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"If you give it while rubbing your thighs,leering and dribbling" My cock dribbles at your beauty....................................................................like that you mean?  | |||
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"If you give it while rubbing your thighs,leering and dribbling My cock dribbles at your beauty....................................................................like that you mean? " ......runs away screaming | |||
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"If you give it while rubbing your thighs,leering and dribbling My cock dribbles at your beauty....................................................................like that you mean? "haha u got that spot on | |||
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"If you give it while rubbing your thighs,leering and dribbling" Damn! That's where I've been going wrong  | |||
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"When it's unwanted." Is it from the person or the compliment itself that would make it unwanted? If for example a Brad Pitt and steve from round the corner send the exact same compliment would both be unwanted or only Steves? | |||
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"When it's unwanted. Is it from the person or the compliment itself that would make it unwanted? If for example a Brad Pitt and steve from round the corner send the exact same compliment would both be unwanted or only Steves?" Either. I'm not that into compliments, they're just someone elses opinion on me that i don't really care for nor respond to. If i didn't fancy the guy then the message would be even less appealing yes. Although a fair amount of hot guys have also put me off them with their messages. | |||
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"When it's unwanted. Is it from the person or the compliment itself that would make it unwanted? If for example a Brad Pitt and steve from round the corner send the exact same compliment would both be unwanted or only Steves? Either. I'm not that into compliments, they're just someone elses opinion on me that i don't really care for nor respond to. If i didn't fancy the guy then the message would be even less appealing yes. Although a fair amount of hot guys have also put me off them with their messages. " Not wanting to argue or anything as you are more than entitled to your opinion but your profile does go out of its way to thank people for their considerate messages etc,there wouldn't be any compliments in those considerate messages no? | |||
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"When it's unwanted. Is it from the person or the compliment itself that would make it unwanted? If for example a Brad Pitt and steve from round the corner send the exact same compliment would both be unwanted or only Steves? Either. I'm not that into compliments, they're just someone elses opinion on me that i don't really care for nor respond to. If i didn't fancy the guy then the message would be even less appealing yes. Although a fair amount of hot guys have also put me off them with their messages. Not wanting to argue or anything as you are more than entitled to your opinion but your profile does go out of its way to thank people for their considerate messages etc,there wouldn't be any compliments in those considerate messages no?" Could be, i tend to ignore compliments, like i said it means nothing to me and is just someones opinion of me based on looks mainly, i'm not my looks. Considerate, to me, is that they don't approach me like i'm a fuck puppet here for their pleasure only. They treat me like i'm a person, you might be surprised how many guys don't. | |||
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"When it's unwanted. Is it from the person or the compliment itself that would make it unwanted? If for example a Brad Pitt and steve from round the corner send the exact same compliment would both be unwanted or only Steves? Either. I'm not that into compliments, they're just someone elses opinion on me that i don't really care for nor respond to. If i didn't fancy the guy then the message would be even less appealing yes. Although a fair amount of hot guys have also put me off them with their messages. Not wanting to argue or anything as you are more than entitled to your opinion but your profile does go out of its way to thank people for their considerate messages etc,there wouldn't be any compliments in those considerate messages no? Could be, i tend to ignore compliments, like i said it means nothing to me and is just someones opinion of me based on looks mainly, i'm not my looks. Considerate, to me, is that they don't approach me like i'm a fuck puppet here for their pleasure only. They treat me like i'm a person, you might be surprised how many guys don't." That is a fair enough reply | |||
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"If you give it while rubbing your thighs,leering and dribbling" I once went on a date with a guy who called me 'young lady' throughout whilst doing all of the above
I got up and walked out, jumped in my car and left him sat there! | |||
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"Again I ask is it the compliment itself or the person who is sending the compliment? | |||
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"When it's unwanted. Is it from the person or the compliment itself that would make it unwanted? If for example a Brad Pitt and steve from round the corner send the exact same compliment would both be unwanted or only Steves? Either. I'm not that into compliments, they're just someone elses opinion on me that i don't really care for nor respond to. If i didn't fancy the guy then the message would be even less appealing yes. Although a fair amount of hot guys have also put me off them with their messages. Not wanting to argue or anything as you are more than entitled to your opinion but your profile does go out of its way to thank people for their considerate messages etc,there wouldn't be any compliments in those considerate messages no? Could be, i tend to ignore compliments, like i said it means nothing to me and is just someones opinion of me based on looks mainly, i'm not my looks. Considerate, to me, is that they don't approach me like i'm a fuck puppet here for their pleasure only. They treat me like i'm a person, you might be surprised how many guys don't." This is exactly how I feel. The amount of messages I get saying "nice tits" and nothing else. It's the messages I get that don't say that, that catch my eye and make me want to chat. | |||
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"When it's unwanted. This is exactly how I feel. The amount of messages I get saying "nice tits" and nothing else. It's the messages I get that don't say that, that catch my eye and make me want to chat." but saying nice tits et al is not really a compliment though is it? A compliment to me would be telling someone they look good or their hair is nice or something they are wearing is lovely,compliment someone on an achievement or their intellect.Would those compliments be unwanted if they came from a person you deemed unattractive against someone you deem attractive? | |||
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"My own personal choice is to take both insults and compliments as compliments,if someone passes a compliment well thank you very much,if someone goes out of their way to insult me then I must be in their head and therefore have already won against their insult so thank you very much "Why would you wanna be in a warped persons head though? I just don't think other peoples opinions are anything to base your self image on. You are what you think, not what anyone else thinks. | |||
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"My own personal choice is to take both insults and compliments as compliments,if someone passes a compliment well thank you very much,if someone goes out of their way to insult me then I must be in their head and therefore have already won against their insult so thank you very much
Why would you wanna be in a warped persons head though?
