both of us would love to attend a social, its never the case that we dont want to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"self depricating... Is that scat... am no really into that or pee, but each to their own tho.

PMSL!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never played with anyone who posts regularly on the forums, but there are a number of lovely guys that I would like to. I am attracted to humour and fun guys and I see posts by guys on here and I think he's great. I would be far too nervous to approach them though in case they told me to bugger off and then Id have to face them on the forum, even though I know they would be perfect gentleman and not broadcast it.

I think Sassy made a very good point in that she said you can spot people who have played and sometimes this can be detrimental to others who may want to play with the same person.

And also are the guys just too nice and lovely to get down and dirty with.

awww Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"I like coming to forums. I enjoy the topics raised and people I come into contact with but I don't think I'd meet anyone from here in the same way I don't think many would meet me. I'm an easy-going person and I find some people here very tense. It's hard to believe anyone has fun here sometimes!

Thats a really good point,I sometimes wonder how some people meet after I read some posts in these forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Thats a really good point,I sometimes wonder how some people meet after I read some posts in these forums

Gawwd only knows

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Thats a really good point,I sometimes wonder how some people meet after I read some posts in these forums

It's all a charade.

Or shadow puppetry, I always get those two confused.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I must admit I do get messages entitled - I saw you post in the forum, and I always think oh shit, what I have I said now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit I do get messages entitled - I saw you post in the forum, and I always think oh shit, what I have I said now!

We get similar messages, but ousr usually end with, "and if I ever meet you I'll smash your fucking face in"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats a really good point,I sometimes wonder how some people meet after I read some posts in these forums

lol, we've shagged a few, unless it's all in our heads

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"We get similar messages, but ousr usually end with, "and if I ever meet you I'll smash your fucking face in"

Maybe that's a spoonerism, and you're actually quite popular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get similar messages, but ousr usually end with, "and if I ever meet you I'll smash your fucking face in"

Maybe that's a spoonerism, and you're actually quite popular?

Dammit, I never looked at it that way before - wey hey, drinks are on me, 'Mr Popular'

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"wey hey, drinks are on me, 'Mr Popular'

keeps this quote for future reference at minehead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wey hey, drinks are on me, 'Mr Popular'

keeps this quote for future reference at minehead

Already stockpiling the scrumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"wey hey, drinks are on me, 'Mr Popular'

keeps this quote for future reference at minehead

Already stockpiling the scrumpy

Mmmm I love a bit of scrumpy pumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to bet you both have bloody long memories as well

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

We ran into this sort of problem over at another sit..

But with relation to couples.. It all got a bit friendly and vanilla to us..

We would then not think of meeting them.. As we have enough vanilla friends.. We are here for one thing only...

But then that is our take on swinging and we know it not others..

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I must admit I do get messages entitled - I saw you post in the forum, and I always think oh shit, what I have I said now!

We get similar messages, but ousr usually end with, "and if I ever meet you I'll smash your fucking face in"

.....and that is why I don't go out without a gum shield and a cricket box!

Seriously in my head I think I am not as liked as I am, and apparently I am kinda intimidating in the flesh.. So sometimes you just can't win for being nice!

Also wanted to agree with sassy that some people say thing because they think it makes them look good... The one thing I can't abide is people whose opinion change with the blowing of the winds... I might not always agree with people but I respect them if they stick to what they believe

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.

Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.

So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.

Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.

So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION

An Impression? That's not what you left on my arse last night you dirty, dirty liar. You promised, remember?

My 'hole' (a term used by homosexuals and children of a lesser grammar) could have been used to rescue a Chilean miner this morning.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 29/12/10 19:10:38]

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You been dreaming and playing tents again loobylou

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"You been dreaming and playing tents again loobylou"

I dream only of you.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"You been dreaming and playing tents again loobylou

I dream only of you.

x."

Well yu are only human....

Keep UP the good work x

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*winces*

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Grit your teeth and take it like a man.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I is very gentle.....

To begin with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I is very gentle.....

To begin with..."

.....Like a steel hand in a velvet glove.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Now that sounds interesting...

Any chance of a touch of lube

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I is very gentle.....

To begin with...

.....Like a steel hand in a velvet glove."

. Am lulling him into a false sense of security... I sense he is ripe for a plucking...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Now that sounds interesting...

Any chance of a touch of lube"

Rude not to

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Now that sounds interesting...

Any chance of a touch of lube"

Seriously, don't be seduced by that Mans charms. I was, and paid the price.

