FabSwingers.com forum: Are you shallow?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes.

Haha! Love the honesty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all can be at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Without a doubt - I am capable of deeper level of thought but its not my normal mode.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Yes.

But mainly over people's personality and attitude.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?"

nah if anything I'm probably more of the opposite.....guess I do become a little shallow though when I get angry though I tend to become unpredictable..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends in what context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?"

Does a truly shallow person know they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here - yes

Elsewhere in everyday life - no

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

The missus can just about comfortably take 7 inches.

is that shallow or deep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally speaking, no.

However, I can be regarding some things on fab.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i deffo have my shallow moments but the we all do its part of being human

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

you can call me haaall, de de d de call ma hall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Haha! Love the honesty!"

There just has to be a visual attraction for me, that "phwoar" feeling. I'll be quiet now.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Can be but try not to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hidden shallows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above in terms of context.

Is it shallow to have a preference on a sex site???................nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here - yes

Elsewhere in everyday life - no "

Same here!

When it comes to fab meets I want it all! Great looks, great body, great personality - and usually quite a bit younger!

In real life I'm not shallow at all!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?"

No I'm not sadly my minds to active and the minute I start judging on looks a feel guilty for two reasons I'm no 10 out of 10 myself and the words of my mother come back playing over and over again in my head .never judge a book by its cover .

That one saying has served me very well in my life for sporting players and con artists so it kind of has become a mantra to me .

I'm not saying I don't like a pretty face or a good body I'm just saying I don't judge based on that alone when it comes to sex partners I need a lot more and I mean a lot more .

The kind if sex a love demands a lot more if the truth be told it demands a way of being more than it demands a certain look .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm profound

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

very..

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

When it comes to fab meets I want it all! Great looks, great body, great personality - and usually quite a bit younger!.. "

I'd say you meet those already but no harm in wishing for better looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be as shallow as I need to be if there's something short-term that I want...

But in relationships and friendships - like still waters I only run best when I run deep...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no.

If you mean on Fab then yes.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am as shallow as the situation demands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an Analytical-Amiable personality so not at all shallow unless I am reciprocating to somebody who is shallow

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"I can be as shallow as I need to be if there's something short-term that I want...

But in relationships and friendships - like still waters I only run best when I run deep...

I think this sums it up perfectly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do of course mean on fab Ie shallow when choosing who to fuck. I'm less shallow when it comes to dating/relationships but totally shallow on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have an Analytical-Amiable personality so not at all shallow unless I am reciprocating to somebody who is shallow"

Isn't adapting to the social situation higher functioning sociopathy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here - yes

Elsewhere in everyday life - no

Same here!

When it comes to fab meets I want it all! Great looks, great body, great personality - and usually quite a bit younger!

In real life I'm not shallow at all!

I don't see that as shallow

Why would you want to have sex with somebody if your not attracted to them, they could be the nicest person going but if there is no physical attraction are you really going to take the time to find out?

Choosing your friends based on looks to me is a little shallow, because to me it does not matter what your friends look like, choosing a sexual partner comes with a different set of rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do of course mean on fab Ie shallow when choosing who to fuck. I'm less shallow when it comes to dating/relationships but totally shallow on here."

I don't think its shallow on here it's more like a preference. I'm not going to fuck someone I don't like or fancy ~ there's no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Haha! Love the honesty!

There just has to be a visual attraction for me, that "phwoar" feeling. I'll be quiet now."

I wouldn't say, just because there has to be an attraction... Shallow. The best part of people on fab this applies too.

Shallow is if you will fuck anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit i am.

Its harsh - if a guy was the nicest guy in the world but wasnt attractive to me i could go out with him.

Same if he was great looking but a complete arse lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Haha! Love the honesty!

There just has to be a visual attraction for me, that "phwoar" feeling. I'll be quiet now.

I wouldn't say, just because there has to be an attraction... Shallow. The best part of people on fab this applies too.

Shallow is if you will fuck anything! "

Hmm, my interpretation of shallow would be to focus on looks over everything else. Going by your interpretation, then no, definitely not shallow!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

On here, we only meet those that we find attractive in some way. Personally we don't see that as being shallow. What we find attractive, someone else may well think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Haha! Love the honesty!

