FabSwingers.com forum: can I ask a question?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me that is irritated by this? I just think why ask? I have no idea if you can or not, it's down to you. All I can do is decide whether I'll answer or not and the kind of response I'll give. Arrggh.., probably irritates me more than it should, but just had a message saying that!

Ok rant over, now I'm prepared for the 'can I ask you a question' comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you can't!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

who cares if you do ?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Have you tried saying "no".

That used to flummox our kids

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many a time, block, delete

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have no idea why they say it but when I reply with no they rarely come back

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

And my Gran used to answer "you just did"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you tried saying "no".

That used to flummox our kids

Mr ddc"

Oh yes many times. The response tendsto be ''oh ok" ... Should have asked the question, instead of asking if you can ask

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I usually reply telling them they can ask but I may not answer. Or tell them they just did...that flummoxes most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha Ha ! I also like the hope you don't mind me messaging you ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope im always available to answer questions for a small fee or in kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with Derby and Diamonds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that is irritated by this? I just think why ask? I have no idea if you can or not, it's down to you. All I can do is decide whether I'll answer or not and the kind of response I'll give. Arrggh.., probably irritates me more than it should, but just had a message saying that!

Ok rant over, now I'm prepared for the 'can I ask you a question' comments "

I'm sorry, I'm tired, so it may be obvious; but what's your question?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If I'm bored I bet back to quite a few of my stupid messages and question them.

Like can I fuck your brains out, sorry to be blunt. No your not sorry otherwise you wouldn't of said it.

Sorry for messaging you out the blue, well what was you going to do send me a message to say you where going to message me

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I think the OP is saying she's pissed off by messages she receives on her profile saying, can I ask you a question?

It's a sneaky way of trying to get you to engage, lazy and un imaginative...

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

Particular favourite that I received only tonight.

"Do you mind if I ask you a question, well in fact it's two questions including me asking you if I can ask you one"

Wall...head...bang! Ignore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the OP is saying she's pissed off by messages she receives on her profile saying, can I ask you a question?

It's a sneaky way of trying to get you to engage, lazy and un imaginative..."

Yes exactly or in the chatroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Particular favourite that I received only tonight.

"Do you mind if I ask you a question, well in fact it's two questions including me asking you if I can ask you one"

Wall...head...bang! Ignore"

Oh well that's a coincidence, I got the same... Which lead to this haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok rant over, now I'm prepared for the 'can I ask you a question' comments "

Kimmi..if you dont know what its like on here now...you never will lol....just keep saying Arrggh to them when they ask

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I'm with Derby! "

Blimey!

And it's not my Birthday till next week

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok rant over, now I'm prepared for the 'can I ask you a question' comments

Kimmi..if you dont know what its like on here now...you never will lol....just keep saying Arrggh to them when they ask

I prefer to growl at them

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Can I ask why it bothers you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok rant over, now I'm prepared for the 'can I ask you a question' comments

Kimmi..if you dont know what its like on here now...you never will lol....just keep saying Arrggh to them when they ask

I prefer to growl at them

Show em them knashers Kimmi haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I ask why it bothers you so much

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

"Can I ask why it bothers you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask why it bothers you so much

Did you ask a question

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I got a message tonight from a guy saying he's just recovered from cancer!

Not sure why he thinks that would make me want to have sex with him! Pity shag? ( not being heartless but...)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got a message tonight from a guy saying he's just recovered from cancer!

Not sure why he thinks that would make me want to have sex with him! Pity shag? ( not being heartless but...)"

I've heard someone else say they had the same message! Just why?

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I don't know but glad it wasn't just me!

Maybe a guy could answer this as I haven't a clue!

Desperation?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

You have asked the question, next!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Hope if they ask me a question,

They don't expect an answer.

It's no fun being thick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the OP is saying she's pissed off by messages she receives on her profile saying, can I ask you a question?

It's a sneaky way of trying to get you to engage, lazy and un imaginative..."

This would be like the message saying "I love your pics" clearly they dont, else they may have had more content in their message

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Best reply is possibly

'Can you' ?

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