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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

Some people like the cyber aspect. Or the chatting aspect.

Each to their own..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

I am not looking to meet.... what do you suggest I do

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?

I am not looking to meet.... what do you suggest I do"

Have a wank

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?

I am not looking to meet.... what do you suggest I do

Have a wank "

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

Why shouldn't they?! I wasn't looking to meet for a long while...my most recent verification now is from thursday.

In the interim I enjoyed interacting on the forums, teasing chaps with my pics and a jolly good load of banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

Er yeah. I might change my mind. Is that not allowed?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

yes, next question.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Why should I not be allowed to be here?? Do tell, as I am very interested to hear

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I rarely meet I just come on here to annoy people I need to get out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

Yes. It's probably temporary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think the rules should be OP? People take breaks but like to continue using the forums. I don't see the harm, just move onto someone who is meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says on their profile they're not meeting? Then it's easy to move on.

Can't those same people enjoy chatting, looking at sexy pics, etc? I'll probably do that if/when we decide to stop meeting.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long does it take to build friends and acquaintances?

Do you suggest people come onto Fab the moment they fancy a fuck and start messaging random people out of the blue?

Is that really what you think would be best for the site?

Or have you just simply not thought this through?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not... I think you have to take a break every now and then... Sometimes we hide the profile... Sometimes we don't.

Why should people that aren't meeting not be here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely meet I just come on here to annoy people I need to get out more "

And I thought you were just here to perve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I regularly take breaks from meeting

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I prefer people who state it on their profile, why shouldn't they come on here to socialise, perv or whatever they want, better they make it clear from the outset than be on here pretending they want to meet but never doing so.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I rarely meet I just come on here to annoy people I need to get out more

And I thought you were just here to perve? "

Oh and to perve I forgot that,how can I forget that on a swinging site

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

East Midlands

I'd rather people state not meeting on there profile than constantly delete and recreate accounts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone uses fab to meet, its useful to keep up to date with what clubs are doing.....

Or just to keep in touch with people they already play with

Some people don't feel the need to fuck the world and doubt need to constantly hunt for new conquests

Me personally, I am not ready physically or mentally to bother my arse sifting through people to shag

Fatbird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see often "not looking to meet" or "chat only"... Last verified 4 hours ago. Does make me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see often "not looking to meet" or "chat only"... Last verified 4 hours ago. Does make me chuckle "

Cam chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put in not meeting at the moment, although that appears to be more of a challenge to some!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

Most definitely yes! Certainly if you're using the forums it doesn't matter if you're actively swinging, shagging ten people a week or are a virgin who doesn't want to meet. The forum's just a place to chat and has nothing to do with swinging anyway. It's just a bunch of randoms sat behind computer screens talking bollocks (myself included) It's just cyber chat. If you are actively into meeting then you use other aspects of the site anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave helpful hints that I'm not meeting...rather not paint it in black and white. As for having anything to do with this site? God knows i shouldn't! But it's like poking a dead body with a stick isn't it? Gross, but intriguing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least they're being honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"
no they shouldn't the whole premise of this god forsaken place is to meet ,if you want a social life join the women's institute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least they're being honest"

Quite rare on here

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?no they shouldn't the whole premise of this god forsaken place is to meet ,if you want a social life join the women's institute "

Oi that's a bit sexist men don't meet as well you know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you shouldn't really use Not Looking To Meet against anyone. What about the ones who appear to be up for a meet but are really just here for a wank and a bit of time wasting? At least being up front and saying not looking to meet shows a good deal of honesty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see often "not looking to meet" or "chat only"... Last verified 4 hours ago. Does make me chuckle

Cam chat?"

The veri or their meaning of chat only?

Veri is normally meet veri

Chat only- no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?no they shouldn't the whole premise of this god forsaken place is to meet ,if you want a social life join the women's institute "

I tried..they were VERY rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see often "not looking to meet" or "chat only"... Last verified 4 hours ago. Does make me chuckle

Cam chat?"

Or wanting to minimize the amount of messages they get inundated with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see often "not looking to meet" or "chat only"... Last verified 4 hours ago. Does make me chuckle

Cam chat?

Or wanting to minimize the amount of messages they get inundated with?"

Profile would have to read for that to happen

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

Why shouldn't we?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye.

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By *ornynwcplCouple
over a year ago

Preston

We're not looking to meet for sex right now, because we're expecting!

But keeping the profile and enjoying reading the forums and chatting because the idea is new to us and we'll be looking at it again next year.