There just has to be a visual attraction for me, that "phwoar" feeling. I'll be quiet now.

I wouldn't say, just because there has to be an attraction... Shallow. The best part of people on fab this applies too.

Shallow is if you will fuck anything! "

Is it? That's not how I'd personally describe shallow! I'd say it's someone who values physical appearance etc above everything else!

Hence I'm shallow on fab but not in life! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally for FAB I see shallow based on looks.

1. Read email

2. Look at their pics

3. Read their profile

4. Reply

5. If no face pic ASK

So I think the selection is Defo visual and the. To the mix is the emotional and the intelegent for me - all three.

So I suppose truth is I do base a chunk of my selection on visual - thus a tad shallow yes X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?"
hehe no I'm definitely not ,wouldn't have thought many would admit to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here yes, fairly shallow. Irl not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm not shallow if I fancy you I will fuck you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Haha! Love the honesty!

There just has to be a visual attraction for me, that "phwoar" feeling. I'll be quiet now.

I wouldn't say, just because there has to be an attraction... Shallow. The best part of people on fab this applies too.

Shallow is if you will fuck anything!

Is it? That's not how I'd personally describe shallow! I'd say it's someone who values physical appearance etc above everything else!

Hence I'm shallow on fab but not in life! X"

That's how I define shallow ~ it's all about the looks.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?"

On this site, "No"; I am looking for something deeply meaningful

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No I'm not shallow, the body beautiful is great to look at but I wouldn't meet them as it takes more than that to spark an interest in me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Choosing partners for casual sex? Yes I'm shallow. In every other respect I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I can be at times and it's not a trait I'm proud of

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

To a degree yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Haha! Love the honesty!

There just has to be a visual attraction for me, that "phwoar" feeling. I'll be quiet now.

I wouldn't say, just because there has to be an attraction... Shallow. The best part of people on fab this applies too.

Shallow is if you will fuck anything!

Is it? That's not how I'd personally describe shallow! I'd say it's someone who values physical appearance etc above everything else!

Hence I'm shallow on fab but not in life! X"

I understand what your saying. I'm going by what I describe it as and that's only one of the reasons I think people are shallow. I do agree that people can be shallow in the way you describe it, but I also see that as a preference.

Iv never thought I was shallow just because I have a type or I know when I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think needing to feel an attraction in order to meet is shallow. I have to be attracted to the personality and the body in equal measure. There's no way I could compromise on either.

In real life I'm the opposite of shallow. I analyse and ruminate on everything! I do my own head in with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think needing to feel an attraction in order to meet is shallow. I have to be attracted to the personality and the body in equal measure. There's no way I could compromise on either.

In real life I'm the opposite of shallow. I analyse and ruminate on everything! I do my own head in with it

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most women do this you are not unusual over thinking quite often makes a person indecisive

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

All depends on the amount of lube used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?"

Shallow as in I think someone I'm not attracted to is less worthy of something purely because of their looks? No.

Shallow as in I will only have sex with someone I actually find attractive? Yes.

Shallow as in there is a physical element to who I find attractive? Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose I must be shallow because I have to actually fancy the look of the woman I am going to fuck LoL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think needing to feel an attraction in order to meet is shallow. I have to be attracted to the personality and the body in equal measure. There's no way I could compromise on either.

In real life I'm the opposite of shallow. I analyse and ruminate on everything! I do my own head in with it

most women do this you are not unusual over thinking quite often makes a person indecisive

I don't think this is a gender specific personality trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think needing to feel an attraction in order to meet is shallow. I have to be attracted to the personality and the body in equal measure. There's no way I could compromise on either.

In real life I'm the opposite of shallow. I analyse and ruminate on everything! I do my own head in with it

most women do this you are not unusual over thinking quite often makes a person indecisive

I don't think this is a gender specific personality trait. "
in my experience its predominantly women that over think guys tend to go with flow not all but most x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

You can wallow in my deepest thoughts without getting your ankles wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't say that I am but I guess fab is kinda about being shallow to an extent. I wouldn't meet someone I wasn't attracted to here. In the real world though I'm more about the person.

