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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

before you all jump on my head at least here me out

many of us on here are in relationships that no longer fulfil us that bring us here or have FB's who are attached or married for this we are often frowned upon by the morally perfect but lets face it we are human and all need fulfilment and intimate company

i recently thought about the gap in the club scene for us so called cheaters and wondered would an afternoon of fun n frolics in a club mabe under the name decadent desires would really be so bad

at the end of the day? it happens thats a fact n we end up paying fortunes for hotels when we have wonderful club facilities on our doorsteps is a band of gold afternoon really in all honesty a step too far? just a thought guys but i have the noose ready if you want to hang me for expressing an opinion

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I hope your brother cooks you breakfast when he wakes up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the state he is in the kitchen will be out of order for a week lmfao builders crack is never a pretty sight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"before you all jump on my head at least here me out

many of us on here are in relationships that no longer fulfil us that bring us here or have FB's who are attached or married for this we are often frowned upon by the morally perfect but lets

face it we are human and all need fulfilment and intimate company

i recently thought about the gap in the club scene for us so called cheaters and wondered would an afternoon of fun n frolics in a club mabe under the name decadent desires would really be so bad

at the end of the day? it happens thats a fact n we end up paying fortunes for hotels when we have wonderful club facilities on our doorsteps is a band of gold afternoon really in all honesty a step too far? just a thought guys but i have the noose ready if you want to hang me for expressing an opinion"

ive never cheated but had it done to me i dnt condem any1 tho each to there own im honest enough to realise that i mustnt have bin giving myexhubby what he needed so he went elshwhere so go for it life is to short

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having been on both sides of the fence I guess I am trying to say sometimes it's not so easy to do the right thing and walk away due to ties that bind us to unhappy relationships and is there a market for those in that situation sorry if my thoughts offend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been cheated on many a time, so I'm not fond of cheaters, but saying that... No one knows what's going on behind a person's door to deem them a bad person!

Some cheat cos their relationship has broken down, their partner has an illness, they're addicted to sex or they purely just get off on getting away with betrayal.

Each to their own tbh, it's not for us to judge. Their business is just that, theirs!! I do think the Internet makes it so easy for affairs to start though, because there are so many sites out there that fulfills that gap..

Right or wrong ppl will do what they do. If two consenting adults play, then only they are responsible for their actions.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have had 2 open relationships, ma last ex took and uploaded some pics for me on here. Jealousy should never be an issue in any relationship, I had a g/f in the 80's that would question me every day when I got home from work because there were other women there

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I have had 2 open relationships, ma last ex took and uploaded some pics for me on here. Jealousy should never be an issue in any relationship, I had a g/f in the 80's that would question me every day when I got home from work because there were other women there "

I used to be that woman. I once broke my boyfriends nose because I caught him chatting to a woman in a nightclub. I was young.

Then we split up (surprised?) and I started dating a male stripper. Cured my jealousy practically over night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought clubs already did this, that's why some open daytimes.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I thought clubs already did this, that's why some open daytimes. "

I agree - whilst not officially 'cheaters' slots, a lot of people there are playing away. You see the nervousness when they get certain calls, which aren't work related.

Cheatings tough - can be devastating for the other party but there are difficult situations for many cheats.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why don't you just go to clubs anyway if that's your thing. Why do you need a special afternoon just for married people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"before you all jump on my head at least here me out

many of us on here are in relationships that no longer fulfil us that bring us here or have FB's who are attached or married for this we are often frowned upon by the morally perfect but lets face it we are human and all need fulfilment and intimate company

i recently thought about the gap in the club scene for us so called cheaters and wondered would an afternoon of fun n frolics in a club mabe under the name decadent desires would really be so bad

at the end of the day? it happens thats a fact n we end up paying fortunes for hotels when we have wonderful club facilities on our doorsteps is a band of gold afternoon really in all honesty a step too far? just a thought guys but i have the noose ready if you want to hang me for expressing an opinion"

Meh, do what you feel is right. Won't say I condone cheating, but it's none of my business how you run your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't one of the upsides if club activity that it's mostly anonymous ?

Unless you have an arranged meet, or pay with friends, then the question of martial status is probably one of the last topics of conversation to come up

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We wouldn't call it a gap in the club scene all the clubs we go to have regular members who are married and go to the club without their husband or wife.

Others come to a clubs with a partner of the opposite sex who they are not married to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know you don't have to declare your marital status at the club entrance.

There's a club near me which opens daytime, attracts a variety of people.

If you want to meet other like minded people create a meet / event post in the fourm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By most of us presume you mean singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if married men or women would want to risk going to a club, for the thought of being seen or recognised?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I've just realised,men and women playing away are very much treated differently on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just realised,men and women playing away are very much treated differently on here!"

Foooooo sure!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not get in touch with clubs and try to arrange something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure if married men or women would want to risk going to a club, for the thought of being seen or recognised? "

Depends on how close to home your club might be

I can imagine the scenario of going to a club in a completely different area to your home and bumping into your wife's best friend

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