And in the meantime, we're arranging a social meet with a lovely couple at the Manchester Xmas markets.. So I think we're still serving a purpose on here for the time being.

But if people want to just meet now, for sex then we're not for you. No harm done to anyone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you shouldn't really use Not Looking To Meet against anyone. What about the ones who appear to be up for a meet but are really just here for a wank and a bit of time wasting? At least being up front and saying not looking to meet shows a good deal of honesty!

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I'm up for a meet

But often find myself time wasting and wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye."

Well you did ask. What were you expecting? For everyone to say people who aren't meeting should be kicked off?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Of course they do, it's fine to take breaks or just be here for the social side.

It's a common misconception amongst many that this site is just a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye."

I'm not sure. Where is Fylde?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye.

Well you did ask. What were you expecting? For everyone to say people who aren't meeting should be kicked off? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you shouldn't really use Not Looking To Meet against anyone. What about the ones who appear to be up for a meet but are really just here for a wank and a bit of time wasting? At least being up front and saying not looking to meet shows a good deal of honesty!

I'm up for a meet

But often find myself time wasting and wanking "

Well...it's nice isn't it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye."
oh bye have fun whatever you do with the W.I.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes they should. I'm not sure that people who will only meet as a couple should be here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you shouldn't really use Not Looking To Meet against anyone. What about the ones who appear to be up for a meet but are really just here for a wank and a bit of time wasting? At least being up front and saying not looking to meet shows a good deal of honesty!

I'm up for a meet

But often find myself time wasting and wanking

Well...it's nice isn't it?!"

It's tremendous Clem.....tremendous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *w33tCh33ks91TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

At least they aren't time wasting... People just being honest I suppose... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its down to peoples ''own'' personal preference as to when and how they use this site... If this is too much of an issue for you then perhaps you are right in what you are saying ''You suspected you are in the wrong place''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me. Most of the site are not looking to meet me, so a few others won't harm! People can use the site as they wish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely meet I just come on here to annoy people I need to get out more "

Snap here! But sometimes I do choose to meet and I have time to meet....I'm pretty sure I'm not hurting anyone by being here. Those I chat to know the score.....it actually amuses me that some would be offended by my presence.....and it turns out I'm not a big enough gossip for the WI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?

I am not looking to meet.... what do you suggest I do

Have a wank "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they should. I'm not sure that people who will only meet as a couple should be here though. "

Really? Swinging is hugely based around couples meeting other couples or singles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway.. I thought the whole point of this site was so that you could turn down people who are obviously better looking than you are just so you feel better about yourself and those moments of being teased by the good looking kids at school seem a little bit further away?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'm not sure. Where is Fylde?"

It's the area around and including Blackpool..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm, do you think we shouldn't OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely meet I just come on here to annoy people I need to get out more

Snap here! But sometimes I do choose to meet and I have time to meet....I'm pretty sure I'm not hurting anyone by being here. Those I chat to know the score.....it actually amuses me that some would be offended by my presence.....and it turns out I'm not a big enough gossip for the WI "
I'm not offended by you at all I love your sexy arse and wasn't aware you aren't available to meet and to be fair I'm only really offended by inconsiderate people

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and whilst I pay my subscription to the site for the additional features and I continue to enjoy them.

I will use the site any which way I fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway.. I thought the whole point of this site was so that you could turn down people who are obviously better looking than you are just so you feel better about yourself and those moments of being teased by the good looking kids at school seem a little bit further away? "
it is who did you turn down ,let's compare notes

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I meet very rarely. The people I talk to regularly on here know that and I might even manage to meet some of them eventually. Just because I haven't met anyone new in months doesn't mean I won't when timing allows. And how else am I supposed to find those people if I'm not on here when I'm not meeting? Set up a new profile every few months when I have a week free and wade through piles of messages from people who don't suit me and vice versa? By keeping my profile active when I haven't got the time to meet I can keep in contact with those who know the score and who I would like to meet one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they should. I'm not sure that people who will only meet as a couple should be here though.

Really? Swinging is hugely based around couples meeting other couples or singles? "

Yeah I thought it odd too.

Typical reaction on here to a daft OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it's clear that the person is not looking to meet , that's fine .

It would be a much better place if there were more that are looking to meet though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye."

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they should. I'm not sure that people who will only meet as a couple should be here though.

Really? Swinging is hugely based around couples meeting other couples or singles?

Yeah I thought it odd too.