Here though I still get to know someone though and the personal connection has to be there. So if someone was gorgeous but I had nothing in common I would lose interest..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?

Shallow as in I think someone I'm not attracted to is less worthy of something purely because of their looks? No.

Shallow as in I will only have sex with someone I actually find attractive? Yes.

Shallow as in there is a physical element to who I find attractive? Yes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I really wouldn't say I am.

Iv been called it when iv turned guys down on here, but I don't see a basic need for a physical attraction to a person as shallow. I think they are shallow for expecting me to meet them regardless of attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, can't be arsed to be deep

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

No, the opposite, according to those that know me I have sub-hadal depths.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"No, I really wouldn't say I am.

No you aren't shallow loops. Can I plumb your depths?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I really wouldn't say I am.

No you aren't shallow loops. Can I plumb your depths? "

Ah go on then, as you asked so nicely!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Are you really saying your picking your sex partners on a biological response to the human form if so then I'd never meet you because what your saying is any guy who meets my physical response level will do .well that's not for me I don't want to be a any guy even for sex .

Great sex for me is just as much mental as it is physical when I find a fuck buddy who engages my mind I don't feel the need to meet anyone else for as long as that person is meeting me regularly because the truth be told any female form can give the physical response need to have a unsatisfying fuck but its takes more to give me a satisfying fuck .so I never judge of physical attraction alone because experience has taut me more often than not judging that way leads to unsatisfactory average sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Generally not, though some things don't require a deep amount of consideration.

And what does the op mean by shallow?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Probably - who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shallow but being on the rejecting side all my life.

Its always my height, weight, looks, car, money, job,age, distance, shoes,spelling before my personality is even considered and as i usually fail on height, never gets me anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Its worked well for me. I get plenty of satisfying sex!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Scratch past the surface and all you find is...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

...more surface

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

"I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?"

A better thread would have been

"I openly admit I swallow"

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

"I openly admit I'm shallow. What about you?

A better thread would have been

"I openly admit I swallow"

and in your case..."if I were a pie, you'd only get gravy"

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 19/10/15 18:03:59]

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

But I am not a pie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah!!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Hell yeah!!"

I'm about waist deep. Is that shallow?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Its worked well for me. I get plenty of satisfying sex! "

That's OK the shallow approach works for you rejoice in that fact I don't have a problem at all with shallow people as long as their up front about it so I can make a educated choice about playing with them which in my case would be no fro the reasons I listed above plus a few others not listed .

Its all about personal choice to make that choice one has to know who ones dealing with .

So I say just be open about who you are so others can make educated choices on fact not B/S .

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

you're packed with tender juicy bite sized pieces and a delicious rich sauce though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

"But I am not a pie..."
good to hear it, you leave enough of a bad taste as it is

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I'm so deep you'd better wear arm bands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in name....not in nature

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

"I'm so deep you'd better wear arm bands. "
packed right through to the crust? with a pie funnel to support it from sagging? nothing worse than a droopy crust

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Its worked well for me. I get plenty of satisfying sex!

Its all about personal choice to make that choice one has to know who ones dealing with .

So I say just be open about who you are so others can make educated choices on fact not B/S ."

Lol the vast majority of people on here are shallow tbh! Its a sex site and its looks that generally attract sexual partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it shallow that I only want to have sex with guys that are handsome, over 5'10, dark hair, bushy eyebrows, good physical shape with a big dick and balls? If so I'm shallow both here and in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it shallow that I only want to have sex with guys that are handsome, over 5'10, dark hair, bushy eyebrows, good physical shape with a big dick and balls? If so I'm shallow both here and in real life. "

Like Sesame Steeet bushy?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Its worked well for me. I get plenty of satisfying sex!

Its all about personal choice to make that choice one has to know who ones dealing with .

So I say just be open about who you are so others can make educated choices on fact not B/S .

Lol the vast majority of people on here are shallow tbh! Its a sex site and its looks that generally attract sexual partners. "

For vanilla sex yes I agree but some of us are not here for vanilla sex because we could get that any Friday night in town

P's mmf ffm group partner swapping are just another shade of vanilla in my book .

