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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When closing a thread can you contact me first please ?

The amount of times I have taken time to carefully craft a response only to press 'post message' and find 'thread closed by moderator' is quite frankly, becoming alarming !

So next time, if there's a thread you think 'oh clever arse in the corner might chip in on this one' just a quick message to say 'save your fat fingers for another cos this one's a goner' would be most appreciated.

I thank you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Good idea. Put this in the suggestion box.......

I should get a five minute warning about this.

PLUS! I want a text to tell me to come online and read the "£$%! thread before it is closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i know! Soxy and i were having a crap jokeathon earlier and it was closed just as I'd struck comedy gold!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"When closing a thread can you contact me first please ?

The amount of times I have taken time to carefully craft a response only to press 'post message' and find 'thread closed by moderator' is quite frankly, becoming alarming !

So next time, if there's a thread you think 'oh clever arse in the corner might chip in on this one' just a quick message to say 'save your fat fingers for another cos this one's a goner' would be most appreciated.

I thank you "

You can post those replies to the orphan thread.

Sadly I forgot what it was called

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh i know! Soxy and i were having a crap jokeathon earlier and it was closed just as I'd struck comedy gold! "

Feel free ...

Or is the moment lost ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh i know! Soxy and i were having a crap jokeathon earlier and it was closed just as I'd struck comedy gold!

Feel free ...

Or is the moment lost ?"

I'm afraid so. It was all water related.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Stop bloody posting then and they won't close the post. Sheesh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who are they?"

It would help if they were identified.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Who are they?

It would help if they were identified."

The Illuminati

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Who are they?

It would help if they were identified.

The Illuminati

"

Greek Cheese ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who are they?

It would help if they were identified."

One's always got her arse out

One smells of fig rolls and the other hmmmm ... I am still waiting for incriminating evidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you get special treatment?? Actually you should know which thread is about to self destruct. You could save yourself a lot of typing if you used your noddle.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Who are they?

It would help if they were identified."

Doesn't everyone know?

And about the new one?

I guess if you don't know, then you probably don't need to know.

(I have them all hot-listed so I know when to be on best behaviour )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who are they?

It would help if they were identified.

One's always got her arse out

One smells of fig rolls and the other hmmmm ... I am still waiting for incriminating evidence"

Got it ... the new one will lift bans in return for a Greggs sausage roll

So I've been told

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I usually just post something and kill a thread without a mods intervention..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why aren't there any male mods?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who are they?

It would help if they were identified.

Doesn't everyone know?

And about the new one?

I guess if you don't know, then you probably don't need to know.

(I have them all hot-listed so I know when to be on best behaviour )"
I only know one cause she identifies when she closes and explains. She also helped me with a question I didn't want ask openly lol x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Why aren't there any male mods?"

That's a very interesting question

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

A new one?

Runs for cover in case the sky falls in

C...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren't there any male mods?

That's a very interesting question "

One I have often thought about.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Why aren't there any male mods?"
there was, sadly last seen residing in a nursing home in fort William with his mind completly lost

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Oh i know! Soxy and i were having a crap jokeathon earlier and it was closed just as I'd struck comedy gold! "

Comedy gold works well - or was it fools gold? Post again please

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why aren't there any male mods?"

There is, just not very active. Anyway, we women are better at everything

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Why aren't there any male mods?"

Testosterone is eminently untrustworthy!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Why aren't there any male mods?

There is, just not very active. Anyway, we women are better at everything "

Nosier for a start

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Why aren't there any male mods?

That's a very interesting question "

Too busy shagging.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why do you get special treatment?? Actually you should know which thread is about to self destruct. You could save yourself a lot of typing if you used your noddle. "

I think he was kidding I hope he is anyway, especially about smelling of fig rolls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren't there any male mods?

That's a very interesting question

One I have often thought about. "

Really? You have too much time on your hands

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"A new one?

Runs for cover in case the sky falls in

C..."

Not sure she's still new...

Or whether she passes Rugby's initiation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren't there any male mods?

That's a very interesting question

One I have often thought about.

