FabSwingers.com forum: Fem meeting alone

By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

I the male would love my missus to meet alone however she is hesitant, could any one offer any words of advice?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Let her make her mind up for herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I the male would love my missus to meet alone however she is hesitant, could any one offer any words of advice?"
Yeah social meet first to see what he's like and if she gets on with them then sort a meet out to get freaky lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How about meet someone with both of you then second time she can meet alone?

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

She does

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I the male would love my missus to meet alone however she is hesitant, could any one offer any words of advice?"

To who and on what?

To her I would say do what you're comfortable with and don't be pressured.

To you I would say allow her to do what she's comfortable with and don't apply any pressure.

If you're hoping for advice on how to encourage her into doing something she's hesitant about you won't get it from me.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If you are on here as a couple, then surely she can make up her own mind?

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

Think you are all getting the wrong impression or I have portrayed myself badly.

We are only looking to widen our horizons and further our experiences. I am I no way forcing her only tryin to encourage her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Think you are all getting the wrong impression or I have portrayed myself badly.

We are only looking to widen our horizons and further our experiences. I am I no way forcing her only tryin to encourage her "

Ok, so what kind of advice do you want exactly and why isn't she asking herself? I appreciate that you aren't trying to force her but if she was really keen and was only being held back by nerves for instance I would expect her to be asking for herself.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Let her make her mind up for herself"

Come now, what married man hasn't occasionally hoped he could palm his wife off on somebody else just so he could spend a peaceful evening with his pipe, slippers, a glass of brandy and an old copy of the Beano?

OP: have you tried telling her there's fluffy kittens involved? Women'll do anything for fluffy kittens...

Mr ddc

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Only if it is def something you BOTH are comfortable with ..its not for everyone ..myself and wife both meet solo and very much enjoy it ..it works for us

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Let her make her mind up for herself"

this..

when she is willing to without feeing pressurised she will do, have the respect for her and allow that to happen if it is her choice..

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

Encouragement perhaps or tales of success, certainly not the replies that have prevailed. We are both here not that anyone cared to ask. Glad this is an unbiased forum

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

Married man, that will be to me then? No fluffy slippers apply

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Encouragement perhaps or tales of success, certainly not the replies that have prevailed. We are both here not that anyone cared to ask. Glad this is an unbiased forum

Feel free to message

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

Oh or kittens

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Encouragement perhaps or tales of success, certainly not the replies that have prevailed. We are both here not that anyone cared to ask. Glad this is an unbiased forum

maybe had your OP been a bit more precise about that which you are now saying (also your profile also gives no inkling of this?) then the responses may have been more to your liking..

respect that you may be doing this together but there have been many threads where blokes think it ok to push their wives/partners into situations they are not ready for or often even aware of..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Here's the challenge. Get her to write the next comments from yourselves op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1: when replying to a comment, if you hit "reply and quote" it shows the comment you are replying to.

This helps reduce confusion and stops people looking a little odd by just blurting out a random statement about kittens.

2: you say you are not trying to force, just encourage?

For whose benefit? Sounds like it's for you.

If your wife wanted to do it even just a little bit, she could come on here and even just have a chat to a couple of fellas.

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

If In doubt then question but far too quick to judge on here, wudnt like many of u on my jury

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"If In doubt then question but far too quick to judge on here, wudnt like many of u on my jury "

given that this is your response i'm guessing this thread was about you wanting some wank fodder over scenario's etc and you didn't get the replies you thought you may so now its play the offended misunderstood prejudged victim..

good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If In doubt then question but far too quick to judge on here, wudnt like many of u on my jury "

I wouldn't want you representing me in court to be fair, you haven't presented your case too well.

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

Just to clarify mrs does 95% of chatting and meet arranging. Was a genuine question not an opening for a witch hunt.

We may post in the wrong place and cause confusion but this has been our first time

Good to see how welcoming regular users are

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

"If In doubt then question but far too quick to judge on here, wudnt like many of u on my jury

I wouldn't want you representing me in court to be fair, you haven't presented your case too well."

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

Now that we are aware how to retort, unaware of when I claimed to represent u??????

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Encouragement perhaps or tales of success, certainly not the replies that have prevailed. We are both here not that anyone cared to ask. Glad this is an unbiased forum

To be fair, OP, two out of the first three replies were sensible and reasonable, but you have chosen only to respond to the others.

The lounge is generally fun and tongue-in-cheek at times, and my advice would be simply to ignore those responses that you don't like, and concentrate on the ones you do. You'll find the whole experience far more fruitful.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"How about meet someone with both of you then second time she can meet alone? "

That's what we did, check our verifications. It worked perfectly xx

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By *ikkii25 OP Couple
over a year ago

johnstone

"How about meet someone with both of you then second time she can meet alone?

That's what we did, check our verifications. It worked perfectly xx"

Thank u xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Now that we are aware how to retort, unaware of when I claimed to represent u??????"

I was responding to your jury comment in a similar vein. I thought you would understand that and see where I was coming from.....clearly not.

Any way, has your wife managed to glean any advice from this?

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Let her make her mind up for herself

OP: have you tried telling her there's fluffy kittens involved? Women'll do anything for fluffy kittens...

Mr ddc"

Ha ha this made me laugh !

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I the male would love my missus to meet alone however she is hesitant, could any one offer any words of advice?

To who and on what?

To her I would say do what you're comfortable with and don't be pressured.

To you I would say allow her to do what she's comfortable with and don't apply any pressure.

If you're hoping for advice on how to encourage her into doing something she's hesitant about you won't get it from me."

This!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Encouragement perhaps or tales of success, certainly not the replies that have prevailed. We are both here not that anyone cared to ask. Glad this is an unbiased forum

To be fair, if you'd worded your post in a clearer manner, people wouldn't assume you're trying to persuade your partner into something. People can only work with what you give them and getting the hump when you don't get the response you're hoping for isn't really helping. If you're clear about what you want advice on, you generally find that you'll get a more rounded answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let her make her mind up for herself"

Winner...

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"I the male would love my missus to meet alone however she is hesitant, could any one offer any words of advice?"

yes....wear a stab vest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really want her to meet strangers alone? How would you feel if something bad happened to her?

Wouldn't it be possible for her to meet at your place with you in the other room quiet? That way she will be safe and you can hear him grunting as he fucks her and your wife orgasming saying 'You are so much better than my husband!"

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