FabSwingers.com forum: The arrogance of some people on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Accused of sending a copy and pasted message then blocked, it wasn't, it was polite and personalised to them, jeeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if that defines arrogance.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's a blessing

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Have a rant - that'll change things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get over it and move on mate.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Well at least they made their accusations in private.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a rant - that'll change things"

It doesn't but venting does make you feel better, my therapist says so anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Accused of sending a copy and pasted message then blocked, it wasn't, it was polite and personalised to them, jeeez

Shame. Might have been crap then? Not the end of the world.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Accused of sending a copy and pasted message then blocked, it wasn't, it was polite and personalised to them, jeeez

It happens.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shit, just realised I've opened myself up to a shooting here, best put my ironman suit on.

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Forget it, move on, have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dunno if that defines arrogance. "

Sorry I did get a reply, which I won't quote but yes, very arrogant response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh, you must be furious

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooh, you must be furious

Nah, having a 3some tonight so that will calm me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't assume an entitlement of courteous response when contacting strangers ......

But then again, I'm just so fook'in awesome....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've accused men of sending me c&p messages before, but its surely not difficult to remember to change the name in them. Is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just didn't want to fuck you

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd just not send that message again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the mind that makes assumptions deserve the presence of yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't please everyone I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've accused men of sending me c&p messages before, but its surely not difficult to remember to change the name in them. Is it?"

I love the assumptions being made here, no, it wasn't a cut and paste message for [insert name here] some of us guys actually put effort in to our messages

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Ooh, you must be furious

Nah, having a 3some tonight so that will calm me down

With the couple you messaged?!

bloody hell, you're good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've accused men of sending me c&p messages before, but its surely not difficult to remember to change the name in them. Is it?

I love the assumptions being made here, no, it wasn't a cut and paste message for [insert name here] some of us guys actually put effort in to our messages

Didn't work that time. Keep trying. And whinge less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Accused of sending a copy and pasted message then blocked, it wasn't, it was polite and personalised to them, jeeez

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I agree!

Some people are terribly stuck up their own back-side on here. Most of them probaply rarely go out anyways, they are just blinded by the Internet dynamics. (Reads = they don't understand they would not be that "popular" in real life!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've accused men of sending me c&p messages before, but its surely not difficult to remember to change the name in them. Is it?

I love the assumptions being made here, no, it wasn't a cut and paste message for [insert name here] some of us guys actually put effort in to our messages

Suck it up buttercup. A genuine message doesn't entitle you to a reply. You've tried, now move on and don't waste any more energy on someone who isn't interested.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Ooh, you must be furious

Nah, having a 3some tonight so that will calm me down

So you're NOT furious.

Sounds as if you are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd just not send that message again

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Oh Tina, you lil' Devil!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a rant - that'll change things"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a soap opera on fab

Full of life changing events 24/7

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

You sent a (as you thought) well crafted message. They misunderstood it. Sounds like you weren't on the same wavelength and both of you dodged a proverbial bullet since if a message went that wrong then imagine a meet

. Nobody's fault, nobody's loss, just one of those things.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Probably best off without them.

Move on and forger it x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"It's like a soap opera on fab

Full of life changing events 24/7

yup........

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"It's like a soap opera on fab

Full of life changing events 24/7

Fabdoublenders

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Well at least they made their accusations in private."
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't please everyone I guess."
too right you can't please alla the people alla the time ,copy and paste the next message as therapy

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeah same as the one's that address me as 'hey guys, I love your profile'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone else not really fussed about personalised messages?

As long as it's not a one Liner and shows they've taken an interest. Doesn't need to be much more than a few lines.

Or is it just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's a blessing"

Spot on. Doesn't sound like someone you'd really want to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain OP, when I first joined the site I spent about 40 minutes crafting and rewriting a very personalised message, meeting their requirements and sent with a face pic. The reply? "Nice copy and paste - prick!" with a block! I was properly gutted (early days before I was used to how the site works!)

Now I couldn't give a shite and move on!

Good luck buddy!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Accused of sending a copy and pasted message then blocked, it wasn't, it was polite and personalised to them, jeeez

Was it the same one you sent me?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Probably best off without them.

Move on and forger it x "

Forget... Bloody phone

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Accused of sending a copy and pasted message then blocked, it wasn't, it was polite and personalised to them, jeeez

Accused of sending a copy and pasted message then blocked, it wasn't, it was polite and personalised to them, jeeez

who would dream of doing that!!! lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I've accused men of sending me c&p messages before, but its surely not difficult to remember to change the name in them. Is it?

I love the assumptions being made here, no, it wasn't a cut and paste message for [insert name here] some of us guys actually put effort in to our messages

And some dont. I didnt aim my response at you but if the cap fits...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf, most are copy n paste! But in your case, how rude. Damn them!!

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