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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats the best way to relax my bum hole when taking cock 4 the 1st time,iv got a meet on friday an i want to feel his cock inside me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and loads of lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube. Lube and more lube

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will poppers help?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Kind of but I think the other posters provided the best advice

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Will poppers help?"

It's supposed too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will poppers help?"
have you tried them before if not I'd try them before hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy yourself a few toys to play with get used to something up your arse

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Would no one recommended practice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Spend a few minutes chatting with and getting to know the fucker.

2. A little bit of practi e beforehand.

3. Lube.

4. Poppers.

5. Patience (on your part as well as the fucker's - don't rush things).

I hope you have a great first time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there a good position 4 taking cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick to topping

It's far more comfortable

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I fucked this straight guy last month who was passing through. Was very keen but very nervous; never been with a man before.

Did the whole thing with a blindfold on, which was novel, but that didn't stop him from being an enthusiastic kisser, sucking my dick or trying to shove it up his hole without any lube or prep.

I was like, woah! Slow down dude, you'll do yourself an injury!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want to feel a mans balls slapping my bum as he fucks me

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I want to feel a mans balls slapping my bum as he fucks me "

Come up and see me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Stick to topping

It's far more comfortable "

Have a 3some and enjoy both

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

With all the lube in the world, you aren't going from "anal virgin" to double fisting in one evening.

Depending on the size of the guy you're hooking up with, you *really* need to train yourself with gradually increased toys first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats it like to have a man cum in you bum? Anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick to topping

It's far more comfortable

Have a 3some and enjoy both "

Oh no. I have received, but it just doesn't do it for me.

I'd go as far as saying I don't like it. Any of it. The feeling of it. The sensation. The idea of it. No.

On the other hand, when faced with a nice pert little bum, I come over all queer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats it like to have a man cum in you bum? Anyone? "

If it is in a condom you shouldn't get to feel it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well derr

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ensure your venue is warm and comfortable. Don't rush anything. The more turned on you are, for longer, the easier it is to be more relaxed.

Good deep breathing will ensure your muscles are amply supplied with oxygen and increase potential flexibility.

As others state, lube is essential.

Enjoy the cock inside of you and maybe just experience it for a few minutes - request him not to power slam fuck you. Take it bent over or a position that you find a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to relax with fizzy sweeties and I also love sealife. Thus, when my partner is pleasuring me anally I like to lie on my front munching tangfastics while he leans over me imitating the sounds of a whale.

When he cums I exclaim, 'Thar He Blows'.

It's quite literally the most relaxing time of my day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So are you called jonah lol

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Whats it like to have a man cum in you bum? Anyone? "

Fucking stupid and lacking respect for your health and your partners.

Have him withdraw, remove the CONDOM and spunk on your bum cheeks, face, chest...basically anywhere other than your unprotected arse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh get a life u only live once!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to relax with fizzy sweeties and I also love sealife. Thus, when my partner is pleasuring me anally I like to lie on my front munching tangfastics while he leans over me imitating the sounds of a whale.

When he cums I exclaim, 'Thar He Blows'.

It's quite literally the most relaxing time of my day."

Post of the week - nay, month - for me

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Anal massage ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So lube,poppers,massage,any more ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a woman's perspective, I find the spooning position the best position and using a jelly butt plug beforehand to loosen you up...oh and don't forget to douche before you meet x

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By *otbrunoMan
over a year ago

New York

Lube and good fingers preparation

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By *indy SometimesTV/TS
over a year ago

BoxHill

Has anyone mentioned lube yet?

As to position, traditional doggy works well but you have no control as to how deep or hard you get fucked. If you go on top to start with you can slowly lower yourself onto his cock regulating how deep you are penetrated till you are comfortable to take more. You can also set the pace this way and avoid being hurt if he get's too enthusiastic. Once you've become used to his length and girth you could try another position. I love to receive in lying on my back with my knees drawn up feeling the guys entire length sliding in and out of me. This way also means his cock head massages my prostate as I'm getting fucked which is an added bonus to the session.

Hope you find a way that suits you and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So lube,poppers,massage,any more ideas?"

I thought your meet was Friday ?

Shouldn't you know what worked / works for you by now ?

Also, if you have previously topped, shouldn't you know how to relax or prepare a bottom ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh get a life u only live once!! "

True, but in the main you find those who don't play Russian Roulette with their own and others health, live happier and healthier lives.

I agree that BB feels much nicer than 'skin on', but it should be reserved for your partner.

That, to me, isn't 'not living life' it is just bog standard common sense.

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose


"Oh get a life u only live once!! "

If you only live once, doesn't that mean you should make damn sure you don't throw your once life away for some dumb short-term reason?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The man was a timewaster, so im still looking for my 1st time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dident mean ofens,i apolagise. I just wanted how it felt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to relax with fizzy sweeties and I also love sealife. Thus, when my partner is pleasuring me anally I like to lie on my front munching tangfastics while he leans over me imitating the sounds of a whale.

When he cums I exclaim, 'Thar He Blows'.

It's quite literally the most relaxing time of my day.

Post of the week - nay, month - for me "

Seconded!

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