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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just been scrolling through photos and came across a girl who looked younger than my 15 year old (not saying she is that age). But what do you think should be the minimum age for this site??

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

18 I think, anyone looking really young should be reported for Admin to check. Just in case.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

18. That's what it is.

Did you report the picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh oh. I raised this topic recently and was crucified lol (joking a lil)

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

18 and over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18, if you are in doubt that someone may be too young report the profile to admin to look into

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 it's so easy for people to make up a profile regardless of age that all the moderators can do is delete and block an IP address I'd be happy to have a credit card number in place to gain access to the site at least it lowers the chances of under 18 trying to get on the site and a lot of the time wasters too

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask "

I agree, specially true with big girls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"18 it's so easy for people to make up a profile regardless of age that all the moderators can do is delete and block an IP address I'd be happy to have a credit card number in place to gain access to the site at least it lowers the chances of under 18 trying to get on the site and a lot of the time wasters too "

I completely agree with that!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask "

You don't have to make the judgement, admin do.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I agree, specially true with big girls "

It is?

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I agree 18 ..... but how can admin check if people are lying or not, I know 18 yr olds that look 25 and some that look 15. (I mean know just to see around in the real world, NOT on fab).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask "

Then I'm sure you'll agree that they shouldn't pay tax, or vote too?

We've been swinging since 21 and have met people as young as 19.

We've found its generally people in their 40s that behave the most immature. Seen some pretty eyebrow raising things.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I agree, specially true with big girls

It is? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

Then I'm sure you'll agree that they shouldn't pay tax, or vote too?

We've been swinging since 21 and have met people as young as 19.

We've found its generally people in their 40s that behave the most immature. Seen some pretty eyebrow raising things. "

I got ID'd for alcohol last week and I'm 34, if someone looks like they could be underage for this site then surely people have an obligation to check this with admin, if only to stop exploitation etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

You don't have to make the judgement, admin do."

Sorry no. I meant as an 18 year old could they make a correct judgement call on people they are meeting? I don't think I could have at 18

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

You don't have to make the judgement, admin do.

Sorry no. I meant as an 18 year old could they make a correct judgement call on people they are meeting? I don't think I could have at 18 "

But then they will learn from their mistakes...

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

You don't have to make the judgement, admin do.

Sorry no. I meant as an 18 year old could they make a correct judgement call on people they are meeting? I don't think I could have at 18 "

it would be the same if they were full of drink when out on the town and after a quick shag - they would be safer on here at least they will be sober

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

You don't have to make the judgement, admin do.

Sorry no. I meant as an 18 year old could they make a correct judgement call on people they are meeting? I don't think I could have at 18

it would be the same if they were full of drink when out on the town and after a quick shag - they would be safer on here at least they will be sober "

True!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In regards to 18 year old making judgments on here, id actually say they are probably more internet savvy than most.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

You don't have to make the judgement, admin do.

Sorry no. I meant as an 18 year old could they make a correct judgement call on people they are meeting? I don't think I could have at 18 "

Possibly not no, but then again I've seen threads on here from people in their thirties and forties who have been incredibly naive. Manipulative people exist everywhere but I understand where you're coming from.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Age and maturity aren't the same things. The age of majority is 18 so it would be unfair to say they are barred but I do worry about older women and men who target the very young on here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"but I do worry about older women and men who target the very young on here.

"

What about the young men who target the older women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

I agree, specially true with big girls "

That's not a very nice thing to say. Aren't big girls allowed fun too

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

I agree, specially true with big girls

That's not a very nice thing to say. Aren't big girls allowed fun too"

no it was not a derogatory comment, but i sometimes find if difficult to guess their age and i like big girls! so no offense

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"but I do worry about older women and men who target the very young on here.

What about the young men who target the older women? "

There are young men and young women who target older wo/men.

I do think we brush concerns about younger men under the carpet a bit and ignore the damage that can be done to them too.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Uh oh. I raised this topic recently and was crucified lol (joking a lil) "

Was going to say that this was opened this week.

18 until dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think some kind of age verification should be added. A bit like when you want to get the adult block lifted on a mobile phone. Given a lot of the x rated content on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

I agree, specially true with big girls

That's not a very nice thing to say. Aren't big girls allowed fun too"

I think he meant developed girls hehe

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"You don't have to look hard for us all to be able to see the picture!!

I think I worry that at 18 a judgement call on a person is a big ask

I agree, specially true with big girls

That's not a very nice thing to say. Aren't big girls allowed fun too

I think he meant developed girls hehe"

well thats a better word to use,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but I do worry about older women and men who target the very young on here.

What about the young men who target the older women?

There are young men and young women who target older wo/men.

I'm 40 below 30 for me is a no no. Plus if look like their bloody mother hehe

I do think we brush concerns about younger men under the carpet a bit and ignore the damage that can be done to them too.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I agree, specially true with big girls

That's not a very nice thing to say. Aren't big girls allowed fun too

no it was not a derogatory comment, but i sometimes find if difficult to guess their age and i like big girls! so no offense "

It did come across as a dig

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but I do worry about older women and men who target the very young on here.

What about the young men who target the older women?

There are young men and young women who target older wo/men.

I do think we brush concerns about younger men under the carpet a bit and ignore the damage that can be done to them too.

"

I'm 40 below 30 for me is a no no. Plus if look like their bloody mother hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"18 it's so easy for people to make up a profile regardless of age that all the moderators can do is delete and block an IP address I'd be happy to have a credit card number in place to gain access to the site at least it lowers the chances of under 18 trying to get on the site and a lot of the time wasters too "

That would be me out then as I have never had a credit card in my life nor wanted one and I'm nearly 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"18 it's so easy for people to make up a profile regardless of age that all the moderators can do is delete and block an IP address I'd be happy to have a credit card number in place to gain access to the site at least it lowers the chances of under 18 trying to get on the site and a lot of the time wasters too

That would be me out then as I have never had a credit card in my life nor wanted one and I'm nearly 30 "

There are other ways of age verifying. I don't own a credit card I removed the adult block on my phone via a search on the electoral roll.

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