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By *0rny_Sc0ttish_Lad OP   Man
over a year ago

Paisley

Well I am thinking about leaving this site as I have had no meets and don't know why I have plenty to offer yes I have plenty of pictures but due to working with the public I have decided to hide them how ever I do send face picture with my messages to people and still had no one want to meet and I have been told I am hot from a few then they loose contact stressing me out . Feel free to give me a we message if this don't work then bye bye for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye.

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Lord give me strength.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye bye

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

get down to the After8 club and you will meet Fabbers and start to build a good network

or go, your choice.

all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not not the airport so departures needn't be announced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Cool, that'll be one less cock pic on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't feel down....sing this little tune:

Some things in life are bad

They can really make you mad

Other things just make you swear and curse.

When you're chewing on life's gristle

Don't grumble, give a whistle

And this'll help things turn out for the best...

And...always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the light side of life...

If life seems jolly rotten

There's something you've forgotten

And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.

When you're feeling in the dumps

Don't be silly chumps

Just purse your lips and whistle - that's the thing.

And...always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the light side of life...

For life is quite absurd

And death's the final word

You must always face the curtain with a bow.

Forget about your sin - give the audience a grin

Enjoy it - it's your last chance anyhow.

So always look on the bright side of death

Just before you draw your terminal breath

Life's a piece of shit

When you look at it

Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true.

You'll see it's all a show

Keep 'em laughing as you go

Just remember that the last laugh is on you.

And always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the right side of life...

(Come on guys, cheer up!)

Always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the bright side of life...

(Worse things happen at sea, you know.)

Always look on the bright side of life...

(I mean - what have you got to lose?)

(You know, you come from nothing - you're going back to nothing.

What have you lost? Nothing!)

Always look on the right side of life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a little attention seeking .... If you're not happy then simply delete your profile! I bet within a month you're back though. That aside, hope everyone has a great weekend xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the op was a woman there'd be all kinds of 'just take a break' posts and white knights saying soothing things about being patient and go to clubs/socials etc yada yada yada!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

quick change to Horny Scottish Lassie......

fashion a fanny by pulling your cock through your legs and sellotape it to your ass.... it would look camel toe in pants....

and there is still time for the thread to take on 'hide, your profile darling, you look lovely and make a decision to go when the time is right'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reward = Effort put in.

What have you done to meet people other than optimistically message them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the op was a woman there'd be all kinds of 'just take a break' posts and white knights saying soothing things about being patient and go to clubs/socials etc yada yada yada!"

Ah, assumptions... I've seen similar threads from women where they've been told just to and stop seeking attention. Likewise, I've seen posts like these from men where they're told to be patient and go to clubs etc.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Well I am thinking about leaving this site as I have had no meets and don't know why I have plenty to offer yes I have plenty of pictures but due to working with the public I have decided to hide them how ever I do send face picture with my messages to people and still had no one want to meet and I have been told I am hot from a few then they loose contact stressing me out . Feel free to give me a we message if this don't work then bye bye for me x "

Look at the similar messages on the Forum pages and see why it's all gone wrong...

But just in case you're not sure...?

Get rid of the cock pic.

Get a facial pic instead.

Expand your Profile.

Get into The Forum pages.

Go to Socials and Clubs in your area.

Only you can get results, depending on what you put in.

It takes Patience and lots of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your profile a little bit us ladies dnt wanna see cock pics we see enough on here as it is

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Reward = Effort put in.

What have you done to meet people other than optimistically message them?"

like yoda says, "do or do not there is no try"

your cock pic avatar doesn't help btw

just saying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the op was a woman there'd be all kinds of 'just take a break' posts and white knights saying soothing things about being patient and go to clubs/socials etc yada yada yada!"

It's shit.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury


"Don't feel down....sing this little tune:

Some things in life are bad

They can really make you mad

Other things just make you swear and curse.

When you're chewing on life's gristle

Don't grumble, give a whistle

And this'll help things turn out for the best...

And...always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the light side of life...

If life seems jolly rotten

There's something you've forgotten

And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.

When you're feeling in the dumps

Don't be silly chumps

Just purse your lips and whistle - that's the thing.

And...always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the light side of life...

For life is quite absurd

And death's the final word

You must always face the curtain with a bow.

Forget about your sin - give the audience a grin

Enjoy it - it's your last chance anyhow.

So always look on the bright side of death

Just before you draw your terminal breath

Life's a piece of shit

When you look at it

Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true.

You'll see it's all a show

Keep 'em laughing as you go

Just remember that the last laugh is on you.

And always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the right side of life...

(Come on guys, cheer up!)

Always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the bright side of life...

