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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody been found out by friends being on FAB and how did they deal with it ?

We've been put in a very difficult position n may have to delete our account

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Anybody been found out by friends being on FAB and how did they deal with it ?

We've been put in a very difficult position n may have to delete our account "

What's the worst that could happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your "friends" judge you so harshly or can't respect a wish for secrecy, then maybe they aren't especially great friends ... For my part, I met someone here I've known for years and discovered that we have more in common than I realised : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Afterthought ... seeing as said friends must have been on Fab in order to see you here, isn't there a bit of hypocrisy going on too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody been found out by friends being on FAB and how did they deal with it ?

We've been put in a very difficult position n may have to delete our account "

This is my worry sometimes with my 'pub friends' that they will find me but the way I look at it, if they are on here and found you....they are wanting the same thing as you, the sites a big place X

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Anybody been found out by friends being on FAB and how did they deal with it ?

We've been put in a very difficult position n may have to delete our account "

I found out yesterday my ex-husband & his gf have a profile in here, so does my cousin & her partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explain why you think it's difficult.

Not wanting to meet them or you think they'll end up telling others about all this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the fear of being openly exposed

within the profession we work is the main issue.

But we're not breaking any rules just being human beings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They must also have a profile on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody been found out by friends being on FAB and how did they deal with it ?

We've been put in a very difficult position n may have to delete our account "

Deny it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes by my nephews friends who has always had a thing for me since he was 12. He's now 30...good thing is he don't want anyone knowing he's on here so won't say anything. Bad thing is I'm wondering if he saved my pics. Apparently I made a boys dream come true lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the fear of being openly exposed

within the profession we work is the main issue.

But we're not breaking any rules just being human beings "

Swinging isn't socially accepted by most people, no matter what people seem to think on here. You're not breaking rules but you may lose friends and family. You may be laughed at and talked about behind your back. Depending on the company you work for you may lose your job. Your kids (if you have them) may get teased or bullied.

Cool for the people happy to out themselves. But incredibly stupid to say "what's the worst that can happen".

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