His idea of 'gentle' involved a run up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.

Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.

So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION

An Impression? That's not what you left on my arse last night you dirty, dirty liar. You promised, remember?

My 'hole' (a term used by homosexuals and children of a lesser grammar) could have been used to rescue a Chilean miner this morning.

Just one?!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Now that sounds interesting...

Any chance of a touch of lube

Seriously, don't be seduced by that Mans charms. I was, and paid the price.

His idea of 'gentle' involved a run up."

Aye was a relay tho and never heard you complain about all 4 batons crossing your man line....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Bi guys flirting in public....

FFS who would have dared thinking the like...

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Run up..

Thank god.. For a felty moment i thought he was going to hop skip and then a two footed jump..

This is the rimming thread isn't it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Run up..

Thank god.. For a felty moment i thought he was going to hop skip and then a two footed jump..

This is the rimming thread isn't it"

I do requests....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am bloody loving it - its as a good as the time Mr View and Soapy were discussing going to the pub in jeans and sweatshirts instead of their usual bi wardrobe of velvet pantaloons and frilly shirts

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Loving your new avatar iconic. It's lovely.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Pantaloons and frilly shirts

Mr View I am surprised .. Very straight

Why do we bi guys go to all the bloody preening, grooming, eyebrow plucking and tinting, body shaving, always on a bloody diet..

To have a saggy ass from the rear?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Wash your mouth out mr east mids with the lovely cock pic...

I is never straight ..........EVER.

I swish and glide. flowing with a fragrance of creed Irish t... My fav smell.

Then elegantly slip to my knees..

AND CHOMP COCK TILL IT SPURTS JIZZ

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank you for your comment on my avatar, Im so pleased that the eyelashes managed to stick on properly - oh and Mr East Mids does have a gorgeous cock

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Mr East's favourite book is "a room with a View"...oops wrong thread....or is it

(Mrs)

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.

Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.

So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION

An Impression? That's not what you left on my arse last night you dirty, dirty liar. You promised, remember?

My 'hole' (a term used by homosexuals and children of a lesser grammar) could have been used to rescue a Chilean miner this morning.

Note to self: don't eat tea while reading this forum lol

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Oh the pleasures of a multi device household.. Laptop and iPad..

Mrs new.. Dont you have a meet to sort out! Tut

And thanks iconic.. Not haplp with my hair in that photo and the cock is only at half mast but it will do..

And your eyelashes.. Dahrlink.. Very sparkly..

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

I am sorting it AND reading this, I love being female, the ability to multi task.....I could do with a wine refill btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

View, Sensual, get a room, and I'll sit in the corner and watch, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously in my head I think I am not as liked as I am, and apparently I am kinda intimidating in the flesh.. So sometimes you just can't win for being nice!

Ha!

You are a pussy cat compared with femme!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AAAAAAAAAAAAnd back to the thread for a sec, sorry guys!

I have met and played with someone on the forums and it doesn't change anything, really.

I am a lot more selective though, so I do have trouble getting meets, poor me!

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

"AAAAAAAAAAAAnd back to the thread for a sec, sorry guys!

I have met and played with someone on the forums and it doesn't change anything, really.

I am a lot more selective though, so I do have trouble getting meets, poor me!

Good post, I would gladly meet any of the Lovely ladies on this forum, if they cared to invite me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh the pleasures of a multi device household.. Laptop and iPad..

Mrs new.. Dont you have a meet to sort out! Tut

And thanks iconic.. Not haplp with my hair in that photo and the cock is only at half mast but it will do..

And your eyelashes.. Dahrlink.. Very sparkly.."

Yes the hair was the very first thing I noticed (note to self, go back and look at the pic just in case he asks you any questions on his hair)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not seen anyone from my area post on the forums yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posting definitely helps give people an impression of the poster. Shows personality and values.

Mind ya... I often make folks laugh before slitting their throats and eating them.

So I will repeat.... An IMPRESSION

An Impression? That's not what you left on my arse last night you dirty, dirty liar. You promised, remember?

My 'hole' (a term used by homosexuals and children of a lesser grammar) could have been used to rescue a Chilean miner this morning.

Note to self: don't eat tea while reading this forum lol"

EAT?!!! bldy ell, what kind o tea do YOU buy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a couple who use the forums and met a few who don't. In all honesty it's never made any difference as i meet people i like and not just because they do anything. I have to get on with someone but i also have to find them visually appealing. I am not into the any hole thing.

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