Really? You have too much time on your hands "

Only for important questions like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you get special treatment?? Actually you should know which thread is about to self destruct. You could save yourself a lot of typing if you used your noddle.

I think he was kidding I hope he is anyway, especially about smelling of fig rolls "

I don't think he was,he should get a looooooong ban for being rude

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Why aren't there any male mods?"

Cos men are generally rubbish at defusing delicate situations

I think the mods here are all excellent, and no man could come close to doing as good a job.

(And if that doesn't earn me a 'get out of jail free' card....)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Why do you get special treatment?? Actually you should know which thread is about to self destruct. You could save yourself a lot of typing if you used your noddle. "

We've most of us wasted some typing, to find the thread closed etc. But they're not hard to spot, once you know the score on rules, reasons etc.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"A new one?

Runs for cover in case the sky falls in

C...

Not sure she's still new...

Or whether she passes Rugby's initiation "

Shush...we don't talk about the initiation until a few weeks after, it scares them off.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Why aren't there any male mods?

Cos men are generally rubbish at defusing delicate situations

I think the mods here are all excellent, and no man could come close to doing as good a job.

(And if that doesn't earn me a 'get out of jail free' card....)

"

Reported for making me (vomit)

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Emoji fail....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"A new one?

Runs for cover in case the sky falls in

C...

Not sure she's still new...

Or whether she passes Rugby's initiation

Shush...we don't talk about the initiation until a few weeks after, it scares them off."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren't there any male mods?"

they are too busy answer 100's of messages a day

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Emoji fail.... "

()

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"A new one?

Runs for cover in case the sky falls in

C...

Not sure she's still new...

Or whether she passes Rugby's initiation

Shush...we don't talk about the initiation until a few weeks after, it scares them off.

"

Yes that's exactly what your eyes will look like when it comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a time limit on how long they can moderate for? Or is there no limit to their moderation..?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Why aren't there any male mods?"

You've never seen Quadrophenia have you?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Is there a time limit on how long they can moderate for? Or is there no limit to their moderation..?"

Everything in moderation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you get special treatment?? Actually you should know which thread is about to self destruct. You could save yourself a lot of typing if you used your noddle.

We've most of us wasted some typing, to find the thread closed etc. But they're not hard to spot, once you know the score on rules, reasons etc."

I've done it myself,trying to get my tuppeny's worth in before it's pulled. Some things you just need to say.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Why do you get special treatment?? Actually you should know which thread is about to self destruct. You could save yourself a lot of typing if you used your noddle.

We've most of us wasted some typing, to find the thread closed etc. But they're not hard to spot, once you know the score on rules, reasons etc.

I've done it myself,trying to get my tuppeny's worth in before it's pulled. Some things you just need to say."

Those times when you feel cheated out of the righteous last word?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren't there any male mods?

There is, just not very active. Anyway, we women are better at everything "

Pfffffft.

And harrumph.

Pahhhh for good measure.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Why aren't there any male mods?

There is, just not very active. Anyway, we women are better at everything

Pfffffft.

And harrumph.

Pahhhh for good measure."

Ask her about the offside rule, and assembling furniture ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you get special treatment?? Actually you should know which thread is about to self destruct. You could save yourself a lot of typing if you used your noddle.

We've most of us wasted some typing, to find the thread closed etc. But they're not hard to spot, once you know the score on rules, reasons etc.

I've done it myself,trying to get my tuppeny's worth in before it's pulled. Some things you just need to say.

Those times when you feel cheated out of the righteous last word?"

Those times...

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Why do you get special treatment?? Actually you should know which thread is about to self destruct. You could save yourself a lot of typing if you used your noddle.

We've most of us wasted some typing, to find the thread closed etc. But they're not hard to spot, once you know the score on rules, reasons etc.

I've done it myself,trying to get my tuppeny's worth in before it's pulled. Some things you just need to say.

Those times when you feel cheated out of the righteous last word?

Those times..."

I share your pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren't there any male mods?

There is, just not very active. Anyway, we women are better at everything "

Well that is very true of course

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why aren't there any male mods?

There is, just not very active. Anyway, we women are better at everything

Pfffffft.

