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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So ladies and couples, myself as well as a lot of other "single male" profiles have been messaging you lovely people, how long do you leave messages from our group before deciding to delete them, I've got messages a week old unread in my sent box, and I've deleted messages older than that in the past that haven't been read. Can you not delete to tidy up the inbox or are you getting 100s and don't want to delete any potential diamonds in the rough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read and either answer or delete as soon as I see them . It's rare. Leave a message unread

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Oops, guilty, although I tend to block those that offend and reply to all others, even if it's a thank you but no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who you are emailing. .Some females have over a hundreds or thousand emails unread... You have no idea how many the recieve. I find it amazing my friends even find mine to reply too.

Sometimes after a week it will be lost in the sands of time, the key is not to keep on emailing lots and lots as just come across as an arse...

Its a fine line and there is no right or wrong answer...

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I try and answer all my messages, but if I've had a particular busy couple of days and not kept on top of messages, some will drop off the page and are therefore forgotten about until I say fuck it and do a mass delete because there are too many to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also they manage it in different ways and its up to them how they manage it... Even if it means my ocd goes crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not getting 100s of guys messaging but i am talking to people so overall i probably am getting 100s of mails. I do delete once i've finished chatting.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Another thing, I tend to reply to friends first, they get prority, so other messages disappear into the abyss.

I have loads of filters set, so I'm not one to get hundreds a day luckily, so most of the time you'll get a reply from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We read and reply to all messages next time we come on fab or if on and receive messages we reply straight away,as don't get many messages as others think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our inbox is fairly empty, mainly cos the filters are set to 99 year old 4ft2 TV's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get regular messages from one friend. I read them, and lately, reply as soon as possible. Then it remains empty until the next

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Am I correct in saying that if you delete a message without reading it, then it just looks as though it's still there but unread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I correct in saying that if you delete a message without reading it, then it just looks as though it's still there but unread? "

So someone told me the other day/week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally reply within a day.,, have 14 unread and some will be from people I'm already talking to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I correct in saying that if you delete a message without reading it, then it just looks as though it's still there but unread? "

Aaah, that may answer a few questions, might as well clear my sent box then

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Depending on the message, I leave it unread on purpose, that might then make men realise and maybe even rethink the type of messages they are sending.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Am I correct in saying that if you delete a message without reading it, then it just looks as though it's still there but unread?

So someone told me the other day/week."

Yeah I read it on the forum and was surprised. I just assumed it would have had a strike through. Wanna test it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i don't mind helping out. Would be interesting to find out myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to keep in top of mine but it's an out of control mess at the moment

I'll sort it out at some point

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Yeah i don't mind helping out. Would be interesting to find out myself."

You'll need to send me a message.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Yeah i don't mind helping out. Would be interesting to find out myself.

You'll need to send me a message. "

Dirty deleats mine straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i read reply then delete all apart from msgs off my fav guy i keep his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh good

I would like to know what the sender sees when you delete a message without reading it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's someone I've seen or chatted to on the forums I answer soon as I've seen it of it's someone I don't know then It depends the structure of the msg

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end."

Unread and deleted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.

Unread and deleted! "

It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.

Lol that guy must have just not his messages read.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.

Unread and deleted!

It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.

Lol that guy must have just not his messages read."

That's good to know!

Experiment complete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.

Unread and deleted!

It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.

Lol that guy must have just not his messages read.

That's good to know!

Experiment complete! "

I was hoping they couldn't tell.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.

Unread and deleted!

It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.

Lol that guy must have just not his messages read.

That's good to know!

Experiment complete!

I was hoping they couldn't tell."

Me too... good to know but I'm a bit disappointed! I figured they'd be able to tell it wasn't read but simply deleted. It must be shit being a bloke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"done let me know when you delete it, and then i'll delete your message unopened and you can see from your end.

Unread and deleted!

It's got deleted next to it, and it's not yellow.

Lol that guy must have just not his messages read.

That's good to know!

Experiment complete!

I was hoping they couldn't tell.

Me too... good to know but I'm a bit disappointed! I figured they'd be able to tell it wasn't read but simply deleted. It must be shit being a bloke! "

Yeah when i get no messages for a while i think how shit it must be being a guy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

delete most without bothering to read them these days tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ATM I have 361 unread and i rarely delete because I'm too lazy. A lot will go unread

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I reply to all mine but not necessarily straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as we read a message we instantly either reply or delete or both

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