(Worse things happen at sea, you know.)

Always look on the bright side of life...

(I mean - what have you got to lose?)

(You know, you come from nothing - you're going back to nothing.

What have you lost? Nothing!)

Always look on the right side of life...

"

Well that's stuck in my head now...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Reward = Effort put in.

What have you done to meet people other than optimistically message them?

like yoda says, "do or do not there is no try"

your cock pic avatar doesn't help btw

just saying..."

Helps me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the op was a woman there'd be all kinds of 'just take a break' posts and white knights saying soothing things about being patient and go to clubs/socials etc yada yada yada!

It's shit.

"

Supply and demand.

*shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better off going to clubs tbh. This sites more like Facebook.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome to the forums OP,

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Well I am thinking about leaving this site as I have had no meets and don't know why I have plenty to offer yes I have plenty of pictures but due to working with the public I have decided to hide them how ever I do send face picture with my messages to people and still had no one want to meet and I have been told I am hot from a few then they loose contact stressing me out . Feel free to give me a we message if this don't work then bye bye for me x "
Cheerio

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Reward = Effort put in.

What have you done to meet people other than optimistically message them?

like yoda says, "do or do not there is no try"

your cock pic avatar doesn't help btw

just saying...

Helps me "

did you privtate message the poor guy and tell him how it helped you..im sure hed be most appreciative Steve xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Reward = Effort put in.

What have you done to meet people other than optimistically message them?

like yoda says, "do or do not there is no try"

your cock pic avatar doesn't help btw

just saying...

Helps me

did you privtate message the poor guy and tell him how it helped you..im sure hed be most appreciative Steve xx "

No, I very rarely talk to men on here. I sang him a song instead. The underlying concept being, obviously, not to take the site seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I am thinking about leaving this site as I have had no meets and don't know why I have plenty to offer yes I have plenty of pictures but due to working with the public I have decided to hide them how ever I do send face picture with my messages to people and still had no one want to meet and I have been told I am hot from a few then they loose contact stressing me out . Feel free to give me a we message if this don't work then bye bye for me x "

You have a cocktail for an avatar and you profile says quite literally nothing except that you work on the tills in the local tesco.

This means most of your messages will be deleted unread because many women here read your profile before they read your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I am thinking about leaving this site as I have had no meets and don't know why I have plenty to offer yes I have plenty of pictures but due to working with the public I have decided to hide them how ever I do send face picture with my messages to people and still had no one want to meet and I have been told I am hot from a few then they loose contact stressing me out . Feel free to give me a we message if this don't work then bye bye for me x "

Can fully appreciate how you feel - the site is not a good place for meets at present - and hasn't been for quite a while OP. It's been taken over by chatters and forumites - like the sarcastic ones who just dismiss you on here. Good luck - but yes it has become a chat site now.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Reward = Effort put in.

What have you done to meet people other than optimistically message them?

like yoda says, "do or do not there is no try"

your cock pic avatar doesn't help btw

just saying...

Helps me

did you privtate message the poor guy and tell him how it helped you..im sure hed be most appreciative Steve xx

No, I very rarely talk to men on here. I sang him a song instead. The underlying concept being, obviously, not to take the site seriously. "

i saw the song

monty python is a philosophy all by itself....

hes not the messiah, hes a very naughty boy..always works for me.hehehe

nice bum by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Countdown to UNLOS commences!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

What could possibly go wrong?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

You haven't gone yet, was this just a look a me post?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

You do realise that women read profiles before they read messages, hence why I didn't bother to respond...make a bloody effort and ditch the cock pic, do you really think a women will look at it and think wow, I must meet this guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so OP have you even tried a club thats local to you?...I bet not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well good bye and have fun. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you mention a mate ? get him on fab and go to a social - meet some people and see where it goes - or take him down the pub

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Still here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I am thinking about leaving this site as I have had no meets and don't know why I have plenty to offer yes I have plenty of pictures but due to working with the public I have decided to hide them how ever I do send face picture with my messages to people and still had no one want to meet and I have been told I am hot from a few then they loose contact stressing me out . Feel free to give me a we message if this don't work then bye bye for me x "

I would too, if I were you.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis? "

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

"

however his avatar pic now is much lovelier..mmmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont let the door hit your arse on the way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the bestest on the otherside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont let the door hit your arse on the way out "

is he still here? hate indecision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need patience lol"

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad."

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Q: Why did the Irishman wear two condoms?

A: To be sure, to be sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad."