And harrumph.

Pahhhh for good measure.

Ask her about the offside rule, and assembling furniture ..."

I know the offside rule , the furniture I just delegate...see, even that we are good at

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why aren't there any male mods?

There is, just not very active. Anyway, we women are better at everything

Pfffffft.

And harrumph.

Pahhhh for good measure.

Ask her about the offside rule, and assembling furniture ...

I know the offside rule , the furniture I just delegate...see, even that we are good at "

I know the offside rule and I can build furniture!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I should add that I only know the offside rule in the shoe shop description though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you get special treatment?? Actually you should know which thread is about to self destruct. You could save yourself a lot of typing if you used your noddle.

I think he was kidding I hope he is anyway, especially about smelling of fig rolls "

I was kidding about everything ... there is no smell, just a trail of crumbs where a thread used to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate to be a mod on here with all the crap that's posted daily ...but one thing I would like to see is the mods highlighted a bit more so people can see who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hate to be a mod on here with all the crap that's posted daily ...but one thing I would like to see is the mods highlighted a bit more so people can see who they are "

but then they wouldn't be secret ninja mods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

new one ? - the quiet ones are the ones to watch they say

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

purehoneypot's gone unlos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who are they?

It would help if they were identified.

Doesn't everyone know?

And about the new one?

I guess if you don't know, then you probably don't need to know.

(I have them all hot-listed so I know when to be on best behaviour )"

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"purehoneypot's gone unlos "

She left some time ago I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anybody else first see this thread and think oh this is going to be a moany one that will be closed within 10 posts ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"purehoneypot's gone unlos "

Awww has she ?

She was lovely

At least she used to laugh at my jokes before putting me out on the step with the cat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"anybody else first see this thread and think oh this is going to be a moany one that will be closed within 10 posts ? "

Nah

Am done with the moanin'

Forums should be fun and enlightening not a slog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I've one of my best buddies that are mods and even I don't get the heads up..so you Sir have not a prayer

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There is a new mod in town....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hate to be a mod on here with all the crap that's posted daily ...but one thing I would like to see is the mods highlighted a bit more so people can see who they are "

Painted yellow like speed cameras?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren't there any male mods?

You've never seen Quadrophenia have you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"purehoneypot's gone unlos "

Awww I liked her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a new mod in town.... "

Moderators! Mount up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And more to the point how do you become one

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"And more to the point how do you become one"

1. By invitation

2. By never asking that question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"purehoneypot's gone unlos "

I was hoping she was just taking a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And more to the point how do you become one

1. By invitation

2. By never asking that question! "

3. Lots are on the waiting list

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"There is a new mod in town....

Moderators! Mount up!"

Anyone in particular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And more to the point how do you become one

1. By invitation

2. By never asking that question! "

I dont want to be one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break. "

I expect she'll be back.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"hate to be a mod on here with all the crap that's posted daily ...but one thing I would like to see is the mods highlighted a bit more so people can see who they are "

But then they'd get even MORE mail from people asking them to re-open closed threads so they can add 'just one more witty rejoinder'.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break.

I expect she'll be back."

She's left then come back before, so I hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite used to be Cheshire couple

She was very matronly. There used to be a single male mod many moons ago. I don't know if he's still here. I like ruggers though, they seem fair.

I couldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break.

I expect she'll be back.

She's left then come back before, so I hope so "

How would someone with such a poor attendance record be worthy of becoming a mod?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know which single male I think would make an excellent mod but they would hate the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break.

I expect she'll be back.

She's left then come back before, so I hope so "

Just not as a mod though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funky monkey would be a good choice imo, he's been here years, pops up now and then, and is bright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funky monkey would be a good choice imo, he's been here years, pops up now and then, and is bright. "

I concur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know which single male I think would make an excellent mod but they would hate the idea "
are you thinking me pitstop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know which single male I think would make an excellent mod but they would hate the idea are you thinking me pitstop "

Haha!! No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know which single male I think would make an excellent mod but they would hate the idea are you thinking me pitstop

Haha!! No "
I would shut the place down

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break. "

She is lovely and a funny sod, she will be no doubt be back at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think View would make an excellent mod.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break.