Typical reaction on here to a daft OP."

I'm guessing it was a sarcastic response from Granny tbh ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye."

So OP, you don't think they should be a fun or social aspect to sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye.

Why?"

My guess would be that the op spent a while looking for local people to meet , and got fed up of seeing profiles stating they weren't on fab to meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on my profile not meeting at present, that's only because someone is helping my to explore my boundaries and we do like each others company I stay on here because I still chat and enjoy reading the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye.

So OP, you don't think they should be a fun or social aspect to sex? "

Fun , yes , a big yes .

Social ? No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they should. I'm not sure that people who will only meet as a couple should be here though.

Really? Swinging is hugely based around couples meeting other couples or singles?

Yeah I thought it odd too.

Typical reaction on here to a daft OP.

I'm guessing it was a sarcastic response from Granny tbh ...."

Oh right ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to have a meeting or not currently meeting button so that if you are looking to meet someone you can filter by profiles that are also looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet very rarely. The people I talk to regularly on here know that and I might even manage to meet some of them eventually. Just because I haven't met anyone new in months doesn't mean I won't when timing allows. And how else am I supposed to find those people if I'm not on here when I'm not meeting? Set up a new profile every few months when I have a week free and wade through piles of messages from people who don't suit me and vice versa? By keeping my profile active when I haven't got the time to meet I can keep in contact with those who know the score and who I would like to meet one day."
awwwww sexy I didn't even know you wernt available to meet the consensus is you should leave now ,they did a moray poll your pics are great but fab needs your flesh ,the W.I. needs you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as it's clear that the person is not looking to meet , that's fine .

It would be a much better place if there were more that are looking to meet though .

"

I agree with this.

If someone has a 3,000 word profile and "not meeting" is hidden in there somewhere it's stupid and wasting people's time.

It really isn't difficult to either hide the profile or delete everyone off the 'looking for' section or delete the text and replace with "not meeting".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they should. I'm not sure that people who will only meet as a couple should be here though.

Really? Swinging is hugely based around couples meeting other couples or singles?

Yeah I thought it odd too.

Typical reaction on here to a daft OP.

I'm guessing it was a sarcastic response from Granny tbh ...."

Fair enough. I misread it then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye.

So OP, you don't think they should be a fun or social aspect to sex?

Fun , yes , a big yes .

Social ? No

"

But you appreciate that the social side works for other fab user a and you don't get all ranty and judgemental because someone is meeting people in a different way to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've put in not meeting at the moment, although that appears to be more of a challenge to some! "

Yes I've noticed that I'm sure they see the NOT MEETING as message me for availability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's not all about wanting to meet its about making new friends I don't always like to meet I enjoy just chatting on here or on phone about anything lol not just sex it's nice just to meet people

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


"I would like to have a meeting or not currently meeting button so that if you are looking to meet someone you can filter by profiles that are also looking to meet."

isn't this what the meets,events section is for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as it's clear that the person is not looking to meet , that's fine .

It would be a much better place if there were more that are looking to meet though .

I agree with this.

If someone has a 3,000 word profile and "not meeting" is hidden in there somewhere it's stupid and wasting people's time.

It really isn't difficult to either hide the profile or delete everyone off the 'looking for' section or delete the text and replace with "not meeting". "

Yeah i mostly agree, i wouldn't hide my profile though as the kind of people I'd like to meet could still wink me, even if they can't message.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I meet very rarely. The people I talk to regularly on here know that and I might even manage to meet some of them eventually. Just because I haven't met anyone new in months doesn't mean I won't when timing allows. And how else am I supposed to find those people if I'm not on here when I'm not meeting? Set up a new profile every few months when I have a week free and wade through piles of messages from people who don't suit me and vice versa? By keeping my profile active when I haven't got the time to meet I can keep in contact with those who know the score and who I would like to meet one day.awwwww sexy I didn't even know you wernt available to meet the consensus is you should leave now ,they did a moray poll your pics are great but fab needs your flesh ,the W.I. needs you "

I am available to meet. Just not very often. Which is stated very clearly in the first line of my profile. If people don't read it them that's them wasting their own time by messaging me asking for a quick fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've put in not meeting at the moment, although that appears to be more of a challenge to some!

Yes I've noticed that I'm sure they see the NOT MEETING as message me for availability"

So block all sexes from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to have a meeting or not currently meeting button so that if you are looking to meet someone you can filter by profiles that are also looking to meet.

isn't this what the meets,events section is for?"
i don't know I've never used it...I'll shut up then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to have a meeting or not currently meeting button so that if you are looking to meet someone you can filter by profiles that are also looking to meet.

isn't this what the meets,events section is for?"

