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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure if this will have any affect on some the tools on here but heard about another lady leaving site today because of men harassing her when she won't meet her. Surely women shouldn't get abused for not meeting its 2015

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not the place for her then.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It doesn't matter what year it is, some "tools" don't take rejection very well, be it on here or in real life unfortunately. That's just life and it happens in reverse as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

"
you've surely got that dress on back to front x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

"
get what your saying but how would you feel if a said individual starting threaten to tell your family what you get up to???. Some women on here are married some have children. I personal think it's appalling how blokes can stoop so low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

"

Exactly, I think you need to be quite thick skinned to be on this site.

For a woman, who has to deal with the guys who lack the decency to accept no, for whatever reason's given.

For a guy, to deal with rejection and take it like a man, and move on without making an idiot out of himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

get what your saying but how would you feel if a said individual starting threaten to tell your family what you get up to???. Some women on here are married some have children. I personal think it's appalling how blokes can stoop so low "

I'd block them

They know nothing about me,it's words on a page written by an insignificant nobody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

you've surely got that dress on back to front x "

Don't call me surely

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

you've surely got that dress on back to front x "

Nah she hasn't, I need to start fabbing all her photos again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

get what your saying but how would you feel if a said individual starting threaten to tell your family what you get up to???. Some women on here are married some have children. I personal think it's appalling how blokes can stoop so low

I'd block them

They know nothing about me,it's words on a page written by an insignificant nobody"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So this is a

"look at me see I'm totally different from these guys and really treat them right...come shag me.......please?"

Thread?

In before cynic :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So this is a

"look at me see I'm totally different from these guys and really treat them right...come shag me.......please?"

Thread?

No you got that totally wrong. To be fair it baffles me why in today's age people can't take rejection???. Where not going be what everyone wants its just way of life

In before cynic :p"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say so dearie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to be sure of meeting a woman and blowing your load,find an escort,,simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

"

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Say no then block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on.....we have to learn? So much for having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She didn't meet him? God, what a time waster she was. All the time that guy put into those messages, all for nothing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

you've surely got that dress on back to front x

Don't call me surely "

Brilliant, just brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She needs to toughen up, some just cant handle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

you've surely got that dress on back to front x

Don't call me surely "

Welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god for the block button!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking and thick skin are my friend here, well I've never needed the thick skin yet, but my block list is tremendous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

get what your saying but how would you feel if a said individual starting threaten to tell your family what you get up to???. Some women on here are married some have children. I personal think it's appalling how blokes can stoop so low "

She possibly didn't block early enough, and there was too much message ping pong.

I'm not blaming her, it's something you figure out with experience.

If a guy won't take the initial no message I will always block as I know it will quickly turn either abusive or whiney.

And sorry, but if you're on here and you're meeting strangers for sex...toughen up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if this will have any affect on some the tools on here but heard about another lady leaving site today because of men harassing her when she won't meet her. Surely women shouldn't get abused for not meeting its 2015 "
which woman was she meeting ? Or trying to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

you've surely got that dress on back to front x

Don't call me surely

Welcome back "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

get what your saying but how would you feel if a said individual starting threaten to tell your family what you get up to???. Some women on here are married some have children. I personal think it's appalling how blokes can stoop so low "

You would be surprised what level blokes will stoop to on here when they get slightly obsessed with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

get what your saying but how would you feel if a said individual starting threaten to tell your family what you get up to???. Some women on here are married some have children. I personal think it's appalling how blokes can stoop so low

You would be surprised what level blokes will stoop to on here when they get slightly obsessed with you "
is someone obsessed with you oh I should have said how many are obsessed with you beautiful

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

get what your saying but how would you feel if a said individual starting threaten to tell your family what you get up to???. Some women on here are married some have children. I personal think it's appalling how blokes can stoop so low

You would be surprised what level blokes will stoop to on here when they get slightly obsessed with you "

You're so local to me, I wouldn't have the courage to ask again sadly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To your horses, Knights, there are damsels to be rescued!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if this will have any affect on some the tools on here but heard about another lady leaving site today because of men harassing her when she won't meet her. Surely women shouldn't get abused for not meeting its 2015 "

Given I had to bollock a colleague for whistling at a girl in the office lately, I don't think some will ever learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your stead getting well fed and shelter while your armour is cleaned?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Probably never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is your stead getting well fed and shelter while your armour is cleaned?

"

Stupid autocorrect

*Steed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To your horses, Knights, there are damsels to be rescued!"

Exactly what I was thinking! "What's that I hear? A lady in trouble? Quick go the forums! Everyone must know what a thoroughly decent chap I am!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness though OP, its a big scary world out there. If your friend got scared off by a couple of trolls perhaps fab isn't the place for her, and perhaps making such an ostentatious and dramatic 'I'm not one of those guys look at me' threads isn't the best way to go either

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Do we do awards for 'those other guys are tools, but I'm great' threads?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Do we do awards for 'those other guys are tools, but I'm great' threads? "

Such cynicism!

OP, if your friend has received abuse the tell her to report the culprit, block and delete. Admin will deal with it. It's very chivalrous of you to be her knight in shining armour but I'm sure she's a grown up and can take care of herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was getting what she wanted from this site then she'd stay.

We all get shitty messages, some more than others maybe, but we ignore them because these people mean nothing to us and are not gonna become any part of our lives or get near our body, why even care what they say or think?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

you've surely got that dress on back to front x "

Hoping it catches on Mmmmmm

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Say no then block

No harassment involved

I think you have to be rather sensitive to leave because someone you can deal with by blocking is being a twat

get what your saying but how would you feel if a said individual starting threaten to tell your family what you get up to???. Some women on here are married some have children. I personal think it's appalling how blokes can stoop so low "

I am married and I have children ... does that make me less able to cope with harassment from men on this site, or more needing of a man to help me deal with it or speak up on my behalf? I would say not ... I would say I was less vulnerable because I came on here myself, have met single guys in the past and know how to deal, including using the 'tools' the site gives. I feel as offended by a man seeing me as a damsel in distress, I don't play that role anywhere as its not me ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if this will have any affect on some the tools on here but heard about another lady leaving site today because of men harassing her when she won't meet her. Surely women shouldn't get abused for not meeting its 2015 "

Naive

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