I expect she'll be back.

She's left then come back before, so I hope so

How would someone with such a poor attendance record be worthy of becoming a mod?"

Its not like they get paid for it though

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"And more to the point how do you become one"

The ones that are here got asked by Admin, but if anyone wants to they can ask Admin from the CONTACT button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be crap at it. Take my hat off to you mods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren't there any male mods?

they are too busy answer 100's of messages a day "
know a male mod he ban us for not liking his party

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"My favourite used to be Cheshire couple

She was very matronly. . I like ruggers though

"

Is that meant to be ironic?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"My favourite used to be Cheshire couple

She was very matronly. There used to be a single male mod many moons ago. I don't know if he's still here. I like ruggers though, they seem fair.

I couldn't do it.

"

I hope you are not getting your sites mixed up as I don't fancy being called matronly when I am trying to pull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite used to be Cheshire couple

She was very matronly. There used to be a single male mod many moons ago. I don't know if he's still here. I like ruggers though, they seem fair.

I couldn't do it.

I hope you are not getting your sites mixed up as I don't fancy being called matronly when I am trying to pull "

Probably lol its been a while.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

[Removed by poster at 21/10/15 10:34:14]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did anyone else think;

Moderators..... ready! In true gladiators style?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did anyone else think;

Moderators..... ready! In true gladiators style? "

No i was thinking warren g, regulate.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm thinking 'oooooh matron' in a Kenneth Williams voice in my head!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"My favourite used to be Cheshire couple

She was very matronly. There used to be a single male mod many moons ago. I don't know if he's still here. I like ruggers though, they seem fair.

I couldn't do it.

I hope you are not getting your sites mixed up as I don't fancy being called matronly when I am trying to pull

Probably lol its been a while.

"

Damn, not the look I was going for The man mod was named Andy, he is on here too just not active much

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Funky monkey would be a good choice imo, he's been here years, pops up now and then, and is bright.

I concur"

Oh no. Oh no no no. Are you both insane?

The power would corrupt my monstrous ego and already shaky moral compass.

It would be an horrendous few days of brutal tyranny until I was removed from office.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Mods should be impartial and be following a clear set of guide lines .

One of them guide lines should be they don't use the sites for meets on sites like this in my opinion .

over wise they can become compromise as meeting site members for fun can lead to clicks developing .

Right time to run because I've just stated a controversial opinion and I'm sure it will offend the mods .

Duck and cover time me thinks

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We could write the rules on your arse though Funky and we'd never have to do any work ever again!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Mods should be impartial and be following a clear set of guide lines .

One of them guide lines should be they don't use the sites for meets on sites like this in my opinion .

over wise they can become compromise as meeting site members for fun can lead to clicks developing .

Right time to run because I've just stated a controversial opinion and I'm sure it will offend the mods .

Duck and cover time me thinks "

Because we can't possibly separate the two?

Judging us on your standards is a little short sighted though don't you think? We don't all think with the brain in our pants. It's called having integrity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funky monkey would be a good choice imo, he's been here years, pops up now and then, and is bright.

I concur

Oh no. Oh no no no. Are you both insane?

The power would corrupt my monstrous ego and already shaky moral compass.

It would be an horrendous few days of brutal tyranny until I was removed from office."

Do it under your other profile then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mods should be impartial and be following a clear set of guide lines .

One of them guide lines should be they don't use the sites for meets on sites like this in my opinion .

over wise they can become compromise as meeting site members for fun can lead to clicks developing .

Right time to run because I've just stated a controversial opinion and I'm sure it will offend the mods .

Duck and cover time me thinks

Because we can't possibly separate the two?

Judging us on your standards is a little short sighted though don't you think? We don't all think with the brain in our pants. It's called having integrity. "

No sex for you...

Time to buy some cats and a tartan blanket...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

No sex for you...

Time to buy some cats and a tartan blanket..."

I'm already halfway there!

Sympathy shag anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No sex for you...

Time to buy some cats and a tartan blanket...

I'm already halfway there!

Sympathy shag anyone? "

Jump in the Hitler wagon and come to Leicester.