They won't get them from me.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

bye ..promise u wont come back with a new profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont slam the door on ya way out

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Well I am thinking about leaving this site as I have had no meets and don't know why I have plenty to offer yes I have plenty of pictures but due to working with the public I have decided to hide them how ever I do send face picture with my messages to people and still had no one want to meet and I have been told I am hot from a few then they loose contact stressing me out . Feel free to give me a we message if this don't work then bye bye for me x "
. Your profile does not contain any information about yourself in order to allow potential meets to assess you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why why why why why why....the cock pic?it doesn't help your profile...good luck

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"Work with the public so got to be discreet"

Op ..don't we all interact with the British public?

What makes you special and different? ?

I recognise that cock anywhere!!

Sorry yr leaving,ever thought of changing teams??

Bye bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Work with the public so got to be discreet"

Op ..don't we all interact with the British public?

What makes you special and different? ?

I recognise that cock anywhere!!

Sorry yr leaving,ever thought of changing teams??

Bye bye "

Whenever I see "I have quite a public job" or some variation I always assume they're checkout till staff.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad."

A song always helps......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no magic formula OP & you may find this site isn't for you. Personally I find this site works as an enhancement to my fun not the only means of getting some.

Funk up you profile with some info about you & get some decent pics. They don't have to be face ones just anything apart from a cock avatar, imo. Nice arse / torso pic does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me. "

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with it OP! Get yourself known, go to socials, it'll all come good

Ignore the naysayers, and keep positive

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By *ool11Man
over a year ago

st annes

I have this tattoo'd down the back of my leg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me.

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful. "

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not not the airport so departures needn't be announced. "

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Please please get rid of your cock avatar pic, it's no incentive for most females here to look at your profile (certainly not me).

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Looks like he's left but forgotten to go UNLOS?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me.

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful.

How so?"

You're both being very rude yourselves

And quite spiteful.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Please please get rid of your cock avatar pic, it's no incentive for most females here to look at your profile (certainly not me)."

"get your tits in for the lads"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me.

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful.

How so?

You're both being very rude yourselves

And quite spiteful."

Let them get on with it then. They'll all be jumping with joy when he leaves the site.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"They'll all be jumping with joy when he leaves the site. "

Not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They'll all be jumping with joy when he leaves the site.

Not me"

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Please please get rid of your cock avatar pic, it's no incentive for most females here to look at your profile (certainly not me).

"get your tits in for the lads" "

and this has what relevance to the original post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me.

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful.

How so?

You're both being very rude yourselves

And quite spiteful.

Let them get on with it then. They'll all be jumping with joy when he leaves the site. "

Let who get on with what?

I'm talking about you and your rudeness while putting others down.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Been here for just 3 months, obviously no stamina!

A wee suggestion OP, maybe try 'instashag.com'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me.

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful.

How so?

You're both being very rude yourselves

And quite spiteful.

Let them get on with it then. They'll all be jumping with joy when he leaves the site.

Let who get on with what?

I'm talking about you and your rudeness while putting others down.

"

I'm talking about letting others do their sad act when a man comes on the forums they don't know. It's rude,I wasn't rude,I said it's sad to see and when they want sympathy and faux hugs as View said I won't be in line to give them. If you think our comments were rude and spiteful to them what do you think of their comments? Do you condone that kind of behavior?

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Please please get rid of your cock avatar pic, it's no incentive for most females here to look at your profile (certainly not me).

"get your tits in for the lads"

and this has what relevance to the original post? "

its a counter argument to yours.

if you chose to talk in a patronising manner and speak for the forum, so will I.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A couple of weeks ago a lad came on the forums saying he was going to leave, lucily there was a couple of nice posters on at the time, they gave him abit of friendly advice, got him to change his username and his profile and he's now happily enjoying the forums

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Your forum post is longer than your profile. Think you need a 're think. Many single guys make a big effort with their profiles and they still struggle to get meets. No effort no meets. Simples!!

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"A couple of weeks ago a lad came on the forums saying he was going to leave, lucily there was a couple of nice posters on at the time, they gave him abit of friendly advice, got him to change his username and his profile and he's now happily enjoying the forums

"

cool story bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of weeks ago a lad came on the forums saying he was going to leave, lucily there was a couple of nice posters on at the time, they gave him abit of friendly advice, got him to change his username and his profile and he's now happily enjoying the forums

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me.

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful.

How so?

You're both being very rude yourselves

And quite spiteful.

Let them get on with it then. They'll all be jumping with joy when he leaves the site.

Let who get on with what?

I'm talking about you and your rudeness while putting others down.

I'm talking about letting others do their sad act when a man comes on the forums they don't know. It's rude,I wasn't rude,I said it's sad to see and when they want sympathy and faux hugs as View said I won't be in line to give them. If you think our comments were rude and spiteful to them what do you think of their comments? Do you condone that kind of behavior? "

You are being rude your sat there trying to be all morally superior and putting people down and then even making up a little fantasy that they will be doing exactly what the op is doing soon.

