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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bat cave.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"A bat cave."

and a batmobile...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ignore them, OP. There's always a Joker about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I'm attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?"

Eloquence ..

And tats, and sexy eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore them, OP. There's always a Joker about "

So Two- Faced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seductive pictures , a good well written profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?"

What do you mean by "aside from hot photos". You talk as if profiles can have text and stuff as well as pics

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Seductive pictures , a good well written profile "

That's me then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?

Eloquence ..

And tats, and sexy eyes "

I see, so a well worded profile, and a good looking owner does it for you then miss?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seductive pictures , a good well written profile

That's me then "

Deffo you cheeky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone I'm attracted to"

So is that a purely visual attraction? if the profile was written in txt spk but the pictures were hot,would that do it for you? or is there an attraction on a sapiosexual level too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you are, except maybe more than just selfies. You mention photography, so try and show some ingenuity in your profile pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seductive pictures , a good well written profile

That's me then "

Ha ha of course

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Seductive pictures , a good well written profile

That's me then

Ha ha of course "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentioning how wealthy you are and how flash you car is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use mine as an example

He is everything a profile shouldn't be

But he's mine and I love him

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

One that articulately addresses the kind of people you'd like to meet and engages their attention in a good way, however that is accomplished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications

Similar interests

Approachability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mentioning how wealthy you are and how flash you car is..."

Well you know my car is unique!

And I am rich in ways about which you can only dream!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?

Eloquence ..

And tats, and sexy eyes "

*waves his tattooed arms in the air*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?

Eloquence ..

And tats, and sexy eyes

I see, so a well worded profile, and a good looking owner does it for you then miss?"

Orally skilled and hot- yep! That about does it for me!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

For me its a well worded profile, something to see whether there is some kind of compatibility I wouldn't message a profile where I had absolutley no idea if there was any common ground or not, pretty pictures are nice to look at but its the profile that makes me decide whether I'm going to message someone or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I'm attracted to

So is that a purely visual attraction? if the profile was written in txt spk but the pictures were hot,would that do it for you? or is there an attraction on a sapiosexual level too?"

I've responded to guys with very little written on their profile so I'm not overly concerned.....however if i struggled to understand their messages we wouldn't get as far as meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mentioning how wealthy you are and how flash you car is...

Well you know my car is unique!

And I am rich in ways about which you can only dream! "

50 Shades Of Red...

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Intelligence, humour, a way with words is a good start. Spelling and grammar is important to me. Someone who gives a good sense of their personality and who I think I would click with. And finally, similar interests to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Eloquence ..

"

Is that like flatulence but with added Jeff Lynne?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

A big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice hairy chest. You just can't beat it. Not meaning a shag pile carpet sort, just enough to run your fingers through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gods I hate mobile posting. I just composed an eloquent and witty comment then lost it. I shall paraphrase... cerebral and engaging does it for me, hot pics are plentiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, I love running my fingers through shagpile carpet : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mentioning how wealthy you are and how flash you car is...

Well you know my car is unique!

And I am rich in ways about which you can only dream!

50 Shades Of Red... "

Beats Grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mentioning how wealthy you are and how flash you car is...

Well you know my car is unique!

And I am rich in ways about which you can only dream!

50 Shades Of Red...

Beats Grey "

Everything beats Grey...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bums, lollipop in mouth, tattoos, suits, Norwich fans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good photos.

Funny, snappy profile text.

and that certain something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?"
I can't get past the photo...if it's a nice bum

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Mentioning how wealthy you are and how flash you car is..."

Or bike

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

For me, a well thought out profile that answers a few questions, but gives you something to base a conversation on.

I like to see what someone considers important on here, and often the way a profile is written clearly illustrates that. I find having to ask a hundred questions is like pulling teeth, and also gets answers that people think I want to hear rather than what they actually think...

Good images are always a plus too - especially when its not a gallery of intimate shots, but shows some thought.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Ignore them, OP. There's always a Joker about

So Two- Faced "

Catwoman does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gods I hate mobile posting. I just composed an eloquent and witty comment then lost it. I shall paraphrase... cerebral and engaging does it for me, hot pics are plentiful.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

When I've read a profile and have a sense of that person. And that they seem warm, funny and I've got enough details to feel we're probably matched sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be comical and fun and as well mention haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all in the swing lol

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Profile text that shows they have a nerdy and quirky personality.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Profile text that shows they have a nerdy and quirky personality."

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"A bat cave."

Had to porn mine in recently, $140 they gave me. Tight bastards in Mississippi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of humour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?

Eloquence ..

And tats, and sexy eyes

*waves his tattooed arms in the air* "

Outstanding British boxes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Besides pics what makes profiles appealing - articulation, confidence, clarity, openness, honesty and mega humour. Sufficient clear verifications help however it's the messages that engage me become the attraction....X

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Besides pics what makes profiles appealing - articulation, confidence, clarity, openness, honesty and mega humour. Sufficient clear verifications help however it's the messages that engage me become the attraction....X "

I gave up messaging women off here about 5 years ago, not because I couldn't get any response, but purely because I found interaction with people I met in real life much easier to get along with

Fancy a fuck by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I gave up messaging women off here about 5 years ago, not because I couldn't get any response, but purely because I found interaction with people I met in real life much easier to get along with"
I started in Clubs before being recommended this site. If I haven't met a person first in real life I couldn't care less what their online profile looks like. I don't make first contact through the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The promise of ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour , a good written thought oot profile and good photos where the imagination can be used not just a cock shot. Tease the mind the body usually follows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Humour , a good written thought oot profile and good photos where the imagination can be used not just a cock shot. Tease the mind the body usually follows."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't look at many profiles but if there is a creative/arty looking avatar, I may look to appreciate any other picture.