...bring haggis.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

No sex for you...

Time to buy some cats and a tartan blanket...

I'm already halfway there!

Sympathy shag anyone?

Jump in the Hitler wagon and come to Leicester.

...bring haggis. "

Barney does not appreciate your nickname!

Can I bring my cat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mods should be impartial and be following a clear set of guide lines .

One of them guide lines should be they don't use the sites for meets on sites like this in my opinion .

over wise they can become compromise as meeting site members for fun can lead to clicks developing .

Right time to run because I've just stated a controversial opinion and I'm sure it will offend the mods .

Duck and cover time me thinks

Because we can't possibly separate the two?

Judging us on your standards is a little short sighted though don't you think? We don't all think with the brain in our pants. It's called having integrity. "

Probably why there's only female forum mods.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Funky monkey would be a good choice imo, he's been here years, pops up now and then, and is bright.

I concur

Oh no. Oh no no no. Are you both insane?

The power would corrupt my monstrous ego and already shaky moral compass.

It would be an horrendous few days of brutal tyranny until I was removed from office.

Do it under your other profile then "

Which one? I have 467.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No sex for you...

Time to buy some cats and a tartan blanket...

I'm already halfway there!

Sympathy shag anyone?

Jump in the Hitler wagon and come to Leicester.

...bring haggis.

Barney does not appreciate your nickname!

Can I bring my cat? "

Only if it's shaved...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

So now my cat and my car hate you and I love them a lot! This isn't going well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So now my cat and my car hate you and I love them a lot! This isn't going well! "

All I have to do now is insult you and for you to hate me and we're ad good as married!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am buying a hat

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm not the marrying kind!!

*steals Sambas and runs*

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Mods should be impartial and be following a clear set of guide lines .

One of them guide lines should be they don't use the sites for meets on sites like this in my opinion .

over wise they can become compromise as meeting site members for fun can lead to clicks developing .

Right time to run because I've just stated a controversial opinion and I'm sure it will offend the mods .

Duck and cover time me thinks

Because we can't possibly separate the two?

Judging us on your standards is a little short sighted though don't you think? We don't all think with the brain in our pants. It's called having integrity. "

I've done the job myself on a fan forum Xbox related and as anyone will tell you gamers are a opinionated bunch very passionate about there hobby .

I gave it up because I'm not a machine I have opinions myself and in my time grow to like a few of the regular posters on their even playing with them over Xbox live from time to time .

I had to sit with the guide lines at the side of my laptop to remind myself of what was expected of me at all times .now there were times I'm sure I was harder on people I had gamed with because I had to keep my integrity intact.

Now everyone knew I was a mod it was above my user name any abuse to a mod was a auto one day time out other mods reviewed my decisions on bans when their was a dispute and if I was deemed to be in the wrong I was given a warning three warning in a year would lead to my mod status being removed .

All those rules and many more were there to keep us impartial three months before I gave up moderating a new guide line was passed and that was we didn't game with site members .

I left my post because of that reason as it met I had to leave my gaming clan so I gave up moderating so I could still play with my clan.

Anyone who claims total impartiality is not human in my book again just my opinion based on experience of the job .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funky monkey would be a good choice imo, he's been here years, pops up now and then, and is bright.

I concur

Oh no. Oh no no no. Are you both insane?

The power would corrupt my monstrous ego and already shaky moral compass.

It would be an horrendous few days of brutal tyranny until I was removed from office.

Do it under your other profile then

Which one? I have 467. "

The mean one, stir things up a bit

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's good to recognise when you're not cut out for something.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

On a separate, but related, note...

Should I be worried that on the summary list, one of the mods is the last poster, but when I checked the actual thread, it's still me?

Has someone else worked out how to post using invisible ink, or should I be worried?

{goes to stuff a copy of yellow pages down trousers...}

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mods should be impartial and be following a clear set of guide lines .

One of them guide lines should be they don't use the sites for meets on sites like this in my opinion .

over wise they can become compromise as meeting site members for fun can lead to clicks developing .

Right time to run because I've just stated a controversial opinion and I'm sure it will offend the mods .