Who's comments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sigh hit post too early.

What's interesting is by calling out your hypocrisy you assume I condone others actions.

When really that's what you should be asking yourself you belittle them for being rude by being rude yourself. So clearly you find rudeness and acceptable way to treat people.

So why is it OK for you but not them?

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Sigh hit post too early.

What's interesting is by calling out your hypocrisy you assume I condone others actions.

When really that's what you should be asking yourself you belittle them for being rude by being rude yourself. So clearly you find rudeness and acceptable way to treat people.

So why is it OK for you but not them?"

this is something that disgusts me about society, when someone is an arse and people challenge them they're attacked.

would you call a policeman shooting a gunman in a school a hypocrite.

blame has become a dirty word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, change your avatar from a cock, there are enough cocks on this site.

Put more in your profile about yourself and what you have to offer and come and enjoy the forums.

Good luck on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me.

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful.

How so?

You're both being very rude yourselves

And quite spiteful.

Let them get on with it then. They'll all be jumping with joy when he leaves the site.

Let who get on with what?

I'm talking about you and your rudeness while putting others down.

I'm talking about letting others do their sad act when a man comes on the forums they don't know. It's rude,I wasn't rude,I said it's sad to see and when they want sympathy and faux hugs as View said I won't be in line to give them. If you think our comments were rude and spiteful to them what do you think of their comments? Do you condone that kind of behavior?

You are being rude your sat there trying to be all morally superior and putting people down and then even making up a little fantasy that they will be doing exactly what the op is doing soon.

Who's comments?"

You're over reacting,did someone hit a nerve? I said it was sad they have to do that to someone. I'm not morally overlording them,it's not about morals,it's about being horrible to someone for no reason. Is that acceptable to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The comments of the people I was talking about obviously,not the people giving advice and trying to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sigh hit post too early.

What's interesting is by calling out your hypocrisy you assume I condone others actions.

When really that's what you should be asking yourself you belittle them for being rude by being rude yourself. So clearly you find rudeness and acceptable way to treat people.

So why is it OK for you but not them?

this is something that disgusts me about society, when someone is an arse and people challenge them they're attacked.

would you call a policeman shooting a gunman in a school a hypocrite.

blame has become a dirty word. "

I wasn't rude to them,I said it was sad to see. If I wanted to be rude to them I would be banned for talking my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sigh hit post too early.

What's interesting is by calling out your hypocrisy you assume I condone others actions.

When really that's what you should be asking yourself you belittle them for being rude by being rude yourself. So clearly you find rudeness and acceptable way to treat people.

So why is it OK for you but not them?

this is something that disgusts me about society, when someone is an arse and people challenge them they're attacked.

would you call a policeman shooting a gunman in a school a hypocrite.

blame has become a dirty word. "

*puts wine down, re reads and still doesnt understand the point...

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Sigh hit post too early.

What's interesting is by calling out your hypocrisy you assume I condone others actions.

When really that's what you should be asking yourself you belittle them for being rude by being rude yourself. So clearly you find rudeness and acceptable way to treat people.

So why is it OK for you but not them?

this is something that disgusts me about society, when someone is an arse and people challenge them they're attacked.

would you call a policeman shooting a gunman in a school a hypocrite.

blame has become a dirty word.

*puts wine down, re reads and still doesnt understand the point... "

cant put it any simpler really. someone does a bad guy and gets grief for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo has he left fab or not?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"You need patience lol"

give up with this, worst advice ever, you will get nothing by sitting waiting for it to happen, you need to be the opposite of patient and make things happen.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"You need patience lol

give up with this, worst advice ever, you will get nothing by sitting waiting for it to happen, you need to be the opposite of patient and make things happen."

you need persistence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says NO DICK PICS and what did you send me when you messaged?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not not the airport so departures needn't be announced. "

Can I announce my leaving as I am actually sat in an airport departure lounge?

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"My profile says NO DICK PICS and what did you send me when you messaged? "

busteeeerd!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok then!

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By *0rny_Sc0ttish_Lad OP   Man
over a year ago

Paisley

Ok a,will try that thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok a,will try that thanks x "

TRY!!! Does that mean you weren't trying before, or after reading all this you might have a go because that's precisely how it comes across. FFS dude grow a back bone!!

The next question you should ask your self is, do you want a quick fuck because you're single and it's been a long time OR are you a swinger. There is a difference. Coming across as desperate isn't going to help you.

