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Why normal relationships become boring

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By *LLURS OP   Man
over a year ago

waterforx

Normal realist hips are to boring / so why do we swing or should we stay in a normal boring relationship / over to ye my swinging friends to answer this pussler / a lot of us have different views in swinging like some don't care others stil love there partner and swing / so what's it for ye / mail bk thanks a lot :

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like realist hips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normal realist hips are to boring / so why do we swing or should we stay in a normal boring relationship / over to ye my swinging friends to answer this pussler / a lot of us have different views in swinging like some don't care others stil love there partner and swing / so what's it for ye / mail bk thanks a lot : "

Relationships only become boring if people are too lazy/selfish to put in the effort.

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By *adenceWoman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire

Hi... New poster, btw....

When peeps are single, they go out and 'get a life'. People are busy, attractive because they're interesting/ interested, constantly learning, independent. At some point some people forget to do all the above... Have a life, support partner, be interested, bring new things into the relationship etc. I think often then, people either still love their partner but fish elsewhere... Or, over time, gain more and more distance.

I'm not entirely sure this is related to swinging though! People swing for all sorts of reasons from what I can gather!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Hi... New poster, btw..

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I go to a lot of Union conferences. And when someone is a first time speaker we cheer.

I just mentally cheered when I read that first bit!

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By *adenceWoman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire

Errrrr.... *Coughs*... Thanks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normal realist hips are to boring / so why do we swing or should we stay in a normal boring relationship / over to ye my swinging friends to answer this pussler / a lot of us have different views in swinging like some don't care others stil love there partner and swing / so what's it for ye / mail bk thanks a lot : "

We didn't start swinging because our relationship was boring. Quite the contrary.

By the way, did you stick every smiley on the end of your OP?

-Courtney

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well none of my relationships have been based entirely on sex for a start, sex is a lovely part of a relationship but not the be all and end all.

Swinging can enhance the sex side of a relationship, it can be part of your make up not to be monogamous but if your swinging because your whole relationship is boring then its not going to help much

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I think the trick is to grow together...

And one man's 'normal' is another man's delight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i get very excited that my wife is in my life. To think that someone out there will put up with me and that we managed to find each other still blows my mind! Still look forward to just spending time with her doing stuff, even doing nothing. Waking in the night and snuggling up to her knowing that it wasn't a dream and i AM the luckiest man alive takes some beating! I sometimes just wish there was a way i could articulate the emotion better.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Normal realist hips are to boring / so why do we swing or should we stay in a normal boring relationship / over to ye my swinging friends to answer this pussler / a lot of us have different views in swinging like some don't care others stil love there partner and swing / so what's it for ye / mail bk thanks a lot :

We didn't start swinging because our relationship was boring. Quite the contrary.

By the way, did you stick every smiley on the end of your OP?

-Courtney"

Try the green arrow, it's a hoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normal realist hips are to boring / so why do we swing or should we stay in a normal boring relationship / over to ye my swinging friends to answer this pussler / a lot of us have different views in swinging like some don't care others stil love there partner and swing / so what's it for ye / mail bk thanks a lot :

We didn't start swinging because our relationship was boring. Quite the contrary.

By the way, did you stick every smiley on the end of your OP?

-Courtney

Try the green arrow, it's a hoot "

Oh! Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think they do get boring. Maybe the people in it become boring or complacent but if you both continue to grow as people then it won't be boring at all. In fact you have more private jokes, experiences together and fun if you want that. Both people have to keep it up though, not just one or none of you, which is why people split up eventually.

I was in an 11 year relationship and never got bored of it. Did split up with him but because of other things.

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By *LLURS OP   Man
over a year ago

waterforx

Very good answer affectionate bitch and Courtney always put smileys /, it's inevitable couples wil get bored and want more / but for couples to swing together is a very srtring bond who wants to see each other enjoy the sex side of life to the max and they wil support them in every other way / more input please my sexy friends ur very we'll hung friend Paul xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Very good answer affectionate bitch and Courtney always put smileys /, it's inevitable couples wil get bored and want more / but for couples to swing together is a very srtring bond who wants to see each other enjoy the sex side of life to the max and they wil support them in every other way / more input please my sexy friends ur very we'll hung friend Paul xx "

Well Paul, boredom isn't inevitable or at least remaining bored isn't inevitable a relationship takes work and recognising when action needs to be taken is all part of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think cheating on each-other keep you both on tip toes making the relationship more exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only boring if you let them be boring... If there was no fun in my relationship, I would think what was the point. But I would try not to have a relationship end up boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be that modern society fills us with so many expectations, that can never be met, so we enter the relationship these things in mind, and when they are not met we are deeply unsatisfied, and so move on to look for those things elsewhere, thus starting a never ending quest, for something that only exists entirely in our minds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normal realist hips are to boring / so why do we swing or should we stay in a normal boring relationship / over to ye my swinging friends to answer this pussler / a lot of us have different views in swinging like some don't care others stil love there partner and swing / so what's it for ye / mail bk thanks a lot :

Relationships only become boring if people are too lazy/selfish to put in the effort."

Some relationships aren't worth putting the effort into

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

What is a normal relationship??????

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What is a normal relationship?????? "

I wondered that. Everyone has their own normal I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a normal relationship?????? "

No idea

For the purpose of this thread though I think he means none swinging couples

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Right, So just those couples who fuck each other and indulge in hardcore bondage and submission.

Got it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't start swinging because we were bored we wanted to expand our experiences and are more in love after 25 years of marriage and certainly make love as often as we can even with two young kids. When playing either singly or as a couple it means we have a child free pass so it is stress free as well.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Normal realist hips are to boring / so why do we swing or should we stay in a normal boring relationship / over to ye my swinging friends to answer this pussler / a lot of us have different views in swinging like some don't care others stil love there partner and swing / so what's it for ye / mail bk thanks a lot :

Relationships only become boring if people are too lazy/selfish to put in the effort."

Totally agree X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normal realist hips are to boring / so why do we swing or should we stay in a normal boring relationship / over to ye my swinging friends to answer this pussler / a lot of us have different views in swinging like some don't care others stil love there partner and swing / so what's it for ye / mail bk thanks a lot :

Relationships only become boring if people are too lazy/selfish to put in the effort.

Some relationships aren't worth putting the effort into "

Some people are so tired from work and children they can't focus on their relationship.

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