No. You can't post I'm not meeting in there can you ?

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


"I would like to have a meeting or not currently meeting button so that if you are looking to meet someone you can filter by profiles that are also looking to meet.

isn't this what the meets,events section is for?

No. You can't post I'm not meeting in there can you ?"

i get your point but then again what's to stop you .... might try it just for the irony now you've mentioned it

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

you have been on the site 3mths and you feel you are qualified to lay down rules

I have been on this site for over 8yrs and will continue to use this site how the owners wanted it to be as a social site, for like minded people to chat and have fun,

whether that is chatting or shagging it's up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to have a meeting or not currently meeting button so that if you are looking to meet someone you can filter by profiles that are also looking to meet.

isn't this what the meets,events section is for?

No. You can't post I'm not meeting in there can you ?

i get your point but then again what's to stop you .... might try it just for the irony now you've mentioned it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to have a meeting or not currently meeting button so that if you are looking to meet someone you can filter by profiles that are also looking to meet.

isn't this what the meets,events section is for?

No. You can't post I'm not meeting in there can you ?"

Kind of. Some people post a meet looking for guys.. then block all guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I've chucked my hat in the ring...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

What difference does it make to you if they are?

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

I say on my profile i'm never actively looked/pursued a meet with anyone off here what's the point?.

it was only recently I nearly had sorted out my first meet which was going to be a social meet with a lady who approached me who I have spoken with for a while off here and we both mutually agreed to it (she was verified btw).....

then she kind of stopped replying back and went radio silent so that plan has gone down the drain and I took the hint.....meh who knows maybe it's for the best and just stick to the forums/chat rooms for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?

I say on my profile i'm never actively looked/pursued a meet with anyone off here what's the point?.

it was only recently I nearly had sorted out my first meet which was going to be a social meet with a lady who approached me who I have spoken with for a while off here and we both mutually agreed to it (she was verified btw).....

then she kind of stopped replying back and went radio silent so that plan has gone down the drain and I took the hint.....meh who knows maybe it's for the best and just stick to the forums/chat rooms for now "

I like your posts. Stick to the forums.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I think this site should be open to all aspects of adult world

When people join up they might wanna jst have a look and see if it is for them before deciding to meet.

Of id of signed up and had an expected meet time on me I would've left. I didn't meet for four months when I joined

As for people not meeting.... We all have out reasons after all women cant meet for a week once a month anyway if they dnt fk while on there period.so should they ja e to leave here everytime they cnt meet for a week? I think not

Me I've jet come back from a month holiday. I've got back into my job and jst started to catch up with friends. I'm bot ready to get back to meeting but am looking into broadening the world I was in before I left in terms of meets. Should I be made to leave coz of that. No I shouldnt

Fab is an amazing place and I like that it fitts diff peoples needs. We are all diff

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?

I say on my profile i'm never actively looked/pursued a meet with anyone off here what's the point?.

it was only recently I nearly had sorted out my first meet which was going to be a social meet with a lady who approached me who I have spoken with for a while off here and we both mutually agreed to it (she was verified btw).....

then she kind of stopped replying back and went radio silent so that plan has gone down the drain and I took the hint.....meh who knows maybe it's for the best and just stick to the forums/chat rooms for now

I like your posts. Stick to the forums. "

well that's a first time I heard some one say that to me.....thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a "meet"?

What is this strange elusive thing you talk of?

Anyway, I'm off for a wank. Let me know when I get back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yes they should. I'm not sure that people who will only meet as a couple should be here though.

Really? Swinging is hugely based around couples meeting other couples or singles? "

No Kim. Not really. I was putting the same type of 'not what I want' comment that the O.P. made in the O.P's court.

e.g...... We're all here for a reason and there's room for all.

People always shout about what others are doing...... Why don't they just look for good times and leave others alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only not looking at the weekends, my status even says not looking.

sometimes i get fed up and take weeks off from meeting, if other people think i'm here for them and what they want then they're very much mistaken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm back"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'll be off then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile states I'm married and not looking to meet,I've recently started using the forum and have had some good chats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've put in not meeting at the moment, although that appears to be more of a challenge to some!

Yes I've noticed that I'm sure they see the NOT MEETING as message me for availability

So block all sexes from messaging you."

