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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ever get the fealing your stuck in a rut...no way forward and stuck at every turn trying to go forward

Any suggestions on what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

Reverse

Take stock

Make a plan

Drive forward

You'll get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get off Fab and something productive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alway try to make a negative into a positive. When I feel like I am stuck in a rut I sit down with a pen and paper, write down what is making me feel that way and then assess where I would like to be in a year. It helps you to focus. Xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Ever get the fealing your stuck in a rut...no way forward and stuck at every turn trying to go forward

Any suggestions on what to do"

Can you be a bit more specific?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What would you like to be doing

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What would you like to be doing

"
having sex with a lady.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winching helps get out of ruts....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It depends on what's causing the impasse. Sometimes you just need patience.

I like the 80/20 rule - 20% of our efforts get us 80% of our results. So I'd be looking at what the 20% effort would be, to create most of the changes that I'd want.

If I was unsure what was up then I'd not rush to do anything. I'd talk things through with others, such as friends.

Maybe you cannot change much or any of a situation, except your relationship to it. We're more powerful and in control much of the time when we don't recognize it.

I like to make my life nourishing and fulfilling for me. I need the challenges, freedoms, contentment, rest and expression of my talent and creativity as well as time spent with people who are good for me. If they're not balanced or it's not fulfilling then I'll focus on what I need to do to rejig it so that it's more appropriate.

If I'm at a deadlock then I may need to pause such that I regain my clarity and focus again. Life can be hard but always be prepared to drop what you're doing and reformulate if it's right to do so.

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