Duck and cover time me thinks

Because we can't possibly separate the two?

Judging us on your standards is a little short sighted though don't you think? We don't all think with the brain in our pants. It's called having integrity.

Probably why there's only female forum mods. "

Yep 3 weeks out of every month they are perfect!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"It's good to recognise when you're not cut out for something. "

Oh I was cut out for it I did it for over 4 years only ever had one review go against me in that time .

I'd say its good to know your human and act accordingly I'd even ask another mods opinion before bringing the ban hammer down if i though I was about to make a mistake based off of my dealing with the individual involved in the past

I viewed it as it cost me nothing to get a second opinion if I had any doubt I was acting out of any other reason than a breach of the rules .

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"It's good to recognise when you're not cut out for something.

Oh I was cut out for it I did it for over 4 years only ever had one review go against me in that time .

I'd say its good to know your human and act accordingly I'd even ask another mods opinion before bringing the ban hammer down if i though I was about to make a mistake based off of my dealing with the individual involved in the past

I viewed it as it cost me nothing to get a second opinion if I had any doubt I was acting out of any other reason than a breach of the rules . "

All of what you described in your posts happens here too. Mods consult each other if needed especially if someone is digging against the mod. Admin lets Mods know if they think they have things wrong and bans are overturned. The only thing I would say doesn't happen is sitting with the rules and instructions next to you. Unless the rules change Admin expect us to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mods should be impartial and be following a clear set of guide lines .

One of them guide lines should be they don't use the sites for meets on sites like this in my opinion .

over wise they can become compromise as meeting site members for fun can lead to clicks developing .

Right time to run because I've just stated a controversial opinion and I'm sure it will offend the mods .

Duck and cover time me thinks "

I think I have a friendly or inconsequential relationship with the mods (the ones I know of, anyway), and I've still had threads deleted or posts removed. And rightly so (when I think about it in a clearer frame of mind, I can see why they were deleted).

I think the mods are generally fair in their decisions. Most people on the forum don't meet eachother for sex anyway, so the chances of that kind of conflict of interest are rather low. In my opinion.

-Courtney

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"It's good to recognise when you're not cut out for something.

Oh I was cut out for it I did it for over 4 years only ever had one review go against me in that time .

I'd say its good to know your human and act accordingly I'd even ask another mods opinion before bringing the ban hammer down if i though I was about to make a mistake based off of my dealing with the individual involved in the past

I viewed it as it cost me nothing to get a second opinion if I had any doubt I was acting out of any other reason than a breach of the rules .

All of what you described in your posts happens here too. Mods consult each other if needed especially if someone is digging against the mod. Admin lets Mods know if they think they have things wrong and bans are overturned. The only thing I would say doesn't happen is sitting with the rules and instructions next to you. Unless the rules change Admin expect us to know them."

Totally agree I had the rules there because I was firstly a gamer myself so just as passionate about my hobby as the posters on the site .

So with the rules always in my eye line it kept m in check reminded he why I was there so to speak .

I took the moderating role because I was passionate about my hobby left for the same reasons passion for my hobby was not willing to stop playing with friends in my clan tried to stop playing with them but thought you know what I've been a mod time to just be the gamer again so I can play with who I want .

I was not criticizing ' fully aware of how hard the job is and the pit falls I happen to agree with the not socializing rule when it was brought in as it stopped all the complaints about bans that start with he only banned me because he games with ......you can guess the rest .

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Mods should be impartial and be following a clear set of guide lines .

One of them guide lines should be they don't use the sites for meets on sites like this in my opinion .

over wise they can become compromise as meeting site members for fun can lead to clicks developing .

Right time to run because I've just stated a controversial opinion and I'm sure it will offend the mods .

Duck and cover time me thinks

I think I have a friendly or inconsequential relationship with the mods (the ones I know of, anyway), and I've still had threads deleted or posts removed. And rightly so (when I think about it in a clearer frame of mind, I can see why they were deleted).

I think the mods are generally fair in their decisions. Most people on the forum don't meet eachother for sex anyway, so the chances of that kind of conflict of interest are rather low. In my opinion.

