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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there a special language that only swingers speak to help you get meets.

This is the 4th time I have been on this site and everytime I get the same thing....send message....get ignored.....I have tried singles profiles and couples profiles.....I speak nice....I speak bluntly.....Nothing works so im thinking there is a secret language and I dont understand it......Any help greatly accepted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest opinion and please don't take this as a dig it is just my personal opinion

Your a single woman who keep joining and leaving, you say you join under several different profiles as a single and a couple and you have no verifications

Nobody's going to take you serious

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they may shy away because of 'slut'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't meet alone

Not into single guys

Bare backer

Question answeered

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and throat choking, but some may find that attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your on as a single woman yet only meet with your fb... so meeting as a couple....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on here over the last 2 years...I left as I got into a relationship then I left because of a stalker...Then I left because I got bored...yes I had a few meets and got some very good verification's but its took me ages to get them....if I wanted to meet just men then it wouldnt be a problem.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Set up a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I put down what I am interested in.

I put bareback just a word to put in the subject box.

I think it would be pretty deceitful if I wasnt honest about what I was looking for....Is that not the whole point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single woman who won't meet without your FB.....will put most off. Would be like our profile saying only male half will meet.

Join as a couple, I'm sure you'll have more success

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have tried a couples profile....twice....I have tried a singles profile twice and got more interest as a single...hench the singles profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put down what I am interested in.

I put bareback just a word to put in the subject box.

I think it would be pretty deceitful if I wasnt honest about what I was looking for....Is that not the whole point"

But you don't have safe sex as an interest

Why use bare back

People will assume that's what's on offer

I think your profile should be a couples one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put down what I am interested in.

I put bareback just a word to put in the subject box.

I think it would be pretty deceitful if I wasnt honest about what I was looking for....Is that not the whole point"

Of course that the whole point but a couple on a singles profile asking for bareback as a subject title it will put a hell of a lot off, that don't mean lie about what your after it just means you must understand it will take longer to find what your looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have tried a couples profile....twice....I have tried a singles profile twice and got more interest as a single...hench the singles profile"

Well my profile was reported as I mentioned only meeting with a fb and admin changed it to a couples profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have tried a couples profile....twice....I have tried a singles profile twice and got more interest as a single...hench the singles profile"

It isn't like trying on coats to see which one suits you! You meet as a couple, you need a couples profile you won't get more meets just because the heading says single just more messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you only meet with your fb then you are a couple. Your sexual interests will limit those interested.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I dare say the OPs will get changed as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my opinion. Take it for what it's worth.

A single woman's profile where the woman will only meet with her FB is a red flag for us. We wouldn't take it seriously. I understand you've had no luck with couples profiles, but I think it would be a lot like me setting up a single woman's profile and then saying I won't meet without my husband. It isn't honest.

The fact that you have no public pictures and a close up vag pic as your avatar would be an automatic no. I want to see pictures before talking with someone. Its what attracts me to them initially.

Just my thoughts. Good luck.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It drives me crazy seeing a single female profile where the female only meets with her fb! I think maybe it's done as a single female will get more response than a couple ! That's not meant to sound disrespectful but I too have played as a couple in the past ... And it was much more difficult ! When I message a single female for fun I don't want to meet her fb too !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your opinions...I will take them on board and make my changes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thank you all for your opinions...I will take them on board and make my changes."

Good, hope you find it works for you

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Thank you all for your opinions...I will take them on board and make my changes."

good luck

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