Why should I I still chat to some of the lads I've met on a regular basis and the person I'm meeting at moment we still chat on there as well as txt and phone

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I still want to know why I shouldn't be here, but it seems the OP has done a runner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll fuck off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

Its their own option and choice , we are unaware of others circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

We all need a break at some time or other, often for very personal reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye.

So OP, you don't think they should be a fun or social aspect to sex?

Fun , yes , a big yes .

Social ? No

But you appreciate that the social side works for other fab user a and you don't get all ranty and judgemental because someone is meeting people in a different way to you! "

That's true , but we understand more than most in the forums how frustrating it can be when you have to arrange and pay babysitters to get out . And then get people saying they only want a social when as swingers we would rather be playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on my profile that I am not looking to meet and have been here on and off since Fab began. I used to meet regularly but run my own business so dont have time to meet. I feel that we all have a right to be here.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The interest people take in how others use the site actually amazes me.

Why does it matter? Surely there's room for everyone to use the site in the way it best suits them? I go through phases and at the moment I just can't be arsed meeting anyone. That might change in the future so I'd like to leave my options open if it's all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The interest people take in how others use the site actually amazes me.

Why does it matter? Surely there's room for everyone to use the site in the way it best suits them? I go through phases and at the moment I just can't be arsed meeting anyone. That might change in the future so I'd like to leave my options open if it's all the same. "

This!!

I've just had an op and can't have sex for a while but I'm here mainly for the forums these days tbh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

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By *ornynwcplCouple
over a year ago

Preston


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye.

So OP, you don't think they should be a fun or social aspect to sex?

Fun , yes , a big yes .

Social ? No

But you appreciate that the social side works for other fab user a and you don't get all ranty and judgemental because someone is meeting people in a different way to you!

That's true , but we understand more than most in the forums how frustrating it can be when you have to arrange and pay babysitters to get out . And then get people saying they only want a social when as swingers we would rather be playing "

Well being so experienced, surely you'd make sure you're all on the same wave length well in advance of arranging babysitters.....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I'm not looking to meet right now as I have someone I see several times a week and enjoy that time very much, but to be honest I nor anyone else needs to explain why we are here to anyone, so basically mind your own business and just deal with your own affairs and let everyone else deal with theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not looking to meet right now as I have someone I see several times a week and enjoy that time very much, but to be honest I nor anyone else needs to explain why we are here to anyone, so basically mind your own business and just deal with your own affairs and let everyone else deal with theirs "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. as I suspected im in the wrong place. bye.

Why?"

My thoughts exactly.

Maybe we'll never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'll be off then"

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has helped me write my status update.

Thanks op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

Why not?

Is there a rule book I'm not aware of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case... "

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??"

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting "

There are two successful swingers! Whoop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

There are two successful swingers! Whoop! "

Can I join this crew too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

There are two successful swingers! Whoop! "

We can all have a good nights sleep now safe in this knowledge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting "

I dreamed the whole thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

There are two successful swingers! Whoop! "

Ummmm...a few more than two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

There are two successful swingers! Whoop!

Can I join this crew too? "

Should we have t-shirts printed?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

There are two successful swingers! Whoop!

Ummmm...a few more than two "

. Tart!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

There are two successful swingers! Whoop!

Ummmm...a few more than two

. Tart!!

"

And proud!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

There are two successful swingers! Whoop!

Ummmm...a few more than two

. Tart!!

And proud!! "

Good! Go you lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

There are two successful swingers! Whoop!

Ummmm...a few more than two

. Tart!!

And proud!! "

I think you two make a lovely couple

Runs and hides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting

There are two successful swingers! Whoop!

Ummmm...a few more than two

. Tart!!

And proud!!

I think you two make a lovely couple

Runs and hides"

Don't run,we can make it a trio

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By *abushkaWoman
over a year ago

county durham

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By *abushkaWoman
over a year ago

county durham

I have I'm not meeting on my profile, I have on it I'm window shopping, I have met 3 guys for clothes on cuppas as I'd established a rapport with them, I made clear to 2 of them I'd meet again for banter the other we got naked because there was a click but I'm actually still not meeting!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

When ever I have a break I either write not meeting on the header or hide the profile, I still use the forums and message friends.