-Courtney"

I agree sort of I could not shut a post down or issue a ban with out sighting the breach in rules to the person involved .

Then they could issue a complaint against my decision knowing it was me who banned them or shut down their post and my reasons for doing so they could be questioned .

I acted on the rules and one of them rules was I must issue what rule was being broken when acting .

That's how we moderated and tried to keep it above reproach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hate to be a mod on here with all the crap that's posted daily ...but one thing I would like to see is the mods highlighted a bit more so people can see who they are

Painted yellow like speed cameras?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mods. I do apologise.

I should have known better

Whilst a tongue in cheek comment is just that for the majority, for some it is just another excuse to grind their axe.

Sorry ladies (and illusive gent) x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

I took the moderating role because I was passionate about my hobby left for the same reasons passion for my hobby was not willing to stop playing with friends in my clan tried to stop playing with them but thought you know what I've been a mod time to just be the gamer again so I can play with who I want .

I was not criticizing ' fully aware of how hard the job is and the pit falls I happen to agree with the not socializing rule when it was brought in as it stopped all the complaints about bans that start with he only banned me because he games with ......you can guess the rest . "

I get everything you said, it is a fine line sometimes and why the mods will step back and let someone else deal with it if needed.

To your initial point of should you be swinging too, as dirty says, Mods can separate the two, like you must have done (but then we don't play with anyone from the forum anyway)

Having said that,even though Admin choose the mods as they think they are impartial and can join in as well as Mod....I tend to not join in too much because if I disagree with someone over whether a bacon butty should have brown sauce instead of red and that person gets banned six months after for calling someone a T*** I get accused of banning them for disagreeing with them.

As I say , a fine line

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Mods. I do apologise.

I should have known better

Whilst a tongue in cheek comment is just that for the majority, for some it is just another excuse to grind their axe.

Sorry ladies (and illusive gent) x"

lol it could have been worse.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*tuts*

Everyone knows a bacon buttie has brown sauce!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*tuts*

Everyone knows a bacon buttie has brown sauce!!

"

Philistine..

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"*tuts*

Everyone knows a bacon buttie has brown sauce!!

Philistine.. "

Ha! Does this mean we're getting married now?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*tuts*

Everyone knows a bacon buttie has brown sauce!!

Philistine..

Ha! Does this mean we're getting married now?! "

We are indeed. Meet me at Gretna Green tomorrow morning and tell Ruggers to buy a hat...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"*tuts*

Everyone knows a bacon buttie has brown sauce!!

Philistine..

Ha! Does this mean we're getting married now?!

We are indeed. Meet me at Gretna Green tomorrow morning and tell Ruggers to buy a hat..."

Did you just order me about BEFORE the wedding?!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"*tuts*

Everyone knows a bacon buttie has brown sauce!!

"

Exactly !!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"*tuts*

Everyone knows a bacon buttie has brown sauce!!

"

this..

anything else is just not cricket..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*tuts*

Everyone knows a bacon buttie has brown sauce!!

Philistine..

Ha! Does this mean we're getting married now?!

We are indeed. Meet me at Gretna Green tomorrow morning and tell Ruggers to buy a hat...

Did you just order me about BEFORE the wedding?!

"

Damn straight woman and why aren't you in the kitchen?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Id join in the discussion but Im lying down in a darkened room recovering from the shock of seeing a thread like this running for 19 hours.

And from the upset of hearing that I should never have a shag ever again.

Im going to have to have a bacon butty with brown sauce to cheer myself up.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Id join in the discussion but Im lying down in a darkened room recovering from the shock of seeing a thread like this running for 19 hours.

And from the upset of hearing that I should never have a shag ever again.

Im going to have to have a bacon butty with brown sauce to cheer myself up."

22 hours!

I'm out of the kitchen now too!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break.

She is lovely and a funny sod, she will be no doubt be back at some point "

No chance..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break.

She is lovely and a funny sod, she will be no doubt be back at some point

No chance.. "

I wasn't to know she was already back when I first posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad she's gone... never liked her.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break.