I like the individuality in the picture set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reason I read a profile is in case there's a code word for the subject header.

"Look at me! I've read your profile! Can I have a reply now?!"

I message people based on how attractive I find them, not how many words they have included in a profile.

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By *unnyDaysCouple
over a year ago

The Middle

Pictures of the men in the couple. Hate to say it but if your going to meet a couple it tends to be the lady of the house who has the last say in it ever happening so a picture of the male half would definitely stop the last minute..sorry something has come up! Saying in your profile what your not looking for too would be a great help too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope I am a shining example of an appealing glowing profile

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?

Eloquence ..

And tats, and sexy eyes "

Just described me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope I am a shining example of an appealing glowing profile"

What did your caps lock key do to you for you to want to abuse it so badly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be original...be honest with yourself and others.

Have some solo happy time before you write so the correct brain is engaged.

Draft a copy, go back to it and look at it as if it was someone elses. Ask yourself 'would I want to meet this person?' And 'do I sound like a complete twat'

As already mentioned a level of humour and eloquence helps, but dont go plagiarising anything as your messages will be held up against your profile...so if you are a keats or byron on your profile but can only send monosyllabic wanna fuck messages you may come across as fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decent pictures and a well written profile, it doesn't have to be pages long either.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"It should be original...be honest with yourself and others.

As already mentioned a level of humour and eloquence helps, but dont go plagiarising anything as your messages will be held up against your profile...so if you are a keats or byron on your profile but can only send monosyllabic wanna fuck messages you may come across as fake."

I would endorse that.

I was giving similar advice to a newcomer on the forum two months ago to a guy who then thought it was then perfectly ok to copy and paste my entire profile into his!

What's more he didn't see or admit he'd done anything wrong!

His subsequent postings on the forum revealed him to be a bit mentally unstable...and he attracted the scorn and derision of the entire forum..

24 hours later he deleted and started his own.

48 hours later he was UNLOS.

No, don't plagiarise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one that gives a reasonable insight as to what theyre like but not stating the in and outs of a cats bum - dont need at the initial stage to know every little detail about them - also dont like ones where people come across as being something super special - doesnt make us feel inadequate at all btw

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

One that gives a sense of the person in a humorous or delicate way. I like to smile at the end of it.

The same with the pics...elegance all the way. There is no need for action shots really. I want to imagine the scenario myself...not replay your previous one in my mind.

Came across one like that this morning and messaged her to say thanks and ask if she could maybe lengthen her prose. She was so shocked she replied. She is in Glasgow so never going to meet her, but a fresh and jaunty profile speaks volumes for what would be to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's good, clear pics with a low percentage of cock pics (if any) and a humorous , articulate profile!

If they're bloody gorgeous it helps too!

In a couple I like to see at least a few good pics of the MALE too - and if their profile is arsey and demanding it puts me off completely!

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Welcoming profile that's clear on what they would they would like (without being arsey or demanding), good pics and a sense of playfulness that means we'll have a laugh as well as good sex.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Sexy pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should be original...be honest with yourself and others.

As already mentioned a level of humour and eloquence helps, but dont go plagiarising anything as your messages will be held up against your profile...so if you are a keats or byron on your profile but can only send monosyllabic wanna fuck messages you may come across as fake.

I would endorse that.

I was giving similar advice to a newcomer on the forum two months ago to a guy who then thought it was then perfectly ok to copy and paste my entire profile into his!

What's more he didn't see or admit he'd done anything wrong!

His subsequent postings on the forum revealed him to be a bit mentally unstable...and he attracted the scorn and derision of the entire forum..

24 hours later he deleted and started his own.

48 hours later he was UNLOS.

No, don't plagiarise!"

I recently had someone cut and paste a load of my profile into theirs...stuck out like a sore thumb..they were kindly asked to remove it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?"
easy the people its alluding to, the BS that's in it is conjecture until you meet ,let's get dancing

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It should contain enough information to tell me something about the person, that has me intellectually interested, and captures my imagination with enticing pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has to be low standards and willingness to shag old men for me

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough profiles mention ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not enough profiles mention ice cream "

Or cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not enough profiles mention ice cream

Or cake

"

Or chocolate! Milk chocolate - I'm proud to be a pleb on the chocolate front!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A love of fruit!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A bit of humour does wonders and some sexy pics do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?"

Googly eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it says in the small print I get money if I meet them and consummate the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women will always get messages whatever they put on their profile its us guys who have to try...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women will always get messages whatever they put on their profile its us guys who have to try..."

That is actually rubbish. If a woman puts no effort in she will unlikely be messaged by anyone suitable enough to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?

What do you mean by "aside from hot photos". You talk as if profiles can have text and stuff as well as pics "

Yer! How weird is that?

I was reworking my profile thinking of intelligent eloquent things to put...then realised my audience. ..and sacked it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one is for all of you,male,female and couples.

Aside from hot photos,which are always nice to see,what is it that makes a profile appealing?

What do you mean by "aside from hot photos". You talk as if profiles can have text and stuff as well as pics

Yer! How weird is that?

I was reworking my profile thinking of intelligent eloquent things to put...then realised my audience. ..and sacked it! "

Yours and Ben's lol

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"A nice hairy chest. You just can't beat it. Not meaning a shag pile carpet sort, just enough to run your fingers through "

I love running my fingers through pubic hair...

But, it's been a while since I was last able to

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