Some who use this site never have any intention of meeting for sex, that is ok with me as long as they state this on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo" "

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But there's no limit on the number of people who can be on the site. Someone not meeting isn't taking a place that could have been filled by someone who is meeting. So why would anyone care whether someone else is or isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm not meeting at the moment but still here for forums etc and intend meeting again ......does that mean i should leave and do another profile when i am meeting....i think not, as long as people have on profile they are not meeting then its up to others if they contact them or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting at the moment due to ongoing health problems - this does not mean that I will not chat etc I come on the forums go in the chat rooms when I'm well enough again yes I will be partying and atending socials if this makes me bad sorry but ill hold the door open on ya way past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I have a question. Are you having trouble finding people on this site who are meeting?

I might be bothered if a majority of people on here weren't meeting, but I've found the opposite to be true.

I'm genuinely curious as to why it would bother you with the number of people who are available to meet?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?"

Why not?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"OP, I have a question. Are you having trouble finding people on this site who are meeting?

I might be bothered if a majority of people on here weren't meeting, but I've found the opposite to be true.

I'm genuinely curious as to why it would bother you with the number of people who are available to meet?

-Courtney"

Some people just like having a moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should I not be allowed to be here?? Do tell, as I am very interested to hear "

Because you keep giving me the finger!! Buggroff!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?"

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?"

I'm undatable! I disclose my favourite sexual positions/kinks before we've finished the starter and demand sex after the desert!

Only people on fab will put up with it I've found!

Op - on a serious (ish) note - a lot of the people who don't meet are forumites who are here purely for friendship and broadminded banter with their fellow likeable perverts! Therefore, this may not be the best place to complain, as few will agree with you! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

I'm undatable! I disclose my favourite sexual positions/kinks before we've finished the starter and demand sex after the desert!

Only people on fab will put up with it I've found!

Op - on a serious (ish) note - a lot of the people who don't meet are forumites who are here purely for friendship and broadminded banter with their fellow likeable perverts! Therefore, this may not be the best place to complain, as few will agree with you! Xx"

Odear. I don't want anyone to agrea with me. I posted my question to find out an answer. Ie. Am I waisting my time here. And it looks like I am. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

I'm undatable! I disclose my favourite sexual positions/kinks before we've finished the starter and demand sex after the desert!

Only people on fab will put up with it I've found!

Op - on a serious (ish) note - a lot of the people who don't meet are forumites who are here purely for friendship and broadminded banter with their fellow likeable perverts! Therefore, this may not be the best place to complain, as few will agree with you! Xx

Odear. I don't want anyone to agrea with me. I posted my question to find out an answer. Ie. Am I waisting my time here. And it looks like I am. Simples. "

Don't bang the door on the way out please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

I'm undatable! I disclose my favourite sexual positions/kinks before we've finished the starter and demand sex after the desert!

Only people on fab will put up with it I've found!

Op - on a serious (ish) note - a lot of the people who don't meet are forumites who are here purely for friendship and broadminded banter with their fellow likeable perverts! Therefore, this may not be the best place to complain, as few will agree with you! Xx

Odear. I don't want anyone to agrea with me. I posted my question to find out an answer. Ie. Am I waisting my time here. And it looks like I am. Simples. "

By "here" do you mean the forums in particular or fab in general? If the former, then probably, if the latter, then I think it depends on how you're spending your time.

That is my serious answer.

-Courtney

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"should people who have "not looking to meet" on there profile .be ANY part of this site?"

Why not?? We don't arrange meets but have a lot of enjoyment going on the forums and I have a laugh in the chat rooms.

There is more to swinging than purely arranging meets and have bumped into fellow Fabbers at the club.

- Flik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??"

Er , no lol !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?"

I meet. Even when i was meeting loads of guys i still popped in the forums every day. Some of us just like keeping busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the op wasnt saying they shouldnt just asking if we thought they should - i for one dont care what people use fab for

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

I'm undatable! I disclose my favourite sexual positions/kinks before we've finished the starter and demand sex after the desert!

Only people on fab will put up with it I've found!

Op - on a serious (ish) note - a lot of the people who don't meet are forumites who are here purely for friendship and broadminded banter with their fellow likeable perverts! Therefore, this may not be the best place to complain, as few will agree with you! Xx

Odear. I don't want anyone to agrea with me. I posted my question to find out an answer. Ie. Am I waisting my time here. And it looks like I am. Simples. "

Just keep in mind that the forum users are most likely a tiny percentage of the members of the site. I wouldn't say you're wasting your time, my guess is that a lot of us stay here for the banter and the chat which is probably why there are a lot of people on the forums who aren't meeting. In terms of the rest of the site, my guess is that if you're on the site and not using the forums or the chatrooms, chances are, you're here to meet people otherwise what's the point?