As others have said your best bet is to attend a few clubs, and don't creep or follow people around when you are in the club either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And get rid of the cock picture too. Its friggin awful and won't impress anyone.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Wow!

You lot can be harsh!!

OP... you get out what you put in. If you like a bit of banter hang out for a while... we're actually quite a funny bunch most of the time.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"If the op was a woman there'd be all kinds of 'just take a break' posts and white knights saying soothing things about being patient and go to clubs/socials etc yada yada yada!"

Or some of us might just say "Bye"

A drama llama can be male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the op was a woman there'd be all kinds of 'just take a break' posts and white knights saying soothing things about being patient and go to clubs/socials etc yada yada yada!

Or some of us might just say "Bye"

A drama llama can be male or female."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the op was a woman there'd be all kinds of 'just take a break' posts and white knights saying soothing things about being patient and go to clubs/socials etc yada yada yada!

Or some of us might just say "Bye"

A drama llama can be male or female."

The female of the species is usually back within a couple of weeks though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....yay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow!

You lot can be harsh!!

OP... you get out what you put in. If you like a bit of banter hang out for a while... we're actually quite a funny bunch most of the time. "

Yep. Funny fucker reporting for duty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow!

Yep. Funny fucker reporting for duty "

ha ha ha ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow is this still rumbling on? And OP is still here I see. If you're going to go then go, if you're going to stay then stay, either way doesnt require any histrionics. To borrow from the movie quote thread;

"Do or do not, there is no try."

Or

"He's a very naughty boy, now fuck off!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing in life is given to you unless you go out and get it. Results = amount of effort put in

So as others said revamp your profile, read profiles before messaging, give people more to see then just your cock and get yourself out to socials and clubs to meet and network with people. Also have realistic expectations as you won't get instant results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw op, take an ickle step back from the pressures of swinging. Hide your profile and enjoy the forums.

It can be so stressful coping with the constant barrage of crude one line messages, wading through them looking for the few who read your profile rather than just wanking over your fine selection of pictures.

Perhaps your profile is a little long winded and takes them too long to read so take the time to simplify it and just make it clear what you seek and what you have to offer.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me.

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful. "

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never amazes me how rude some people are on here. So sad.

Give it few days and some of the most rude will have a woe is me thread, a look at me thread and will expect virtual hugs, kisses, reassurance.

It makes it laughable and very sad.

They won't get them from me.

The hypocrisy in this little post chain is wonderful. "

Personally, I like to seek sarcasm and humour ( pretty sure they're the same thing just on different intellectual levels) when I post.

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley


"Don't feel down....sing this little tune:

Some things in life are bad

They can really make you mad

Other things just make you swear and curse.

When you're chewing on life's gristle

Don't grumble, give a whistle

And this'll help things turn out for the best...

And...always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the light side of life...

If life seems jolly rotten

There's something you've forgotten

And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.

When you're feeling in the dumps

Don't be silly chumps

Just purse your lips and whistle - that's the thing.

And...always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the light side of life...

For life is quite absurd

And death's the final word

You must always face the curtain with a bow.

Forget about your sin - give the audience a grin

Enjoy it - it's your last chance anyhow.

So always look on the bright side of death

Just before you draw your terminal breath

Life's a piece of shit

When you look at it

Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true.

You'll see it's all a show

Keep 'em laughing as you go

Just remember that the last laugh is on you.

And always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the right side of life...

(Come on guys, cheer up!)

Always look on the bright side of life...

Always look on the bright side of life...

Y(Worse things happen at sea, you know.)

Always look on the bright side of life...

(I mean - what have you got to lose?)

(You know, you come from nothing - you're going back to nothing.

What have you lost? Nothing!)

Always look on the right side of life...Ah,a fellow monty python fan, nice one. That guy could always try growing a shrubbery while waiting for a first meet on fab, or start collecting norwegian blue parrots, beautiful plummage. Lol.

"

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"This is not not the airport so departures needn't be announced. "

After sun here please... This one's scorching!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"If the op was a woman there'd be all kinds of 'just take a break' posts and white knights saying soothing things about being patient and go to clubs/socials etc yada yada yada!"

Not from me I don't care what the sexual orientation is of the person if they are begging for a pity shag they can look elsewhere or just leave, I won't shed a tear over them

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Well I am thinking about leaving this site as I have had no meets and don't know why I have plenty to offer yes I have plenty of pictures but due to working with the public I have decided to hide them how ever I do send face picture with my messages to people and still had no one want to meet and I have been told I am hot from a few then they loose contact stressing me out . Feel free to give me a we message if this don't work then bye bye for me x "
. Are you going to improve your profile as per the advice given by various members in this forum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was that a serious question?

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