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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there some kind of law/rule online where every* conversation with the opposite sex turns to sex within 3 messages?

*Might be a slight over-exaggeration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there some kind of law/rule online where every* conversation with the opposite sex turns to sex within 3 messages?

*Might be a slight over-exaggeration."

Not all, but many certainly do lol

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I get messages asking if I got the message 3 times. Oddly I responded to say all 3 messages are showing in my inbox but I'm no longer interested in reading any of them. Only sent it once though.

3 message rule, could work. Can we add they must answer every question in full though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, straight to the point. Fancy a fuck OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, straight to the point. Fancy a fuck OP?"

Classy Mr Berks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it come under the same set of rules that state if a message hasn't been replied to within about 3 seconds you have to send another one saying "???????????"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a rally of message didn't turn into looking to arrange meeting then I'd lose interest.

Sexting through fab is a real turn off though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hate being a feminist. Trying to have sexual freedom but also trying to maintain some standard of being a human being at the same time.

Might only have pics of me in clothes on my profile, nothing sexual about me at all lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oposite sex?

Ohhhh is that where I've been going wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an indication of what the person wants and their temperament. In my experience the quicker a conversation turns to sex the less likely it is to happen and the more selfish the person is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oposite sex?

Ohhhh is that where I've been going wrong?"

Lol, seems so. Eve have to married on facebook to be left alone there.

I can talk to some guys and it's not all sex but idk, might just not talk to new people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's an indication of what the person wants and their temperament. In my experience the quicker a conversation turns to sex the less likely it is to happen and the more selfish the person is. "

Yeah the sex chat does seem to focus on themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get messages asking if I got the message 3 times. Oddly I responded to say all 3 messages are showing in my inbox but I'm no longer interested in reading any of them. Only sent it once though.

3 message rule, could work. Can we add they must answer every question in full though "

Couple of replies have given me a good idea, i'm gonna ask them what they're gonna do to me and then block them...

haha, if only i was the bitch i wanna be.

Fuck it, i am that bitch and this is gonna happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there some kind of law/rule online where every* conversation with the opposite sex turns to sex within 3 messages?

*Might be a slight over-exaggeration."

I wouldn't know. I've never messaged anyone other than replies to people berating me for something or other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it would work for the women as men are more up for a fuck, but next to impossible to do to a woman as they are hard work lol.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I just use that as another filter. I'm happy to get into the nitty gritty with someone I've met but a new person? Within three messages? Not for me.

I have so many filters I'll be lucky to meet anyone this side of death!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"Nah, straight to the point. Fancy a fuck OP?"

And i automatically block those messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally crap at sex talk if it's not in person n if it goes straight to sex they haven't read me ranty profile so I just ignore or block em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there some kind of law/rule online where every* conversation with the opposite sex turns to sex within 3 messages?

*Might be a slight over-exaggeration."

This gets on my tits! And puts me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm putting filters on for a while so nobody can message me unless i already know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting so good at picking the kind of men I'm going to enjoy in bed it doesn't get to the third message for it to get into sexual talk.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Is there some kind of law/rule online where every* conversation with the opposite sex turns to sex within 3 messages?

*Might be a slight over-exaggeration."

I normally tell them in the 1st reply that I won't talk sex with them so if they are looking for wank material then they need to go else where as I won't answer them...... and after no more than 5 message they start with the 'so what are you gonna do to me' crap.

At this point I start ignoring them, they were warned

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't do sex talk, as it says on ma profile, action speaks louder than words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there some kind of law/rule online where every* conversation with the opposite sex turns to sex within 3 messages?

*Might be a slight over-exaggeration.

I normally tell them in the 1st reply that I won't talk sex with them so if they are looking for wank material then they need to go else where as I won't answer them...... and after no more than 5 message they start with the 'so what are you gonna do to me' crap.

At this point I start ignoring them, they were warned "

Think i just got pissed off today because i like chatting to guys on here, but like recently any new guys i try to chat with start off as normal talk and you think it's a normal conversation going on so chat back and it changes up so quickly! And because guys on here are usually not snidey with their behaviour like, or haven't been with me for a while anyway, that i got complacent and just wasn't prepared for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there some kind of law/rule online where every* conversation with the opposite sex turns to sex within 3 messages?

*Might be a slight over-exaggeration.

I normally tell them in the 1st reply that I won't talk sex with them so if they are looking for wank material then they need to go else where as I won't answer them...... and after no more than 5 message they start with the 'so what are you gonna do to me' crap.

At this point I start ignoring them, they were warned "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, straight to the point. Fancy a fuck OP?"

DAN!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, straight to the point. Fancy a fuck OP?

DAN!!! "

Oops! Anyone who knows me knows I have a 300 message rule until I start anything saucy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, straight to the point. Fancy a fuck OP?

And i automatically block those messages x"

just teasin' (frantic backtrack ... )

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me it depends some I am talking about sex in 10 some in 5 some in 30 it just depends on the topic of conversation

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I guess it would work for the women as men are more up for a fuck, but next to impossible to do to a woman as they are hard work lol."

We are not all hard work!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I guess it would work for the women as men are more up for a fuck, but next to impossible to do to a woman as they are hard work lol."

You just need patience.

And a wanking machine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it would work for the women as men are more up for a fuck, but next to impossible to do to a woman as they are hard work lol.

You just need patience.

And a wanking machine! "
That is right, perfect result every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it would work for the women as men are more up for a fuck, but next to impossible to do to a woman as they are hard work lol.

We are not all hard work! "
You are right there as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there some kind of law/rule online where every* conversation with the opposite sex turns to sex within 3 messages?

*Might be a slight over-exaggeration."

No there isn't!

I very rarely talk about sex when I'm messaging tbh!

I adore actually having sex - but I've no interest in endlessly chatting about it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3!!! if it takes more than 1 I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message 1, Hi,

Message 2, Hot pictures,

Message 3, Tell me how you would you would suck my cock,

Some people on here expect a 10 page essay, It's hard to type/think and wank at the same time

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Message 1, Hi,

Message 2, Hot pictures,

Message 3, Tell me how you would you would suck my cock,

Some people on here expect a 10 page essay, It's hard to type/think and wank at the same time

"

Yeah step it up a gear won't you? I fell asleep last time!

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