Replies in threads on the forums are not a balanced _iew of all the site members I don't think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

I'm undatable! I disclose my favourite sexual positions/kinks before we've finished the starter and demand sex after the desert!

Only people on fab will put up with it I've found!

Op - on a serious (ish) note - a lot of the people who don't meet are forumites who are here purely for friendship and broadminded banter with their fellow likeable perverts! Therefore, this may not be the best place to complain, as few will agree with you! Xx

Odear. I don't want anyone to agrea with me. I posted my question to find out an answer. Ie. Am I waisting my time here. And it looks like I am. Simples.

By "here" do you mean the forums in particular or fab in general? If the former, then probably, if the latter, then I think it depends on how you're spending your time.

That is my serious answer.

-Courtney"

As in the forum. Wife does the other side of fab. No complaints. I like forums but this isent quite what I'm affter.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new."

If you're not happy here and find that it's not adding to your life then why are you still here? Life is too short for staying somewhere that you're not enjoying yourself. If you went to a party and were having a crap time you'd leave.

Incidentally, I have a life too. One that involves my husband whom I met on fab. It may be that we have not meeting on our profiles but for us fab, forums and chat do add something to our lives. It all helps us to keep in touch with our friends who we met before we met each other. It helps us to get to know other people and make new friends within the lifestyle that brought us together and it also helps us to know about events and socials happening in our local area so we can arrange to meet up with our friends. All this while not meeting! So, we'll be staying put thank you very much. If others don't like that then they're free to block us.

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over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new.

If you're not happy here and find that it's not adding to your life then why are you still here? Life is too short for staying somewhere that you're not enjoying yourself. If you went to a party and were having a crap time you'd leave.

Incidentally, I have a life too. One that involves my husband whom I met on fab. It may be that we have not meeting on our profiles but for us fab, forums and chat do add something to our lives. It all helps us to keep in touch with our friends who we met before we met each other. It helps us to get to know other people and make new friends within the lifestyle that brought us together and it also helps us to know about events and socials happening in our local area so we can arrange to meet up with our friends. All this while not meeting! So, we'll be staying put thank you very much. If others don't like that then they're free to block us."

By name and nature I see. When the thread dies I shall leave. Untill then I will answer the questions I feel like answering.

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over a year ago

My general feeling on it all its about meeting, so what's the point of it all if you don't ,it would be one big waste of time and the internet wastes time fullstop if you don't want to meet here go meet people in real world and chat surely that would be more fulfilling than chatting to faceless idiots on here ,just saying ,I don't care what you do either but you asked for my input and I'm about real and meeting people

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over a year ago


"My general feeling on it all its about meeting, so what's the point of it all if you don't ,it would be one big waste of time and the internet wastes time fullstop if you don't want to meet here go meet people in real world and chat surely that would be more fulfilling than chatting to faceless idiots on here ,just saying ,I don't care what you do either but you asked for my input and I'm about real and meeting people "

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over a year ago


"My general feeling on it all its about meeting, so what's the point of it all if you don't ,it would be one big waste of time and the internet wastes time fullstop if you don't want to meet here go meet people in real world and chat surely that would be more fulfilling than chatting to faceless idiots on here ,just saying ,I don't care what you do either but you asked for my input and I'm about real and meeting people

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I'm not meeting at the moment but over the years I've had plenty of meets,socially and for sex and in that time I've got to know a fair few people who still chat with me about other things apart from fab stuff. .I also like to contribute to the forums and in time, maybe a week, month I'll be back meeting. .sometimes I hide my profile sometimes I'll put that I'm not meeting either way my friends can still contact me. ..and no not everyone I've met has my mobile number so on here is perfect for keeping in contact x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people just want to chat to others.

No harm in that.

It doesn't say you HAVE to meet anywhere if the T&Cs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best get my coat then ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best get my coat then ... "

Me too....fancy going for a coffee??

Oh no we can't ....that would be meeting

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over a year ago


"My general feeling on it all its about meeting, so what's the point of it all if you don't ,it would be one big waste of time and the internet wastes time fullstop if you don't want to meet here go meet people in real world and chat surely that would be more fulfilling than chatting to faceless idiots on here ,just saying ,I don't care what you do either but you asked for my input and I'm about real and meeting people

I'm not meeting at the moment but over the years I've had plenty of meets,socially and for sex and in that time I've got to know a fair few people who still chat with me about other things apart from fab stuff. .I also like to contribute to the forums and in time, maybe a week, month I'll be back meeting. .sometimes I hide my profile sometimes I'll put that I'm not meeting either way my friends can still contact me. ..and no not everyone I've met has my mobile number so on here is perfect for keeping in contact x "
we thank you for sharing and for your wonderful cleavage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best get my coat then ... "
you'll need it in scottieland must freeze your little nipples off if you don't hoots mon

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new.