She is lovely and a funny sod, she will be no doubt be back at some point

No chance.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"purehoneypot's gone unlos

I was hoping she was just taking a break.

She is lovely and a funny sod, she will be no doubt be back at some point

No chance.. "

Haha,just incase I get an inbox of problems and forum axes to grind from the disgruntled .....not as a mod x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there any boy mods and can I have sex with them in exchange for leniency?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any boy mods and can I have sex with them in exchange for leniency?"

I shouldn't tell you this, but...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any boy mods and can I have sex with them in exchange for leniency?

I shouldn't tell you this, but... "

I'm not that gullible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any boy mods and can I have sex with them in exchange for leniency?

I shouldn't tell you this, but...

I'm not that gullible "

You know that if you say "gullible" slowly, while holding your nose it rhymes with orange?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Are there any boy mods and can I have sex with them in exchange for leniency?

I shouldn't tell you this, but...

I'm not that gullible

You know that if you say "gullible" slowly, while holding your nose it rhymes with orange? "

I have an image of Ruby holding her nose now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any boy mods and can I have sex with them in exchange for leniency?

I shouldn't tell you this, but...

I'm not that gullible

You know that if you say "gullible" slowly, while holding your nose it rhymes with orange?

I have an image of Ruby holding her nose now.

"

I'm still not that gullible!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Are there any boy mods and can I have sex with them in exchange for leniency?

I shouldn't tell you this, but...

I'm not that gullible

You know that if you say "gullible" slowly, while holding your nose it rhymes with orange?

I have an image of Ruby holding her nose now.

I'm still not that gullible!"

It's just for the sex with Mr Pointy Nipples there.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Are there any boy mods and can I have sex with them in exchange for leniency?

I shouldn't tell you this, but...

I'm not that gullible

You know that if you say "gullible" slowly, while holding your nose it rhymes with orange?

I have an image of Ruby holding her nose now.

I'm still not that gullible!"

In fact, since nobody is that gullible anymore, they're taking it out of the dictionary...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen this in recent threads.. If you speak up you get banned.

Sort of bullying you would see in childish social media sites.

Not on a swingers forum!

Who moderates the moderators??

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I've seen this in recent threads.. If you speak up you get banned.

Sort of bullying you would see in childish social media sites.

Not on a swingers forum!

Who moderates the moderators??

"

Well that took five whole days!

We were doing so well too. Admin moderate the moderators. The moderators don't make the rules. Though if they weren't broken, there would be no need to moderate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any boy mods and can I have sex with them in exchange for leniency?

I shouldn't tell you this, but...

I'm not that gullible

You know that if you say "gullible" slowly, while holding your nose it rhymes with orange?

I have an image of Ruby holding her nose now.

I'm still not that gullible!

It's just for the sex with Mr Pointy Nipples there.

"

It's just because im happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gotta keep 'em moderated...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen this in recent threads.. If you speak up you get banned.

Sort of bullying you would see in childish social media sites.

Not on a swingers forum!

Who moderates the moderators??

Well that took five whole days!

We were doing so well too. Admin moderate the moderators. The moderators don't make the rules. Though if they weren't broken, there would be no need to moderate. "

Moderators are doing a good job I can't argue with that.. just reading some of the threads tonight gives my head the shakes!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I've seen this in recent threads.. If you speak up you get banned.

Sort of bullying you would see in childish social media sites.

Not on a swingers forum!

Who moderates the moderators??

Well that took five whole days!

We were doing so well too. Admin moderate the moderators. The moderators don't make the rules. Though if they weren't broken, there would be no need to moderate.

Moderators are doing a good job I can't argue with that.. just reading some of the threads tonight gives my head the shakes!! "

Just tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen this in recent threads.. If you speak up you get banned.

Sort of bullying you would see in childish social media sites.

Not on a swingers forum!

Who moderates the moderators??

Well that took five whole days!

We were doing so well too. Admin moderate the moderators. The moderators don't make the rules. Though if they weren't broken, there would be no need to moderate.

Moderators are doing a good job I can't argue with that.. just reading some of the threads tonight gives my head the shakes!!

Just tonight? "

Haha.. Weekend brings our the special ones

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