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

"Lol the vast majority of people on here are shallow tbh! Its a sex site and its looks that generally attract sexual partners. "

True...but it valid also outside here unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Its worked well for me. I get plenty of satisfying sex! "

some people get more than their fair share its like wealth it should be dished out evenly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Its worked well for me. I get plenty of satisfying sex!

Its all about personal choice to make that choice one has to know who ones dealing with .

So I say just be open about who you are so others can make educated choices on fact not B/S .

Lol the vast majority of people on here are shallow tbh! Its a sex site and its looks that generally attract sexual partners.

For vanilla sex yes I agree but some of us are not here for vanilla sex because we could get that any Friday night in town

P's mmf ffm group partner swapping are just another shade of vanilla in my book ."

Not just for vanilla sex! For any kind of sex. You seriously trying to tell me that the vast majority would fuck someone unattractive because they have a nice personality?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Its worked well for me. I get plenty of satisfying sex!

some people get more than their fair share its like wealth it should be dished out evenly

Lol I prob get more than my fair share but so do most females on here

being a girl is awesome!

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over a year ago

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Its worked well for me. I get plenty of satisfying sex!

some people get more than their fair share its like wealth it should be dished out evenly

Lol I prob get more than my fair share but so do most females on here

being a girl is awesome!"
god I wanna be in a girl they do have more fun

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over a year ago

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

My last 2 relationships were with guys i didn't find physically attractive, when i initially met them, but i had sex with them. I'd got to know them and they turned me on with their mind, i fancied them eventually because i changed the way i looked at them after i got to know them. And irl i'll talk to anyone without even looking at them as sexual in any way.

On here i will only talk to guys i find attractive. Am shallow on here.

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over a year ago

On here yes, in general occasionally!

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over a year ago

I don't know. Some people on here may look at some of the men I've had sex with and think ewww. I don't have sex solely based on looks, how much money a man has,or the car he drives,or the house he owns.

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By *ark_KnightsMan
over a year ago

london

Yes to an extent of what I find attractive (legs)

Everything else is bonus

But even so almost instantly I can see if the person has humour despite the looks

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I've got to be honest here I don't know how someone can say on Fab I'm sallow off Fab I'm not you are what you are in my book you can't flip between being shallow and not .

I get the idea of a physical response we all program through biology to find the physical form of the opposite sex attractive a turn on but that's a animal response nothing more nothing less .

Its worked well for me. I get plenty of satisfying sex!

Its all about personal choice to make that choice one has to know who ones dealing with .

So I say just be open about who you are so others can make educated choices on fact not B/S .

Lol the vast majority of people on here are shallow tbh! Its a sex site and its looks that generally attract sexual partners.

For vanilla sex yes I agree but some of us are not here for vanilla sex because we could get that any Friday night in town

P's mmf ffm group partner swapping are just another shade of vanilla in my book .

Not just for vanilla sex! For any kind of sex. You seriously trying to tell me that the vast majority would fuck someone unattractive because they have a nice personality? "

Vanilla sex can be delivered by any one that's what I'm saying hence a woman now this is a controversial thing to say but its true can fuck a guy she meets inline who wouldn't give her a second look in a scenario where a fuck wasn't up for grabs .

It is what it is physical appearance is a small part of lust I'd say 25 percent for me the other 75 percent is going to be who you are what you find a turn on how you act and whether that appeals to my sexual make up,

I don't find vanilla much of a turn on straight sex with out a kink doesn't interest me I need the kink hence the split I listed l

I'm polluting your post so I will stop their let others talk and enjoy .

I'm not saying I'm right I'm talking personally my personal thoughts on how attraction works for me when it comes to picking a play mate .

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

I miss the big ball part...and the bushy eyebrows one

So if Tom Cruise knocks your door what are you going to do...?

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

"I don't know. Some people on here may look at some of the men I've had sex with and think ewww. I don't have sex solely based on looks, how much money a man has,or the car he drives,or the house he owns. "

that's not shallow, this is a clever strategy