FabSwingers.com forum: " to do lists"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't mean sexually or daily "to do lists"

I was reading a magazine article, where the women had made a "life to do list" from the age of 15.

Eg: fall in love, bungee jump etc.

Has any of you been like this? If so, did you tick everything off of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean like a 'bucket list'?

I have certain things. Would like to achieve, but no set list.x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No.. Did the only thing I ever really wanted to do.. Survived cancer. Red

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You mean like a 'bucket list'?

I have certain things. Would like to achieve, but no set list.x"

Yes like a bucket list, but one you started at a young age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see my life as a list. I used to have career goals, but then life happened.

I realized that lists are pointless. For me, anyway.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.. Did the only thing I ever really wanted to do.. Survived cancer. Red

Congratulations

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes, wrote one years ago with my bestest girl friends. We've revised it since

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't see my life as a list. I used to have career goals, but then life happened.

I realized that lists are pointless. For me, anyway.

-Courtney"

I didn't have a list, but I did achieve 2 things I wanted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, wrote one years ago with my bestest girl friends. We've revised it since

Care to share what was on it

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I don't mean sexually or daily "to do lists"

I was reading a magazine article, where the women had made a "life to do list" from the age of 15.

Eg: fall in love, bungee jump etc.

Has any of you been like this? If so, did you tick everything off of it? "

I saw that article. The lady did well and I liked some of the ones she achieved which included kissing under water.

But it was a let down as she swallowed water in a coupletter of seconds.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I do lists when planning things for work, holidays, Xmas, in fact for pretty much everything apart from "life"

There are some things I just want to enjoy not plan

Nita

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Yes, wrote one years ago with my bestest girl friends. We've revised it since

Care to share what was on it

All sorts, going to Paris for one of us, a 3some for one of us (not me either!).

I wanted a diamond ring. Sadly I got my Mum's when she died

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No but I shall be writing one for the second part of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I've never viewed life as a sequence of goals to achieve. That's possibly because I have to deal with little chunks at a time due an habitual sense of 'winging it', so I try to be content with the little wins ie, my children are fed, my house is clean and I've done some college work (go Nell!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No but I shall be writing one for the second part of my life. "

I feel I'd like to do it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I WILL do this before I die.

And before anyone asks, yes it is real...

https://youtu.be/BaNZzUg5Opg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see my life as a list. I used to have career goals, but then life happened.

I realized that lists are pointless. For me, anyway.

-Courtney

I didn't have a list, but I did achieve 2 things I wanted. "

Go you!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I WILL do this before I die.

And before anyone asks, yes it is real...

https://youtu.be/BaNZzUg5Opg"

Is it urethra intercourse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I WILL do this before I die.

And before anyone asks, yes it is real...

https://youtu.be/BaNZzUg5Opg

Is it urethra intercourse?

Jet wingsuit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do lists when planning things for work, holidays, Xmas, in fact for pretty much everything apart from "life"

There are some things I just want to enjoy not plan

Nita"

This is like me. I don't want a list because I worry I'd make decisions differently to fit it and just to tick things off for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I WILL do this before I die.

And before anyone asks, yes it is real...

https://youtu.be/BaNZzUg5Opg"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to set goals.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do lists when planning things for work, holidays, Xmas, in fact for pretty much everything apart from "life"

There are some things I just want to enjoy not plan

Nita

This is like me. I don't want a list because I worry I'd make decisions differently to fit it and just to tick things off for the sake of it. "

Hey Ruby, I like that you already have a hat for my wedding day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I WILL do this before I die.

And before anyone asks, yes it is real...

https://youtu.be/BaNZzUg5Opg"

All I could think was "Wow, that's cool - I wonder how much his public liability insurance costs."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I WILL do this before I die.

And before anyone asks, yes it is real...

https://youtu.be/BaNZzUg5Opg

Is it urethra intercourse?

Jet wingsuit..."

Thank baby Jesus for that...

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"No but I shall be writing one for the second part of my life. "

I think I'm getting to this stage too. There's still plenty I want to achieve and lots still to do. Probably only a few MUST do things though. Best get cracking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.. Did the only thing I ever really wanted to do.. Survived cancer. Red

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No but I shall be writing one for the second part of my life.

I think I'm getting to this stage too. There's still plenty I want to achieve and lots still to do. Probably only a few MUST do things though. Best get cracking..."

The first is writing me a good ol fashioned letter

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"No but I shall be writing one for the second part of my life.

I think I'm getting to this stage too. There's still plenty I want to achieve and lots still to do. Probably only a few MUST do things though. Best get cracking...

The first is writing me a good ol fashioned letter

That is at the top of my list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do lists when planning things for work, holidays, Xmas, in fact for pretty much everything apart from "life"

There are some things I just want to enjoy not plan

Nita

This is like me. I don't want a list because I worry I'd make decisions differently to fit it and just to tick things off for the sake of it.

Hey Ruby, I like that you already have a hat for my wedding day

Yeah, it's a biggun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.. Did the only thing I ever really wanted to do.. Survived cancer. Red

That's the most achievement

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do lists when planning things for work, holidays, Xmas, in fact for pretty much everything apart from "life"

There are some things I just want to enjoy not plan

Nita

This is like me. I don't want a list because I worry I'd make decisions differently to fit it and just to tick things off for the sake of it.

Hey Ruby, I like that you already have a hat for my wedding day

Yeah, it's a biggun

What colour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red, to go with my dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you need a plus one for the wedding Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been one for lists, my main goal in life is in the raising of my children to have the most opportunities in life that I can give them.... Other than that I tend to bump along like some sort of brownium motion and live for the moment.

This isn't always a good thing....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Red, to go with my dress

that's good, it will go with the colour scheme

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No but I shall be writing one for the second part of my life.

I think I'm getting to this stage too. There's still plenty I want to achieve and lots still to do. Probably only a few MUST do things though. Best get cracking...

The first is writing me a good ol fashioned letter

That is at the top of my list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write many lists. I never stick to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a list of twenty possibly achievable things to do before I was 40. Managed to do 18, only failed on driving East to west coat in U.S. and learning to play guitar. Bought a guitar aged 39 but failed to master it though. Will do the whole U.S. road trip one day buy possibly when I retire and emigrate again.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I suppose the next things on my list are to sell my flat and buy a house, and give up my part time job so I only have to work my full time one. I may not be able to give it up totally but it's looking good that I can cut back after Xmas

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a list of twenty possibly achievable things to do before I was 40. Managed to do 18, only failed on driving East to west coat in U.S. and learning to play guitar. Bought a guitar aged 39 but failed to master it though. Will do the whole U.S. road trip one day buy possibly when I retire and emigrate again."

that's great DP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose the next things on my list are to sell my flat and buy a house, and give up my part time job so I only have to work my full time one. I may not be able to give it up totally but it's looking good that I can cut back after Xmas

I will never afford my own place, but more than happy renting. I plan on working full time in a couple of years.

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