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Happy to meet n fuck based on looks / or get to know them a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone messages you or you message them and they are very good looking, have nice body ( boobs, butt, cock e.t.c)

Would you meet without chatting / further messaging, just a message like this, " Hi, want to meet for a fuck, whats your contact details"

Or would you have to get briefly know their personality, what they are into and then decide if you want to meet them?

Let's see what the boy's and girls say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to know them based on looks. Then decide to go further if we click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone messages you or you message them and they are very good looking, have nice body ( boobs, butt, cock e.t.c)

Would you meet without chatting / further messaging, just a message like this, " Hi, want to meet for a fuck, whats your contact details"

Or would you have to get briefly know their personality, what they are into and then decide if you want to meet them?

Let's see what the boy's and girls say... "

If they were that good looking with a gorgeous body and cock I'd have to find out if they were fake or time waster first. I'd do this by chatting (non sexually) and go by my gut feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone messages you or you message them and they are very good looking, have nice body ( boobs, butt, cock e.t.c)

Would you meet without chatting / further messaging, just a message like this, " Hi, want to meet for a fuck, whats your contact details"

Or would you have to get briefly know their personality, what they are into and then decide if you want to meet them?

Let's see what the boy's and girls say...

If they were that good looking with a gorgeous body and cock I'd have to find out if they were fake or time waster first. I'd do this by chatting (non sexually) and go by my gut feeling. "

Depends on my gut feeling if I feel there is a genuine connection enough via messages then I'm happy to meet and play.

Others who I like but don't feel there's a spark just yet I'll invite for a drink and see if it warms up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we got a message like that from a single guy or girl then we would likely meet up with him/her. We always get a drink first, though.

As for couples, we tend to like to talk a bit more. The dynamic in a couples meet has to be right in order for it to work well.

If you mean a fuck and go (with absolutely no drink before hand) purely on one message and a picture, then no.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just can't afford not to meet someone who's so hot surely ,where's your sense of adventure ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to chat first to make sure we click on some level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always chat first for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have previously met guys i liked without chatting to them, up to a few weeks ago even, but am a bit wary at the moment so trying to wise people up via chat first now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet without talking. Sometimes I talk for a long time,sometimes only a couple of hours before you feel attraction.

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over a year ago

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

club or private meet..always a chat first..

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would be happy to meet them straight away as its NSA, no need to know their life story or name, well the name would be good know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I will not meet based on looks alone, there has to be a mental connection for me.

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

So couples or ladies absolutely looks and personality... We have however put up last min meets for single man simply for a filthy session and made decision on looks... Although before introduced to me my partner has a chat and a scan... Part of the turn on is to trust his decision ... Waiting to see if he comes back alone or with someone.... We await a negative comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always chat first for me "
lady godiva where's your sense of adventure ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat first- if theres no spark- no fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it's got to be chat, smooch and if all good then the rest shall be history!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are what attract me 1st but if there is no spark / no personality it goes no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always chat first for me lady godiva where's your sense of adventure ? "

Missing .... Fancy helping to look for it ?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Always a chat..don't need to know their life story but a little about their likes and desires.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

A bit of both

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Bit of both but the looks do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than briefly get to know I grill em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always chat first for me lady godiva where's your sense of adventure ?

Missing .... Fancy helping to look for it ? "
wait i will just get my torch

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

A chat is vital for me, otherwise I just feel awkward, and can't perform properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than briefly get to know I grill em "
my oven grill isn't working its really frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So couples or ladies absolutely looks and personality... We have however put up last min meets for single man simply for a filthy session and made decision on looks... Although before introduced to me my partner has a chat and a scan... Part of the turn on is to trust his decision ... Waiting to see if he comes back alone or with someone.... We await a negative comment"
a scan of his tackle ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would have expect men to be happy to fuck anything without getting to know who they are.

Weirdly enough watching "The Fall" in which Jamie Dornan "50 shades of grey" plays a hot serial killer...

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"If we got a message like that from a single guy or girl then we would likely meet up with him/her. We always get a drink first, though.

As for couples, we tend to like to talk a bit more. The dynamic in a couples meet has to be right in order for it to work well.

If you mean a fuck and go (with absolutely no drink before hand) purely on one message and a picture, then no.

-Courtney"

us 3 still need that drink to discuss the philosophical turnings of our reality :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have expect men to be happy to fuck anything without getting to know who they are.

Weirdly enough watching "The Fall" in which Jamie Dornan "50 shades of grey" plays a hot serial killer..."

I could be wrong, but the men that tend to comment on the forums don't generally strike me as the type.

They are out there, though

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to chat first to see if there is some connection and spark x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have expect men to be happy to fuck anything without getting to know who they are.

Weirdly enough watching "The Fall" in which Jamie Dornan "50 shades of grey" plays a hot serial killer..."
hey I am cut to the quick I couldn't ever just fuck something for the sake of it

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By *raig DavidMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Hi

If they are very hot I would go for it but I'm a bloke and can handle myself.

It's different for the ladies. They need to know who they are meeting and make there own minds up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

If they are very hot I would go for it but I'm a bloke and can handle myself.

It's different for the ladies. They need to know who they are meeting and make there own minds up.

"
c'mon man are you considering greedy girls in that rash statement ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might be good looking but unless I am provided upfront with a passport, birth certificate, finger prints and a blood sample they can forget getting their chops round my old lad

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Definitely a social or 2 first for me. Would hate to meet someone for sex, only to find they have the personality of a squashed hedgehog

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It depends if I've got my glasses - sometimes you have to trust others, their honesty etc.

I prefer to take my time evaluating someone, getting to know them and discovering if we're matched. I'd rather ditch a model who's unattractive as a person, than meet and waste time.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I once more or less said 'Get yer coat you've pulled' after the first message on the strength of pics alone haha! Damn, he was a drop dead gorgeous 6'3" male model off POF who oozed masculine confidence - I'm keeping that pic on my phone forEVER!

It took a while to actually arrange and meanwhile I got to know he was a really genuine, honest, middle class kinda guy too lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to know them,as it is nice to have some conversation with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to know them more ..attraction gets me looking but I need to know I'm going to have some connection with them. I need my mind and body to be seduced and a soh .I don't like dull as dishwater peeps there as to be laughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a swinging.site but there is no right or.wrong way to swing so my way of going about things is getting to know someone a bit first,.I'm interested in them.as a person and.not just as a sex toy. So if that involves listening about their life story, so be it. But we are all different and what works for some doesnt work for others.

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