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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Resently my ex messaged me asking to be friends and talk over what went wrong. She still drives me mad thinking about her what do I do???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might help if I could spell friends hahaha ooppps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never go back...

But if you still have feelings go with your gut, it's usually right!

Ps...

You're hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It pretty much depends on what finished the relationship off. Some break ups are terminal and some can be rescued. Trust your gut would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would need more info on what went wrong and how deep the cut is.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm not friends with any of my ex's. They are an ex for a reason

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'm not friends with any of my ex's. They are an ex for a reason "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From personal experience, we've been together since 16, had a brief fall out at around 20 and now we're engaged and have a mortgage together also have the responsibility of a sausage dog

Things can work out

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Would need more info on what went wrong and how deep the cut is."

Exactly, if you fell out over something silly then get talking again. If one of you was being made miserable by bad behaviour from the other then stay away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I work a lot and she claimed I didn't show her enought attention but I did and I did try to do more with her when I wasn't working. Then it just got worse and she got d*unk and I seen text messages from her so called friend asking if they were still meeting up as she enjoyed the weekend they had.i was gone before she even woke up that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then with that don't commit to anything until you are sure yourself what you would want the outcome to be

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ex's are for a reason I can't think of any of my ex's that I'd like to get with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss my ex she was such a hot slut lady on the street whore in the sheets type of gal X I'd love the chance to fuck her again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awwwww not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's only asked to be friends right?

If you split amicably why can't you still be friends?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"She's only asked to be friends right?

If you split amicably why can't you still be friends? "

it never works out like that though I don't think

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I'm not friends with any of my ex's. They are an ex for a reason "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just split with someone after 20 odd years

I can't imagine not ever being friends with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's only asked to be friends right?

If you split amicably why can't you still be friends?

it never works out like that though I don't think"

I expect the reasons for breaking up have a lot to do with it

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Whats wrong with meeting up to talk? You aren't committing to anything else at that stage, so what harm can it do?

The fact you have asked the question shows that part of you wants to - we regret the things we don't do, more than the things we do - think of it like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Resently my ex messaged me asking to be friends and talk over what went wrong. She still drives me mad thinking about her what do I do???"
drives you mad in the I still wanna fuck her brains out or mad at what went wrong x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get too ahead of yourselves. looks like you're looking to work something out?

Chat abut what went wrong first, this will give you a good idea if anything can be done about the problems you had that split you up, or if you even want to get to that stage at all.

You can be friends with some exes, it's always nicer to remain friends, but there are some people you'll never be able to stay just friends with. If this is a problem then you have to let them go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I work a lot and she claimed I didn't show her enought attention but I did and I did try to do more with her when I wasn't working. Then it just got worse and she got d*unk and I seen text messages from her so called friend asking if they were still meeting up as she enjoyed the weekend they had.i was gone before she even woke up that day."

How long ago was that?

If it was very recent do you need a bit of time and space first?

Will it be too upsetting for you to see her yet...as friends?

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

talking does no harm and better to end on a good chat than an argument - if no future to be had that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was still on talking terms with my last ex. He was my best friend since 11 years old and was a big part of my life. I believe it'd just make me angry to stay in touch with him though, so it was best to cut contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could shake mine, be strong, go with your gut and stick with it (if only I could follow my own advice!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm friends with several ex's. No place for bitterness in my life. We can't help falling out of love anymore than falling in love...

Go with your intuition on this, you'll know what's best for you.. Good luck with it all x

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Don't live life always thinking what if.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Resently my ex messaged me asking to be friends and talk over what went wrong. She still drives me mad thinking about her what do I do???"

Been there done that stay as far away as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I work a lot and she claimed I didn't show her enought attention but I did and I did try to do more with her when I wasn't working. Then it just got worse and she got d*unk and I seen text messages from her so called friend asking if they were still meeting up as she enjoyed the weekend they had.i was gone before she even woke up that day."

That really settles it do you want a friend who you can't trust?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all

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