If you're not happy here and find that it's not adding to your life then why are you still here? Life is too short for staying somewhere that you're not enjoying yourself. If you went to a party and were having a crap time you'd leave.

Incidentally, I have a life too. One that involves my husband whom I met on fab. It may be that we have not meeting on our profiles but for us fab, forums and chat do add something to our lives. It all helps us to keep in touch with our friends who we met before we met each other. It helps us to get to know other people and make new friends within the lifestyle that brought us together and it also helps us to know about events and socials happening in our local area so we can arrange to meet up with our friends. All this while not meeting! So, we'll be staying put thank you very much. If others don't like that then they're free to block us.

By name and nature I see. When the thread dies I shall leave. Untill then I will answer the questions I feel like answering."

There's really no need to be rude. If you ask a question on a public forum then you will get answers from all sorts of people. Please try and remain polite when responding to answers you don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums would be awash with tumbles if that was the case...

Am I the only one actually meeting on here??

Yes, but goodness only knows who you're meeting "

I'd like to meet someone pretty please.

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over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?"

Hello OP.

I thought you'd fooked off....

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over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new.

If you're not happy here and find that it's not adding to your life then why are you still here? Life is too short for staying somewhere that you're not enjoying yourself. If you went to a party and were having a crap time you'd leave.

Incidentally, I have a life too. One that involves my husband whom I met on fab. It may be that we have not meeting on our profiles but for us fab, forums and chat do add something to our lives. It all helps us to keep in touch with our friends who we met before we met each other. It helps us to get to know other people and make new friends within the lifestyle that brought us together and it also helps us to know about events and socials happening in our local area so we can arrange to meet up with our friends. All this while not meeting! So, we'll be staying put thank you very much. If others don't like that then they're free to block us.

By name and nature I see. When the thread dies I shall leave. Untill then I will answer the questions I feel like answering."

Excellent choice, lead with an insult.....

In the spirit of your question and my own perspective, I'll meet when I can and won't when I can't.

I have no intention of opening and closing profiles every other week, so simply maintain the one.

It works for me.

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over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Hello OP.

I thought you'd fooked off.... "

Try reading and you'd find you had no need to reply as your question has been answerd. So your pritty much surpluss to requirements. Polite enough for you?

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over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new."
. I thought you meant the rest of us were wasting time here...I have a life BTW

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Some people just like to play on cam and chat use forums so its a yes from us deffo aloud x

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over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new.. I thought you meant the rest of us were wasting time here...I have a life BTW "

So wot? As you worked out, I wasent/dident say that. Were you feeling left out? Poor sole.

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over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new.. I thought you meant the rest of us were wasting time here...I have a life BTW

So wot? As you worked out, I wasent/dident say that. Were you feeling left out? Poor sole."

Your not even making sense?! I was just trying to work out where you were coming from. No need for attitude if someone's opinion doesn't agree with yours! If you think your wasting your time then leave simples...

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over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new.. I thought you meant the rest of us were wasting time here...I have a life BTW

So wot? As you worked out, I wasent/dident say that. Were you feeling left out? Poor sole."

Poor sole? Something fishy going on here....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Why not?

Eh cos I've got a life. And if this aint adding to it . Its taking away. So why wouldent I look for pastures new.. I thought you meant the rest of us were wasting time here...I have a life BTW

So wot? As you worked out, I wasent/dident say that. Were you feeling left out? Poor sole.

Poor sole? Something fishy going on here.... "

not any more

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over a year ago


"If we were swinging what use would we have for talking shit on here? This is where all the dead wood piles up between the floods of wetness and "goo"

Exactly. Its like the un-datesables. Thouse noone will meet and thous who won't meet. So why waste time here?

Hello OP.

I thought you'd fooked off....

Try reading and you'd find you had no need to reply as your question has been answerd. So your pritty much surpluss to requirements. Polite enough for you?"

Just a thought OP, you do realise that some people follow the green arrow and use that information to help them assess whether or not to meet people.

I've never been described as "pritty" before, thanks for that.

Mwah.

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