I just don't think other peoples opinions are anything to base your self image on. You are what you think, not what anyone else thinks."Turn negatives into positives it takes the power away from the detractor. | |||
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"When it's unwanted.
Again I ask is it the compliment itself or the person who is sending the compliment?"depends on the so called compliment ,some things would make me want to tell someone to fuck off whoever they were | |||
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"My own personal choice is to take both insults and compliments as compliments,if someone passes a compliment well thank you very much,if someone goes out of their way to insult me then I must be in their head and therefore have already won against their insult so thank you very much
Why would you wanna be in a warped persons head though?
I just don't think other peoples opinions are anything to base your self image on. You are what you think, not what anyone else thinks.
Turn negatives into positives it takes the power away from the detractor."Interesting. I'd say you have now formed an opinion of them though, and as such have given them some form of reality and validation into your world/life. By making them non-existent is taking away their everything. | |||
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"My own personal choice is to take both insults and compliments as compliments,if someone passes a compliment well thank you very much,if someone goes out of their way to insult me then I must be in their head and therefore have already won against their insult so thank you very much
Why would you wanna be in a warped persons head though?
I just don't think other peoples opinions are anything to base your self image on. You are what you think, not what anyone else thinks.
Turn negatives into positives it takes the power away from the detractor.
Interesting. I'd say you have now formed an opinion of them though, and as such have given them some form of reality and validation into your world/life.
By making them non-existent is taking away their everything.
"Most insults I would receive are alas not in cyberspace usually from people I would have day to day contact with and my choice to accept them as compliments negates the need for me to smash my fist in their face | |||
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"When it's unwanted.
Again I ask is it the compliment itself or the person who is sending the compliment?depends on the so called compliment ,some things would make me want to tell someone to fuck off whoever they were "Agreed but I do tend to find that people who are seen as attractive get away with more than those not seen in the same light,it is not a right or wrong thing it is just society I guess. | |||
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"My own personal choice is to take both insults and compliments as compliments,if someone passes a compliment well thank you very much,if someone goes out of their way to insult me then I must be in their head and therefore have already won against their insult so thank you very much
Why would you wanna be in a warped persons head though?
I just don't think other peoples opinions are anything to base your self image on. You are what you think, not what anyone else thinks.
Turn negatives into positives it takes the power away from the detractor.
Interesting. I'd say you have now formed an opinion of them though, and as such have given them some form of reality and validation into your world/life.
By making them non-existent is taking away their everything.
Most insults I would receive are alas not in cyberspace usually from people I would have day to day contact with and my choice to accept them as compliments negates the need for me to smash my fist in their face "Fair enough. What works for one person doesn't work for everyone. | |||
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"When it's unwanted.
Again I ask is it the compliment itself or the person who is sending the compliment?"Sometimes its both | |||
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"When it's unwanted. This is exactly how I feel. The amount of messages I get saying "nice tits" and nothing else. It's the messages I get that don't say that, that catch my eye and make me want to chat. but saying nice tits et al is not really a compliment though is it? A compliment to me would be telling someone they look good or their hair is nice or something they are wearing is lovely,compliment someone on an achievement or their intellect.Would those compliments be unwanted if they came from a person you deemed unattractive against someone you deem attractive?" I don't believe compliments from anybody on here. | |||
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"If you give it while rubbing your thighs,leering and dribbling" vic reeves came to mind when i read that | |||
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Got told I had a nice smell the other week, which was nice but my pervy radar couldn't think what to do with that. | |||
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